How I got cheated by KTV girl - Page 77

banana · #**1141** 05-05-2007, 09:42 PM

the question was not "why is it all right for KTV girls to cheat us but we cannot cheat them back?" but "How I got cheated by KTV girl"?

i am expanding on the context tat some bro can get consolation from my suggested alternatives.

it is contradicting to say cheating is not right and on the other hand it is ok to cheat for pratical reason. so we work for money and dont cheat for money. from your prespective is it ok for me to cheat for practical reason?

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Originally Posted by newbadass

Cheating is not right. Though I suppose to a man who is cheating on his wife anyway, the difference should not be too great. And the fact is that it takes a certain amount of naivety to get cheated, whether the cheated party is man or woman.

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Originally Posted by newbadass

WLs cheat men for survival. They need money. Their reasons are practical. As a working class adult, I can identify with that. Who among us is working for fun? Very few. We work because we need money.

banana · #**1142** 05-05-2007, 09:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Mafia_Don

Because 2 wrongs don't make 1 right. Want to cheat also should cheat the one who cheated you and not pass the buck to someone else. That is not the way.

so if i have not been cheated before then nobody can cheat me? u can only cheat me if i have cheated you. so others cannot cheat me if i havent cheated them before. but in life, it is unfair.

banana · #**1143** 05-05-2007, 09:49 PM

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Originally Posted by KLKOOL

I agree with NBAs Logic... they do for money and survival, we do for ego and boasting rights....

i like the way u sum it up.

sidekick · #**1144** 06-05-2007, 10:06 AM

DOM. Quote:
Originally Posted by banana
both i have none and i look weird. is all abt charm.

Oic, thanks Richard Gere.

no, no, no, i think he is the new bond

Mafia_Don · #**1145** 06-05-2007, 10:30 AM

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Originally Posted by banana

so if i have not been cheated before then nobody can cheat me? u can only cheat me if i have cheated you. so others cannot cheat me if i havent cheated them before. but in life, it is unfair.

No that's not what I meant! But indeed life is unfair, you don't cheat people does not mean people won't cheat you. However, if I were to cheat I would only go after those that have cheated me before. That's what I meant.

PuTonRen · #**1146** 06-05-2007, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by banana

so if i have not been cheated before then nobody can cheat me? u can only cheat me if i have cheated you. so others cannot cheat me if i havent cheated them before. but in life, it is unfair.

Brother,

There is really no fairness in life. There are many modes and different intentions in cheating. Cheating is never a two way traffic. Who starts cheating who, and the latter retaliates, is a question the answer of which is as difficult as in the case of chicken and egg problem, which one comes first.

Nevertheless, I begin to enjoy this mode of frank discussion and debate, this is something that we should encourage, if we understand that we are here to learn and to share with each other, without being personal. It is really cool!

My 2 cent worth.

banana · #**1147** 06-05-2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Mafia_Don

No that's not what I meant! But indeed life is unfair, you don't cheat people does not mean people won't cheat you. However, if I were to cheat I would only go after those that have cheated me before. That's what I meant.

understooded.

but those that cheated u, u think they are sitting duck waiting for u to cheat them back?

then why we married men are cheating our wives and go "steal eat". did our wives cheat us so that we can cheat them back by going to "steal eat"?

that's life!

perhaps i used the word "cheat" inappropriately in my earlier postings that created a confusion here. i was sharing on getting consolation out of the disadvantage of being cheated, and how we could turn the table around.

neither my intention to ask ppl purposely to go around and cheat gals nor this is what i do to feed my ego.

veri interestingly, i didnt know ppl here are so interested with my fcuk life. seem like wat i posted here affected these ppl life and out of the forum, they are bad-mouthing me among these gals.

Rof|maoxz · #**1148** 06-05-2007, 11:04 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Brother,

There is really no fairness in life. There are many modes and different intentions in cheating. Cheating is never a two way traffic. Who starts cheating who, and the latter retaliates, is a question the answer of which is as difficult as in the case of chicken and egg problem, which one comes first.

Nevertheless, I begin to enjoy this mode of frank discussion and debate, this is something that we should encourage, if we understand that we are here to learn and to share with each other, without being personal. It is really cool!

My 2 cent worth.

I'm not so worry on who cheats on who first, I'm more concerned on the series of actions after the cheating event, vengeance. This is where all the ugly things started thereafter.

For those who engage such thrilling games, have more or less equipped with some simple IQ and EQ lah, just take goot care and learn thru' the process loh.

banana · #**1149** 06-05-2007, 11:09 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Brother,

Nevertheless, I begin to enjoy this mode of frank discussion and debate, this is something that we should encourage, if we understand that we are here to learn and to share with each other, without being personal. It is really cool!

