Thai gf asking for too much money - Page 6

chinacuntlover · #76 31-07-2011, 06:18 PM

100s n 1000s TS quite rich hor..
Anyway
she got a shop? Should be able to generate revenue to sustain her family?
I always don't understand why must the girl in the 3rd world bear the rice bowl
What the heck are the men doing? no prick?
TS
Be open with her about your finance; if she really a gem she will care for you n understand; if not, she is not a gem n TS need to cut losses..

sid21 · #77 31-07-2011, 06:31 PM

I met (and fell for) a Thai girl last month. She agreed to travel with me and I left her some money to buy the plane ticket. In the end I ended up buying the ticket and telling her to keep the money. The trouble is that she is not asking for money at all. I told her I would give her some to make travelling with me worth her while. She has to miss work to spend the week with me. She wants to start a business in a few years but can't tell me how much it will cost. I have tried many times to get her to ask me for money but she doesn't. I am confused. She either truely likes me and is not really after the money or she is a smart girl who knows I will give it to her if she doesn;t ask. The day she asks for money is the day I will end the relationship. I guess what I am wondering is whether some of these Thai girls are genuine. I know it's hard to believe but it may just be that they really are happy with a foreigner because we give them hope. We may be an escape.

sid21 · #78 31-07-2011, 06:37 PM

(continued) I think as foreigners we deserve to be ripped off by these girls. They give their bodies to us and they make us feel good (loved). I know that there is no way I would have sex with a fat ugly old woman even if it was for money. These girls give a lot and to be honest they should be paid more than a few dollars. What is the real value of love - or the feeling of love. Thai girls are beautiful. They can have kind hearts if you are willing to look after the. And how is this different from any other girl anyway. Everyone wants to be looked after. And have money spent on them. By giving a (Thai) girl money we are making ourselves feel good. We are trying to be the hero. I think these girls are the victims and we should be thankful that they let us into their lives.

dustzee · #79 01-08-2011, 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by sid21

(continued) I think as foreigners we deserve to be ripped off by these girls. They give their bodies to us and they make us feel good (loved). I know that there is no way I would have sex with a fat ugly old woman even if it was for money. These girls give a lot and to be honest they should be paid more than a few dollars. What is the real value of love - or the feeling of love. Thai girls are beautiful. They can have kind hearts if you are willing to look after the. And how is this different from any other girl anyway. Everyone wants to be looked after. And have money spent on them. By giving a (Thai) girl money we are making ourselves feel good. We are trying to be the hero. I think these girls are the victims and we should be thankful that they let us into their lives.

Hi Bro,

Good to know you are in a relationship with a thai girl too and like me, you are testing if she's real towards you.

If it was a commercial thing, yes you can value it that way. But if you are serious about the relationship, it is not healthy to base it on money. Right now, I am as confused as you are on whether the girl is really treating me as a boyfriend, but the good thing is after talking with her, I feel that she is.

Like one of the bros mentioned, thai girls tend to run to their bf for help when in trouble, but they are neither aggressive nor pushy. So whatever I do now I understand it is from my own good will.

Yokun · #80 01-08-2011, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by dustzee

thai girls tend to run to their bf for help when in trouble ...

Not only thai girls but other country also same even SG girl, but the girl should also care about the bf's ware-fare and future not only their own families.

If they really need help as bf need to help them, but not always and not help all the families and relatives

sid21 · #81 01-08-2011, 06:30 PM

I asked this girl last night how many boyfriends she has had. she said she had one long-term serious one when she was 18 then when he broke her heart she messed around for 2 months. Then she was "serious" with a tourist for a few months. I think during her 2 months of fooling around she let herself be picked up by foreigners and didn't ask for money. She was just a young girl who had been hurt and wanted to have some fun. this explains why some foreigners say they don;t know whether all thai girls expect money for sex. It seems to be true - some just want to have fun - just like any other girl.

