Tieng Viet lovers club

[jackbl]

Originally Posted by vietboy

No comments thay giao jack? Am waiting for yur guidance.

Need time to verify thru.... so that it will be accurate. BTW, u got a bx, if she verify for u, will be more accurate than me

[sympak]

Originally Posted by jackbl

Yes.... Happy Fucking for u too

These few weeks..like no much gers leh..go joo chiat drink..jio gers go..they dont want..lan lan very boring..go geylang drink with friends and who know..all the gers go down to geylang work!

In geylang..jio them go..they told me..overnight $250!
I think now a days..those VN gers are getting smarter..

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i can point to you
but seems like you already stereotyped that all vb(WL) cannot be trusted...

I am not stereotyping the WL...it is a true fact...

KT, you had so many WLs before and you should know...you played their feelings and in fact cheated on them...so when you encountered one or two who can be trusted in your opinion but you dun know that these WLs in order to be with you they cheated other clients...these for a fact you will not know or even you know you are happy becuz you only wan to screw them for your pleasure...anyway you have your own stereotyping and I have mine..so let's keep it that way...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

i teach her but also must depends on how much she pick up. i may be her 1st target XNN is at least better than force herself to go open leg just to pay back debt to boss.

you see what I had meant...prove my point...

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

toi kg muon chet som

KT...let me tell you that karma happened...you cheat on your bx and dun be surprised she does it to you...you cannot tell...so have mercy...I am not cursing you and this is my 2 cents worth...

[dingding75]

Bros need some help here,
em bun lam anh oi - bun should be short spelling of buon so she saying "she very sad" anh refer to me but what is oi?

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by dingding75

Bros need some help here,
em bun lam anh oi - bun should be short spelling of buon so she saying "she very sad" anh refer to me but what is oi?

anh oi is a way to call you oi...no meaning...just make it sound sweeter or nicer...

buon can also meant boring...

[vietboy]

Originally Posted by dingding75

Bros need some help here,
em bun lam anh oi - bun should be short spelling of buon so she saying "she very sad" anh refer to me but what is oi?

Yes bun is Gen Z for buon. Oi is just an expression. Much like 啊&呀.
U have TV in yur siggy thought u should know.

Just realised it is the lyrics of "Anh Khac Hay Em Khac"

[dingding75]

cam on bros Hurricane88 & vietboy

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

you see what I had meant...prove my point...

not proven becoz i know her and you don't

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

KT...let me tell you that karma happened...you cheat on your bx and dun be surprised she does it to you...you cannot tell...so have mercy...I am not cursing you and this is my 2 cents worth...

the karma is i will pay back my bx with my second half of my life...

[jackbl]

The “pregnant student hamlet” in the university village
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VietNamNet Bridge – “Cohabiting” has become the familiar concept to many students nowadays. Therefore, the existence of a “pregnant student hamlet” in the university village does not surprise anyone.

Nguyen Hoang Son, a student of the Information Technology University, introduced himself as a married man. “We loved each other too much. And my girlfriend, also a student, became pregnant,” Son recalled the love story.

“My wife gave up lessons for two weeks after she realized the pregnancy. She later returned to class, but she had to use every trick to hide the pregnancy. Then we were allowed to get married, because the parents understood that they had no other choice.” He added.

The problem is that a lot of student couples have been living together for a long time, but they parents do not know anything about that. Tan, a fourth year student of the HCM City University of Social Sciences and Humanity, related that one day, his parents went to the city for healthcare and dropped into his rent room to see how the son lived.

As Tan did not want his parents to know that he was living with a girlfriend, he and the girl decided to “evacuate” to other rooms. However, right after the parents left for the home village, Tan and his girlfriend have “reunited.”

Cohabiting has become the choice of many students, including Tan and Son. Therefore, a “pregnant student hamlet” has arisen next to the University of Social Sciences and Humanity. The students in pregnancy move there to live, because here they can receive the sympathy from others who are in the same conditions. Meanwhile, they do not want to be disregarded by their friends.

The pregnant student village comprises many student families as well. After getting birth to children, the students can form up families.

Most of the families have to live in difficulties, because they not only have to follow studying, but also have to take care for the families and earn money to grow the children.

When reporters came to visit a couple, they could see with they eyes, the big challenges the couple has to face. There were only several simple things used for the basic needs: a bookcase that served the study of parents, and some children toys. The meals were plain with just vegetables, soya curds.

The husband said that in the past, he and his wife sometimes went out to cafes. However, since the child was born, they have to cut down all unnecessary expenses. He also admitted that he still lives on the money remitted by the parents.

The atmosphere of the pregnant student hamlet seems to be a little different from other rent rooms. People here share difficulties and help each other in their lives.

In a small room with things lying about in disorder and in the way, Ngan, a mother was seen giving a baby a breast. “You should go upstairs to feed the child. We have guests today,” Hoang, her husband said.

