Your thoughts please..

[Stud00]

sounds familiar..
i would say this to your friend.
DUMP the bitch.. :P

Originally Posted by acidicavex

good choice just want to relate something or share.

It was a damn long time ago where i work in this company which rent of shop office in IMM. So came along afew new colleague. We were all young below 30 above 25. During that time our shop office is near to the IMM management office. So there this chick not pretty one but got this most bro will say CFM look. My colleague was very very into her so he start wooing her. After that i left the company and didn't receive any info of them whether together or not. But i did met the gal 1 day along scotts road. She was with another gal and a guy shopping in town. So she stop and chat with me to my surprise she was married to my ex colleague. I was happy for her and hiim although i have lost touch with them. But i can sense she was pretty unhappy cause she ask me this question (Are ppl in your trade always that busy and got no time for family??) I told her that depend but naturally yes. So she just like kept quiet but before she can say more her and the guy is rushing her off. So we bid our farewell. I thought nothing of it until i met my ex-colleague and sent him my wishes and complaining that he didn't invite me for his wedding. What shock me was he was divorce already........... with that gal......... So we went to a nearby kopitiam and chat. He say his divorce was due to his work...... (That make me realise what the gal have ask me) So he go on to explain although it a 1 sided story but it was the gal choice to leave him.

1) He was working employee..... they both own HDB 5 room
2) Gal complain want to live better as my friend told her don't work (she not higher educated just secondary level)
3) So my friend decided to sell off hdb invest in condo but the gal got no money so my friend rope in his sister to co-invest.
4) With some extra money and a loan from the bank my friend decided that he want to make life better.
5) So he went to setup his company and being from scratch as a new company everything you need to handle yourself especially in my trade.
6) So he manage to secure some good contract for than still authority before they got privatise.
7) So day in day out out he slave on the company to perform so that he can secure more contract.
8) That is when the gal start to complain even more why he always no time for her to bring her holiday,clubbing,dating etc. (WORSE still ask him earn so much for what don't even bring her out) ???? But he did pamper her with expensive stuff like bags,clothing all branded.......
9) Fight go on for 1 yr
10) 1 night he was due for overnight work so at the midnight time he felt unwell decided to go home. What he saw almost sent him to hell...... His wife was in a car in the basement carpark smooching with guy.....
11) Came confrontation....... gal say she was high etc. And since he no time for her she seek comfort outside......
12) wife want out of marriage.... what is shitty is she want a share of the condo which she never foot a bill she want to keep the car that my friend bought for her...... etc.

The rest is history my friend went thru a very very touch phase close to losing his business and facing shutdown... Lucky his sister back hiim up and wake the crap of him and pump in the money for the sales of the condo into my friend business.

End of the fact. It is not a excuse but life still need to balance out if you constantly really need to work and slave for a better life for both of your future than let her understand it. If she still take it for granted than it is time to say bye bye.

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by Criminalz

Last time when i broke up with my girl, my frd told me, dun worry, still got plenty of fishes out there and i broke down and cry like hell.......I dun fuck fish.

WTFF!.. This like Funny shit!!! sorlid!

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

I know what u mean. We don't want people to play us, so we don't play people. Do not do to others what you don't want others to do unto u. We live by that I guess.

hmmm.. but i didn't play with her le.. then i still get played..
!@$@!$!@!!!!!!!!

[LoveAngel]

Originally Posted by bloopz

.... cheating IS cheating. when someone cheats, this just means they do not have a will which is strong enough to resist temptations.. bad news is - temptation is everywhere.

I live by this: If i know I can't resist temptation, i will just avoid the temptation. Works quite fine for me actually.

Originally Posted by relaxguy

be too jaded, just be enough to understand the law and then be the person you want to be. be yourself, be presistent enough and always know that there are people out there like us. just be geninune, do what is right and dont really care what others think.

in the end its only yourself. hey, we should meet up again sometime.

Originally Posted by blohsg

It's hard to see what games the other side is playing. Especially when you're deep in it ... the waters could be nice and warm ... you dun see it till someone hits you over the head with a bat ...

I'm darn sick of these games ....
Mind games .... Mind fxxk .... whatever ....
Can never fully comprehend the 'law' here on SBF..... all the unspoken rules of the 'game'. What can say, what cannot say, what can do, what cannot do ....
Guess this is way out of my league..

