How to KC a WL without being KC-ed by Her

[conquer]

Originally Posted by squiggle

I got KC-ed by WL jialat jialat vice versa to her, I even dreamt that I said good bye to her when her contract is up.

Even if the girl has no intention to cheat you,. This kinda of relationship is almost impossible to be maintained given their distorted mindset which is almost biased from the society norm. Not to mentioned, these ladies got a life full of troubles. Unless you are rich enough to settle their problem with money, for a middle class citizen, this could be an endless nightmare.

[Chantelfin]

even if you settled their money problem, they may still leave you for more money in future. you should be prepare for that. true love with WL/FL is like striking toto, the odds are too low

[bluesky12]

I too have fallen into this abyss. I was feeling devastated thinking of her everyday but I'm fine now. The infatuation has subdued quite a great deal. I'm amazed at own speedy recovery. At such critical time, we must keep our head cool and gather all the brain cells to think straight. Have done pretty good read on the subject. I have analyzed and begun to understand the psychological side of things. We men tend to get soft when we sympathize with the girl. This is the result of falling into her sop drama. This did not work on me in the past simply because I didn't care so much about girls' feeling. Just fuck fuck fuck - pure sexual attraction. I believe I have grown to care about care more about others. Even so, the feeling wasn't love. It was just my own self-imagined idolizing thoughts of a perfect girl that is far from reality. I have not seen the ugly sides of her, only perfections. Love is not just about perfections but accepting the the imperfections too. It needs time to nurture and withstand test of time which includes going through hardships, seeing each other bad habits, dealing with financial problem, kids...etc

On the other hands, i do not think the girl' feeling is totally unreal. They are humans who have emotions too. However, that is not enough for them to overcome the desire of earning easy money. At the end of the day, they have a family to feed, indebted parents, lavish lifestyle or lack of education to find a decent job... whatever the reason they are not ready to sacrifice for. It all boils down money. Furthermore, their minds have been skewed and fucked badly enough to be able to think like normal girl / have a monogamous relationship. Even if they can make those sacrifices, they are much more likely than your wife/gf to go for a richer man whenever opportunity arises because they are used to getting easy cash. Are you rich enough to support her forever? How about her family and her kampong too? Are you prepared to get nasty surprises from her such as drugged, screwing around, brothers in prison, criminal family, secret husband/kids, STDs...? How about your family has to deal with that too? When they are old and ugly, do you have mood to screw her or start to look for another younger FL?
If words are fallen on deaf ears and you still ignore all the potential issues above, go ahead and pray hard she will not leave you once she finishes sucking all of your money.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by bluesky12

I too have fallen into this abyss. I was feeling devastated thinking of her everyday but I'm fine now. The infatuation has subdued quite a great deal. I'm amazed at own speedy recovery. At such critical time, we must keep our head cool and gather all the brain cells to think straight. Have done pretty good read on the subject. I have analyzed and begun to understand the psychological side of things. We men tend to get soft when we sympathize with the girl. This is the result of falling into her sop drama. This did not work on me in the past simply because I didn't care so much about girls' feeling. Just fuck fuck fuck - pure sexual attraction. I believe I have grown to care about care more about others. Even so, the feeling wasn't love. It was just my own self-imagined idolizing thoughts of a perfect girl that is far from reality. I have not seen the ugly sides of her, only perfections. Love is not just about perfections but accepting the the imperfections too. It needs time to nurture and withstand test of time which includes going through hardships, seeing each other bad habits, dealing with financial problem, kids...etc

On the other hands, i do not think the girl' feeling is totally unreal. They are humans who have emotions too. However, that is not enough for them to overcome the desire of earning easy money. At the end of the day, they have a family to feed, indebted parents, lavish lifestyle or lack of education to find a decent job... whatever the reason they are not ready to sacrifice for. It all boils down money. Furthermore, their minds have been skewed and fucked badly enough to be able to think like normal girl / have a monogamous relationship. Even if they can make those sacrifices, they are much more likely than your wife/gf to go for a richer man whenever opportunity arises because they are used to getting easy cash. Are you rich enough to support her forever? How about her family and her kampong too? Are you prepared to get nasty surprises from her such as drugged, screwing around, brothers in prison, criminal family, secret husband/kids, STDs...? How about your family has to deal with that too? When they are old and ugly, do you have mood to screw her or start to look for another younger FL?
If words are fallen on deaf ears and you still ignore all the potential issues above, go ahead and pray hard she will not leave you once she finishes sucking all of your money.

