how to attract guys at club?

[cheetah702]

Originally Posted by PoLarBoI

If u got urge, then prob better to go for pubs with action. Try Filipino pubs at Boat Quay, they'll jump rite into the action once you step in.

Bro, 31 is not slightly senior lah ... I'm 33, still having things good.
You're not old if you dun think old. Enjoy life while it lasts.

I think I m in for trying rather than expecting a result. Just very curious as never done it before. And the unknown is really exciting to me. Maybe I will be disappointed but curiosity kills. Lol

If I go to the filipino pub, that kind of lack the surprise element bcos you can expect what will happen. Having said this, thks for your recommendation as I also never try this...hehe... I m first timer for all this cheonging. I shall put your recommendation in my list of "Cheongings to attempt"...

You r right about the age thing. And bcos I m very new to cheonging, about 4 weeks old, a lot of things appear to be very fresh to me. I feel like I m a youngster again, in fact. Haha.

[acidicavex]

help you to get relationship to work i suck so dun want to comment.

Attach guys hmmm i think a smile (sweet sexy one) will sure attach guys to you not silly one but sweet and sexy

[cheetah702]

Originally Posted by machinehead1234

Odds wise. Most places have more guys than girls. Guys will settle for someone average or sometimes even below average. Women not neccesarily. This means your odds of scoring in a club is pretty low, given the competition and the selection criteria.

I would say better pickup places are outside of clubs. Like in a cafe, mall or something.

Agree with u bro. Like buying lottery. Must depend on luck abit and maybe alcohol helps.

cafe and mall.. Serious? Hv u tried that? got single girls waiting to get hit by guys in this kind of places?

[Kosh]

Originally Posted by lilmeowmeow

was wondering why no one start of this topic...

what can we girls do to attract you guys ??

Mei Mei just b urself. Nothing beat best then b urself.

[Kosh]

Originally Posted by Alf1977

TS, If yr bf can't sextify u, then bopian.. It's either he lost interest in u, too stress with his work, or he has affairs outside, or that he find having sex with u boring.

Guys get bored easily..

If he can't sextify u, u can get FBs for the sake of sextifying yr sexual desire with no feeling attached. Then u can still get on life as usual with yr bf.


Guys are always like that, find prostitutes to sextify their desires.. Even women now go for gigolos ... If guys can do it with other women, u can also do that with other guys.


On a side note, do u find yr bf acting weird or trying to hide things from u? Maybe he has got gf/fling other than u.. Or that the other girls gave him mind blowing sex so he find doing it with u boring. Try to wear sexy lingerie to spice up your sex life, talk dirty n just dun act like a dead fish.

Doing with a dead fish just piss me off all the time.. Machiam like a dead body
... Think of yourself like a Jap AV PORN STAR n give him a mind blowing sexperience. I can straight forward tell u in yr face guys don't like fuxking a dead fish! We rather fuxk sluts (with condom on)!!

Lol that what happening to me..
Used to b very active in sex Nw is like totally no motivation to do anything.

Everytm ask him wat wrng he say tired tired blah blah ..

[lilmeowmeow]

Originally Posted by Darina

DINK = Dual Income No Kids

If those work I wouldn't be here
He will just say "Aren't you tired? Let's just cuddle and sleep"

Yeah my hubby used to tell me before marriage that "Our sex life will get better once we're married coz we will have a place of our own."

I tell you if it ain't good while dating it gets worse when married

I didn't feel that bad cheating when I was not married but after so long (and it's not due to lack of trying) I'm thinking if I should or should not.

Yeah I know what you mean about the showering with gifts or some really sweet and thoughtful action

i would have this guilty feeling, even surf sbf i feel i letting my partner down. its not that i dont love him just that I wish we would more active in sex as both us still in our early 20s... but we already behave like 50s like that no sexually activities, no kinky stuff. everything starts and end within 10mins.

Originally Posted by Kosh

Lol that what happening to me..
Used to b very active in sex Nw is like totally no motivation to do anything.

Everytm ask him wat wrng he say tired tired blah blah ..

why kosh, darina and my partner keep saying tired?? got so tired at work anot....
don't understand why? can any kind sbf bro enlight us....

[Alf1977]

Ladies if your guys stop doing it with you, u just hv be careful coz high chance is they r doing it with other ladies/FLs/prostitutes.. Unless he is even least interested in sex before u met him..

If your guys cannot sextify u, just go find other guys to help u feel better/wanted.

If two persons' sex drive is not on par, there us when problem/complaint/flings/prostitution come in... Because your partner fail to sextify u...


Sometimes it's quite pitiful when partner fail to sextify u yet he went outside to fool around. But if the guys fool around, then girls should also fool around to get revenge.. Or maybe DIY..

Sometimes I feel sad hearing stories that the girlfriends have to indulge in masturbation when their partners fail to sextify them.. Then gear so many stories that guys went for prostitution because gfs/wives don't want to sextify them.. Sometimes I think god playing a fool .. Why don't put those high sex drive ladies with high sex drive guys together, won't they be the best match?

