How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[tatata21]

Lots of carrots here.. I hate to say it but when I get too invested too (i.e. KC), you'll invest more time and money on the girl, and it will affect your life, thinking about her etc.

Like some said a bottomless pit anyhow... if you stay with a girl, or keep changing girls so you don't get hook onto one.

Ultimately, I think the best solution is to stop and concentrate on other stuffs in life - doesnt mean no girls, they'll come naturally if you are good and successful, if you can't control then set a budget not to bust it.

Good luck bros.

[mrclen]

Originally Posted by luciferpain

I think nobody is stupid enough to pay for sex but just talk and chit chat .....

Ok, I get it and have the same situation. I have one girl I see on my 4 or 5 times per year visits, her service has become less and less. When we first got together in the KTV (take out LT) she was great with full on DFK, DATY, CIM, COM, COF, BBBJ, and more. Lately she says she doesn't like to DFK and BBBJ is rare, it almost seems as if she is on vacation when she is with me. She says she loves and runs to see me when I arrive and will always make herself available. However, the little things are bothering me. Such as, when she first started coming direct to see me (not through the KTV) she would always show up looking good, nice clothes, make up, etc. Now it is way more casual and little if any make up. We always had a round in the AM before she left, now we just go to breakfast and she is on her way.

This all said, she does have redeeming qualities, she will bring or call a friend anytime I ask or if she is RED. She speaks a little English. She has no problem if I don't take her or go to another KTV or bring back another girl. She is good dinner company and we go other places, massage, etc, together.

This all said, I do enjoy my time with her but am slowly letting her go. However, if I could get the one from the beginning back I would stay with her till the DiDi dies. And as I am over 60, that is not too many tears away! mrclen

[lagonda]

Originally Posted by luciferpain

I been treating a wl very well the past three months and I felt that she had taken me for granted. Everytime I brought her food and gift in always extend thre to six session. But the more I treat her well the lesser she would treat me. The amount I spend on her amount to 5 6 k but I don't blame her cause I the willing party naively thinking that she would treat me well. I felt so stupid but then I think she deserved to be treated well so. She really gave me a good times and even though there is time that we did nothing just play card an talk ....

Bro are you willing to share your story as a real life case example?

[real_king]

Don't we all just like to chase aft the gfe hweeling?

[Woei]

Originally Posted by tatata21

Lots of carrots here.. I hate to say it but when I get too invested too (i.e. KC), you'll invest more time and money on the girl, and it will affect your life, thinking about her etc.

Like some said a bottomless pit anyhow... if you stay with a girl, or keep changing girls so you don't get hook onto one.

Ultimately, I think the best solution is to stop and concentrate on other stuffs in life - doesnt mean no girls, they'll come naturally if you are good and successful, if you can't control then set a budget not to bust it.

Good luck bros.

I second that bro

Originally Posted by real_king

Don't we all just like to chase aft the gfe hweeling?

We sure do...

[singmarine]

I know a few guys who are so good at till they can fuck for free, anal, creampie, SM....anything anytime they want...

[Rythmik]

Originally Posted by singmarine

I know a few guys who are so good at till they can fuck for free, anal, creampie, SM....anything anytime they want...

these guys will never tell you what they offer in return
cos they wana sey-bin in front of other guys

[Alami]

Originally Posted by Keith2

Power lah Bro, you the man! So these 5 months, no sob stories or no financial requests etc ?
If so, must kowtow to you..haha

No, she did not ask for any monies. I give her $1k monthly to help with the rent. This is cheaper than paying for every visit, which is $150 per visit. I was spending about $2k a month visiting her before we were together.

[TedBear]

Originally Posted by tatata21

Lots of carrots here.. I hate to say it but when I get too invested too (i.e. KC), you'll invest more time and money on the girl, and it will affect your life, thinking about her etc.

Like some said a bottomless pit anyhow... if you stay with a girl, or keep changing girls so you don't get hook onto one.

Ultimately, I think the best solution is to stop and concentrate on other stuffs in life - doesnt mean no girls, they'll come naturally if you are good and successful, if you can't control then set a budget not to bust it.

Good luck bros.

Haha.. well said bro.. I think I got charmed by a KTV gal already, having only met her 2 times in CD.. Now dunno wanna play the KC game with her a not.. Haiz..

[Woei]

Originally Posted by Rythmik

these guys will never tell you what they offer in return
cos they wana sey-bin in front of other guys

Haha...that's a good one

Originally Posted by Alami

No, she did not ask for any monies. I give her $1k monthly to help with the rent. This is cheaper than paying for every visit, which is $150 per visit. I was spending about $2k a month visiting her before we were together.

