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What i can advise you to do is to go see her on her last day.
Have a heart to heart talk wif her.
Do not go to a room but more like a public area and have a nice talk & also bring a good closure to yourself.
Her...errr i really dun care but you i bother.
Go there, talk to her, get your closure and then bid von voyage.
At least, she left the island with a closed chapter for yourself.
That's very important.
Because if not, you'll be wondering this & that. And that aint good dude.
Have a tot abt this, you know you'll agree.
I agree. I contemplated doing it. But heck, she's leaving for good. We have nothing to lose. right.
let old uncle here be the arse to tell u the cold hard truth...
1. if bought at those shops that have a standing offer to purchase back their sold items, it doesnt matter what u bought for them, even laptops and other electronics... even 75% white gold, although i have no idea what that means... 25% corrogated iron?
2. u already spent at least hundreds of dollars on the 75% white gold, right??? not smart at all liao...
u must learn from now on, that the most expensive bonks r the free ones...
OLD UNCLE!!!
CLAP,CLAP!!!!!
i agree that the most expensive bonks r the free ones.....
fuck.... i am in this deep shit....
Bro, mine is very different from most if not all the KC stories here.
Anyways, this week whole family will be heading down to sifu.
His word will be the final deciding factor.
Bro, you are unique. I cannot think of anyone who has a situation even remotely close to yours. Come to think of it, I cannot think of any TVB series with a storyline as interesting as yours.
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I believe that sex is one of the most beautiful, natural and wholesome thing that money can buy.
let old uncle here be the arse to tell u the cold hard truth...
1. if bought at those shops that have a standing offer to purchase back their sold items, it doesnt matter what u bought for them, even laptops and other electronics... even 75% white gold, although i have no idea what that means... 25% corrogated iron?
2. u already spent at least hundreds of dollars on the 75% white gold, right??? not smart at all liao...
u must learn from now on, that the most expensive bonks r the free ones...
ok la i know her 2 yrs liao. I spent bout 2k on her for the sex. and little things lo in these 2 yrs. Now more like friends liao. Nothing to left to KC lol.
I never really spend alot on her. And she still wore the ring i gave to her, never sell la. I also dunno whats my r/s to her. Overall still a good thing between me and her. And in this 2 yrs the only presents i bought her is 1 ring from Taka Jewellery, 1 christian dior perfume from HK, 1 claypot rice from Lorong 33, 1 porridge from Mongkok Dimsum, 1 fish and chip from mr bean and one mixed rice from coffee shop. So i dunno still im carrat or not. but i feel im not la....
Don't kid yourself. It doesn't happen that way, trust me. If you allow yourself to fall deeper into this, once she is gone, you will start to miss her and do irrational things like buying airticket to visit her in China, call her over the phone and smsing her everday, listen to Chinese love songs, think of her all the time, visit the places that you used to go with her, eat her favourite food, etc, etc, etc.
If you want to cut it and forget about her, don't even allow yourself to be embroiled in this fantasy. Once you are in it, the awakening process is damn tough.
Bro, you are unique. I cannot think of anyone who has a situation even remotely close to yours. Come to think of it, I cannot think of any TVB series with a storyline as interesting as yours.
HAHA ur rite bro.
U know actually we did tok about this the other nite about the TV series 真情 like our story more drama and sure will capture audience attention.
So, if we sell the rites, i'll finally be rich & can retire liaozzz
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1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
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I agree. I contemplated doing it. But heck, she's leaving for good. We have nothing to lose. right.
WRONG!
They always say that, but dun worry, they'll be back.
Give her 1 full year.
If she no show, i also support you to go up.
It's always the same thing, I SWEAR THIS IS MY LAST TIME HERE but nabei, couple of mths later bump into her somewhere somehow.
Check wif the bros throughout the forum and see how many have seen them re-appear and how many saw them disappear for good.
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
Bro, I think somehow if they have over-exposed themselves in a country they may move to another one for a while. Like Japan, middle east, malaysia for a start.
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Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ
WRONG!
