And a great thread it has been, although I do not read it as much nowadays!
Bro, tks.
Please share your insights here.
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Nice thread discussion, though I've been told alternatively that when a guy really have all the good attributes that attract women, then they'd be quickly snatched up and married already! Cannot be yandao and syt forever, at most 10 years plus minus only, then what else remains to bind people together? Compatible values and interests?
Bro tks.
You're quite right.
Romantic love usually only lasts 1-2 yrs. This is followed by commitment love, in ideal cases.
I think a couple needs to grow together. Otherwise, the RS won't last.
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Originally Posted by fmylife
Have been reading and learn much from this thread. Just using the skills is another matter. Hahaha.
Yes, knowing and doing are totally different.
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Time for a name change
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Originally Posted by mobifone
Great stuff and more accurate picture of your thread.
Bros, tks.
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Excellent forum above and I cannot agree more.
I agree.
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Bro WB
Thanks for a great forum.
"But the best assurance a man could get that the child was his own, was to have sex with many women, and/or to simply make himself so desirable that a woman simply would not likely feel attraction to anyone else. He had to make himself a good catch, which meant becoming more courageous, a better hunter, defender, etc. In other words, for sexual value, a man relied on his “masculine” characteristics and LEARNED ABILITIES. These abilities and character traits are what women needed from men."
I fully agreed with above.
Thanks.
Yes, bro.
As I hv mentioned in the past, men n women are hardwired differently because of their COMPLEMENTARY roles in the survival and reproduction of Homo sapiens.
Recent social and cultural conditioning is not enough to reverse 300,000 yrs of revolution.
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Originally Posted by MBSJaneMaccane
My exact sentiments.
Thanks bro WB for an excellent thread.
Cheers.
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Originally Posted by slumels
Absolutely agreed too.
Very good forum by bro WB.
Have a nice day.
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Originally Posted by Synanym
Agreed absolutely … best in Singapore, JB and some say even in Batam
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Originally Posted by WonControl
Amazing thread by bro WB, hope to read and learn more here.
Have a long weekend bros.
Bros, tks.
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Originally Posted by waterspout
Bro WB
After reading your prestigious thread, I can understand you better.
Idea is to get the gals you wanted and to keep them for personal use long time.
Bang more gals by rejecting them is accurate words.
Hope to learn more and perform better.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
Be highly selective.
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Bro WB,
I love your thread and hope this thread continue for another 10 years or more.
Took me a few minutes to understand what the above post was discussing. I managed to get the meaning after reading through 3 times.
A ladies man or modern Don Juan met his match after meeting the dream gal he aching for.
I agreed that this will be the kiss of death and he may lost his rational thinking including marriage. I have seen one of my friends behave like this.
Must be able to let go in order to gain more.
Luckily he woke up after 1 year of deep slumber and with his family and friends help, he rebuild his life.
Hope you have a an amazing day.
Cheers.
Many men hv lost everything because of The Special One.
If a man believes his girl is special, his previously masculine behavior changes. He begins to value her and care for her too much. He is now afraid of losing her. He has lost his power and dignity...
It's what every girl/woman consciously wants her man to behave. But, ironically, it's the beginning of the end for the relationship.
The reason? Her subconscious mind or primitive brain will begin to despise his new "less masculine and less dominant" behavior.
Don't blame the girl/woman. She is not heartless. She is hardwired in her subconscious mind by evolution to behave this way. She is often confused n frustrated...she knows she should love the man who has been so nice n helpful, and who has given her everything he could, yet she feels only revulsion for him.
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Originally Posted by Scudetto
Same here, I understand better too.
Thanks bro WB for this prestigious thread.
Have a good weekend.
Bro, tks.
We should make this thread better. But I can't do it alone. I need contributions from everyone here.
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I don't mind this thread goes on for another 50 years.
Hoping to learn more from the Master
Thanks bro WB
Bro, tks.
Another 20 years is quite possible.
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Originally Posted by Wibers
Excellent thread here, support!!