However, Ngan did not want to go upstairs, because it was too hot there, which might cause diseases for the child.

Hoang said that his wife has stayed off from school and she would only return to school when the child gets older and he can live with the grandparents.

He admitted that they have been living together without any wedding. As they are jobless, they have been living in big difficulties. In the past, Hoang sometimes smoked, but now, the budget for cigarettes has been reserved to buy food for the child.

Source: Infonet

[jackbl]

A salute to female Vietnamese friends for Women’s Day
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When I first came to Vietnam in 2006, almost accidently during a long journey though Southern Asia, I fell in love with the place in barely two weeks. I stood on a small bridge overlooking a quiet, winding river just before you get to Cua Dai Beach, Hoi An, and decided I wanted to live here.


Why? Why would I want to give up a comfortable life in Australia for a rougher existence? One part of it, I suspect, was the women. I do not mean lust or love. I simply mean their niceness and beauty. I haven’t been married for a long time, but I didn’t come here looking for a wife or a wild time, so the attractiveness of the Vietnamese woman slowly grew on me over time.

Who could not feel something when they see high school girls riding bikes in long, perfect, shining white Ao Dao, looking like a slow motion movie of sea gulls flying across the rice fields…?

As I toured the countryside, I noticed more and more that women were working everywhere and doing jobs I’ve never seen Australian women do. Building houses and factories, roaring down the highway with the chickens on an old Honda, walking miles with bamboo baskets balanced across their shoulders, and quietly following their kids, hand feeding them.

It’s not immediately obvious just how tough even the smallest young high school girl is. You only really see this when you live in a local street and the teenage girls are helping dad by shoveling sand and carting wheelbarrows around the house, and all the while flashing the whitest, widest grins at the bemused foreigner.

I’m constantly amazed at the small, tough older women standing in the hot, humid sunshine in rubber boots, Non La Hats and face masks on building sites. One time a small grandmother carting some fruits on a bamboo pole was stopped by a large European man in front of the restaurant where I was sitting. He wanted his wife to take a picture of him lifting the fruit pole across his shoulders…he could barely lift it. The wife laughed and laughed. The old grandmother just produced one of those broad grins and promptly picked up the load and totted down the road.

As I teach around Hoi An, particularly in the hotels and Old Town area, I constantly notice how many women are the managers, organizers, sellers, buyers, owners, negotiators and labourers. The women are everywhere doing something, not simply at home or in the office. It’s often one of the first things tourists and Expats notice here. The participation of women is utterly critical to Vietnamese development.

I remember being shocked when some of my students, all young adults, but looking much younger, showed me a photo of them at a military firing range learning how to use a machine gun! There were young girls in green with long, flowing thick black hair, posing like cute fashion models for the camera with machine gun parts on a table.

Somehow Vietnamese women can project an image of innocence and fragility that is mesmerising, yet doesn’t often show the true power and intelligence that is emerging in modern Vietnam. Women are staying in schools longer, studying longer and slowly moving into more commanding positions in Vietnamese society.

It’s sometimes said by Expats that while the men will make the money the women will change the culture though fashion, art, creativity and moulding the children of the next generations.

The other thing I notice here is the staggering variety of beauty in face, body and character from the north to the centre to the south. Add to this the Vietnamese love of a joke and a more tolerant attitude towards us strange foreigners, and it becomes a powerful mix of attractiveness and personality.

A women’s life can be hard here in a country where most people still live in the countryside and traditional values are clashing with modern desires, yet I’ve rarely heard a woman complain about her life, still cherishing love, marriage and babies even if that means less opportunities for herself.

So on Women Day’s, I will think of all the wonderful, funny, graceful, kind, gentle and clever women I have met here… salute them…and buy flowers for them!

[jackbl]

Free hymen mending: humanity or deception?
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VietNamNet Bridge – Doctor Kim Dung of the Hanoi-based Thai Ha Medical Centre’s announcement of providing free hymen mending service for sexually abused and misguided girls, as a gift for the International Women’s Day (March 8) has kindled a controversy.

Many people said that the hymen can be mended but it is not important to mend the “moral film.”

Many people praised the service as a humane act while others criticized doctors to lend a hand for deception. VietNamNet talked with some people about this issue.

Poet, Dr. of Aesthetic The Hung, lecturer of the Hanoi National University, said that he supported doctor Kim Dung. He said that this is a praiseworthy and honorable act.

“The society of Vietnam has developed and the thought is opener but Vietnamese men are very classical. They still seek perfection and attach much importance to women’s virginity. They always desire to have their own woman. Women’s virginity is extremely valuable,” Dr. Hung said.

He said that mending hymens is necessary if it makes women be more confident when they get married. This is also a good way to avoid men’s doubt and grumble, misfortune and broken marriage, especially for women who are sexually abused.