My 2 cent worth.

agree with u. such discussion will spar us to think better and reflect on our actions in life. when i discuss deeper into such topic especially on raw and free fcuk, often i get zap with remarks like, fcuk off, get a life.

that wat this forum is all about, rite? we discuss one another dogma and find wat best suit us.

wat best for me may not be good in ur situation. some info provide here, we may not understand now bcos we may not have walk the path of the others.

when we are singles, we wanted to get married. before we get married, married men tell us the best is still stay single. then when i get married i understand. but divorced ppl will tell married men not to divorce but married men will not understand until they cross the path of the divorced.

2 cents of mine.

banana · #**1150** 06-05-2007, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

I'm not so worry on who cheats on who first, I'm more concerned on the series of actions after the cheating event, vengeance. This is where all the ugly things started thereafter.

For those who engage such thrilling games, have more or less equipped with some simple IQ and EQ lah, just take goot care and learn thru' the process loh.

wisdom from the lao jiao. kaotow to u.

vengeance is not the right thing to do. i m talking about turning it to ur advantage after being cheated. after hanging out long enough in the game, we will be wiser to play the game to our advantage. if playing to our advantage is consider cheating, then i nothing to say liao. i may as well join the jerking group in the other thread.

Rof|maoxz · #**1151** 06-05-2007, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by banana

wisdom from the lao jiao. kaotow to u.

vengeance is not the right thing to do. i m talking about turning it to ur advantage after being cheated. after hanging out long enough in the game, we will be wiser to play the game to our advantage. if playing to our advantage is consider cheating, then i nothing to say liao. i may as well join the jerking group in the other thread.

Don't be such on polite mode lah, btw You in Singapore siboh?? Free go KPT lor, when I go CP/HJ, maybe can ask you to guide mah.

banana · #**1152** 06-05-2007, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Rof|maoxz

Don't be such on polite mode lah, btw You in Singapore siboh?? Free go KPT lor, when I go CP/HJ, maybe can ask you to guide mah.

back for a while to settle some matters.

CP got so many bro there, i where got chance to host u.

some more in CP, got anti-banana campaign. u sure u wanna see me there.

banana · #**1153** 06-05-2007, 11:35 AM

another 2 cents:

wat do we mean by cheated? the gal promises u something in exchange for ur money or she tells u a fake story to earn you sympathy so that you will give her the money she wants?

i used to have two thoughts on the subjects of being cheated by working gals.

first, if u like the gal just give her the money whether she lie or not, love u real or fake. because u love her so give it to her. and in return you get what u want, like sex, emotional comfort, etc and of course give within ur means.

second, dont give the money to her even u love her because she will ask u for more and not a good steward for money. that is, she may be an impulsive shopper, gamblers, etc. just give enough for her necessity. because she is a bottomless pit.

then last yr i added the third thoughts to my dogma.

thirdly, do not give the money to her to channel for illegal use. this happen to me last yr, btw me and my zh gf. she ask for a sum of money to build house and then later i realised the money was to be channeled to his "husband" for illegal trade.

the first and the third thoughts are difficult to distinguish. we have to be wise to make the decision. it took me 4 mths to find out that my zh gf's real motive for the use of money.

we have to be careful who we actually give the money to and how it is going to be used bcos we are part of the society and we are responsible for it too. i read a UN report that, mostly income from sex trade are channel to durg biz to yield higher returns. and the returns are use to enslave girls into sex trade.

KLKOOL · #**1154** 06-05-2007, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by banana

some more in CP, got anti-banana campaign. u sure u wanna see me there.

No lah... where got. CP got ' how the fuck banana can get so many free fuck and I cannot and why the cheebye dun wanna impart his knowledge to us so we also can have free fark instead of mortgaging my house, car and pet llama to cheong in CP' , muahahahahaha

Mafia_Don · #**1155** 06-05-2007, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by banana

neither my intention to ask ppl purposely to go around and cheat gals nor this is what i do to feed my ego.

veri interestingly, i didnt know ppl here are so interested with my fcuk life. seem like wat i posted here affected these ppl life and out of the forum, they are bad-mouthing me among these gals.

I don't think anyone here believes that of you brother. I don't that is for certain. You sound blunt but I take it as being frank.

Still always got to be wary of cheats prevention is better than cure. So far has not been cheated by KTV girl but got cheated of my affection my local girls.

Take it easy and cheong happy.