Enjoy your super long weekend bros
Tks, bro,
Cheers and have a great long weekend to all samsters!
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Many thanks to bro WB and other bros for the relentless contribution over the past decade. Having currently read through 400 over pages of this thread from the start, it has greatly influenced how I view women and relationships. Bro WB's emphasis on the importance of self mastery or emotional control has also proven true when I look through news of people with power or wealth succumb to a woman. Definitely hope this thread continues for the next 20 years or more (hope TS remains healthy and virile, gaining more wisdom to share with us, and bonking more attractive girls)
For me, it's only about putting theory into practice, hope to share my experiences in the future (regardless success or failure)
Good afternoon to all samsters,
As I hv mentioned in my previous post, my three current LPs all rejected me initially, not once but twice.
Approximately 2/3 of all my LPs hv rejected me initially in the past 8 1/2 years. It has been great because over 95% of ALL gals I hv approached say yes, eventually.
I hv some musings on rejection and how to turn the dire situation around.
Everything hinges on how you react to the rejection. Most men will get angry or feel dejected. A few become violent. These are idiotic losers! Very immature n childish. Zero emotional control. This behaviour is screaming to the girl's primal brain: I'm a loser! I'm a frustarted man who can't get gals.
Always agree w/ her decision to reject you!
Remain very relaxed n calm n totally non-reactive.
This will demonstrate to her your emotional strength and self mastery. Most attractive masculine trait for survival, as far as her primal brain is concerned.
Don't forget you're always the PRIZE and it's her big loss to reject you. Feel very sorry for her...
Yup, that is the right mindset.
Any comments?
Cheers!
Bro WB
Bro WB
Thank you very much for nice forum.
Always agree w/ her decision to reject you!
Remain very relaxed n calm n totally non-reactive.
Bros,
The two step response to rejections is powerful, very powerful.
When I was rejected by my 3 current LPs the second time, I was smiling and laughing...I had 3 other LPs at that time haha. I walked away n never contacted them again n I didn't give a fxxk.
They initiated contact w/ me, after 3-7 weeks, and wanted to be my LP!
Here is more explanation n clarification from an European guru on how to respond to and reverse rejections.
"You’ve heard the story of the tortoise and the hare before, right? The
hare was able to run far faster than the tortoise ever could, and yet the
tortoise eventually won the race. He just kept going, and persevering,
and because of that, he was able to win, despite the hare’s
overwhelming speed advantage.
Yes, this does have something to do with picking up women. In this case,
I want you to think of the different ways that you can act after getting
rejected by a girl as different animals in a race. But in this case, the
winner neither the fastest, nor the one who perseveres the longest.
In this case, the winner is the one who can keep his emotional calm, no matter what happens. The guy who can keep himself under emotional
control no matter what’s going on around him is the strongest guy in the
room. He’s also the one that the girls tend to swoon over. Why? He has
emotional strength.
Now, what does emotional strength have to do with attractiveness?
Girls love a guy with emotional strength, and it goes all the way back to
that same primal brain we’ve been talking about this whole time. A girl’s
primal brain is highly concerned with finding her a mate, and it knows all
sorts of tips and tricks to find out whether a guy would make a suitable
partner and father.
Unfortunately, it evolved back when men were hunting mammoths for
food and for sport, and when women were weaving baskets and
collecting oysters on the seashore.
So a girl’s primal brain first and foremost looks for a guy with emotional
strength, because that’s the kind of guy who can keep his head in a hairy
situation and still bring home that mammoth meat for mom and their
little screaming cave children.
Then again, that emotional strength also has value in real life. Because in this
describes the ability to act regardless of your emotional state in any
situation, if you’re well-versed in handling tough people or hairy
situations and remaining cool, you’ve already mastered this technique in
some other area of your life. And it has practical applications
everywhere: the guy who can develop that kind of internal self discipline
will have major advantages wherever he puts that skill to use.
So how does this tie in with rejection, an overcoming it? Well, here’s a
hint: if you agree with a girl’s decision to reject you, but emotionally you
feel rejected, then you’re doing just that: agreeing with her.
