How I got cheated by KTV girl

[teokaseow]

very sad for the boy, not for the girl!

[Smeagol]

Originally Posted by cavemao

thing is this ger abit wierd if out to cheat my money why haven't ask me for money yet...

Enjoy while it last!!! Juz in case it's the calm before the storm

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by cavemao

..... thing is this ger abit wierd if out to cheat my money why haven't ask me for money yet... i mean she sit with me now never ask me for xiao fei liao and i haven't exactly shell out alot of money (yet!)....... is she reeling me in slowly???

Brother,
I am happy for you that up till now, she has not asked for any money from you. It is possible, although rare that, what you said is happening.

I had the same situation three years back, I know a KTV girl who went places with me （different KTVs）, but never asked for any money. One day, she called me and told me that she needed $4,000 to pay for her next year school fees. I told her that I was not that rich to give her in one go, that amount of money. I did give her some money for her past companionship. After that she had never called me till today, although I know where she lives now.

I could only say All the Best to you.

With best regards.

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Brother,
I am happy for you that up till now, she has not asked for any money from you. It is possible, although rare that, what you said is happening.

I had the same situation three years back, I know a KTV girl who went places with me （different KTVs）, but never asked for any money. One day, she called me and told me that she needed $4,000 to pay for her next year school fees. I told her that I was not that rich to give her in one go, that amount of money. I did give her some money for her past companionship. After that she had never called me till today, although I know where she lives now.

I could only say All the Best to you.

With best regards.

WAH 4k! lol can buy super high end computer liao haha......... ya i'm still quite wary i'll find a way and tell her i only want to be friends take it or leave it i can help out here and there but i don't expect anything like free bonks also after all they're here for only one reason but still when she behaves so sweet with me my heart............

[soul_vision]

Originally Posted by Smeagol

After reading so much, thought I just add some of my 2cents

Finding TRUE Love in KTV
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Chances are low. These girl came here to find money. If u are looking for real love, I think you stand better chance with SDU/SDS/match making company/Meetic/Lunch Actually or even City hall MRT station etc. So many bros have put it clearly and simply, avoid the KC trap. Have your share of fun and dun think too much about it.

PRC and we local bro were born and raised in somewhat different environment lah. So in terms of culture, values, morals, communications etc I believe there will always be gaps. Abeit that I personally find PRC better in bed!!! ha ha

Spend within your means
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If you have to bargain how much to bao or buy gifts for them, it means you cannot afford it.

If you have to incur credit card or any form of loans/debts to please your mms, it means you cannot afford it.

I am fortunate that I don't have loans and I am not baoing any mms. Oh talking about loans, it's also prudent not to lend money to fellow bros when you know they cannot afford it.

Everytime mm ask me how much I earn, I just reply them honesty. Within 30sec, I get marriage proposal leow. My reply to them, I already have a girl friend (not exactly true though) so no way I'll marry them. But if still want to have fun, we still can go out have dinner, party, drinks a bonk or two. This way, they know jolly well they are not to call me on my phone and also don't question me why I never call them again.

Cheating or to be Cheated??
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If you are expecting that mm will truely love you faithfully, then high chance you will be cheated.

If you think the girl you bao will reserve herself exclusively for you, then again high chance you will be cheated. Baoing mm is an expensive activity. It's NO one time NRE (non recurring expense). Make a trip to Dynasty classic any nights, go sit infront of the main hall and see how the towkays slurge on the singers. If you think you can measure up to their spending power, then perhaps you can play this game.

For me, she can go out or sleep with other guys. But between she and me, it's collateral. I enjoy her company, she gets some money and gifts from me. This way, no one need to cheat anybody... it just business/collateral.

Lastly for those scheming low lifes who want to cheat the girls' money!! Tsk tsk, you have lower yourselves to be worst than these WLs. It's unspeakable and you will have bad karma plus retribution.

All said, I'm just generalizing lah. In life, there's always exceptions. I have seen a TAM Shanghainese mm (supposedly the most arrogant and materialistic chinese race) fell in love and married one of the waiter boy. Just a young kid with a meagre pay. She even have a child with him.

I've also seen Dynasty Classice PRC singer marry a taxi drive and have 2 kids with him.

Excellent bro!

[SioGan]

KTV girls don't cheat us, we deceive ourselves. At least I did.

[just4fun]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Brother,
I am happy for you that up till now, she has not asked for any money from you. It is possible, although rare that, what you said is happening.

I had the same situation three years back, I know a KTV girl who went places with me （different KTVs）, but never asked for any money. One day, she called me and told me that she needed $4,000 to pay for her next year school fees. I told her that I was not that rich to give her in one go, that amount of money. I did give her some money for her past companionship. After that she had never called me till today, although I know where she lives now.

I could only say All the Best to you.

With best regards.

Big Bro,

You are spolit for choices liao, that's why you din bother to call her even when you know where she stays....

