How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by MichaelWinn

you can never change them, only they can change themselves
i think even when she reach 50, she will still ply this trade as she has gotten used to such fast money
it is like injecting heroin, once you start you cannot stop ,you need it forever

Yes, same to many KTV and Massage Gals (but not all, of course). Knew one who is a KTV Gal 7 years back when she is still 26 (I think she started in KTV at early 20s), now she is already 33 and still working as a KTV Gal but in the US.

Many just demanded quick money!

[alexander81]

This is life.

They meet so many men in their life. What hurts me most is i offered to pre booked her for her to get a better job and because of her pride, she flatly rejected me.

Maybe i an not the best customer for her.

Life goes on for me while i continue my search for new targets to divert my attention.

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by flexalong

A fair warning to all newbies...don't be KCed by a WL....

Wow, even flexalong is on my thread! Hope you are coping well from that episode, bro.

It has been a while since I've last shared anything. Currently, I'm still very much in the game enjoying the company of (selective) WLs while resisting their deceitful charms. It is paradoxical: Why would anyone wants to test his luck in a lion's den? I take it as a form of psychological training to see how far my limits can go without falling into their KC trap. So far, so good.

Having a clearly defined objective is very important. I do not promise them the stars and the skies, my sole objective is to fish for good service to enjoy. Should the KC thingy gets too overbearing, I apply "stop loss" immediately and move on. No if's or but's. No finger pointing or accusations. I apply everything that I've shared in this thread myself. And I still refer to them from time to time to keep myself optimally in the game.

Good luck to all bros here. I am still receiving PMs from bros who wants to converse with me in private so do keep them coming. 100% P&C assured.

[Solidnah]

For those here on short term VISA..it's pure transactional. I see some old guys in HF joints throwing good money down the drain to get attention. Honestly, it's really not worth it.

[^GeNoME^]

Hi all.. Do u guys think there is any differences between a ML and a FL? I had this experience last year where a popular syt ML offered me sex upon my 5th visit (it was totally spontaneous and I had to rush down for condom). She was advertised as strictly no sex etc and told me she had not had sex for a year + since starting the "job". When she offered me to "做爱”, she was blushing and was hesitant in saying the word.

Every sessions I had with her was totally different. In the beginning I can feel the "commercialised" GFE and as our sessions grew, the kisses and the way we looked at each other changes. When it was time to depart after the suprise sex request, we kissed and follow up with another kiss shortly which is electrifying.

I tot we had something but when I messaged her after tat.. She didnt reply. I knew I was deeply KCed so I stopped myself from contacting her.

Thinking back, do you guys think that I should have pursued on? I am an average earning power guy and she never once mentioned about wanting a bf to me. Am I right to think that we had feelings for each other? Or am I a RTM too many time guy and she want to bait me to visit her more often? Btw, she was often fully booked days in advance.

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by ^GeNoME^

Hi all.. Do u guys think there is any differences between a ML and a FL? I had this experience last year where a popular syt ML offered me sex upon my 5th visit (it was totally spontaneous and I had to rush down for condom). She was advertised as strictly no sex etc and told me she had not had sex for a year + since starting the "job". When she offered me to "做爱”, she was blushing and was hesitant in saying the word.

Every sessions I had with her was totally different. In the beginning I can feel the "commercialised" GFE and as our sessions grew, the kisses and the way we looked at each other changes. When it was time to depart after the suprise sex request, we kissed and follow up with another kiss shortly which is electrifying.

I tot we had something but when I messaged her after tat.. She didnt reply. I knew I was deeply KCed so I stopped myself from contacting her.

Thinking back, do you guys think that I should have pursued on? I am an average earning power guy and she never once mentioned about wanting a bf to me. Am I right to think that we had feelings for each other? Or am I a RTM too many time guy and she want to bait me to visit her more often? Btw, she was often fully booked days in advance.

Dum think tat u r special ... tat an advice

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by ^GeNoME^

I tot we had something but when I messaged her after tat.. She didnt reply. I knew I was deeply KCed so I stopped myself from contacting her.

Thinking back, do you guys think that I should have pursued on? I am an average earning power guy and she never once mentioned about wanting a bf to me. Am I right to think that we had feelings for each other? Or am I a RTM too many time guy and she want to bait me to visit her more often? Btw, she was often fully booked days in advance.

Have not been very active here for a good number of years but this topic sure does bring back memories... And perhaps a tear or two.

IMHO, If you pursued, it would probably cost you more money in the longer term. ML or FL are not the same but are very similar in the thought process. It takes a certain personality trait to resign oneself to the flesh trade and yet try to live a quasi normal life when not working.