She’ll pick up on your feelings before she ever hears anything you’re
saying. When you let her know that you’re feeling dejected, you show
her loud and clear that you are not an emotionally strong man, and thus
you lose attractiveness points in her book.
You’ll soon be back at your dark corner table cursing women and the
biological imperative that makes you chase them because you let her
know loud and clear that you were not actually an emotional rock, but
just a guy who tried memorizing some stuff out of a book.
And we all know how well that book-learnin’ does in real life, right,
gentlemen?
But suppose you did the opposite instead, and you were able to stay
completely calm and casual. Let’s say you agreed with her that she was
right in rejecting you, but you really seemed okay with it. Now, instead
of playing into the girl’s expectation loop, you’ve completely broken it.
She doesn’t know what to do because she doesn’t often run into guys
like you.
As little of an effect her rejection has on you, that’s how monumentally
huge the impact will be on her. So do your best to absolutely not care.
The more you can master this feeling internally, the more effective this
technique will be for you in the long run.
Her expectations will be thrown to the wind by this point if you can
totally keep your cool. But this technique does more than just that.
You’ve sent a message to this girl loud and clear: not only are you
emotionally strong enough to withstand her rejection, but she’s really
not important enough to you to warrant any kind of emotional
response.
You’ve let her know that you’re a lot bigger than anything that could
happen to you and this girl.
Her response to your approach is not going to determine what you think
of yourself in the slightest, and that kind of independence is actually
sexy. It has that “you can’t have this” cachet that’s virtually impossible
to mistake in someone who genuinely has it.
Now, you and I both know that people in general and women especially
always seem to want precisely what they cannot have. You just became
something she can’t have. Even though she already said she wasn’t
interested, the sudden revelation that she couldn’t have you even if
she’d wanted to change the situation into something completely new.
You’ve made yourself more important in her eyes, and let her know loud
and clear that you are not affected at all by her rejection.
The real clincher with this technique is that once you take the first two
steps, even before you do anything to turn that rejection around, you’ve
already done a ton to communicate to her that you are a man of high
value. Not minding getting rejected, and showing her that you don’t
mind getting rejected, are a big part of that.
You become, in this moment, the guy who weathers the storm. You
become an unshakable man-rock who can take life as it comes at him
and come up smelling like roses.
Forget money and muscles: that’s what drives a girl nuts. That kind of
strength beats physical strength every day. And the best part is that
most girls have no idea that that’s what’s really going on.
They think they like a guy because of his haircut or his eyes or that thing
he said to them when there were at that fondue restaurant last
Saturday. But really none of those things is actually true.
And guess what? In this case, she just found out the hard way that she
rejected that guy a moment too soon: she just learned what kind of man
he really is. Suddenly, she might be starting to regret her decision to
reject you.
This is why I say rejection is never the end—instead, it’s the beginning."
Now you know why I love repeated rejections by very attractive gals. It gives me an opportunity to demonstrate my emotional strength and self mastery. Isn't life beautiful?
Cheers!
bro WB
Many men hv lost everything because of The Special One.
If a man believes his girl is special, his previously masculine behavior changes. He begins to value her and care for her too much. He is now afraid of losing her. He has lost his power and dignity...
It's what every girl/woman consciously wants her man to behave. But, ironically, it's the beginning of the end for the relationship.
The reason? Her subconscious mind or primitive brain will begin to despise his new "less masculine and less dominant" behavior.
Don't blame the girl/woman. She is not heartless. She is hardwired in her subconscious mind by evolution to behave this way. She is often confused n frustrated...she knows she should love the man who has been so nice n helpful, and who has given her everything he could, yet she feels only revulsion for him.
Many times how to get woman heart is pure science. Let her be addicted to you and sex is the most important.
I learned that woman can let you fark but will not love you because woman's love is conditional.
Hope can learn more here.
Thanks + cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
Dear bro,
Thank you so much for your excellent opinion.