Agree. Especially the feelings develop overtime when we kept visiting the same MLs or FLs with GFEs feeling

[sixnine696900]

Originally Posted by evoralliart

Agree. Especially the feelings develop overtime when we kept visiting the same MLs or FLs with GFEs feeling

Bro,
I think with any person, feelings do develops overtime; even in FLs with GFEs feelings....not unlike normal girls....the different is if they don't any feeling for you, they still acts like they are in love you....to keep you coming back and spend money on them.....
DAMN do normal girls do that too?? eek
Are you will to put your money on normal girls....question mark question marks indeed..
If I have to wonder, FLs never set out to make you fall in love with them, if you fall in love with them is your fault...like any business the seller will do almost anything to make the client to return again and again....
We assume that the normal girls will be honest with us, and don't get me wrong most of the them do, if the girl don't like you they will let you know asap, unless the girl what to take you for a ride....
So buyer beware....

Cheers.

[evoralliart]

Originally Posted by sixnine696900

Bro,
I think with any person, feelings do develops overtime; even in FLs with GFEs feelings....not unlike normal girls....the different is if they don't any feeling for you, they still acts like they are in love you....to keep you coming back and spend money on them.....
DAMN do normal girls do that too?? eek
Are you will to put your money on normal girls....question mark question marks indeed..
If I have to wonder, FLs never set out to make you fall in love with them, if you fall in love with them is your fault...like any business the seller will do almost anything to make the client to return again and again....
We assume that the normal girls will be honest with us, and don't get me wrong most of the them do, if the girl don't like you they will let you know asap, unless the girl what to take you for a ride....
So buyer beware....

Cheers.

Well said bro. Thanks for sharing. This is really something for a thought. Made me stop to think for quite some time.

Which is why they have this 3 simple rules here as well.

[justl00king]

Yeah, we r only human, perfectly normal to fall in love with FLs.
They r the pro in providing GFE, makes u feel special, like u r the only one for them.

The rule is simple, if need $$$ to maintain such relationships, it's not real!
If these FLs r truly in love with u, they dun wan your $, only your time.

So if u r in one such relation, alarm bells better be working.
Or will just become another carrot head, good luck bros!

[sixnine696900]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Yeah, we r only human, perfectly normal to fall in love with FLs.
They r the pro in providing GFE, makes u feel special, like u r the only one for them.

The rule is simple, if need $$$ to maintain such relationships, it's not real!
If these FLs r truly in love with u, they dun wan your $, only your time.

So if u r in one such relation, alarm bells better be working.
Or will just become another carrot head, good luck bros!

Taikok,
What is real??? you mean normal girl friend don't want ( not need yah!!) from you....you think future wife don't want money from you???
Please lah...close to everything is about money, the only thing I am looking for is some commitments, a partner in venture or in life is about give and take....but the first there have to a commitments and loyalty from both sides.
Example is a private driver verse taxi driver...private driver works for me one to one, taxi driver has not loyalty, who ever pay first or pay the biggest get the service...am I wrong???
Women that don't want your money is usually more dangerous lah. don't want your money want love or statues ie. marry them.... she don't want statues she wants your life...
I rather pay than giving her statues nor my life.

Cheers.

[bluesky12]

Originally Posted by sixnine696900

Taikok,
What is real??? you mean normal girl friend don't want ( not need yah!!) from you....you think future wife don't want money from you???
Please lah...close to everything is about money, the only thing I am looking for is some commitments, a partner in venture or in life is about give and take....but the first there have to a commitments and loyalty from both sides.
Example is a private driver verse taxi driver...private driver works for me one to one, taxi driver has not loyalty, who ever pay first or pay the biggest get the service...am I wrong???
Women that don't want your money is usually more dangerous lah. don't want your money want love or statues ie. marry them.... she don't want statues she wants your life...
I rather pay than giving her statues nor my life.

Cheers.

Love takes time to develop. What you have with WL is instant gratification. It gives the joy of courtship, adventure, being in love. You feel important because she does not reject you and treat you like king. She also has not seen your flaws.

It's true everyone wants money but our actions are bounded by our internal moral values. You don't do things that you feel is wrong, that will hurt someone else. The woman who loves you wouldn't leave you when you are penniless(at least this is what I recall about my wife). Whereas I'm almost certain your ktv girl will not hesitate to ditch you if you suddently run out of money, or get into accident...etc. The cause is simply their moral limit and life principles are different which have been distorted due to their nature of work

[sixnine696900]

Originally Posted by bluesky12

Love takes time to develop. What you have with WL is instant gratification. It gives the joy of courtship, adventure, being in love. You feel important because she does not reject you and treat you like king. She also has not seen your flaws.

