Most WL/FL likes to tell lies?

[longwinter]

Originally Posted by changping

Anything that relate to them needing money urgently is bullshit ....

everyone oso nid money de mah, who dun have money problems ne?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by longwinter

l noticed sumtinz abt most WL/FL. Alot of them tends to tell lies and lies over and over again. Any ppl wanna share their views and experiences on what lies they tell.

In my cheonging so far, encountered maybe 1 or 2 that are more truthful.

Hard to believe in whatever they say, all l can say is listen one ear in, one ear out. Jus take whatever they say wif a pinch of salt and jus enjoy ourselves as much as we could.

WL/FL, they're also human who're victims of circumstances. we'd never know/understand how n y they chose the line of work. nt as if they cant accept hardship, bt perhaps for more dire situations where it calls for urgency.... given their limited capabilities, there's 1 obvious route.

their line of work is very much like a 1-night-stand, bt perhaps with more frequencies in a day than usual. surely we cant be expecting them to be pouring out their biography to any tom dick harry. all that matters is get the transaction over n done with. besides, even if we hear their stories out, how many of us r willing to shoulder their yoke of burden?

[changping]

Haha, their urgent need is like grandfather need operation, father sick , etc ... even want to borrow money fm me .... as if I believe them .... whatever it is, I rather not believe , rather be safe than sorry ... those who heart soft or rather believe them then doubt them, it is precisely people like them that make this PRCs try their luck and come up with bullshit story.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by changping

Haha, their urgent need is like grandfather need operation, father sick , etc ... even want to borrow money fm me .... as if I believe them .... whatever it is, I rather not believe , rather be safe than sorry ... those who heart soft or rather believe them then doubt them, it is precisely people like them that make this PRCs try their luck and come up with bullshit story.

fair enough, benefit of doubt given, that there's a fraction of spellbinding story tellers & hollywood potential artistes out there. bt in hindsight, if it were true n genuine that the sum is justified, i doubt u'd lift a finger anyway.

[rocksoff]

I got zero Mandarin so not much talk with PRC (I think I scared a bit maybe, no confidence how to read them) .. but talking to Indonesian and Pinoy, I mostly found that if I'm straight with them, they're pretty damn straight in return. No super-romantic bullshit. I depend upon it that they'll protect themselves by using a working name, and I don't try to fish like I'm a private investigator.

[N E R O]

I even had a KTV ger call me say she lost her wallet and about 10K in KTV ... and she going back liao, wanna borrow $ fm me .... how to believe ??

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by N E R O

I even had a KTV ger call me say she lost her wallet and about 10K in KTV ... and she going back liao, wanna borrow $ fm me .... how to believe ??

LOL i think she meant RMB10k (approx SGD2k makes a lil more sense). otherwise u can also offer her hell bank notes. nowhere in hell can she make even 5k in such a short stint here. she thinks the man to be stupid enough to fall for it, bt she'd be even more stupid to cook up such a b-grade scam.

well, guess its quite clearcut to know the difference between a lie vs a scam.

[aczeta76]

Originally Posted by N E R O

I even had a KTV ger call me say she lost her wallet and about 10K in KTV ... and she going back liao, wanna borrow $ fm me .... how to believe ??

Haiz... if realli like that then she suay loh.. muz have been planning to go remit the money.

When my PRC MM was here, the 1st few weeks, she could average 5-7k per week... kaoz... there was once we went shopping at M5 near L11 and she had about 7K on her in her jeans (She ask me to hold on to them when she went trying clothes)

That is why I dun give her a lot of money coz she earns more than me... hahaha

Now back in PRC, dunno if she spend everything liao but I am not going to give her too much should she ask. Mkt rate, 500 Sing can live quite well in ZH for a mth loh.

Haven't spoken to her for a week liao as throat quite bad and dun want to talk too much...

[N E R O]

Anyway this happen I think last May at BS, a ger called Xue Er ... donno whether ring a bell to any bro here. She can ask me call the waitress there to confirm somemore. The money actually was what she accumulate over her one mth stay in SG ... Maybe she think I carrot head ...

[Playboy Royale]

If they ask for money just make sure they earn it.

[fullboost2bar]

WL/FL like to lie abt no money, cheongsters like to lie about no wife/girlfriends.. All this is part of the game, either u believe it or dun. Some say Viet girls lie a lot, cannot believe but we too also lie to them..just tat our purpose is get into skirt & have a bit of gf feelings, their purpose is $$. Everything comes ard..a cycle

[Saint Dogbert]

Originally Posted by Playboy Royale

If they ask for money just make sure they earn it.

Now that I fully agree!

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by fullboost2bar

WL/FL like to lie abt no money, cheongsters like to lie about no wife/girlfriends.. All this is part of the game, either u believe it or dun. Some say Viet girls lie a lot, cannot believe but we too also lie to them..just tat our purpose is get into skirt & have a bit of gf feelings, their purpose is $$. Everything comes ard..a cycle

if the gal really had $, there's more things she can do with the $ to make more $. no need to expose herself to the risks n ridicules already. sometimes, the reasons untold r best left the way they were.

even if she were to present her financial statements to prove authenticity to her claims, there's little or nothing any of us can do to assist, nt unless who's keen to take her as a spouse, share her load of burden.

[asean]

Agree with you bro suteerak ... gers quite resourceful ... (esp those PRCs) some of them, once made enuff go back do small biz or quick quick buy house rent out etc ...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by asean

Agree with you bro suteerak ... gers quite resourceful ... (esp those PRCs) some of them, once made enuff go back do small biz or quick quick buy house rent out etc ...

1 of the reasons y these ladies hardly bother to tell of their backgrounds, is simply bcos they dun want ppl to pity them. some have confessed that despite their inadequacies by society's standards, they'd still rather work for it, than to be begging for their bacons. by far, i reckon majority of them have got plans for leading a decent life after the entire stint.

perhaps some fortunate enough to find a spouse in the course of the stint, while those less fortunate resign their fate to solitude. watever the case maybe, they're like every1 else... trying to make ends meet.