Anyway, sometime it is not the amount of money that matters, i think it is more like we do not wish to a robert head. Frankly, if anyone i know (i mean well enuff, be it is KTV mm or friends or siblings or etc) wanted to borrow some money from me and I do know that he/she is indeed in need of the money, i will not hesitate too much in parting this amount of money (of cos within my means), cos I know he/she will be grateful to me and we are happy to help. On the other hand, if I know that if i lend any amount of money (be it is 50 or 100) and I know that he/she is taking me a ride and will not recipocate my "hao yi" then I think i will not hesitate to ask he/she to fly kite. I would rather change it into 1rmb coin and throw inside JinJiHu, at least I will be entertained by the "popping" sound.

Sorry, talk too much and hijack our big bro posting to talk nonsense. Paisay.

Big bro, do take care and rest well. Anyway, I am not feeling that well these days... Money damn hard to make recently. Haha

Just4fun

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by SioGan

KTV girls don't cheat us, we deceive ourselves.

it's sad but true.it's this illusion of being in love once again this feeling they can give you that most ppl fall into especially if u r just recovering from a bad patch,it will just make things easier for them.

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by SioGan

KTV girls don't cheat us, we deceive ourselves. At least I did.

Very true... but dun apply to KTV gals only... any WL oso...

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by cavemao

WAH 4k! lol can buy super high end computer liao haha......... ya i'm still quite wary i'll find a way and tell her i only want to be friends take it or leave it i can help out here and there but i don't expect anything like free bonks also after all they're here for only one reason but still when she behaves so sweet with me my heart............

Brother,

Actually, I have only given you an abridge version of what was happening. If she were really in need of money to study, I do not mind helping her more. Looking at the phone she was using, the bags and the dresses, I wonder whether she could save on those things and pay for her school fees. Like my good buddy, Bro Just4fun, I would have helped her in education, if the need were genuine. We can never be too careful.

Bro OP has a point, it does not apply only to KTV girls, but WL as well.

My 2 cent worth.

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by just4fun

Big Bro,

You are spolit for choices liao, that's why you din bother to call her even when you know where she stays....

Anyway, sometime it is not the amount of money that matters, i think it is more like we do not wish to a robert head. Frankly, if anyone i know (i mean well enuff, be it is KTV mm or friends or siblings or etc) wanted to borrow some money from me and I do know that he/she is indeed in need of the money, i will not hesitate too much in parting this amount of money (of cos within my means), cos I know he/she will be grateful to me and we are happy to help. On the other hand, if I know that if i lend any amount of money (be it is 50 or 100) and I know that he/she is taking me a ride and will not recipocate my "hao yi" then I think i will not hesitate to ask he/she to fly kite. I would rather change it into 1rmb coin and throw inside JinJiHu, at least I will be entertained by the "popping" sound.

Sorry, talk too much and hijack our big bro posting to talk nonsense. Paisay.

Big bro, do take care and rest well. Anyway, I am not feeling that well these days... Money damn hard to make recently. Haha

Just4fun

Bro Just4fun,
As usual, you write in a just way with good reasoning, that I cannot stop myself from agreeing with you totally, except on the part that I am spoilt for choices. Hahaha.. You forget that I am an old man.

To be honest, this girl is still, by now, the most beautiful one that I have met. My buddies in Singapore agree so, they used to call her Koala, as when we were together, she would hug me tight tight all night long other than when she had to do other necessary chore. Alas! she is spoilt and she has a lavish life style, and I do not mind helping her in education, but I do mind paying for her luxury life.

Money is hard to come by now in China. I agree totally with you. The Chinese are getting smarter and they are now connected well to the west. You and I have been in China all these years (for me, close to 15 years), and have witnessed the transformation. If we are still living in our Singapore ways in life style and ways of doing business, we will be side-lined pretty soon, or even had been side-lined. There will be a change in my works in Shanghai, and I will share with you more when I am there. I shall be in May 2007, and if you happen to be around, do give me a call, or pm me. I shall be more than happy to meet you.

Regards.

Still same old PTR

[S3vw]

Quote from a wise man: it take two to clap
一个拍掌是打不响的.......

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by SioGan

KTV girls don't cheat us, we deceive ourselves. At least I did.

sad but true............................

[cavemao]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

it's sad but true.it's this illusion of being in love once again this feeling they can give you that most ppl fall into especially if u r just recovering from a bad patch,it will just make things easier for them.

bro sjg you're really perceptive..... yeah i went through a horrible break up with some sg girl last year (cheat on me etc etc ) so when i meet this prc girl who seemingly doesn't demand anything from me (so far all the money i spend on her is on my own initiative she didn't even drop a hint or ask directly) my heart melt liao.. almost feels like 无条件的爱...... almost surreal in a way... anyway she got at most two weeks left in sg depending on how her re-entry goes so i'll just treasure watever remaining time i have lor...... she said she's not coming back anytime soon until near year end to celebrate her birthday and work at the same time.......

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by SioGan

KTV girls don't cheat us, we deceive ourselves. At least I did.

Brother,

It is true, but she might have initiated the move that makes us deceive ourselves. I appreciate deeply for your frankness.
Well said!

My 2 cent worth.

PTR