“Sexually abused girls are harmed spiritually and physically. They are seriously obsessed. Healing their body can help them cast of complex to live more peacefully,” Dr. Hung said.

Hoang Kim Thanh from the Centre for Research and Application of Sciences on Gender, Family, Women and Juvenile, who is also a lecturer of the Hanoi Culture University, said that mending hymen is only a temporary measure. Using this service is dodging the truth and this is somehow giving prominence to virginity.

“Vietnam see culture still dignifies virginity, but only virginity of women. A woman who loses her virginity is considered to lose her value or seen as a bad woman. But nobody cares virginity of men. Men even see having sex with their girlfriends as the way to manifest his male sex and mark their matureness. Virginity not only obsesses women and also men,” she said.

She said that the modern society has an open view, but men still have the right to assess women. Most men who detect that their wives have lost their virginity cannot accept it so they grumble to their wives.

“Both men and women value virginity. Men condemn women of no virginity while women who lose their virginity feel guilty with their husbands. We talk about gender equality but there is no equality in this issue,” Thanh added.

Thanh, who has researched and lectured about domestic violence for years, said that just because of that remembrance, many women suffered from misfortune. Some women had to accept their husbands having extramarital relations with other women just because they lost virginity. Some others were sexually abandoned by their husbands for tens of years as the penalty for their “mistake.”

Seeing hymen mending as deception, many readers fiercely protest that act.

Le Nhan, 35, Hanoi said: “I’m a man. Frankly, if I know that my wife lost her virginity for being raped, I can be sympathetic with her. But I cannot accept that she mends her hymen to cheat me. Giving free hymen mending service is the same way with inciting women to tell a lie.”

“Actually, mending hymen can only trick dull-witted guys. Telling the truth is the best. If men accept that fact, it is okay, otherwise they can say goodbye. Once they get married, if the husband detects that his wife tricked him, he will not forgive,” he added.

Deeply sympathizing with abused women, but many people said that mending hymen can only create “affected peace of mind”, which can disappear anytime. The most important is how they live to make their husbands love and trust them.

“If you mend your hymen and then your boyfriends know the truth, they will grumble to you. You will be hurt and feel more painful than the pain you got when you were abused,” Van Anh, 28, Hanoi said.

“Anybody has his/her past. Those who really love you will be sympathetic with you and share your pain. The most important thing for sexually abused women is psychological consultation, not helping them hide that accident,” she added.

Not only protesting hymen mending, many people suspected that the announcement of Thai Ha Medical Centre is a PR trick.

La Hoan

[jackbl]

Please take note

Wearers of imitation helmets to be fined
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All importers, makers and traders of imitation crash helmets and motorcyclists wearing this kind of products will be penalized, according to a draft joint circular by four ministries concerned.

The ministries of Science and Technology, Transport, Industry and Trade, and Public and Security, is expected to jointly issue a circular to fight imitation crash helmets, most of which are unsafe fashionable helmets but widely available on the market at cheap prices, Tran Van Vinh, deputy head of the Directorate of Standards, Metrology and Quality told Tuoi Tre.

Under the circular, manufacturers or importers of helmets must register their business and product quality with competent authorities, obtain a Conformity with Regulation (CR) certification, and attach a CR stamp to their products before launching them on the market.

A CR stamp indicates that a home-made or an imported crash helmet has been certified as conformable with applicable regulations.

Traders of helmets must obtain a license for their business, sign contracts with the manufactures or importers to enable agencies concerned to track down the product origin.

Crash helmet of clear origin means a crash helmet bearing a label displaying the name and address of the manufacturer or the names and addresses of the importer and distributor; date of manufacture; and origin of product (for imported crash helmets).

Traders must also obtain from manufacturers or importers a copy of CR certificates, and ensure every helmet they offer for sale have a CR stamp.

If the markers and traders fail to comply with any or all of these regulations, concerned agencies have the right to impose penalties on them at once without having to examine the quality of their products, Vinh said.

Proposed penalties for importers, manufacturers and traders of imitation helmets will be announced by the circular drafting board in the near future.

As for helmets users, wearing an imitation helmet while riding motorbikes will be considered as not wearing a helmet and they will be fined at a proposed rate of VND100,000-200,000 (US$9.6).

One of the objectives of the circular is to help consumers to differentiate genuine and safe helmets from imitation ones, which fail to meet quality standards and safety regulations, Vinh said, adding that relevant agencies should call on consumers to boycott imitation helmets.

Once the circular is issued, all imitation helmets on the market will be handled by competent agencies, Vinh said.

The circular drafting board are collecting opinions from the public and relevant agencies about the circular's contents.

[Honey Boon]

is not that they are getting smarter.... just that many bros spoilt the market

Originally Posted by sympak

In geylang..jio them go..they told me..overnight $250!
I think now a days..those VN gers are getting smarter..