How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[milfmilf]

at least buy things, fine dining all need $$
she throw her body out of course need $$$
if she sell herself to earn $$ and kc you but on dutch ... I donch know...
if a guy thinks and found out he only get kc if keep paying big $$$ then stop ba

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by milfmilf

morale of the story is to avoid pocket burn big hole?

As with any relationship with working $gal, dun be too gullible into believing everything she says, acts etc.
Easier said than done though, small head often overrules the big head lol

I've met some that's really my type, super chio and giving lots of TLC.
Some even propose marriage to me, but there'll always be some doubts in my mind.

Good luck to all bros currently in the KC game, always have your defense up!

[eugene_wong]

Who KC who does NOT ONLY depend on who is smarter. It also depends on
1. who needs who more.
2. who is having the feelings.
3. who can easily find replacement (somewhat like 1)

[damong777]

Originally Posted by Keith2

It's that i don't understand whats the different between getting KC by spending money on a girl and getting KC in a KTV by spending money ?!

I just think need to separate KC and money/ Need to spend money means no KC, got KC means no money talk. Anyone who think that he is in the KC game by spending money is deceiving himself ? No ?

KC is different from guy and gal to an extent
KC to a guy
- a fb or gf without need of too much $$
- a challenge for yourself

KC to a WL
- get as much $$$ with min effort if possible

So aims are different.

[korean]

my gal would like to be my little three or wife but she knows it is impossible as I've a wife and she understands and unwillingly accepts the reason of not possibility to have a divorce with my wife. As her mother is forcing her to get married after she went back to china, she'd no choice but need to get married within 2 years. She told me she will look for a man with children as she doesn't want to give birth for other man, and said in future if I become single and available she will not hesitate to divorce and marry me. At one hand I feel touch, but another hand I do really hope she will find a good guy who she loves and will take care of her forever.

KC game is really 愛與痛的邊緣

[saabking]

Omg you still kept in contact with her!?
She really fallen in love for you?
Sigh... I remember one gal cried because of me - really make me soft
Well that was remembrance of things past

Originally Posted by korean

my gal would like to be my little three or wife but she knows it is impossible as I've a wife and she understands and unwillingly accepts the reason of not possibility to have a divorce with my wife. As her mother is forcing her to get married after she went back to china, she'd no choice but need to get married within 2 years. She told me she will look for a man with children as she doesn't want to give birth for other man, and said in future if I become single and available she will not hesitate to divorce and marry me. At one hand I feel touch, but another hand I do really hope she will find a good guy who she loves and will take care of her forever.

KC game is really 愛與痛的邊緣

[korean]

Originally Posted by saabking

Omg you still kept in contact with her!?
She really fallen in love for you?
Sigh... I remember one gal cried because of me - really make me soft
Well that was remembrance of things past

Ya still kept in contact with her. I don't have iron steel heart to follow your advice, although harder than before, or else I won't be even be with my wife in the very first place. I know she really fallen in love with me after a while, she said she finds life is meaningless now, but promise won't do silly thing as she has a mother to take care of.

She is so called 女汉子，won't let me see her cried, although she cried behind my back. There are only two incidents iirc she coldnt control her tears but beneath her face firmly not to let me see. Sigh..

[Keith2]

Originally Posted by korean

Ya still kept in contact with her. I don't have iron steel heart to follow your advice, although harder than before, or else I won't be even be with my wife in the very first place. I know she really fallen in love with me after a while, she said she finds life is meaningless now, but promise won't do silly thing as she has a mother to take care of.

She is so called 女汉子，won't let me see her cried, although she cried behind my back. There are only two incidents iirc she coldnt control her tears but beneath her face firmly not to let me see. Sigh..

Have you ever ever thought of leaving your wife and just go to China with her ? Do.you have any kids ? Did u test her if she is aiming for PR status , money , the kind of sacrifices she can make for you?

[Keith2]

Originally Posted by damong777

KC is different from guy and gal to an extent
KC to a guy
- a fb or gf without need of too much $$
- a challenge for yourself

KC to a WL
- get as much $$$ with min effort if possible

So aims are different.

Agreed, , of course the usual dating expenses can't be saved. It also.depends on how high a bar a guy want to challenge himself . Try rejecting her requests for gifts, and see if she still sticks around. That should be the minimum bar I feel.

[korean]

Originally Posted by Keith2

Have you ever ever thought of leaving your wife and just go to China with her ? Do.you have any kids ? Did u test her if she is aiming for PR status , money , the kind of sacrifices she can make for you?

Yes I ever thought of leaving my wife even before meeting her or getting married especially things beyond my threshold. However it is just a thought as it will cost a life. I don't have any kids. She is not aiming for pr as she is not allowed to stay in Singapore due to yellow card policy, Not for money also as She know I'm not a rich guy. I didn't test her explicitly but knowing her for more than a year, with my extraordinary capability to read people I would say I trust her more than myself. She is willing to sacrifice to be a small three which she never thought of before, and willing to go Malaysia so that we can meet.

[saabking]

Originally Posted by Keith2

Agreed, , of course the usual dating expenses can't be saved. It also.depends on how high a bar a guy want to challenge himself . Try rejecting her requests for gifts, and see if she still sticks around. That should be the minimum bar I feel.

Yes set the bar high
I didn't buy anything thing for awhile n she still sick around
Sometimes she bought dinner too
And buy me little gift as well
Well again remembrance of things past

[saabking]

Originally Posted by korean

Yes I ever thought of leaving my wife even before meeting her or getting married especially things beyond my threshold. However it is just a thought as it will cost a life. I don't have any kids. She is not aiming for pr as she is not allowed to stay in Singapore due to yellow card policy, Not for money also as She know I'm not a rich guy. I didn't test her explicitly but knowing her for more than a year, with my extraordinary capability to read people I would say I trust her more than myself. She is willing to sacrifice to be a small three which she never thought of before, and willing to go Malaysia so that we can meet.

Did u meet her in Malaysia? She really into u then

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by korean

my gal would like to be my little three or wife but she knows it is impossible as I've a wife and she understands and unwillingly accepts the reason of not possibility to have a divorce with my wife. As her mother is forcing her to get married after she went back to china, she'd no choice but need to get married within 2 years. She told me she will look for a man with children as she doesn't want to give birth for other man, and said in future if I become single and available she will not hesitate to divorce and marry me. At one hand I feel touch, but another hand I do really hope she will find a good guy who she loves and will take care of her forever.

KC game is really 愛與痛的邊緣

thxs bro for t MV it really touches me now as wat I m .... its always fate tat met someone in t wrong time ... but should b glad tat we met n enjoy t fullest as we r together n let it written n kept in yr heart

[korean]

Originally Posted by saabking

Did u meet her in Malaysia? She really into u then

She is still staying with her family and plan to come to Malaysia after cny eventhough I strongly discourage her to do so. She wanna apply for long term stay but I told her impossible lol who knows by then she is getting married as her mum plan 相亲 for her and she just quarrel with her mum because of this. She is going to Macau for short holiday cum 还神, and ask if I can accompany her, too bad I cannot anyhow travel sigh...

[korean]

Originally Posted by loneyheart

thxs bro for t MV it really touches me now as wat I m .... its always fate tat met someone in t wrong time ... but should b glad tat we met n enjoy t fullest as we r together n let it written n kept in yr heart

Hi bro, glad u enjoy this song. I've a habit of looping a single song, and currently I'm listening to this song but another version