Well said Blower: 'the waters could be nice and warm ... you dun see it till someone hits you over the head with a bat ...'

[hickeybites]

Originally Posted by blohsg

It's hard to see what games the other side is playing. Especially when you're deep in it ... the waters could be nice and warm ... you dun see it till someone hits you over the head with a bat ...

Originally Posted by LoveAngel

I'm darn sick of these games ....
Mind games .... Mind fxxk .... whatever ....
Can never fully comprehend the 'law' here on SBF..... all the unspoken rules of the 'game'. What can say, what cannot say, what can do, what cannot do ....
Guess this is way out of my league..

Both of u summed it up well...
Guess it also relates to TS's ex & his past situation (btw TS ~ happy that u've moved on & it's great that u've removed urself from the toxic situation! )
Sometimes easier said than done - to see & recognize the fucking-mind-games being executed; & decide either to play along OR to just get the hell away.
Saying what you mean & meaning what you say -- guess this is no longer in fashion huh?

[blohsg]

hmmm ... what's mind fucking btw exactly ?

Some form of manipulation and saying what you don't mean ?

Been hearing stories about such situation like you mentioned hickeyB ... victim was totally blindsided ...

[MonteCristo]

Originally Posted by Stud00

It's been almost a month since my break up with my ex..
I just wanna say thank you to all the bros and sis in the forum who offered encouragements and advices... u know who u r.

And i stand here today, telling all those that might be going through the same fate or worst then me, that there is always a light in the midst of the darkness!

i quote..
If u're brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward u with a new hello. -Paulo Coelho..

It is heartening to know that you are on your way out of the mess and starting to recover. You have my admiration for your soldiering on and not succumbing to self-pity when things happen. People around you can give you good advice, but in the end, the battle is fought only by you alone.

I do believe that every setback/pain on the journey to obtaining (riches, fame, power, love, health, fitness, etc) is just a test to see how great your resolve is in obtaining the object of your desires. Have determination and courage, and you will not miss out on the next hello life sends on your way. Be positive!

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by MonteCristo

It is heartening to know that you are on your way out of the mess and starting to recover. You have my admiration for your soldiering on and not succumbing to self-pity when things happen. People around you can give you good advice, but in the end, the battle is fought only by you alone.

I do believe that every setback/pain on the journey to obtaining (riches, fame, power, love, health, fitness, etc) is just a test to see how great your resolve is in obtaining the object of your desires. Have determination and courage, and you will not miss out on the next hello life sends on your way. Be positive!

Thanks bro. I am thankful to friends who supported me in my darkest hours.. Some of them had to literally force me to eat, it was that bad.. lost like 9-10KG i think.

And Family is Gold!

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by hickeybites

Both of u summed it up well...
Guess it also relates to TS's ex & his past situation (btw TS ~ happy that u've moved on & it's great that u've removed urself from the toxic situation! )
Sometimes easier said than done - to see & recognize the fucking-mind-games being executed; & decide either to play along OR to just get the hell away.
Saying what you mean & meaning what you say -- guess this is no longer in fashion huh?

Hey sis, toxic people aint good for health. just turns your organs all toxic. :P

[blohsg]

Stud00 - well ... good food and wine with good company always helps

[Stud00]

Originally Posted by Big Sexy

i say ....burn that witch!

How could i have miss this?
ROFL..i like this!

[Stud00]

Latest Episode.

Got a call which i conveniently missed, and an sms and an email from my ex.. new bf.. demanding that i return her the money which i owed her? and also her slippers.. if not he would lodge a police report for thef..
The last time i checked, i think it's her that owed me money, which i have long written off. Is it the school holidays now? how come some ppl so darn bo liao le.

I have since lodged a police report for harassment. :X

[blohsg]

Holidays over already ... well ... unless you consider the up coming Presidential Election and National day a one off holiday.

Slippers ? LV or Gucci ones or gold gilded strappies ? hahaha

Tell the messenger boy to get the message clear b4 he starts mouthing off ...

[Stud00]

Lodged a police report already. See what other bullshit, they can throw over. hahaha!

[cleanfreak]

Wah this is really one bitch. All these bitches must throw them to Batam to be sex slave or foreign workers dormitory to serve the workers. At least these workers build our homes and repair our roads.