Who have a long term relationship with PRC KTV girl?

Originally Posted by sadfa

Update!

Just curious, which KTV did ur friend know her?

[BlurWolfe]

Bro Shoot,

Good one as in what I told him also.
A lot of bushes around we bro cant be bother so much.
We are not insider so cant say much about their feeling.
I think my friend had a wake up call for a gf, and planning for the future, as in be their own boss after she quit.
I give him 1 more week or I must complain to MD already, sianzzz.
BW

[BlurWolfe]

Originally Posted by batami

happy to share if it helps my friends - here's first installment -

Bro well said............
Dont mix business with pleasure lor

[DBono]

Originally Posted by batami

happy to share if it helps my friends - here's first installment - but if you are looking for sex adventure go to another posting :-) let's call this one "Miss Shopping Trip".

relationship 1. very attractive 30 year old PDMM - this went on over six months - she looks hot, can show lot of personality - when dressed well really turns heads in street! Aaw her a few times at TN - HJ only she doesn't do FJ, asked her out - dinner / drinks - ok went well she verybig on ..................
Message to bros: check out lifestyle - see if it makes sense - if it does OK - if not - where does money come from. If it is from boy friend ATM and you want to be ATM up to you.

SORRY EVERYONE _ This was damned long and I applaud any bros who reads to the end. Just hope it helps. Other two cases another day.

thanks bro for the afford put in sharing ya story......
we'll hv to live in the real world than the world we wanna believe it to b...........but guess there'll still b ppl ard who will hv to learn the hard n cruel way..
.....hope i ain't one of those ...

Originally Posted by sadfa

Update!

Bro, just curious, which KTV ur brudda met her?
My colleague has a similar experience

[Mr.sarawak]

dont play the fire.....if u r rich then ok la...if not dont get into yhe relationship
i kenak many times..

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by batami

happy to share if it helps my friends - here's first installment - but if you are looking for sex adventure go to another posting :-) let's call this one "Miss Shopping Trip".

relationship 1. very attractive 30 year old PDMM - this went on over six months - she looks hot, can show lot of personality - when dressed well really turns heads in street! Aaw her a few times at TN - HJ only she doesn't do FJ, asked her out - dinner / drinks - ok went well she verybig on bf/gf feeling holding hands, etc etc but that's all, no bonking - she had to get back to look after her child and doesn't like H81 type of place. Pace slow and steady, no problem - not (yet) too expensive; gave her some small gifts

{Batami's tip of the day: don't buy perfume at $50 - $60 - go to Lucky Plaza and find store (there are a few here and in Golden MIle(and i guess other places) that sells minature perfumes - these are bigger than samples but smaller than duty free size and are real thing but cost $7 - tell her they are special handbag size...can use these in many situations - e.g.regular HC bonk (show little appreciation) more effect than extra $10 tip, etc}

So far, relationship and service always good (improves each time) not too much money spent. Next came the "let's go shopping trip" - she has now assessed size of my wallet and bank account. Where shall we meet - she chooses Takashamaya!! "window shopping" I thought - hand in hand gf / bf stuff. We look here, look there, lunch, nothing bought .. I am safe - then handbags - just to look - she only wanted one little handbag - ouch... in front of lady assistant, and other customers, Just this one darling! When it doesn't have price tag then its bloody expenisive! Out came plastic. Next, short couple of nights away - someone looks after child - great bf / gf stuff - ok in bed, 0nly ok not spectacular. BUT when we discuss what shall we do - she say's Lets go shopping - holy shit here we go - this time clothes - just a pair of jeans and t shirt darling - ouch - brand nameS - she big into top end brands. But by now I have too much of bf / gf feeling to say anything. Next time - away for a couple of days - just before she's moving inot new apt - Let's go shopping - she wanted me to buy whole new houseful for her - declined settled for a few of basics and held on to my plastic.. she decidedly cool,

In summary - she looks real good - I mean real good, gives you big gf/bf feeling on street and when you are out (I am in love again <- no I am not I am stupid)), not much to shout about in bed - low enthusiasm but i want to believe it will get better - she takes but doesn't give (better performance when she was in TN joint); but comes alive when it's Let's go shopping time. I did too much chasing. She sees ATM - I see g/f.

