how to attract guys at club?

[drekman]

Buy the guy a drink and ask him to go hotel or ur home.

[glster]

Originally Posted by Darina

At least you are not married.
I think my husband and I had not done it for like a year
I want it but he doesn't want it. He's always too tired

We still do things together and we have a good relationship, just not a sexual relationship

tats bad

[ahha2011]

First time hearing girl asked this question.. What I think for girl to attract guy is never a problem.. Cannot be ur look so cui... Throw a few winks - blink blink.. Ha..

[Darina]

Originally Posted by PoLarBoI

Yeah, my colleague had a similar problem. And because we doing night shifts together time to time, at nite nothing to do will chat on strange topics.

Her hubby always on overseas assignment, so she's a lonely housewife with no kids. I think got once we talked about sex stuff, topic got quite steamy. Then she went off to toilet for 1 hr then came back. Hmm ... so long dunno do wat ...

Seriously I pity her. Sex plays quite an impt part in a relationship.

Well both of us have to travel for our work so I'm not that lonely since I'm not a housewife but I do have needs too

Although I'm not drop-dead gorgeous I think I still look ok since I still have guys trying to hit on me and I think I'm ok in bed since I'm not a dead fish.

Also I don't think he has anyone outside since his drive isn't very high even when we were dating -_-"

Don't mean to hijack TS thread but I think both of us have the same problem and I'm still thinking if I should accept an indecent proposal from my ex

Sigh

[bleuwings]

Originally Posted by Darina

At least you are not married.
I think my husband and I had not done it for like a year
I want it but he doesn't want it. He's always too tired

We still do things together and we have a good relationship, just not a sexual relationship

How old are you and how long have you been married?

[cheetah702]

Hi Guy,

If every gals all go for super hot guys in the club. Don't you think condom business is gona crashed? My point is sometime variety can be fun.
Try to attract a average looking guy and see what happen.

Which club is good for people like me, who never go clubbing before and now find myself having the urge to go after reading all your posts.

Any club suitable for slightly senior guy like me? I am 31.

I intend to go solo. Is this a good idea?

[Darina]

Originally Posted by bleuwings

How old are you and how long have you been married?

33 and we have been married for 8 years
We're basically DINKs which I think is pretty common these days but it feels like we are housemates sharing the same bed than husband and wife

[PoLarBoI]

Originally Posted by cheetah702

Hi Guy,

If every gals all go for super hot guys in the club. Don't you think condom business is gona crashed? My point is sometime variety can be fun.
Try to attract a average looking guy and see what happen.

Which club is good for people like me, who never go clubbing before and now find myself having the urge to go after reading all your posts.

Any club suitable for slightly senior guy like me? I am 31.

I intend to go solo. Is this a good idea?

If u got urge, then prob better to go for pubs with action. Try Filipino pubs at Boat Quay, they'll jump rite into the action once you step in.

Bro, 31 is not slightly senior lah ... I'm 33, still having things good.
You're not old if you dun think old. Enjoy life while it lasts.

[PoLarBoI]

Originally Posted by Darina

33 and we have been married for 8 years
We're basically DINKs which I think is pretty common these days but it feels like we are housemates sharing the same bed than husband and wife

Eh ... wats a DINK ?

Every man has a sexual fantasy. Maybe you just need to find his.
See what works for him to get it on. Uniforms, stockings, lace, alcohol, eh ... whips and candles ?

[lilmeowmeow]

Originally Posted by Darina

Well both of us have to travel for our work so I'm not that lonely since I'm not a housewife but I do have needs too

Although I'm not drop-dead gorgeous I think I still look ok since I still have guys trying to hit on me and I think I'm ok in bed since I'm not a dead fish.

Also I don't think he has anyone outside since his drive isn't very high even when we were dating -_-"

Don't mean to hijack TS thread but I think both of us have the same problem and I'm still thinking if I should accept an indecent proposal from my ex

Sigh

I truly understand how you feel.
Mine used to be high sex drive, but eversince he started work his sex drive became zero.
I believe us his workload too much, i keep telling myself to be undestanding
even I'd indecent proposal, ill keep think shld i??
then now he suddenly shower me with gifts.
Make me feel guilty and dulan at the same time.

[lilmeowmeow]

Originally Posted by PoLarBoI

Eh ... wats a DINK ?

Every man has a sexual fantasy. Maybe you just need to find his.
See what works for him to get it on. Uniforms, stockings, lace, alcohol, eh ... whips and candles ?

done all sort of stuffs, play blindfold, wear high sock and short only but still...
he would say aren't you tired? and he sweet enough to tuck me to bed

[machinehead1234]

Odds wise. Most places have more guys than girls. Guys will settle for someone average or sometimes even below average. Women not neccesarily. This means your odds of scoring in a club is pretty low, given the competition and the selection criteria.

I would say better pickup places are outside of clubs. Like in a cafe, mall or something.

Originally Posted by cheetah702

Hi Guy,

If every gals all go for super hot guys in the club. Don't you think condom business is gona crashed? My point is sometime variety can be fun.
Try to attract a average looking guy and see what happen.

Which club is good for people like me, who never go clubbing before and now find myself having the urge to go after reading all your posts.

Any club suitable for slightly senior guy like me? I am 31.

I intend to go solo. Is this a good idea?

[block11]

Originally Posted by PoLarBoI

Eh ... wats a DINK ?

it should be Dual Income No Kids

[Bangster]

DINKs are still better than NIDKs....(no income, dozen kids!!!)

at least can still do things together as a couple...eg. go on trips, shopping, bake a cake or what..

[Darina]

Originally Posted by PoLarBoI

Eh ... wats a DINK ?

Every man has a sexual fantasy. Maybe you just need to find his.
See what works for him to get it on. Uniforms, stockings, lace, alcohol, eh ... whips and candles ?

DINK = Dual Income No Kids

If those work I wouldn't be here
He will just say "Aren't you tired? Let's just cuddle and sleep"

Originally Posted by lilmeowmeow

I truly understand how you feel.
Mine used to be high sex drive, but eversince he started work his sex drive became zero.
I believe us his workload too much, i keep telling myself to be undestanding
even I'd indecent proposal, ill keep think shld i??
then now he suddenly shower me with gifts.
Make me feel guilty and dulan at the same time.

Yeah my hubby used to tell me before marriage that "Our sex life will get better once we're married coz we will have a place of our own."

I tell you if it ain't good while dating it gets worse when married

I didn't feel that bad cheating when I was not married but after so long (and it's not due to lack of trying) I'm thinking if I should or should not.

Yeah I know what you mean about the showering with gifts or some really sweet and thoughtful action

Originally Posted by Bangster

DINKs are still better than NIDKs....(no income, dozen kids!!!)

at least can still do things together as a couple...eg. go on trips, shopping, bake a cake or what..

We are doing that already which after some time without the intimacy is kinda like good friends or room mates