All KTV gals and HFJ singers want to make money. Yes, money is a prerequisite for getting their pussies. But, as I hv reiterated in the past, money can only buy many but not all of these pussies, and never their hearts. Actually, spending more money than necessary will backfire. It repels them. Yes, even the gold diggers are repelled, although they will pretend to be lovey dovey w/ the big spenders just to extract more money from them.
I personally know several KTV gals who have refused FJ, no matter how much the customers offer. Of course, these 'jilted suitors' would invariably get very angry and agitated. Some customers in China may resort to threats and physical violence. They are all insecure losers.
Therefore, I hv to disagree w/ you that boatload of money will always get you these pussies.
A very pretty and young KTV gal will meet many patrons and she will get offers of BY from dozens of 'suitors.' Often within a few months. There is intense contest for her pussy. And the man who offers the most money may not get to keep her as his lao po/mistress. Oftentimes, her primitive brain won't allow her.
What kind of man would the 'prettiest girl,' WL or non-WL, choose? No, chase. Such a man is dominant and assertive, not domineering and aggressive. He is also kind and caring. And he is intelligent, ambitious, physically fit n of high status. He brings value to society. He has awesome emotional strength. He is non-reactive, no matter what happens.
IMHO, girls/women who work in the nite scene differ in their degree of greediness. It's a very wide spectrum. On one extreme are the truly narcissistic and psychopathic gold diggers, most common among the successful singers, whom we must avoid. On the other extreme are girls who are smart, kind, honest, frugal and non-greedy. They will never make it as successful singers. They are very rare, but I hv found a few of them.
No, emotional mastery has nothing to do w/ money, except that a man w/ great emotional strength and mastery will do well in all areas of his life, including financial security. Become such a MAN.
Me, successful? It depends on what you mean by successful. I'm far from being such a MAN.
I married my TW wife decades ago, when I was a lowly medical trainee from Gotham City. I spent over 6 months in TW. Why did I marry her? She was one of the prettiest girls I had ever seen. Her dad was a police major.
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Bro WB
NO way we let woman control our expenses and income.
Breaking off is her loss an never man loss.
Thanks _ cheers.
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Originally Posted by warbird
.......................... My ex chinese cambodian gf wants to control my expenses and my income, we stay in different countries but wants to dictate me on how to spend my own money in my own home country. I told her not to interfere and she got angry, she broke off with me. Told her its fine and its her loss, ignore her and she contacted me 6 months later............................................. ........ Been from being needy to care less, and being care less is definately the way to go in a relationship irregardless of the ladies nationality
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Originally Posted by repairman
Many thanks to bro WB and other bros for the relentless contribution over the past decade. Having currently read through 400 over pages of this thread from the start, it has greatly influenced how I view women and relationships. Bro WB's emphasis on the importance of self mastery or emotional control has also proven true when I look through news of people with power or wealth succumb to a woman. Definitely hope this thread continues for the next 20 years or more (hope TS remains healthy and virile, gaining more wisdom to share with us, and bonking more attractive girls)
For me, it's only about putting theory into practice, hope to share my experiences in the future (regardless success or failure)
Bro, tks.
Yes, I'll maintain my optimal health and virility for the next 20 years.
Never be afraid of failure. I hv learned more from my own failures and by analyzing the failures of other men.
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Originally Posted by improbable
Bro WB
Thank you very much for nice forum.
Always agree w/ her decision to reject you!
Remain very relaxed n calm n totally non-reactive.
This is very good advice.
I just tried recently and work well.
Later more gals will come to me.
Cheers.
Tks, bro. You're doing great.
I love rejection. I don't like a girl who says yes too quickly.
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Originally Posted by improbable
Bro WB
I like the rabbit and hare analogy.
Thanks for the nice forum.
Cheers.
Bro, tks.
A real badass gentleman only goes after THE most attractive gals of his type he catches sight of.
If they flatly reject him, he stays completely calm n non-reactive. His facial microexpressions, body language n voice tonality are congruent w/ his non-neediness n the fact that he is the prize. I don't believe any healthy heterosexual girls can resist him. Because they never met such a man before and they may NEVER meet such a man ever again. Don't be surprised that they will initiate contact w/ him or literally chase after him, after a few days to a few months haha.