Check wif the bros throughout the forum and see how many have seen them re-appear and how many saw them disappear for good.
i agree that the most expensive bonks r the free ones.....
fuck.... i am in this deep shit....
oh dear... better get out of it soon. but easier said than done, i know...
for the past few months, whenever i m in sg, i always call up this PRC girl to satiate my needs as my wife wasnt feeling too good during her pregnancy. at first, she said any amount will do. then after a while, the PRC ktv girl didnt want to take money from me anymore!!!
so all my "SPAWN" defences all on high alert and i make it a point to carry more cash than necessary with me. so, when i want to pay her say $200 for the nite, i would make sure i had $400 with me so that i would insist on "half for me and half for u" home expenses or for her shopping. so that she will never be able to elevate this monetary transaction status to a "in a relationship" level.
why i insist on that? cos i know my wife would eventually forgive me if i fucked and paid, but i dont know if she would do that if i had an affair outside.
hope my strategy can give u some suggestions to suit yr own needs. take care, ya?
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Originally Posted by jojogigi
ok la i know her 2 yrs liao. I spent bout 2k on her for the sex. and little things lo in these 2 yrs. Now more like friends liao. Nothing to left to KC lol.
I never really spend alot on her. And she still wore the ring i gave to her, never sell la. I also dunno whats my r/s to her. Overall still a good thing between me and her. And in this 2 yrs the only presents i bought her is 1 ring from Taka Jewellery, 1 christian dior perfume from HK, 1 claypot rice from Lorong 33, 1 porridge from Mongkok Dimsum, 1 fish and chip from mr bean and one mixed rice from coffee shop. So i dunno still im carrat or not. but i feel im not la....
not really carrot lah, from yr list of expenditure.
but do u have a conscience??? not trying to suan u, but if one day, she tells u that she sees u as someone she wants to spend the rest of her life with (from yr story, very likely hor...), what would u do? would u tell her that she is nothing but a value for money bonk??? would u accept her, knowing that yr family would never, and not to mention that fear of meeting her regular clients while shopping at taka???
oh dear... better get out of it soon. but easier said than done, i know...
for the past few months, whenever i m in sg, i always call up this PRC girl to satiate my needs as my wife wasnt feeling too good during her pregnancy. at first, she said any amount will do. then after a while, the PRC ktv girl didnt want to take money from me anymore!!!
so all my "SPAWN" defences all on high alert and i make it a point to carry more cash than necessary with me. so, when i want to pay her say $200 for the nite, i would make sure i had $400 with me so that i would insist on "half for me and half for u" home expenses or for her shopping. so that she will never be able to elevate this monetary transaction status to a "in a relationship" level.
why i insist on that? cos i know my wife would eventually forgive me if i fucked and paid, but i dont know if she would do that if i had an affair outside.
hope my strategy can give u some suggestions to suit yr own needs. take care, ya?
not really carrot lah, from yr list of expenditure.
but do u have a conscience??? not trying to suan u, but if one day, she tells u that she sees u as someone she wants to spend the rest of her life with (from yr story, very likely hor...), what would u do? would u tell her that she is nothing but a value for money bonk??? would u accept her, knowing that yr family would never, and not to mention that fear of meeting her regular clients while shopping at taka???
i dun mind leh marrying her. i have no doubts in marrying a WL. Cos i dun care what pple think. (Yes i very extreme case). But for now marriage is not on my mind la. Make money impt. My family accepts any girl i marry so they are very supportive one. No la the WL wont marry me one and also dun really love me. Most of the time i call her up in China. She nvr call me from there. If i girl loves you. She's call you up no matter where she is. No la i nvr tell her she's a value for money bonk la. More like I support her she support me lo. If i look down on her, i would not have gotten her a ring or perfume. A WL's value is depended on the presents she receives, i know u don't agree, But really ma. Don't say character wise la. If she's really valuable, pple even buy landed property for her. Happened b4.. anyway i also dunno wat the fuck im talkin liao...side track liao....hahaha. But u all married pple also very bad!!! got wife liao still go out anyhow... ahahahha thats why i dun dare get married. cos i know i will be like u guys...mehehehee. ok bye.
