The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 51

suteerak1099 · #**751** 14-02-2007, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by surfer888

Not very touching if she knows the real reason... probably punch me and not touch.

Only reason for growing old with her and children is that I am a firm believer that children should grow up in a complete family and should not pay penance for the mistake their father made on marrying their mother.

oooopsss... oh well, i guess it wouldnt hurt so much, just to croon her or croak... just to bring a smile on her face. afterall, she still deserves a little credit for bearing those child-birth pain... lah.

shitty_shit1982 · #**752** 14-02-2007, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by jintulan

The most amazing thing that happened over the years is that the two of us are now very different people from who we were when we first met. People change, my wife changed, I changed. After weathering some storms, we learned to sail through rough seas. It took some years, but the "puppy love" of our youth has somehow been replaced with another kind of love. I don't know what it is. But today, I'm more than happy to hold my middle aged wife's hand, anytime, anywhere, any hand or even fingers.

Happy to hear that...
Well, I broke off with my gf about 4 months ago and till now i still cannot get over it.

Suddenly thought there was once i went to a fortune teller. After looking at my birth date etc, he told me I will have problems finding my life-partner..

Keeping my fingers crossed..

zobster5 · #**753** 14-02-2007, 04:36 PM

i never believe in marriage..

fu*k.. if anything goes wrong..

u're instantly 50% poorer..

#**754** 15-02-2007, 01:28 PM

If marriage doesn't kill u, it makes u stronger

suteerak1099 · #**755** 15-02-2007, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by shitty_shit1982

Happy to hear that...
Well, I broke off with my gf about 4 months ago and till now i still cannot get over it.

Suddenly thought there was once i went to a fortune teller. After looking at my birth date etc, he told me I will have problems finding my life-partner..

Keeping my fingers crossed..

geeez, sure hope he wasnt reading the 中华英雄 comic while reading your astrology... cos he might have mistakenly recited the part “你命反天刹古星...”. there's always a time & tide for everything laid down for us in life. sometimes it feels hopeless while we try so hard, but when the time is ripe... there's treasures untold that we could reap... after all the hardwork we invested in sowing.

take it easy... now's not the time, maybe there's somethings more important for you to focus on for the time being.

suteerak1099 · #**756** 15-02-2007, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by zobster5

i never believe in marriage..

fu*k.. if anything goes wrong..

u're instantly 50% poorer..

that's only if u're in the wrong for adultery or anything else... but if she's the 1 who's at fault, there's no need for you to shed that 50%

surfer888 · #**757** 15-02-2007, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Wowholing

If marriage doesn't kill u, it makes u stronger

Reminds me of what my mum used to tell me about vegetables and bad medicine.

jintulan · #**758** 15-02-2007, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

...there's always a time & tide for everything laid down for us in life. sometimes it feels hopeless while we try so hard, but when the time is ripe... there's treasures untold that we could reap... after all the hardwork we invested in sowing.

take it easy... now's not the time, maybe there's somethings more important for you to focus on for the time being.

much wisdom in your words, brother. (said with a bow...)

GhostRay · #**759** 15-02-2007, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

geeez, sure hope he wasnt reading the 中华英雄 comic while reading your astrology... cos he might have mistakenly recited the part “你命反天刹古星...”. there's always a time & tide for everything laid down for us in life. sometimes it feels hopeless while we try so hard, but when the time is ripe... there's treasures untold that we could reap... after all the hardwork we invested in sowing.

take it easy... now's not the time, maybe there's somethings more important for you to focus on for the time being.

You are the fortune teller???? Side line???? Kekekeke.

dom01 · #**760** 16-02-2007, 08:12 AM

Somehow, i think this is rather true...

Wife is like a TV. Girlfriend is like a handphone.

At home watch TV. Go out bring h/p.

No money watch TV. Got money change h/p.

Sometime enjoy TV but most of the time play with h/p.

TV free for life but....

h/p, if you don't pay, services will be terminated....!

suteerak1099 · #**761** 16-02-2007, 10:24 AM

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Originally Posted by jintulan

much wisdom in your words, brother. (said with a bow...)

wakao... dont like that leh... just rendering some advise that i hope would be useful for us all to consider lah. its a fact that sometimes we all seem a little lost, dont know where to go or what to do lah. but then there's nothing stopping us from trying our utmost best in all that we do lor.

so in this case, just do what you have to do, results will reveal in due time...

suteerak1099 · #**762** 16-02-2007, 10:48 AM

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Originally Posted by GhostRay

You are the fortune teller???? Side line???? Kekekeke.

fortune teller? erh, i dare not think so lah. if i can forecast fortune, my frens & i'd be richie rich by now liao.

just to share, i once heard an old man at the coffeeshop say this to his kopi kaki...

“人生途中一定会经过不少十字路，需要做个决定向哪个方向行去，即使看不到终点还是要继续。若因为看不到终点就回去十字路口，另外找方向行去。。。一辈子都走不到终点，最后还是回到十字路的原点。”

which translates;
"we'd encounter many crossroads in life's journey, and if we've chosen a direction to pave, we should persist & brave on. if we're to give up, just bcos we cant see the end point, return to the cross road & seek another direction.... forever we'd be stuck at the junction"

moral of the story??? live life, not to regret.

funny it seems but sometimes, coffeeshop talk can be all the more enlightening than doing thesis preparations in the library.

jintulan · #**763** 16-02-2007, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

...i once heard an old man at the coffeeshop say this to his kopi kaki...
“人生途中一定会经过不少十字路，需要做个决定向哪个方向行去，即使看不到终点还是要继续。若因为看不到终点就回去十字路口，另外找方向行去。。。一辈子都走不到终点，最后还是回到十字路的原点。”
... coffeeshop talk can be all the more enlightening than doing thesis preparations in the library.

老兄，你在那间 coffeeshop 啊？我马上到！

surfer888 · #**764** 16-02-2007, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by jintulan

老兄，你在那间 coffeeshop 啊？我马上到！

Wah... soon there will be pilgrimages to that coffeeshop... all for a chance to see the wise old man.

suteerak1099 · #**765** 16-02-2007, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jintulan

老兄，你在那间 coffeeshop 啊？我马上到！

even if i'm present at the coffeeshop... also cant guarantee that old man will be there, repeating his recital... hehehehe.

rule of thumb, keep your senses sharp where ever & whenever you go, and you'd never know how much you can learn from the people around you. but of course, more often than not... you'd only be hearing about people's gripe about issues pertaining to their daily livelihood.