The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 52

suteerak1099 · #**766** 16-02-2007, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by surfer888

Wah... soon there will be pilgrimages to that coffeeshop... all for a chance to see the wise old man.

hahahah.. say till like that. but its true that some do have alot of ink in the things they mumble thru their toothless gaps, while some are just ranting irrational thoughts or verbalizing their own memoirs.

GhostRay · #**767** 17-02-2007, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by dom01

Somehow, i think this is rather true...

Wife is like a TV. Girlfriend is like a handphone.

At home watch TV. Go out bring h/p.

No money watch TV. Got money change h/p.

Sometime enjoy TV but most of the time play with h/p.

TV free for life but....

h/p, if you don't pay, services will be terminated....!

Nice one bro.....

GhostRay · #**768** 17-02-2007, 08:27 AM

[QUOTE=suteerak1099;1859943]

“人生途中一定会经过不少十字路，需要做个决定向哪个方向行去，即使看不到终点还是要继续。若因为看不到终点就回去十字路口，另外找方向行去。。。一辈子都走不到终点，最后还是回到十字路的原点。”

QUOTE]那不是走了很多冤枉路.

jemz · #**769** 18-02-2007, 01:55 AM

i married the one i loved most. but he turned out to be my worse nightmare.

asdfghjkl · #**770** 18-02-2007, 02:08 AM

why ler.. can explain?

andylee75 · #**771** 18-02-2007, 07:30 AM

Life is short and you may never know who will come along and steal your heart.
here is my story
i have been married for 10year have 3 kids and life is good. so I thought. until i visited PRC 2 years ago. my first trip back to my homeland in over 20 years. i was there on a little vacation for 10. did the monger thing for 5 days. and on day 6th pick up this one girl in a BBS. and keep her for 4 days. everything was good until the day I left for the airport. she went with me to see me off. the moment we said goodbye and I enter custom. did not know what hit me, start to cry, I tell you I have never felt this way about any body, boy I mean cry. i talk to her on the phone for 3 months. finally later that year decide can not keep on going like this and stop calling her. last year when back to china. and same thing did p4p for 6 days over 10 SYT. but no feeling. for some reason I found the girls number from last year. and call her. she know in 1 second who i was and came to see me. she was in her hometown at the time and it took her 20 hours by bus to get to ShenZhen. so told I still see her and talk to her everyday. point is ya you never know who you love until the right person comes. one day you may love you GF for 10 years and trm you may meet your other half. so the one i married is not the one i love the most. i meet her 10 years to late. but that is life.

ILoveCheapSex · #**772** 18-02-2007, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by andylee75

Life is short and you may never know who will come along and steal your heart.
here is my story
i have been married for 10year have 3 kids and life is good. so I thought. until i visited PRC 2 years ago. my first trip back to my homeland in over 20 years. i was there on a little vacation for 10. did the monger thing for 5 days. and on day 6th pick up this one girl in a BBS. and keep her for 4 days. everything was good until the day I left for the airport. she went with me to see me off. the moment we said goodbye and I enter custom. did not know what hit me, start to cry, I tell you I have never felt this way about any body, boy I mean cry. i talk to her on the phone for 3 months. finally later that year decide can not keep on going like this and stop calling her. last year when back to china. and same thing did p4p for 6 days over 10 SYT. but no feeling. for some reason I found the girls number from last year. and call her. she know in 1 second who i was and came to see me. she was in her hometown at the time and it took her 20 hours by bus to get to ShenZhen. so told I still see her and talk to her everyday. point is ya you never know who you love until the right person comes. one day you may love you GF for 10 years and trm you may meet your other half. so the one i married is not the one i love the most. i meet her 10 years to late. but that is life.

Bro, you are right, you never really know who you really love until the right person comes along. But the fact is no one knows when the right person is going to come, or even come at all.

She could be a lot younger than you, she could be in another land, she could be someone you see everyday. She could be absolutely anyone. Human being is never satisfied, always seeking greener pastures, and also there is this feeling that the next one is always better, or the one you missed is the one you loved most.

Actually, you shouldn't 自寻烦恼. Do you know that, you have the life that every man dreams of? 3 kids, life is good, which means the least, you have a loving wife. Isn't she the one you also once felt you loved the most? You felt the girl in China is the one you loved most at this moment, can you be sure there won't another that come along? It's just human nature to be 喜新厌旧, and this girl you loved most now, may just become another 旧 in time to come.

