Is there true love between us and PRC WL - Page 5

colins · #61 03-02-2008, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by shawn_mib

This is really the sad case, but i was wondering how about those working in SG? If u read my case, i'm sort of hook onto this gal i know from TN, how mucj can they earn in SG per month then?

If 200sgd a day, easily 5k to 6k a month. Thing is, most of the prc girls in sg can bring back that amount back home. This is a place where fast money comes along in a limited period of time (against their social visit pass period). Anybody in that position would want to maximise their earnings, so they will practically do anything, esp finding willing parties who are willing to part of their money.

However, in my personal opinion, some of them do require TLC. One of the problems working in this field is that they find it very tiring emotionally (xin lei, or 'heart exhausted'). They sometimes need friends as well. So since they're in the line which sort of got them used to be sexually intimate with guys, they do go for local guy friends and dun mind giving them such intimacy in exchange for TLC from them. It is how some of them keep a semblance of 'normality' between them and other guys. And they do it very strictly without money because they (tell you that they) classify you differently.

But of cos, bros, dun bank on it. The greatest lie is one with a ring of truth. You may in future hear this story from a prc girl and yet she is trying to rip you off. If you can't understand their thinking and rationale, best thing is keep your emotions safe away from such relationships.

Youngblood · #62 03-02-2008, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by colins

However, in my personal opinion, some of them do require TLC. One of the problems working in this field is that they find it very tiring emotionally (xin lei, or 'heart exhausted'). They sometimes need friends as well. So since they're in the line which sort of got them used to be sexually intimate with guys, they do go for local guy friends and dun mind giving them such intimacy in exchange for TLC from them. It is how some of them keep a semblance of 'normality' between them and other guys. And they do it very strictly without money because they (tell you that they) classify you differently.

But of cos, bros, dun bank on it. The greatest lie is one with a ring of truth. You may in future hear this story from a prc girl and yet she is trying to rip you off. If you can't understand their thinking and rationale, best thing is keep your emotions safe away from such relationships.

To put it simply. They need love too as they are human. But they need security (money) even more. So they would rather be with someone they like than with someone they don't. But free too often and they will start to look for the $$$ factor again so beware.

colins · #63 03-02-2008, 02:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Youngblood

No Problem. 10k SGD is realistic number... 100k RM for gals is highly unlikely as if you take the math of 2000 X 30 days (the max duration of the Visa), its only 60k.

Like I say, if you're interested in how she derive at the figure, let me know. I spent 4.80RM in Alor over wantan mee to get that info, haha...

My ex din get that money because she is mamasan-ing or something, its from the guy. I was in the hotel room with her, and she showed me how she got it. For privacy sake, I dun intend to publicise how I know, cos it might hurt their relationship if he read this.

shawn_mib · #64 03-02-2008, 02:21 PM

thanks bro young blood and colin for your information, i guess she do like me tht y she gave me free. just that the truth is she needs money too.

Just wonder how long this kind of relation can last.??? guess onli time will tell...

colins · #65 03-02-2008, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Youngblood

To put it simply. They need love too as they are human. But they need security (money) even more. So they would rather be with someone they like than with someone they don't. But free too often and they will start to look for the $$$ factor again so beware.

I really empathise in your situation (and the hurt seeing her with other guys). Seriously, you know its hard to reconcile with the reality of them wanting to earn money and still requiring love. Its like an emotional roller coaster when you're with her. When you leave, you'll somehow have this feeling that her emotional turmoil had been transferred to you.

Maybe its how it works, they unload pain to you, you download the shit feeling upon yourself. If it is a transaction, the only thing you download from them is probably only joy and satisfaction. They just need to upload the pain from your transaction to somebody else. Like that, money means happiness.

shawn_mib · #66 03-02-2008, 02:28 PM

[QUOTE=colins;2562890]I really empathise in your situation (and the hurt seeing her with other guys). Seriously, you know its hard to reconcile with the reality of them wanting to earn money and still requiring love. Its like an emotional roller coaster when you're with her. When you leave, you'll somehow have this feeling that her emotional turmoil had been transferred to you.
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This the pain i have been going thru actually, but after hearing from your guys i do believe she do like me somehow. But how long can this last, onli time will tell.... At least i won regret....

Just that i was wondering how many guuys will have the same treatment as me.... or normally they would onli provide such for one guy onli?

colins · #67 03-02-2008, 02:48 PM

Only thing I can say is, just prepare for the day. You know there wont be a good ending, everybody also say its silly to continue. Sometimes, the exchange is too painful, the parting is too painful, the meeting is also painful. Unless you're someone who want to take advantage of her needs, you'll feel pain.

Is it worth it?

Extending your emotions for her also means you can't leave her 'in a lurch' as you now know she needs you. So letting you realise she likes you may not be a good thing as well. Ultimately, she just needed 'someone' she can trust and you're sincere enough. She wont die because you're not around.

Think about it. You have love to give, so consider giving it to a relationship which you know will have a good ending.

Eternity_Gal · #68 03-02-2008, 02:55 PM

A WL doesnt find love in you..The motive is to earn as much $ as possible in a certain of period over here. U can't confide in a WL, cose a WL confides in you only if you have the financial ability to support her.

Dont ever start falling in love with a WL.. Sad to say that the truth is that a WL first fall in love with your notes, not with you.

shawn_mib · #69 03-02-2008, 02:59 PM

bro colins thanks for your advises, i guess that day will come eventually and it painful for both of us, but like your say she won't die. She needs me but i just can't leave her like that, i guess i made up my mind to stick with her for a while. And see how things goes....

shawn_mib · #70 03-02-2008, 03:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Eternity_Gal

A WL doesnt find love in you..The motive is to earn as much $ as possible in a certain of period over here. U can't confide in a WL, cose a WL confides in you only if you have the financial ability to support her.

Dont ever start falling in love with a WL.. Sad to say that the truth is that a WL first fall in love with your notes, not with you.

Sis Eternity, that the problem with all this, she won't charge me a single cents for my third visit to her, all my boink with her is FOC, i try to give her money and she just refuse, i wanna buy her stuffs, she would just reply me she would rather let the other buy for her, she dun wan me to spend money on her.

tell me how i can not be touch????

Eternity_Gal · #71 03-02-2008, 03:15 PM

I 'm looking from a third party and it's not easy to judge. The only good thing I feel is that she is rather concerned on how u spend ur money on her. Hmm, but does that means more savings for u in the future if u decide to spend ur life with her.

shawn_mib · #72 03-02-2008, 03:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Eternity_Gal

I 'm looking from a third party and it's not easy to judge. The only good thing I feel is that she is rather concerned on how u spend ur money on her. Hmm, but does that means more savings for u in the future if u decide to spend ur life with her.

i reali dun know if we can have a future things are shaky and she have went home. i did offer to go back with her but she decline that too.... reason unknown. but most prob she know that travelling is expensive for me.... she just told me to wait for her return.

Heart Break Kid · #73 03-02-2008, 03:29 PM

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i reali dun know if we can have a future things are shaky and she have went home. i did offer to go back with her but she decline that too.... reason unknown. but most prob she know that travelling is expensive for me.... she just told me to wait for her return.

Which part of China she is staying ?

shawn_mib · #74 03-02-2008, 03:32 PM

beijing....

Heart Break Kid · #75 03-02-2008, 03:37 PM

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beijing....

SQ direct flight to & fro Beijing cost $1,372

for this Feb 2008 month end.
somemore economy class seat