my affair with my sis in law

[Parkerlon]

Originally Posted by seowlang

havent posted anything for a long time but in reality lots of things happened in the last few years. J and I have given up both our families to be together. For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part..

they say love is the reunion of 2 ppl. is it really that simple? really? not in our case. And our past is too messed up (as quite a lot will classify as that) for us to be recognized by most ppl.

I hope i have some time to fill up the time gap, if there are still ppl willing to listen.. hahaha.. too long a gap for ppl to be bothered anymore. attention span of ppl are very short these days

till then, thanks for the space and sharing.. its been a pleasure of mine.

its Seowlang out

Hi Bro sl, have spend one night reading your story and boy is one of the best is sbf, esp J's email really touched me and everyone's heart. Would like to know r u and J married now? Kindly update and best of luck to u, cheers

[Centrico]

Very nice story TS!

[LowProfiler]

Hi TS,
I'm very sorry that both of you have forsaken your families to be together..I pray that someday they'll find it in their hearts to let go and accept your union with J. Can I say that this was a happy ending? I think not as you and J have a lot of uphill battles to overcome. Just make sure that you both do it together. Never alone. I wish you the best of luck in your future with J. I wished mine had a happy ending like yours.

[Fyounme]

Still camping!

[taureanwoman08]

Originally Posted by LowProfiler

Hi TS,
I'm very sorry that both of you have forsaken your families to be together..I pray that someday they'll find it in their hearts to let go and accept your union with J. Can I say that this was a happy ending? I think not as you and J have a lot of uphill battles to overcome. Just make sure that you both do it together. Never alone. I wish you the best of luck in your future with J. I wished mine had a happy ending like yours.

To leave one's spouse for another is considered a happy ending? Only the parties involved can tell you.

[M45Singapore]

Any updates bro?

[sf49ers]

Wow, amazing story full of unexpected twists & turns ... hope it's truly 有情人终成眷属 ... all the best TS!

Originally Posted by seowlang

havent posted anything for a long time but in reality lots of things happened in the last few years. J and I have given up both our families to be together. For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part..

they say love is the reunion of 2 ppl. is it really that simple? really? not in our case. And our past is too messed up (as quite a lot will classify as that) for us to be recognized by most ppl.

I hope i have some time to fill up the time gap, if there are still ppl willing to listen.. hahaha.. too long a gap for ppl to be bothered anymore. attention span of ppl are very short these days

till then, thanks for the space and sharing.. its been a pleasure of mine.

its Seowlang out

[Jannygirl]

Agree with you that it is not possible to have everything. The things we need, if they outweigh the things we don't have, good enough.

Originally Posted by seowlang

thanks bro. much appreciated.



I do agree that a great marriage requires great sex as one of its component to be successful. that is however in an ideal world and unfortunately, we do not live in one. i have had several girlfriends before i met my wife and i can tell u that my wife fares mediocrely in terms of sex.

i have learnt to manage my expectations over the years. A person cant be good in all areas. while my wife may fall below expectations on bed, she made it up with her other qualities (i mentioned before in previous post) which my other gfs do not have. we gain some, we lose some. and if i have to choose again, id still rather lose some great sex and have those great characteristics of hers.

Maybe lust always gets the better of me. i can separate having sex and making love. i can still have sex without emotions involved... just pure physical attraction.

[henabi]

Originally Posted by seowlang

havent posted anything for a long time but in reality lots of things happened in the last few years. J and I have given up both our families to be together. For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and health, until death do us part..

they say love is the reunion of 2 ppl. is it really that simple? really? not in our case. And our past is too messed up (as quite a lot will classify as that) for us to be recognized by most ppl.

I hope i have some time to fill up the time gap, if there are still ppl willing to listen.. hahaha.. too long a gap for ppl to be bothered anymore. attention span of ppl are very short these days

till then, thanks for the space and sharing.. its been a pleasure of mine.

its Seowlang out

Please continue... listening...

[KTVbuddy]

Any more updates ts?

[seowlang]

I will continue one very heated exchange I had with my ex-wife not too long after things started turning sour. it was at our matrimonial home.

I: We have already come so far together. We made that vow to stay together, for better or worse... Why do you want to end this marriage so simply? What have i done wrong so much that you there is no way out?

W: The problem is me, not you. There is nothing wrong with you.

I have heard of such reasoning a thousand times. Ppl say that because they do not want to reveal the real reason. I could feel it. At that point, I was thinking whether the past with J had caught up after several years? If not, I couldn't find any reason for her to end our marriage. I dont really have bad habits that she dislikes nor did things she disapproves of. I then became the aggressor.

I: then what is wrong with you? Let me help us to solve issues if any.

W: there is no issue. I am just tired.

I: tired of??? come on, you are not making sense. What have i done to make you tired? or rather, what have i not done to make you tired? Financially, i have provided for the family. I have never stopped your social life. I gave you freedom to have your own me time and time with your girlfriends. Whatever handbags you want, I have gotten most of them for you. you wanted to go Italy, France, Switzerland... I have brought you too. what have i not done that you find no way out except to end this?

I was increasingly getting vexed and angry. It was not making sense to me. I have put in lots of effort during the last 2 years into the marriage besides work.

Long silence.

I: tell me! what did i do wrong?!

W: You are just giving me material stuff. I need more than that.

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Welcome back!

[scooby1]

Welcome back...

[CIALangley]

Originally Posted by Fyounme

Still camping!

Same here too

[Obtusive]

Originally Posted by CIALangley

Same here too

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