I am not noble and I do visit FLs (who don't like to try different dish, right?), so for me, it is ok to visit FLs and have some feelings during the session (if not how to bonk). But once the session is over, the feeling goes as well. Don't bring that feeling home.

Cherish your wife, kids and family, they are the ones you should make your priorities.

Deztruct · #**773** 18-02-2007, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ILoveCheapSex

I am not noble and I do visit FLs (who don't like to try different dish, right?), so for me, it is ok to visit FLs and have some feelings during the session (if not how to bonk). But once the session is over, the feeling goes as well. Don't bring that feeling home.

Cherish your wife, kids and family, they are the ones you should make your priorities.

bro..u r rite...wan to chiong then muz hv this kind of feelin..if not we will juz make ourself upset only

Deztruct · #**774** 18-02-2007, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jemz

i married the one i loved most. but he turned out to be my worse nightmare.

ur hubby still the same? u the one who mentioned tat u r payin for all the bills in the hse while he not workin much rite?

hope life will be beta for u in the piggy year

Deztruct · #**775** 18-02-2007, 12:26 PM

[QUOTE=GhostRay;1861179]

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Originally Posted by suteerak1099

“人生途中一定会经过不少十字路，需要做个决定向哪个方向行去，即使看不到终点还是要继续。若因为看不到终点就回去十字路口，另外找方向行去。。。一辈子都走不到终点，最后还是回到十字路的原点。”

QUOTE]那不是走了很多冤枉路.

remind me of the old johnny walker advertisement..the one abt baggio missing his penalty at the world cup..in the end we juz hv to told ourself to keep walking

GhostRay · #**776** 19-02-2007, 01:23 AM

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Originally Posted by jemz

i married the one i loved most. but he turned out to be my worse nightmare.

男怕入错行,女怕嫁错朗. Think this is very very very true.

GhostRay · #**777** 19-02-2007, 01:27 AM

[QUOTE=Deztruct;1862395]

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Originally Posted by GhostRay

remind me of the old johnny walker advertisement..the one abt baggio missing his penalty at the world cup..in the end we juz hv to told ourself to keep walking

Keep on walking...... Just keep on walking..... Endless walking.....Think by the time walk to the end, dunno drink how many bottle liao.

Deztruct · #**778** 19-02-2007, 02:04 AM

[QUOTE=GhostRay;1863009]

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Originally Posted by Deztruct

Keep on walking...... Just keep on walking..... Endless walking.....Think by the time walk to the end, dunno drink how many bottle liao.

haha..drinkin is gd..it make the walkin more bearable

jemz · #**779** 19-02-2007, 01:42 PM

when i first came to this site, i was filled with horror

later on, i realize there could be so much to learn. i learnt ways to make him happy, to be the kind of wife any one of you here would die for.

i did that. i was that. i am all of that. i loved him. i cared for him and took care of the house. i was not a lousy wife and never lost the gf feeling. i wasn't perfect, but i tried to make everything to perfection the best i could.

im breaking up all inside. over and over again each time i think about all that i did and his response was cold. there wasn't anyone else. it was just him. i've given all that i could and there's nothing more to give.

he never believed one day, i will really pack and leave. now i've left for good. there's no point in saying sorry or to give another chance. he just wasnt there when i pleaded with him to make things work.

happybonkie · #**780** 19-02-2007, 03:25 PM

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Originally Posted by jemz

... the kind of wife any one of you here would die for.

you really sound like my wife, she believes that, I don't know how she could, but she does.

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Originally Posted by jemz

i loved him. i cared for him and took care of the house. i was not a lousy wife and never lost the gf feeling. i wasn't perfect, but i tried to make everything to perfection the best i could.

love me she did, for as long as everything is done her way, of course.
care for me? of course she did! for as long as I agree with her in every fucking thing.
not a lousy wife, that's right, she says that often too!

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Originally Posted by jemz

im breaking up all inside. over and over again each time i think about all that i did and his response was cold. there wasn't anyone else. it was just him. i've given all that i could and there's nothing more to give.

I don't have anyone else besides her too, but I'd rather be alone than be with her now.

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Originally Posted by jemz

he never believed one day, i will really pack and leave. now i've left for good. there's no point in saying sorry or to give another chance. he just wasnt there when i pleaded with him to make things work.

I packed and left as well.