Would you take an Ex FL as your GF?

[JadedAngel]

Originally Posted by eugene_wong

Actually, a girl became a FL due to character flaw. Her flaw is not being a FL but it is the flaw that causes her to become a FL.

Being a FL is just a symptom. Within her lies big flaw. Not only she does not fit to be wife, she can be unfit for other things as well. I think bro sammyboyfor didn't elaborate but I wish he will.

It can be argued that she wants to earn some money to start a business back home. Once she earned enough, she won't become a FL again. Please remember a FL can be cocky too and won't simply have affair/sleep with people other than her bf/husband once she stopped being a fl even for money. But I still believe the flaw that caused her to become a FL in the first place won't make her a good wife or person.

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Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?

[Windy456]

Originally Posted by Inun

They don't care as long as you're a free fuck

It should be initially dont care til they sick of the free fuck.......

[Cuddles]

Originally Posted by eugene_wong

Not only she does not fit to be wife, she can be unfit for other things as well.

But I still believe the flaw that caused her to become a FL in the first place won't make her a good wife or person.

Originally Posted by JadedAngel

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Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?

Guy is very sour, likely over past experiences. Wana share your story?

[iMonk]

Originally Posted by Inun

They don't care as long as you're a free fuck

yo, can i fuck u for free ?

when where

put time put place

[IKnwWhoUaRe]

Originally Posted by Inun

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IKnwWhoUaRe and what you had done!

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[eugene_wong]

Originally Posted by JadedAngel

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Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?

I couldn't recall that I have said that FL can be made good wife or gf.
Yes, I still didn't change my mind to wish for friendship with them. However, we must be on guard not to be emotionally involved. It is always safer not to befriend them as it may be road to emotional attachment. I never had any relationship with any FL.

Can a FL be your temporary gf? Well, if you are rich but I'm not.
How can we judge a person from good or bad? According to experts, look at three things
a) What is their attitude towards money?
b) How many friends they have?
c) What they do when they are angry?

A FL who is willing to sell her body to stranger failed badly in a)....usually bad in C too.......

>Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting >your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?
Why do you want to cling to the past? Why not move on?

[JadedAngel]

Originally Posted by eugene_wong

How can we judge a person from good or bad? According to experts, look at three things

Please enlighten me who are these experts?

a) What is their attitude towards money?
b) How many friends they have?
c) What they do when they are angry?

A FL who is willing to sell her body to stranger failed badly in a)....usually bad in C too.......

Based on your assumptions???


>Why in the first place you want to be friends with them and now shooting >your head off against them? KC big time and played out? Love turn to hate?
Why do you want to cling to the past? Why not move on?

I not clinging to the past but you are not forgiving of people's past. So you fail terribly if you apply to the job as a counselor or a prison warden.

How can we determine who is a bad person and who is a good person?

Judge not, that ye be not judged.

For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?

... so it isn't actually a problem to judge, as long as you're willing to hold the same yardstick up to yourself first. Tends to make you a lot nicer to other people.

The upshot is, why do you care who's bad & who's good? That's way too subjective to be a telling assessment. Treat everyone as if they're good (like you'd want to be treated, another biblical principle). You'd be surprised how many people will live up to whatever expectation you hold of them - expect them to be good, and they will be. Some won't...also not your problem.

[Inquisitive]

Originally Posted by Inun

They don't care as long as you're a free fuck

Pardon me for being INQUISITIVE. Are you a FREE FUCK?

[mambojambo]

I would say no, Everytime when theres quarrel, i afraid i might rack up the times when she worked as FL. Furthermore, Would she want to work a proper job when she was earning big previously Juz by lying down?? Or Can i feed her if she is not working??

[WhoUthInkUaRe]

Originally Posted by mambojambo

I would say no, Everytime when theres quarrel, i afraid i might rack up the times when she worked as FL. Furthermore, Would she want to work a proper job when she was earning big previously Juz by lying down?? Or Can i feed her if she is not working??

True but cannot agree fully. She might be even more hardworking than you to prove her worth.

[sane1]

Originally Posted by WhoUthInkUaRe

True but cannot agree fully. She might be even more hardworking than you to prove her worth.

She gotta be hardworking or else she will suffer during old age.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by mambojambo

I would say no, Everytime when theres quarrel, i afraid i might rack up the times when she worked as FL. Furthermore, Would she want to work a proper job when she was earning big previously Juz by lying down?? Or Can i feed her if she is not working??

from experience I can tell you there is no way to avoid this type of quarrel

some fools will talk about fair or not fair.

its never fair. if she work as a FL/WL finding a man to want her, as a actual

gf is already fair to her. She didnt even respect her own body, you have to respect her, thats bloody hard on any man.

Thats the price they have to pay for taking the easy way to earn money

[RedBullRaping]

if she wants a man to accept her for her past, she should be able to accept the man matching her score for the number of sex partners/whores poked.

[wishy51]

Telling the truth then to discover the truth is more painful. I would rather my partner to know most of my ugly truth before committing themselves in a r/s. Although the truth hurts but life is never perfect. =)

[honii]

I voted "accept her"

I had an ex gf who confessed that she was a fl after a few months into our relationship. I didn't mind. But the relationship didn't last because eventually she felt guilty about her past and wanted a break-up.