How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[19thhole]

Originally Posted by Rythmik

I agree everything must pay ... I also tell that to a colleague comparing him supporting his wife and him fooling around

So if the gal ask but she said she feel paiseh and hope i don't mistaken thinking she try to squeeze me..., so far is about $500 extra half yearly, on top of what I gave to her each time we meet when she came over ... this type what you think?

Hahaha, Bro.. I'm not an expert lah.. BUT honestly, the hard part is because we know them from a very different place. A place that is basically only for commercial dealings.. hence, building trust with one another is tougher than trying to lie to your wife or GF.

Personally, I feel extra of $500 per half year is a small price to pay for KC. That's if you are measuring $$$ with level of KC. The only reason most men may feel beh song (just a personal opinion) to pay extra is most time the KC part is overrated. They feel they love this gal but after awhile, maybe some feels that you can never be long with her so dun spend so much. At that time, anything she ask for is too much..

I have a gal in Beijing. She dun even wants to come Singapore, but I still make effort to see her when I can by flying over. She never asked me for money. But she will ask for gifts. Not luxury goods but somewhat essential things that she do not own. Like an ipad mini, bought her before she leaves Singapore. She treasure it so much that after 2.5yrs she is still using it. Also bought her a Samsung Note3 when i visited her 1 yr later. Cause her S3 phone already more than 2yrs plus.. Not that type tat will insist on IPHONE 5S.. as I told her I felt Note 3 is a better phone and cheaper. Very understanding and reasonablly accepted my suggestion. Most gals I used to know will insist on an Iphone.

There are good gals out there but unfortunately they all needed to make a living... some times, if you really like her, dun think about her cheating you unless you caught her red-handed. Just maybe treat it as a premium you pay to get the extra GFE and priority feelings. Just like a person that wants to get a feeling of personalized sevice will chose to pay extra for 1st class on a flight.. you pay premium to get to the same destination but with a different treatment.

[luciferpain]

Well said bro....

[milfmilf]

bro 19thhole, 10 upon 10 for you

"premium you pay to get the extra GFE" .. is exactly what some of the "unfortunate man" need.

The fact that she makes the effort to keep in contact and give you the time and effort already worth a bit of extra. And this extra to some of us who need it, is just a fraction of our monthly pay ... but this type of money doesn't ensure the guy to get the missing GFE hweeling he needs in life

fortunate guys can have all they like ... unfortunate ones can only grab whatever comes by.

[19thhole]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

bro 19thhole, 10 upon 10 for you

"premium you pay to get the extra GFE" .. is exactly what some of the "unfortunate man" need.

The fact that she makes the effort to keep in contact and give you the time and effort already worth a bit of extra. And this extra to some of us who need it, is just a fraction of our monthly pay ... but this type of money doesn't ensure the guy to get the missing GFE hweeling he needs in life

fortunate guys can have all they like ... unfortunate ones can only grab whatever comes by.

End of the day. Live with what you can afford and whether it is worth it.. Only yourself can decide.. Anyone wants to play the KC game without being being KC back in the end.. That is like for the younger good looking and richer players.. Not for old man like me.. Hahaha..

[damong777]

Originally Posted by 19thhole

End of the day. Live with what you can afford and whether it is worth it.. Only yourself can decide.. Anyone wants to play the KC game without being being KC back in the end.. That is like for the younger good looking and richer players.. Not for old man like me.. Hahaha..

Well said bro.

KC within your means. There is always people who are richer than us.

[Keith2]

Originally Posted by 19thhole

Hahaha, Bro.. I'm not an expert lah.. BUT honestly, the hard part is because we know them from a very different place. A place that is basically only for commercial dealings.. hence, building trust with one another is tougher than trying to lie to your wife or GF.

Personally, I feel extra of $500 per half year is a small price to pay for KC. That's if you are measuring $$$ with level of KC. The only reason most men may feel beh song (just a personal opinion) to pay extra is most time the KC part is overrated. They feel they love this gal but after awhile, maybe some feels that you can never be long with her so dun spend so much. At that time, anything she ask for is too much..