So...r u saying that u get to bonk her more thn 10 times of what u invested now or sex is just secondary... spending more time with her is ur main objective

[milfmilf]

Originally Posted by Alami

No, she did not ask for any monies. I give her $1k monthly to help with the rent. This is cheaper than paying for every visit, which is $150 per visit. I was spending about $2k a month visiting her before we were together.

wah .... you rich man bro... you run big company or high post big bucks?
I always spend around $800-1000 ... but my regular only get to cumm SG every quarterly ...

[19thhole]

Honestly, we all started with commercial engagement. If you ever felt you like a KTV gal and you are somewhat sure she dun go out with customer easily(partially this can tell by whether she ask you out or not, and some gals dun even go out if you dun pay them for eating dinner), you can try to KC her lah.

For all men, if you are attached as in married, I really suggest you keep yourself off having KC with any type of gal (not that I am trying to teach you guys). If you have GF, anything is still possible.

MY ROE:
1) If she is a Pros, forget KC. You know you will never be together with her. So dun waste time.
2) IF she is a ktv gal, and you are interested in KCing, try to find out more about her. How much you can know have to see your effort and of course time.
3) Once you start, Rule of Thumb, dating if involved Buying this and That. Straight off, can ask her Bye Bye.
4) After many rounds of dating, if bedded her and still no money asked. Then that's where the real KC comes.
5) Of course as usual, if you court a gal, things like small gifts are unavoidable. So also cannot be stingy lah. You also can help her pay for her rent if you want to. Some gals that really talk KC will not even take your money.

However, these gals are there for a reason. And thats $$$. Bare in mind, they need to bring money back to their family. Hence, don't forget that part. So, if you cannot afford to keep her and pay for all her expenses, please dun get angry if she continue to work and throw herself into other men arms. This is somewhat cannot be avoided as well. It is not that they love nothing but $$, it is almost like no choice.

Bottom line is KCing with these gals = $$$ + Time. Whether they are sincere to you or not. If you dun have both of these, dun waste your time and dun waste hers.

My 2 cents.. Cheers!

[Rythmik]

Originally Posted by 19thhole

MY ROE:
1) If she is a Pros, forget KC. You know you will never be together with her. So dun waste time.
2) IF she is a ktv gal, and you are interested in KCing, try to find out more about her. How much you can know have to see your effort and of course time.
3) Once you start, Rule of Thumb, dating if involved Buying this and That. Straight off, can ask her Bye Bye.
4) After many rounds of dating, if bedded her and still no money asked. Then that's where the real KC comes.
5) Of course as usual, if you court a gal, things like small gifts are unavoidable. So also cannot be stingy lah. You also can help her pay for her rent if you want to. Some gals that really talk KC will not even take your money.

However, these gals are there for a reason. And thats $$$. Bare in mind, they need to bring money back to their family. Hence, don't forget that part. So, if you cannot afford to keep her and pay for all her expenses, please dun get angry if she continue to work and throw herself into other men arms. This is somewhat cannot be avoided as well. It is not that they love nothing but $$, it is almost like no choice.

Bottom line is KCing with these gals = $$$ + Time. Whether they are sincere to you or not. If you dun have both of these, dun waste your time and dun waste hers.

My 2 cents.. Cheers!

point 3, 4 & 5 and last 2 para ... kinda contradict ... not easy to draw a line
must observe and ah-gar yourself how far you can accept

if she said .. she ask but she felt paiseh or scare you misunderstood she try to squeeze you ... VS..... she just ask and said if you no give means you no love her .... any diff?

or both how-siao?

[19thhole]

Originally Posted by Rythmik

point 3, 4 & 5 and last 2 para ... kinda contradict ... not easy to draw a line
must observe and ah-gar yourself how far you can accept

if she said .. she ask but she felt paiseh or scare you misunderstood she try to squeeze you ... VS..... she just ask and said if you no give means you no love her .... any diff?

or both how-siao?

Hi Rythmik, afterall it depends on how much $$$ u willing to part. U play and u pay, either way. Even if its a decent Singaporean gal, you will also need to pay. And if you get married, you are paying for life.

Anyways, I always think if the gal ask and says you no love her if you dun give.. Those can dump liao. Dun waste time.

[Rythmik]

Originally Posted by 19thhole

Hi Rythmik, afterall it depends on how much $$$ u willing to part. U play and u pay, either way. Even if its a decent Singaporean gal, you will also need to pay. And if you get married, you are paying for life.

Anyways, I always think if the gal ask and says you no love her if you dun give.. Those can dump liao. Dun waste time.

I agree everything must pay ... I also tell that to a colleague comparing him supporting his wife and him fooling around

So if the gal ask but she said she feel paiseh and hope i don't mistaken thinking she try to squeeze me..., so far is about $500 extra half yearly, on top of what I gave to her each time we meet when she came over ... this type what you think?