16 years old and pregnant

[Sammo]

I am against abortions too. Who are we to decide a small life to be denied his/her right to be born in this world. We are not GOD ok? talk to your parents, trust me, they will be more than happy to hear the news from you as you are being able to take up own responsibility rather than runwaway from it. As for ur gf, talk thru her parents. This is it, love her and you won't let her make that cruel decision. Damage done physically and emotionally is too huge to be risk! It is ok to marry young but not to "kill" a young life.

[Big Sexy]

you could try calling Pregnancy Crisis Service (Family Life Society)
Tel: 6339-9770

also take time to read this thread post 219 to 231

http://sbf.directory/adult-d...ml#post3717246

[zzzzzzz07]

u kuku jiao, have sex but dont want the result.
are u a guy?
if u want fun, wear condom lah.
think u very good in withdrawing before shoot?

[TommyPingPong]

Should wear protection and how can u say u love her if you are not prepared for such situation?

Learn from this mistake...

For others, try not to have BBBJ, do it with Condoms as your dick heads will sure get some abrasion during BBBJ or your handjobs the night before you visited the FLs. HIV or other STD appear in saliva and this is why there are oral HIV rapid test kits in the market....

Pls be safe, not sorry.....

[PageUp]

Most of the Samsters here are giving you advice-BUT most important, get the test kit & test IT!! Going to JB for a anonymous abortion is not the answer...i know of a couple of friends who went there for an abortion..cheap, anonymous but with lots of complications down the road which actually causes more problems & lots of explanation to do to parents. trouble is that you've no way of knowing if the 'doctor' doing the procedure is a real one with experience, a houseman, or just a quack....

can you imagine, going to a inexperience Doctor for the cheap & anonymous procedure (Singapore or JB), and complications developed for her, man! you will be in deeper shit than now...her parents will even be more pissed off, angry & it might even develop into a police case....

for heaven sake, if you really love her like you claim, go get the test kit & if the test shows that she is pregnant, go speak with your parents...be a man, admit that you make a mistake, take the responsibility since you love her....

whatever decision that her parents will take, you will have to face the music.....you don't have a choice...

Personally, I'm against abortion.....

both of you had already made one major mistake.....don't make another one.... learn from this episode in life...and DON'T ever leave school and forget your studies....nothing beats having a O, A, Diploma or degree here in Singapore......you'll need it to bring up your family....

Originally Posted by andyyy

1. not so sure telling parents might be good idea depending if the daughter's parents might make police report on underage sex against the boy. Do take note.

2. if really have money problem, some may go Johor for the op, with anonymity. Don't ask me how.

At the end of the day, we all have to be responsible of our action and be aware of the law, especially in Singapore.

Edit: On second thought, I think no one should not be giving any advice not knowing both of you personally, so its dangerous listening to strangers' advice. Just make sure you can solve the problem instead letting it getting bigger.

You know when i reflect back life, human usually make small mistake that lead to bigger one, and bigger and bigger until there is no point of return. I hope you know where you want to go in your life to make any decision. With BOTH sides parents support and your commitments, I still believe you can still raise the child.

Keep us posted on your outcome boy.

[honda81234]

TS its like what many of our bro here said.
Tell that to your parents, they will help you.
you are still too young to handle this on your own let your parents help you.
Just tell him " Dad, i gt a gd news to tell you. You are gg to be a grandfather soon".

[Chinapuss]

TS...being a man, u should be responsible and be a good husband and a good father to ur kid...never go for abortion as a life is at stake...juz be frank to ur parents and i'm sure u'll be scolded like hell but at the same time i think they''ll be able to accept and give u full support...take care and wish u all the best

[billgates]

If has been more than 3 mths since TS posted. Hope he did the right thing and not take the coward way out... let gf go abort alone.

Actually at his age, he has no idea wat's LOVE lah.

[Xgenre]

The thread started on the 10th of JUNE 2009 when TS said his gf missed 1 month of period already. So there is no need for us to keep encouraging him to go buy the test kit. By now, if she's really pregnant, use eyes also can see liao. Hope all's fine.

[cchin]

well, we can just pray and wish TS good luck. Hope he can learn something on this.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

The thread started on the 10th of JUNE 2009 when TS said his gf missed 1 month of period already. So there is no need for us to keep encouraging him to go buy the test kit. By now, if she's really pregnant, use eyes also can see liao. Hope all's fine.

Now should be 5 monthss pregnant another 4 more months can be PAPA already...

so TS going to treat us to ang ku kueh and red eggs?

[ah_heng81]

Happen to me when i was 21 and she was 19. I went home tell my mum abt it and told her that i will get married. My mum told me , she's fine with it but i have to go face my gf's (now my wife) parents and tell them abt it. Lucky that her parents didnt go crazy or scold us, just wanted me to take good care of my wife and the baby.

Well, go find out if she's really pregnant and than decide what you wanna do, remember, if you want to keep the baby (if really pregnant) it something that you have commit for life, it's no child play.

Both of you will lose you freedom while friends you age is out having fun, you will be at home changing diapers and feeding milk. When one of you come to sense and decide that you do not want to miss out on all the fun and want to join your friends outside than it may pose a problem in the relatioship unless one of you is really willing to give in.

[Unrepented]

I suggest you buy 4 test kits. 2 of the same brand. Test on different days because the girls urine may be different everyday and every shot. Sometimes more dilute, sometimes more concentrated. To get a more accurate result, test at different time. Statistical rule.

Also use different brand and increase number of test for confirmation of results, just to be sure. No cost savings allowed here, trust me. If ok, you and your gf gets a big big load off the chest.

Think, you eat hamburger and buy iphone also spend money, but which is more important now?

If worse case, test positive. I suggest the first step is for you inform your father and no one else. Fathers of sons who make other peoples' daughter pregnant are more understanding, as compared to fathers of daughters who kana pregnant. They usually see their daughters as being the victims of other boys' holy rod. Let your father advise and bring you thru....sure kana from him for the trouble but what to do?

If you love your gf, don't even think of non-legal methods. This will put her life in danger, or affect her ability to conceive.

Wish you the best of luck, I have been there too. But lucky false alarm...phew..

By the way, did you verify that your gf missed her period or not? Calculate the time window of the period and kay seow touch her there lah. And feel if there is any japanese bread. If you ask her, sure she will get offended that you don't trust her.

Originally Posted by sleaguepunter

why dont u just buy a kit to test first? u buy one from Guardian, less than $20 have liao.

[cooldudrey]

if really bo bian, marry her and be a father .

[jason19870313]

marry her if no choice and become a father.