How I got cheated by KTV girl - Page 69

newbadass · #**1021** 29-04-2007, 02:43 AM

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Originally Posted by SioGan

KTV girls don't cheat us, we deceive ourselves. At least I did.

Exactly what I've always said. A man's ego is his greatest enemy. It will impair his ability to make rational decisions every time.

PuTonRen · #**1022** 29-04-2007, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by newbadass

Exactly what I've always said. A man's ego is his greatest enemy. It will impair his ability to make rational decisions every time.

This ego is called "Ego of Possession" - You though that you posses her by supporting her financially and later found out that you are not the unique owner.

My 2 cent worth

Cum_Luver · #**1023** 29-04-2007, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by S3vw

Quote from a wise man: it take two to clap
一个拍掌是打不响的.......

bro, u r right....
ni qin wo yuan

newbadass · #**1024** 29-04-2007, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

This ego is called "Ego of Possession" - You though that you posses her by supporting her financially and later found out that you are not the unique owner.

My 2 cent worth

Not neccessarily.
Mostly I see another type of ego at work. It is called the "Ego of Conquest".

The chiongster is not interested in the girl, but it makes him proud if the girl shows she is interested in him. So he tries to play a bit of mind games, tries to reel the WL in slowly so that she can continue to feed his ego. All the while, he thought he is the fisherman when actually he is the fish.

This kind lagi more dangerous, because the WL doesn't need the man to be in love with her. She only needs the man to be in love with himself!

Ahh_Boi · #**1025** 30-04-2007, 12:05 AM

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Originally Posted by newbadass

The chiongster is not interested in the girl, but it makes him proud if the girl shows she is interested in him. So he tries to play a bit of mind games, tries to reel the WL in slowly so that she can continue to feed his ego. All the while, he thought he is the fisherman when actually he is the fish.

In short,

The predator becomes the prey

PuTonRen · #**1026** 30-04-2007, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by newbadass

Not neccessarily.
Mostly I see another type of ego at work. It is called the "Ego of Conquest".

The chiongster is not interested in the girl, but it makes him proud if the girl shows she is interested in him. So he tries to play a bit of mind games, tries to reel the WL in slowly so that she can continue to feed his ego. All the while, he thought he is the fisherman when actually he is the fish.

This kind lagi more dangerous, because the WL doesn't need the man to be in love with her. She only needs the man to be in love with himself!

Well, on emotion, there are many factors that inter-play. Some factors enforce others, some further complicate the issue. I agree on the Ego of Conquest is one of the main ones. However, Ego of Possession will result in the hardest hit when the man finds out that he is not the unique owner. Sigh.... Any brothers can suggest any other factors. Having a good understanding on these factors will help us to be more mentally prepared for any eventuality.
Regards

Optimus_Prime · #**1027** 30-04-2007, 10:14 AM

All I can say is tables are turned... positions are swapped all the time...

U into her now... later it's she into u... later still it's both into each other.. later it's both hate each other...

when come to such things... easy come easy go...

To be placed into perspective, u just need to listen some of the gal-talk of such ktv gals.. talking abt which guy they are kc-ing now... it's far worse than what u can ever think.

mahalosux · #**1028** 30-04-2007, 10:25 AM

Dunno why..come out with one more theory....

' If in the 1st place..your intention is to cheat....you will end up being cheated instead!'

PuTonRen · #**1029** 30-04-2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

All I can say is tables are turned... positions are swapped all the time...

U into her now... later it's she into u... later still it's both into each other.. later it's both hate each other...

when come to such things... easy come easy go...

To be placed into perspective, u just need to listen some of the gal-talk of such ktv gals.. talking abt which guy they are kc-ing now... it's far worse than what u can ever think.

Well said, Bro OP,

To understand the devils, hear it from the devils. One thing I learnt all these years is "Dancing with the wolves".

My 2 cent worth.

Optimus_Prime · #**1030** 30-04-2007, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

To understand the devils, hear it from the devils. One thing I learnt all these years is "Dancing with the wolves".

My 2 cent worth.

I prefering LANCING with the pussies

just4fun · #**1031** 30-04-2007, 11:07 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bro Just4fun,
As usual, you write in a just way with good reasoning, that I cannot stop myself from agreeing with you totally, except on the part that I am spoilt for choices. Hahaha.. You forget that I am an old man.

Money is hard to come by now in China. I agree totally with you. The Chinese are getting smarter and they are now connected well to the west. You and I have been in China all these years (for me, close to 15 years), and have witnessed the transformation. If we are still living in our Singapore ways in life style and ways of doing business, we will be side-lined pretty soon, or even had been side-lined. There will be a change in my works in Shanghai, and I will share with you more when I am there. I shall be in May 2007, and if you happen to be around, do give me a call, or pm me. I shall be more than happy to meet you.

Regards.

Still same old PTR

Big bro,

You are indeed the man that youngster like myself in china shld look upon to. You have seen china back in the 90s to now.... What you have learnt in your previous years in dealing with the local chinese (i mean no only MM

) is something that money cant buy. I will be most happy to call upon urself if u r in shanghai during may. A glass of good green tea on me...ok???

You might be an old man...but a charming 1...

Just4fun

just4fun · #**1032** 30-04-2007, 11:08 AM

double post

cavemao · #**1033** 30-04-2007, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

To be placed into perspective, u just need to listen some of the gal-talk of such ktv gals.. talking abt which guy they are kc-ing now... it's far worse than what u can ever think.

aaahhhh if only i can understand their accent

bro OP have you ever kena KC before???

PuTonRen · #**1034** 30-04-2007, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Optimus_Prime

I prefering LANCING with the pussies

Haha...Brother, Do it while you still can!

cavemao · #**1035** 30-04-2007, 02:49 PM

sigh the girl i kc-ing couldn't get visa to go malaysia have to fly back to china now (like right at this moment) didn't know i'll miss her until the thought hit me tat she won't be back till 6 months later