I have a gal in Beijing. She dun even wants to come Singapore, but I still make effort to see her when I can by flying over. She never asked me for money. But she will ask for gifts. Not luxury goods but somewhat essential things that she do not own. Like an ipad mini, bought her before she leaves Singapore. She treasure it so much that after 2.5yrs she is still using it. Also bought her a Samsung Note3 when i visited her 1 yr later. Cause her S3 phone already more than 2yrs plus.. Not that type tat will insist on IPHONE 5S.. as I told her I felt Note 3 is a better phone and cheaper. Very understanding and reasonablly accepted my suggestion. Most gals I used to know will insist on an Iphone.

There are good gals out there but unfortunately they all needed to make a living... some times, if you really like her, dun think about her cheating you unless you caught her red-handed. Just maybe treat it as a premium you pay to get the extra GFE and priority feelings. Just like a person that wants to get a feeling of personalized sevice will chose to pay extra for 1st class on a flight.. you pay premium to get to the same destination but with a different treatment.

Bro, seems like you and your gal has real feelings for each other...I mean you 2 really do carefor each other. But I assume she has other men also and you have your partner in sg too ? What I want to ask is how to you maintain this without you or her wanting to be exclusive to each other ? Was she a WL in sg and went back to China ?

[sbclove69]

Wah nowadays KTV girls cheebye have gold ah?
Don't be dumb all will go out with customers as long as price is right.

[damong777]

Originally Posted by sbclove69

Wah nowadays KTV girls cheebye have gold ah?
Don't be dumb all will go out with customers as long as price is right.

Like u say, as long as price is right, everything is possible

[sbclove69]

Originally Posted by damong777

Like u say, as long as price is right, everything is possible

Which is why I honestly feel some jokers here are dumb. If they can't fucking keep you happy, or service standards drop. Time to change. Afterall you are the ones paying them not the other way around.

[adonis]

Hi masters. If a S'porean guy has a relationship with a WL or KTV girl. They meet a few times in hotels. He gave her some money n bling bling (jewelry) sometimes. He found her pretty, comforts him, gave him some GFE, laughed at his jokes n charming. Then she suddenly gives him the cold shoulder. She doesn't answer his phone calls. She tells him she's busy n has no time. What should he do? Try to woo her a few more times, then if still no good response- find another more beautiful girl? Offer to buy her something she wants within his budget? I know all situations r different.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Different actors, different scripts, same moral of the story. No money no honey. U hv used up the GFE period for the amt of $$$ u spent. Meaning, ur car aka the WL, no petrol liao. Time TO PUMP more! If this oso dunno, means u r KC liao! Totally y this thread was created in the 1st place!

[zedia]

Originally Posted by adonis

Hi masters. If a S'porean guy has a relationship with a WL or KTV girl. They meet a few times in hotels. He gave her some money n bling bling (jewelry) sometimes. He found her pretty, comforts him, gave him some GFE, laughed at his jokes n charming. Then she suddenly gives him the cold shoulder. She doesn't answer his phone calls. She tells him she's busy n has no time. What should he do? Try to woo her a few more times, then if still no good response- find another more beautiful girl? Offer to buy her something she wants within his budget? I know all situations r different.

Time to move on Bro.

[Keith2]

A friend has been having a relationship with a PRC WL for 3 months but still no sad stories and asking of momey from.her. Somemore she has quit the line and gone back home. Friend went over and found out she is a middle class girl with proper background. Even rejected expensive gifts from my friend. Do you guys believe there is such thing as real true love with an ex-wl with her client ?

[Sers]

Originally Posted by Keith2

A friend has been having a relationship with a PRC WL for 3 months but still no sad stories and asking of momey from.her. Somemore she has quit the line and gone back home. Friend went over and found out she is a middle class girl with proper background. Even rejected expensive gifts from my friend. Do you guys believe there is such thing as real true love with an ex-wl with her client ?

I do believe that everyone is looking for love, just that are you the one that she love or it is for the love of your money. Need to judge for yourself.

[saabking]

Originally Posted by Keith2

A friend has been having a relationship with a PRC WL for 3 months but still no sad stories and asking of momey from.her. Somemore she has quit the line and gone back home. Friend went over and found out she is a middle class girl with proper background. Even rejected expensive gifts from my friend. Do you guys believe there is such thing as real true love with an ex-wl with her client ?

i know someone married ex-WL ..but that is only after they met again after she left this trade.

Not sure about real true love..but sometimes..two people just do click and get along well....no need to have sad stories or asking of money or even asking expensive gifts..but just go out and have fun together..but not sure how long it would last though....well..enjoy it while it last..

to borrow a saying: 得失从缘，心无增减