I want to help this girl. I will give her money when we travel. But they reason I want to give her money is because it makes me feel good. If she was American a few thousand dollars would mean nothing to her. Giving a Thai girl a few thousand dollars is almost life changing.. It similar to be tipping in poorer countries but refusing to do it in wealthy countries. It makes me feel good when I feel wealthy.

But as someone else said, if you live in Thailand you don;t need much money. So these girls don;t really need to be rescued. They can survive on a little bit of money. I just want to help because of how it makes me feel. I want her to love me and I think she will love me more if I act wealthy. That's wrong. I know that. But it's true.

I know there is no future in this realationship and I would be smarter paying 3 girls a day for less money that I'll give this girl. But somehow this is what I want. I want to make her happy. I want to give her something that will make her life better.

Just in case you were wondering, she is not a working girl. She is just a normal girl.

I'm writing this to help myself understand what I am doing. It would have been easier not to have got involved, but now that I am i feel that maybe i am stuck. it will be easy to end if she asks for money. otherwise i have got myself a burden because i have thought with the wrong head

RealEstateGuy · #82 02-08-2011, 01:18 AM

Sid you would be the only one to discern if you are being played for a fool. Compare and contrast things for a while so you have more experience to make a discision. Are you worried about the stigma attatched to a SG/Thai or intercultural/racial union? I mean SG society got many people who will stare and make snide remarks.

rocketscientist · #83 02-08-2011, 01:21 AM

sometimes thai gai you meet ok ,some not ok ....depends ...

hbk88 · #84 02-08-2011, 02:00 AM

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Originally Posted by sid21

I met (and fell for) a Thai girl last month. She agreed to travel with me and I left her some money to buy the plane ticket. In the end I ended up buying the ticket and telling her to keep the money. The trouble is that she is not asking for money at all. I told her I would give her some to make travelling with me worth her while. She has to miss work to spend the week with me. She wants to start a business in a few years but can't tell me how much it will cost. I have tried many times to get her to ask me for money but she doesn't. I am confused. She either truely likes me and is not really after the money or she is a smart girl who knows I will give it to her if she doesn;t ask. The day she asks for money is the day I will end the relationship. I guess what I am wondering is whether some of these Thai girls are genuine. I know it's hard to believe but it may just be that they really are happy with a foreigner because we give them hope. We may be an escape.

1 month too short to know . . .

sammyhunk · #85 02-08-2011, 02:44 AM

Come on la bro, this is not rocket science. If a girl truly loves you she won't be treating you like an ATM n using ur money freely on her friends. Use your big head to think n not ur small head!!! Sorry if I offended u or any bros here, but I think only such strong criticism can wake ur big head up!!!

sid21 · #86 02-08-2011, 06:22 AM

I'm not worried abount anything. I just think she is too good to be true. If she was anything other than Thai or Chinese i would not be thinking for a second that she was after money. It's just that we have given Thai girls a bad reputation. I have become suspicious. Can anyone tell me how i can start a new thread

qlogic · #87 02-08-2011, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by sid21

.. other than Thai or Chinese i would not be thinking for a second that she was after money...

Then there is also Vietnam girls hehe, but why in the 1st place you fell for them, and what you want to prove ??

Redlordjr · #88 02-08-2011, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by rocketscientist

sometimes thai gai you meet ok ,some not ok ....depends ...

Did you meet any thai ger ? Pse share us with us your experience.

Johnny85 · #89 02-08-2011, 07:13 PM

Bros, this is the same for girls of any country. Some good, some bad but someday, you'll meet the one who will appreciate you.

No offence but i but personally, i would prefer a wife / gf whom i can communicate intelligently and not one that i would have to drag along (burden). I like to depend on my spouse at times :P

Since knowing there won't be a good end to the relationship, always take things with a pinch of salt.

Lastly, money is not everything but money can definitely solve lots of things

Cheers bro, enjoy while it last!!

Reservoir · #90 02-08-2011, 08:48 PM

She treating you as a ATM, get off the thai "gong tao"