[Kosh]

Originally Posted by Alf1977

Ladies if your guys stop doing it with you, u just hv be careful coz high chance is they r doing it with other ladies/FLs/prostitutes.. Unless he is even least interested in sex before u met him..

If your guys cannot sextify u, just go find other guys to help u feel better/wanted.

If two persons' sex drive is not on par, there us when problem/complaint/flings/prostitution come in... Because your partner fail to sextify u...


Sometimes it's quite pitiful when partner fail to sextify u yet he went outside to fool around. But if the guys fool around, then girls should also fool around to get revenge.. Or maybe DIY..

Sometimes I feel sad hearing stories that the girlfriends have to indulge in masturbation when their partners fail to sextify them.. Then gear so many stories that guys went for prostitution because gfs/wives don't want to sextify them.. Sometimes I think god playing a fool .. Why don't put those high sex drive ladies with high sex drive guys together, won't they be the best match?

Alf1997, nice one Lol what you say is very true..
If a guy fool around it up to individual (their Gf/wife) to think whether they should do the same back.once you stArt doing that then dont regret ur action after that.

Some guys claim gals like dead fish in bed ... Like we
Girls claim that our guys tired alway to do that..

Guys like variety just that girls like too it just. need talk out out in bed wat u really want to do spice up.

[Kosh]

Originally Posted by lilmeowmeow

i would have this guilty feeling, even surf sbf i feel i letting my partner down. its not that i dont love him just that I wish we would more active in sex as both us still in our early 20s... but we already behave like 50s like that no sexually activities, no kinky stuff. everything starts and end within 10mins.






why kosh, darina and my partner keep saying tired?? got so tired at work anot....
don't understand why? can any kind sbf bro enlight us....

Lol i only know we gals also have our own Need.. I nt even married yet I facing the same pro as ur.
There could b a few reasons why our guys is tired could b due work all tt or as Alf1977 say it could b the others reason.
Sometms to a guy we (girls) are like dumb ass they thought we wouldn't Noe wat they are doing bhind our back.
It either we start to put up w it or we don't.
Girls just want talk it out and complaint abit

[cybaster85]

smntimes it is not tat guy want to be naughty is just tat little bro cant stand for the same girl.....

for me as an example, smntimes little bro can go soft suddenly when doing with my steady while can encounter premature shoot when doing wif a street hooked girl

[Alf1977]

Originally Posted by Elson

You just wanna get into her skirt lah...say so much gum lan! Wanna make ppl break up so that you can have chance to fuck her izzit? Fat hope lah...continue dreaming ok whahhahaha

I m just stating the fact.. Pls lor u think TS so naive let me F is it???

Anyway I can easily get a girl for ONS from a club, why do I hv to go for TS? Plus I did not even pm TS or what... U think I will be interested in TS?

[Darina]

Not that I trust my man blindly but I'm 100% sure that he is not seeing anyone outside. In fact I trust him more than I trust myself

Stress can lower one's libido by a lot. Maybe Meow have to see if her bf is having a lot of work stress. My hubby have a very stressful job and even before marriage he already don't have much of a drive so I'm not surprised that now he have zero interest but that doesn't mean I'm ok with it because my drive has always been higher than his.

I didn't have problems sleeping around before marriage because...hey it's before marriage. Now I'm thinking really really hard.

Anyway Meow, it is easy to get a guy at a club though you might have more luck at a pub where people tend to want to mingle and talk but are you sure ONS is what you want? If you go there along and you look ok, chances are a guy will come up to you and talk to you.

[acidicavex]

Originally Posted by Darina

Not that I trust my man blindly but I'm 100% sure that he is not seeing anyone outside. In fact I trust him more than I trust myself

Stress can lower one's libido by a lot. Maybe Meow have to see if her bf is having a lot of work stress. My hubby have a very stressful job and even before marriage he already don't have much of a drive so I'm not surprised that now he have zero interest but that doesn't mean I'm ok with it because my drive has always been higher than his.

I didn't have problems sleeping around before marriage because...hey it's before marriage. Now I'm thinking really really hard.

Anyway Meow, it is easy to get a guy at a club though you might have more luck at a pub where people tend to want to mingle and talk but are you sure ONS is what you want? If you go there along and you look ok, chances are a guy will come up to you and talk to you.

Agree if you are alone sit at the bar counter looking sexy and just smile alot of free drinks will come flowing in.

But like Darina said be sure that is what you want..... everyone have need it always one half low libido the other got higher needs.

[freezetheDB]

i always tell my female buddies

a good blowjob is the oil to any engine

[hell4lif]

Originally Posted by Johnston

Goddamn, what the hell are the young'uns listening to???

All youse gotta do is

put your hands in the air AND shake your body down slow
THEN
Hold it, bring it, bring it back like you never did it before
AFTER THAT
Keep your hands in the air while you're dropping down low
WHEN THEY see you work it out, like a stripper on a pole, pole

the playas will see you FROM ACROSS THE PARTY and leer at you while you get up on the stage and do your thang

Freebie for anyone who i.d's the song (no cheating now)

Boomerang-Dj felli fel, feat Akon,pit bull and jermaine dupri