Thai gf asking for too much money - Page 7

MaMister · #91 03-08-2011, 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by sibaysong4u

I only Finger the ger while shes talking to the other carrots on the phone.

Care to share the content on what she say? Maybe i am one of the carrot...

joedavid · #92 03-08-2011, 08:55 AM

Yes she is taking you as a money tree. In their mind, you are rich and your action actually help to reinforce the idea.

I do not think she will return you the money. Or she might return a bit just to regain your trust. What you need to do is to give less and less and even sometime say cannot. Then you watch her reaction.

I do not know her so I cannot say with certainty. But as Snr Bro had said, they are a master in deception.

sibaysong4u · #93 03-08-2011, 09:45 AM

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Originally Posted by MaMister

Care to share the content on what she say? Maybe i am one of the carrot...

Luv u mak mak,I no working,I miss u,phone no battery........Finally parents sick need more $$$$$$$$$$

RealEstateGuy · #94 03-08-2011, 02:07 PM

Brother you need to remove yourself from the situation immediately and regain your sanity. She is using you until the tires wear out and then she moves on to the next financial vehicle. For all you know she could have a portfolio of assets (guys) producing free cash flow in aggregagte at least 10x what you are providing her alone. What is happening to you is incredible. I hope you have the foresight and wisdom to escape before you lose everything. This is the kind of stuff you read about on SBF or in the newspapers when its after the fact. Get a grip on the situation. It's a real time crisis and you cant make a decision to save your hide.

arsenal_84 · #95 06-08-2011, 01:17 AM

give only what you can afford when it becomes too much to bear then you really need to voice out to her.
or else is time to cut your losses...

fulham · #96 06-08-2011, 08:05 PM

I thought it seems pretty clear cut she doesn't see you as a long term material for her, if not she won't try so hard to suck your $$$.

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When we go on tours, she would ask her friends along (thai couples) but seems like she always end up paying (with my money). She likes to treat her friends and I seem to be the one paying for that. I have no idea what she was doing, even though the money was not a big deal in our country.

So sometimes I wonder about the perception she has of me. I like to be treated as an equal, but she seems to be less sensitive on how my money was spent. However, she seems to be very sensitive on how her thai friends might have problems paying for this and that. Anyway, I told myself not to worry about it.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #97 16-08-2011, 10:51 AM

TS, Wa-say! What's with your new thread below sial?

http://sbf.directory/showthr...47#post6237647

Have you gone-seow liao?

ThaiBeautiful · #98 16-08-2011, 11:05 AM

money is a bottomless pit.......

If you keep on giving money, do you actually think you are feeding her fish, than teaching her how to fish?

very soon, your money will be gone, and she will be off to find another fishmonger feeding her fish too.
if you're really a fishmonger, be SELFISH

I have customers who are giving money to my ex-girls, just to prevent them from coming back to SG to work. It's only a matter of time, how long they can substain their relationship.... when the girl need money again, and the guy cant give, the girl will come back work. It's HARD to bao a girl, let alone a THAI girl.

Think for yourself before you think for others. You're miles apart... what do you know about her lifestyle? She might be spending your money for some other guys instead in thailand...

good luck, TS. and please don't go crazy, seeking for supermodel FBs....

sammyboyfor · #99 16-08-2011, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by ThaiBeautiful

I have customers who are giving money to my ex-girls, just to prevent them from coming back to SG to work. It's only a matter of time, how long they can substain their relationship.... when the girl need money again, and the guy cant give, the girl will come back work. It's HARD to bao a girl, let alone a THAI girl.

You should perform an IQ test on your clientele before you let them book your girls.

dustzee · #**100** 16-08-2011, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by ThaiBeautiful

money is a bottomless pit.......

If you keep on giving money, do you actually think you are feeding her fish, than teaching her how to fish?

very soon, your money will be gone, and she will be off to find another fishmonger feeding her fish too.
if you're really a fishmonger, be SELFISH

I have customers who are giving money to my ex-girls, just to prevent them from coming back to SG to work. It's only a matter of time, how long they can substain their relationship.... when the girl need money again, and the guy cant give, the girl will come back work. It's HARD to bao a girl, let alone a THAI girl.

Think for yourself before you think for others. You're miles apart... what do you know about her lifestyle? She might be spending your money for some other guys instead in thailand...

good luck, TS. and please don't go crazy, seeking for supermodel FBs....

Ah thanks for your concern bros. Apparently some bros think I gone siao cos of my other post. Hahaha.... that was just a joke

Well I guess I should be doing some updates:

1) Surprisingly, my gf took the initiative to return me a portion of the money after she sensed I was upset.

2) Of course, that might be a ruse like some bros mentioned so I'll still be careful

3) She brought me an expensive tie on my Birthday!

4) Our relationship seems sweeter than before.

At this stage, I really do not want to suspect her again in the future and to do that, I must not send her anymore money. I think it's fair if the man pays for the dinner and some shopping, but I won't be part of the solution to her family debt anymore.

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #**101** 16-08-2011, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You should perform an IQ test on your clientele before you let them book your girls.

IMHO, It's not the girl fault atall. It's more like a question on the client's EQ than IQ

sammyboyfor · #**102** 16-08-2011, 11:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Ichigo_Kurosaki

IMHO, It's not the girl fault atall. It's more like a question on the client's EQ than IQ

Nowhere did I say the fault lies with the girls.

IQ and EQ are linked. A reasonable EQ score is possible only if basic IQ levels have been met.

It would also help if all clients were made to read this post and sign off that they have read and understood the contents.

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=148840

Ichigo_Kurosaki · #**103** 16-08-2011, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

.....It would also help if all clients were made to read this post and sign off that they have read and understood the contents.

http://sbf.directory/showthread.php?t=148840

Anyway when passions overwhelm reason, it is a tradegy of errors

Most of us have walked this path before

cheekies · #**104** 16-08-2011, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by dustzee

Ah thanks for your concern bros. Apparently some bros think I gone siao cos of my other post. Hahaha.... that was just a joke

Well I guess I should be doing some updates:

1) Surprisingly, my gf took the initiative to return me a portion of the money after she sensed I was upset.

2) Of course, that might be a ruse like some bros mentioned so I'll still be careful

3) She brought me an expensive tie on my Birthday!

4) Our relationship seems sweeter than before.

At this stage, I really do not want to suspect her again in the future and to do that, I must not send her anymore money. I think it's fair if the man pays for the dinner and some shopping, but I won't be part of the solution to her family debt anymore.

Here we go again..!!!

Barton · #**105** 16-08-2011, 04:32 PM

Good luck ts in your foray to the thai gf jungle