That has been how I got my recent LPs. But here is the twist. They actually believed, at least initially, that my apparent non-reaction n calmness to their rejections was because I didn't mean it at all. Not because I had any exceptional emotional mastery! They thought my proposal of making them my LPs (if they could qualify) was a joke or tease. When I mentioned it again casually, they were still skeptical...because I never once mentioned money or any of the terms.
If a man agrees w/ a girl's rejection but feels anger, frustration and shame inside, she will sense his neediness and negative feelings instantly. He has lost. He is the same as all the other "little boys."
A man's emotional strength and self-mastery are the two most important and attractive masculine traits for survival and replication.
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Originally Posted by PGAchampionship
Fully agreed with you bro WB
Cheers +1
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Originally Posted by AsiaFenceStreet
Fully agreed with the very good advice.
Always remain relaxed n calm n totally non-reactive.
Thanks bro WB for an excellent thread.
Have a nice day.
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Originally Posted by Beardsley7
Fully agreed with bro WB too.
Many cheers.
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Originally Posted by cumonsense
You mean rabbit and hare complete in the race and won by tortoise in the end?
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Originally Posted by phuang
Should be a very competitive race, unlike rabbit v tortoise
Bros, thanks.
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Originally Posted by Madrid2019
Bro WB
The saying goes NO money NO honey is often true.
Many times how to get woman heart is pure science. Let her be addicted to you and sex is the most important.
I learned that woman can let you fark but will not love you because woman's love is conditional.
Hope can learn more here.
Thanks + cheers.
Bro, tks for your post and for quoting my past forum.
"A very pretty and young KTV gal will meet many patrons and she will get offers of BY from dozens of 'suitors.' Often within a few months. There is an intense contest for her pussy. And the man who offers the most money may not get to keep her as his lao po/mistress. Oftentimes, her primitive brain won't allow her.
What kind of man would the 'prettiest girl,' WL or non-WL, choose? No, chase. Such a man is dominant and assertive, not domineering and aggressive. He is also kind and caring. And he is intelligent, ambitious, physically fit n of high status. He brings value to society. He has awesome emotional strength. He is non-reactive, no matter what happens."
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Originally Posted by Madrid2019
Bro WB
NO way we let woman control our expenses and income.
Breaking off is her loss an never man loss.
Thanks _ cheers.
Bro, tks.
The post was written by bro Moneymoneycome on 26/07/17:
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Originally Posted by moneymoneycome
Question - many married men in Asia or other countries still give all their monthly salary to their wives. Then the wives decide what to buy and give daily pocket money to the hubby.
This practice had been rapidly in Japan, Korea, India, etc.
If such practice, I do see men usually follow their wives decisions obediently. But such relationship do last.
Any comments?
Merry Christmas to everyone.
This practice happen in Thailand, Cambodia, Laos too. My ex chinese cambodian gf wants to control my expenses and my income, we stay in different countries but wants to dictate me on how to spend my own money in my own home country. I told her not to interfere and she got angry, she broke off with me. Told her its fine and its her loss, ignore her and she contacted me 6 months later. Wanted to meet but I turned her down twice although she had found a new bf. To date, we just chat on apps and she fills me with details of her new relationship.
What bro WB said is very true, the less you care the more dominant you will be in the relationship. Been from being needy to cares less, and cares less is definately the way to go in a relationship irregardless of the ladies nationality[/QUOTE]
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Originally Posted by JillCrusoe
Fully agreed with the no money no honey saying.
Tks bro WB for this great thread.
Have a nice weekend
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Originally Posted by SMRTAss
Wahahaa race of the century ROFL LMAO
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Originally Posted by LowIndex
My exact sentiments - NO WAY JOSE
Thanks bro WB for an excellent forum here.
God bless.
Bros, thanks.
Wishing every samster a great and blessed Sunday!!
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