why would people are like that? im confused

[big_cock]

support my lovely sweet sis

[PikachuDoraemon]

okay let me briefly say about my relationship.

i'm 29f and my bf is 31f, we know each other clubing, i know him less then 2 week and he started to woo me, due to his sweetness i felt touch, because i miss the feeling let guy shower with love and concern, so that how we started the relationship.

so we have been together for 3 month, but it seem like i'm getting more and more pissed, i give him alot of chances to change but it seem like is not working, i try to give up but he always win me back via sweet talk on me.

now i felt that he is lazy, high sex drive, like to go out and he did told me about his past, telling me that he go club woo gals etc etc, but i try to forget about the past because i believe he will change when we are together, some time when we go out with his friends, there was a few gals that he have sex with and sometime i feel awful about that. but after all i try to forgive and forget because its already past, as i told him, trust is given 100% to him and hope he will not lie to me etc etc.

[huhu123]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

some time i dont understand, if guys no work, then it will be very disgrace, but what if girl no work? will it be very disgrace or its nature that guy need to support her?

some time my bf is telling me that he dont have $$ to eat,transport, some time his hp bill also im paying.

Wa!!! u even pay for his hp bill? Dump this guy he dun deserve yr love, attention and yr youth. Go to the jungle and find yr prey.

Many sweet loving guys around here who are hard working, some are very intelligent and lovable not all are pervert n horny like me so no worries. There are even those who yearn for simple and pure love.

[MissBBM]

My virgin post to you.

I totally understand and I can feel you, sister.
My ex bf is like your bf too. Im always the one paying for our expenses when we go out tgt, even his bike petrol im paying for it too.
Dont be upset! The grass is always green on the other side! ^^

[jnudes]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

i'm 29f and my bf is 31f, we know each other clubing, i know him less then 2 week and he started to woo me, due to his sweetness i felt touch, because i miss the feeling let guy shower with love and concern, so that how we started the relationship.

so we have been together for 3 month, but it seem like i'm getting more and more pissed, i give him alot of chances to change but it seem like is not working, i try to give up but he always win me back via sweet talk on me.

now i felt that he is lazy, high sex drive, like to go out and he did told me about his past, telling me that he go club woo gals etc etc, but i try to forget about the past because i believe he will change when we are together, some time when we go out with his friends, there was a few gals that he have sex with and sometime i feel awful about that. but after all i try to forgive and forget because its already past, as i told him, trust is given 100% to him and hope he will not lie to me etc etc.

Sis, if you did not dump him now later you will say why i am so stupid and fall for him. You oredi 29 years old and can consider mature oredi. Although you did not tell us how he look like or share his photos with us here I suspect he must be a good looking guy.

With your current bf attitude like that want to find employment even at 7-11 also hard. Just think about this, let just say you married to him one day. One day you found out he got sex with another gal. Are you going to pretend nothing happened and want give him change to improve.

What if he make the gal pregnant? Are you going to give him another chance? How many chance you wan give him. 10? 100? 1000? Anyway the choice is in your hand. Luckily you are not yet married to him and going through the divorce process is going to be a big headache and its costly too. This is just a humble opinion from me.

[sane]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

some time i dont understand, if guys no work, then it will be very disgrace, but what if girl no work? will it be very disgrace or its nature that guy need to support her?

some time my bf is telling me that he dont have $$ to eat,transport, some time his hp bill also im paying.

In this world, nobody owe another a living especially when he/she is a healthy adult unless they are your children/parents. This is my belief.

The same goes for married couple, nobody is obliged to give a part of their hard earned $$ just because the other half is too LAZY to work.

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

okay let me briefly say about my relationship.

i'm 29f and my bf is 31f, we know each other clubing, i know him less then 2 week and he started to woo me, due to his sweetness i felt touch, because i miss the feeling let guy shower with love and concern, so that how we started the relationship.

so we have been together for 3 month, but it seem like i'm getting more and more pissed, i give him alot of chances to change but it seem like is not working, i try to give up but he always win me back via sweet talk on me.

now i felt that he is lazy, high sex drive, like to go out and he did told me about his past, telling me that he go club woo gals etc etc, but i try to forget about the past because i believe he will change when we are together, some time when we go out with his friends, there was a few gals that he have sex with and sometime i feel awful about that. but after all i try to forgive and forget because its already past, as i told him, trust is given 100% to him and hope he will not lie to me etc etc.

Sorry to say that but seems like there's not a good thing about him except that he can sweet talk very well.

What i can only say that if u want to find a serious bf, look for one who don't have the glib of tongue, doesn't know how to sweet talk. A person who talk much can twist the words and hide many things from you and if he sweet talk u, he can sweet talk other gals as well.

Anyway your post remind me of someone who always speak without mincing his words, super direct and can make you go and bang the wall x 1000times.

He is always very mean to me and say things to piss me off but at least I know he mean it, a man of his words.

The signature he create for me is very suitable for your bf!

Originally Posted by big_cock

support my lovely sweet sis

I heard many people say my bc mei mei is really a very nice person. I rather u consider him ...