Go for it only if you relish the experience, can afford to pay both financially and mentally... It'll be quite a ride, virtually and literally... Something that probably can be appreciated much more on hindsight and only when you finally step out.

[surfer888]

And always know that Being that special one is not so special when in time to come you discover that she spells SPECIAL ONES as plurals.

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by ^GeNoME^

Hi all.. Do u guys think there is any differences between a ML and a FL? I had this experience last year where a popular syt ML offered me sex upon my 5th visit (it was totally spontaneous and I had to rush down for condom). She was advertised as strictly no sex etc and told me she had not had sex for a year + since starting the "job". When she offered me to "做爱”, she was blushing and was hesitant in saying the word.

Every sessions I had with her was totally different. In the beginning I can feel the "commercialised" GFE and as our sessions grew, the kisses and the way we looked at each other changes. When it was time to depart after the suprise sex request, we kissed and follow up with another kiss shortly which is electrifying.

I tot we had something but when I messaged her after tat.. She didnt reply. I knew I was deeply KCed so I stopped myself from contacting her.

Thinking back, do you guys think that I should have pursued on? I am an average earning power guy and she never once mentioned about wanting a bf to me. Am I right to think that we had feelings for each other? Or am I a RTM too many time guy and she want to bait me to visit her more often? Btw, she was often fully booked days in advance.

WL Psychology 101: A WL (be it ML or FL it doesn't matter) will never show hand first in the KC baiting game. She knows that she is succeeding in getting you KC-ed when you start to make proactive contact with her. You said that you are an "average earning power guy". What has that got to do with her considering you as her potential BF? Obviously you understand that she will place your financial standing instead of you as a person on a high priority if she assesses you as a BF potential. So the question to ask is: What is your objective in the pursue? To find true love and perhaps live together happily ever after??

Always remember: A WL's only leverage is charm and deceit. But you can't blame that for survival in this dog-eat-dog world of commercial sex. The KC-ed dude will eventually open his wallet as the WL charm her way to his heart.

[^GeNoME^]

I dun have a objective. I am just wondering why she bothered to have sex with me where I am going to return no matter wad. On the contrary, it was the sex tat deters me from going back.

I am not sure of their mentality or if you are making a general assumption but just wondering if she was the rare breed tat beats general perception. I guess this is a futile question as she is no longer around now.

[taitaikunu]

Bro,
Like to add my few cents into the pot.
I think Women of this trade, may not be very high of IQ....but on the EQ side their score should be quite good.
As their job demands them to be very good with men....
Paiseh.....for those FLs who wants to be successful.....right?
I have had some very bad attitude and service too...those are not the ones we are talking about.
If it is true, that mean these girls are very good at reading men.
So if they used these skills to get ahead, is there anything wrong with that???

Is like you going to your boss to ask for a raise when your boss is in a bad mood....VS ......your coworker who finds the right time when the boss is in a good mood plus adds more compliments to the boss....
Who do you think will get the raise??
I am sure the boss knows that his BALLS is being...ing carried;
Does he feel cheated??.......maybe yes......maybe not.

Sure these girls have the skill to KC you.....(Give you real KC.....whether she will turned it into a Trap is up to her....but you should be expect it....

Do we as paying customer demands their true love??
Just because if is within their abilities, does not grantee these FL will....LOVE you.

Cheers.

[korean]

Originally Posted by taitaikunu

Sure these girls have the skill to KC you.....(Give you real KC.....whether she will turned it into a Trap is up to her....but you should be expect it....

Do we as paying customer demands their true love??
Just because if is within their abilities, does not grantee these FL will....LOVE you.

Cheers.

bro, i think ur theory upside down liao. it should be by default she gives u fake kc aka trap as she wish, but may fake drama real execute. btw, real kc is much much harder to resist than fake kc. alot ppl may immute to fake kc but less immunition to real kc

[taitaikunu]

Originally Posted by korean

bro, i think ur theory upside down liao. it should be by default she gives u fake kc aka trap as she wish, but may fake drama real execute. btw, real kc is much much harder to resist than fake kc. alot ppl may immute to fake kc but less immunition to real kc

Bro,
Agreed with you.....


Cheers.

[Boinkboinkboink]

Any episode of enlightenment on this subject matter?

[MichaelWinn]

Originally Posted by surfer888

And always know that Being that special one is not so special when in time to come you discover that she spells SPECIAL ONES as plurals.

there is actually no knight in shining armour in this kc game,
we will never be the one and only ''true love'' of any fl or ml
all we can see is many horny men rushing to fill up her bank account