It's true everyone wants money but our actions are bounded by our internal moral values. You don't do things that you feel is wrong, that will hurt someone else. The woman who loves you wouldn't leave you when you are penniless(at least this is what I recall about my wife). Whereas I'm almost certain your ktv girl will not hesitate to ditch you if you suddently run out of money, or get into accident...etc. The cause is simply their moral limit and life principles are different which have been distorted due to their nature of work

Hi bro,
I would agree with most of what you wrote, but this last part been distorted due to their nature of work I would belief that is due to their nature as a person.

Cheers.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by sixnine696900

Taikok,
What is real??? you mean normal girl friend don't want ( not need yah!!) from you....you think future wife don't want money from you???
Please lah...close to everything is about money, the only thing I am looking for is some commitments, a partner in venture or in life is about give and take....but the first there have to a commitments and loyalty from both sides.
Example is a private driver verse taxi driver...private driver works for me one to one, taxi driver has not loyalty, who ever pay first or pay the biggest get the service...am I wrong???
Women that don't want your money is usually more dangerous lah. don't want your money want love or statues ie. marry them.... she don't want statues she wants your life...
I rather pay than giving her statues nor my life.

Cheers.

Haha bro, relations with WL n those with GF or future wife...not the same?

Maybe I'm still a traditional guy, with GF, I'll settle all expenses, never go dutch.
If future wife, even more no need to say. Just be a stay home wife, my duty to bring home the bacon.

Agree with your last part, many women I've met, dun want money want status.. marry them.
Only got one shot at this, so how to make all the women happy?

[broessex]

Thanks all bros for contributing to this thread. Learnt a lot from page 1 to page 75. I myself also got kena KC by Thai FL. Nothing really serious in terms of financial damage anyway because I only RTF, don't buy gifts. If they want gifts I let them know early on that they can go find their other customers for money, there's plenty out there. So far maybe a bit of heartbreak and heartache, but so far no wallet break.

[Ahau]

nice post bro, was almost got KC too by some WL during my business trip in SG lol, some always sent me voice notes or random text asking how am I doing blablabla......luckily I'm not living here so don't have second thought about developing further feeling on those WL hahahaha got KC then KC looh I live distance away hahaha only visit SG like once or twice every months.

On some of my I encounter, during my second RTF, her personality suddenly turned so nice after she asked about my job blablabla lol after that blocked number and search for next WL lol

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Haha bro, relations with WL n those with GF or future wife...not the same?

Maybe I'm still a traditional guy, with GF, I'll settle all expenses, never go dutch.
If future wife, even more no need to say. Just be a stay home wife, my duty to bring home the bacon.

Agree with your last part, many women I've met, dun want money want status.. marry them.
Only got one shot at this, so how to make all the women happy?

Taikok,
Your posting reminds me of a friend of mine that got into a SUGAR DADDY/SUGAR BABY relationship....At least his sugar baby acknowledge that her sugar daddy support her; and that stroke his ego...
Honestly, how many men out there would want to support or marry any woman that do not need nor acknowledge their man as their bread winner???
There in lies the problem, when women in any society, so proof they do not need a MAN to support the them, there is always a LOBANG for these FLs to come in....
I do not think these FLs KCs us not as much with their GFEs but more with their neediness...men have a weakness being the knight in shining amor....when cannot get in normal girls, they go get it from the FLs that will gladly stroke their ego....
Food for thought, would you "MAN" want a stronger, taller, richer, smarter, higher position job woman than you???
How many of you would accept the tittle "the General's husband", "The First Man", "The Director's husband"........ be honest be honest to yourself...LAH...
The moment we as man can accept, I am very sure the cases of being KCs by FLs will drop a lot....my predictions...

My humble two cents.

[korean]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Taikok,
Your posting reminds me of a friend of mine that got into a SUGAR DADDY/SUGAR BABY relationship....At least his sugar baby acknowledge that her sugar daddy support her; and that stroke his ego...
Honestly, how many men out there would want to support or marry any woman that do not need nor acknowledge their man as their bread winner???
There in lies the problem, when women in any society, so proof they do not need a MAN to support the them, there is always a LOBANG for these FLs to come in....
I do not think these FLs KCs us not as much with their GFEs but more with their neediness...men have a weakness being the knight in shining amor....when cannot get in normal girls, they go get it from the FLs that will gladly stroke their ego....
Food for thought, would you "MAN" want a stronger, taller, richer, smarter, higher position job woman than you???
How many of you would accept the tittle "the General's husband", "The First Man", "The Director's husband"........ be honest be honest to yourself...LAH...
The moment we as man can accept, I am very sure the cases of being KCs by FLs will drop a lot....my predictions...

My humble two cents.

wow, never thought of the logic in this way. Eventhough I dont have that kind of ego, come to think of it by observing the behaviour of others, yes I agree with your view. I dont mind my woman to be stronger, richer, smarter and higher position job than me. But I do prefer her to be not taller than me