Originally Posted by huhu123

Wa!!! u even pay for his hp bill? Dump this guy he dun deserve yr love, attention and yr youth. Go to the jungle and find yr prey.

Many sweet loving guys around here who are hard working, some are very intelligent and lovable not all are pervert n horny like me so no worries. There are even those who yearn for simple and pure love.

I noe u r referring to urself

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

okay let me briefly say about my relationship.

i'm 29f and my bf is 31f, we know each other clubing, i know him less then 2 week and he started to woo me, due to his sweetness i felt touch, because i miss the feeling let guy shower with love and concern, so that how we started the relationship.

so we have been together for 3 month, but it seem like i'm getting more and more pissed, i give him alot of chances to change but it seem like is not working, i try to give up but he always win me back via sweet talk on me.

now i felt that he is lazy, high sex drive, like to go out and he did told me about his past, telling me that he go club woo gals etc etc, but i try to forget about the past because i believe he will change when we are together, some time when we go out with his friends, there was a few gals that he have sex with and sometime i feel awful about that. but after all i try to forgive and forget because its already past, as i told him, trust is given 100% to him and hope he will not lie to me etc etc.

so in summary, your guy is...

lazy
loves sex
can sweet talk well
extrovert and outgoing
loves to club

to be honest there are a few guys i know who fit your descriptions, none of them have changed a bit after many years. some still single, some married but one common trait among them is they will not be bothered abt how u see them. it's either u can take it or leave it. i dont knw abt yr guy but since u have been with him for only 3 mths then carry on lor i believe eventually time will tell if he is worth yr trust.

[peanodood1337]

Originally Posted by PikachuDoraemon

okay let me briefly say about my relationship.

i'm 29f and my bf is 31f, we know each other clubing, i know him less then 2 week and he started to woo me, due to his sweetness i felt touch, because i miss the feeling let guy shower with love and concern, so that how we started the relationship.

so we have been together for 3 month, but it seem like i'm getting more and more pissed, i give him alot of chances to change but it seem like is not working, i try to give up but he always win me back via sweet talk on me.

now i felt that he is lazy, high sex drive, like to go out and he did told me about his past, telling me that he go club woo gals etc etc, but i try to forget about the past because i believe he will change when we are together, some time when we go out with his friends, there was a few gals that he have sex with and sometime i feel awful about that. but after all i try to forgive and forget because its already past, as i told him, trust is given 100% to him and hope he will not lie to me etc etc.

Its only been 3 months and he's already making you pay your handphone bills, among other stuff. So what happens after 3 years?

Besides, if he is jobless and can't even afford his handphone bill, how did he even spare the money to club in the first place? Wait... he's 31 and can't pay his own bills? C'mon... he's a either a liar or a loser.

Talk is cheap. Doesn't matter if its sweet. If he does that sweet talking schtick again, tell him to come back to you only when he has taken some action to back up his words.

[huhu123]

I noe u r referring to urself [/QUOTE]

No i am not...me a lousy guy if not, dun kn y my beloved dun reciprocate my feeling for her.


Go work mc donald or go drive taxi also better than not working.

Guys who sweet talk mostly are jerks and liar. Dun let him swoon u over with his words let his action prove to u.

[DegenerationX]

Originally Posted by sane

What i can only say that if u want to find a serious bf, look for one who don't have the glib of tongue, doesn't know how to sweet talk. A person who talk much can twist the words and hide many things from you and if he sweet talk u, he can sweet talk other gals as well.

Are u referring to me?

[ol'coyote]

wah...read all the posts already me beh tahan...
maybe me belong to old skool of thot...
where the guy supposed to support the lady/family...

anyway...dear sis PikachuDoraemon...
me advice to u...tink many people oreadi say too...
sorri if me offend u...but...DUMP TAT LAZY ASS BF...
if he sweet talks to u...
tell him when he can support himself then come look for u...
and give him chance abit...give a deadline...within 3 months...
else...can take it that both parties are free to look for new partner...

[DegenerationX]

Originally Posted by ol'coyote

if he sweet talks to u...
tell him when he can support himself then come look for u...
and give him chance abit...give a deadline...within 3 months...
else...can take it that both parties are free to look for new partner...

yes. I do agree with old woofy. This is very true. Give him a timeline, if he can find a job and start working within this timeline, then you can consider giving him a chance. Otherwise, bye bye

[comfortjoo]

Originally Posted by huhu123

I noe u r referring to urself

No i am not...me a lousy guy if not, dun kn y my beloved dun reciprocate my feeling for her.


Go work mc donald or go drive taxi also better than not working.

Guys who sweet talk mostly are jerks and liar. Dun let him swoon u over with his words let his action prove to u.[/QUOTE]

taxi now very good $
my friend also taxi man
make 8k per mth

[sane]

Originally Posted by DegenerationX

Are u referring to me?

How u noe say so discreetly, u still can find out

[DegenerationX]

Originally Posted by sane

How u noe say so discreetly, u still can find out

Of cos lah. We are rooster brothers. I know what u thinking