i dun mind leh marrying her. i have no doubts in marrying a WL. Cos i dun care what pple think. (Yes i very extreme case). But for now marriage is not on my mind la. Make money impt. My family accepts any girl i marry so they are very supportive one. No la the WL wont marry me one and also dun really love me. Most of the time i call her up in China. She nvr call me from there. If i girl loves you. She's call you up no matter where she is. No la i nvr tell her she's a value for money bonk la. More like I support her she support me lo. If i look down on her, i would not have gotten her a ring or perfume. A WL's value is depended on the presents she receives, i know u don't agree, But really ma. Don't say character wise la. If she's really valuable, pple even buy landed property for her. Happened b4.. anyway i also dunno wat the fuck im talkin liao...side track liao....hahaha. But u all married pple also very bad!!! got wife liao still go out anyhow... ahahahha thats why i dun dare get married. cos i know i will be like u guys...mehehehee. ok bye.
bro, glad u r not taking it the wrong way. i m antagonistic many a time in this forum, but this is not one of those times.
somehow, i understand what u r talking about, although u r right about the part that i really dont agree with the presents she receives. however, calls from china doesnt mean a thing as well. but there r many considerations to make when marrying a WL, regardless of nationality. so, if u ever want to go to that extreme, think from all angles first. take care, ya?
as for us married guys, we r bad. thought that is a given fact already??? so long as we can dream up of an excuse or find a chink in our wives' armour, we would exploit that weakness to the fullest. dont think any married guys here would dispute that...
bro, glad u r not taking it the wrong way. i m antagonistic many a time in this forum, but this is not one of those times.
somehow, i understand what u r talking about, although u r right about the part that i really dont agree with the presents she receives. however, calls from china doesnt mean a thing as well. but there r many considerations to make when marrying a WL, regardless of nationality. so, if u ever want to go to that extreme, think from all angles first. take care, ya?
as for us married guys, we r bad. thought that is a given fact already??? so long as we can dream up of an excuse or find a chink in our wives' armour, we would exploit that weakness to the fullest. dont think any married guys here would dispute that...
I am sure married guys will expliot wives' weakness to the fullest, at least most guys will...
I am definitely 1 of them, but i will feel guilty occassionally. I dun understand myself too.
I am the kind who need to seek great excitements, but OCCASSIONALLY, I will feel very guilty, I know that i am wrong, but i cannot treat my wife any better than normal times, else she will know I did something wrong.
BUT, the next day, I am back as an ADVENTUROUS man... hahaha
I am sure married guys will expliot wives' weakness to the fullest, at least most guys will...
I am definitely 1 of them, but i will feel guilty occassionally. I dun understand myself too.
I am the kind who need to seek great excitements, but OCCASSIONALLY, I will feel very guilty, I know that i am wrong, but i cannot treat my wife any better than normal times, else she will know I did something wrong.
BUT, the next day, I am back as an ADVENTUROUS man... hahaha
adventure.. dun kenna tiger eat or snake bite can liao. whahahah jungle is very dangerous!.
I am sure married guys will expliot wives' weakness to the fullest, at least most guys will...
I am definitely 1 of them, but i will feel guilty occassionally. I dun understand myself too.
I am the kind who need to seek great excitements, but OCCASSIONALLY, I will feel very guilty, I know that i am wrong, but i cannot treat my wife any better than normal times, else she will know I did something wrong.
BUT, the next day, I am back as an ADVENTUROUS man... hahaha
who doesnt feel guilty??? but somehow we get forgetful about it, or think that i can make it up by spending the whole weekend going shopping with her...
maybe u r the "out of sight, out of mind" type of guy... try putting yr family's photo in your wallet, the wallpaper on yr phone and even stick those neo-prints on yr phone and see whether u will think twice before u decide to call the OKTs.
for me, no use... i m not that adventurous, but i just have no conscience...
for me, no use... i m not that adventurous, but i just have no conscience...
Ahhhh, a cheongster wif out a heart.
I'm same of you.
__________________ The Choices We Make, Dictate The Life We Lead!!! The 4 Golden Rules in life:
1) 不要欺骗自己
2) 不要出卖自己
3) 不要背叛自己
4) 不要对不起自己
是你的，就是你的。
不是你的，不要抢！
人之所以快乐，不是因为得到的多、而是因为计较的少 Officially Retired From The Nite Scene
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