Here were the "warning"signs; in china she was hairdresser for couple of years then stopped work to have child, then husband left her(or vice versa); shop work for a while then borrowed money to come to Singapore; works to get child through school - great I respect her and any of the PDMMs for that and feel really unhappy that some of these girls are loosing jobs and schooling for their kids because work permit changes (but that's another story) - but when i see her wearing expensive jewellry, holding REAL Gucci handbags, real $3000 Brand watch, these did not come from $ as TN lady nor from previous life in china... she's had clearly been on many more Shopping Expeditions with previous "boy friends". I have no objection to anyone having the best she (or her boyfriend) can afford - but the signs were that she is shopping lady and I am ATM. Now, she's moved back to Southern China - spoke once - I go to China on business - she will be very very happy if I can go to see her -she needs to buy some new things for her house!!

Message to bros: check out lifestyle - see if it makes sense - if it does OK - if not - where does money come from. If it is from boy friend ATM and you want to be ATM up to you.

SORRY EVERYONE _ This was damned long and I applaud any bros who reads to the end. Just hope it helps. Other two cases another day.

good story. read thru the whole thing.
the charbor is stoopid (sorry bro batami). come here 2 earn money, not buy branded goods. not practical. who wants to buy a used gucci bag or chanel dress in prc? there they will think its fake.

your perfume thing is good 1. got chance will use it.

[sgmjplayer]

Some good stories instead! But real life and of course fella samsters
who knows me know its true. (Next advenure soon, if there is interest)

About 2 years back, I got to know this gal from ‘Dong Bei’.
A SYT I should say. Most of those who have seen her or her photos
will agree. At 20 YO, she is working in MG on her first trip.
The reason she is working in MG, is coz her cousin cannot make it
to higher class KTVs. When I got to know her, she is left with 2 days
and went Malaysia for Immigration clearance.
Sex was on my mind at that moment, and she is inconvenient.
How lucky was I?

Very unfortunately, she came back and they gave her 2 days to leave,
as her visa is expired, without her knowing. We had an overnight and
it was the best sex I ever had with a PRC at that time.
At that time, CAT150 was the only type of commercial sex I have in
Spore and she was better.

All in my mind was a short fling and that’s it. So I gave her about
$200 changed to 1k RMB and off to airport, she goes.

3 Months later, on a Saturday afternoon, I got a very surprised phone call,
its from her. She is here again. This time round, she is holding a business
Visa and very interestingly, she had 7 days.

I met her and we had a great time. She managed to extend her stay
this time and she stays a total of 23 days.
(She Spent $900 for the extension, NOT on my account)
Of course I sees her day in day out, except times when
I was working or she was working –
She normally goes to Tian An Men / Club Tycoon to work, sits a table
and gets $200 tips. I will pick her up after work and off we go.

Expenses. – Most expensive was Hotel Bills. First ever in my life,
I spend so much going to hotels. $20-30 daily.
Everytime I ask her whats for dinner today?
Is always at a famous chicken rice stall. Her favourite.
Dinner bills is always less than $15/-
Sometimes we eat ‘Dimsum’ at L17 and still can pack leftovers for
her cousin.

At the end, I realised she never asked me to go shopping/etc.
I asked her before she left, why didn’t You ask me for some gifts,
etc, or to go shopping. Her answer is Not buying, shop for what?

She never asked or took a single cent from.
I gave her 5k RMB, before she left.

And I know her Roommate, had 5k SGD from 1man, and afew bags of branded stuffs.
That guy drives a new merc and surely those $$ are peanuts to him.


I am still seeing her on her home webcam when we chat on QQ.

[B.Bollocks]

i have my share of relationships or flings with prcs...bros will agree that being with them...any bro currently having a relationship with prcs wana contact ?maybe form something liek a support group...hahahagood idea?

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by B.Bollocks

i have my share of relationships or flings with prcs...bros will agree that being with them...any bro currently having a relationship with prcs wana contact ?maybe form something liek a support group...hahahagood idea?

haha! what kind of support group u have in mind? so we can bitch about the charbor and their tricks like how they do it to us?

[B.Bollocks]

no..u know how outside people view u when u r out with ur china babe...then at least knowing there are people in the same boat as u will certainly help....

[sadfa]

Originally Posted by B.Bollocks

no..u know how outside people view u when u r out with ur china babe...then at least knowing there are people in the same boat as u will certainly help....

like some1 post in this forum, now very common, so many people dont feel paiseh. if u feel paiseh, u shouldnt be out w her loh.

used 2 feel paiseh, but afterwards heck care them cos they dont know who the fcuk u r unless u r some celebrity. they just jealous u got hot charbor hanging on 2 u. they thinking "wah, b bollocks either tua ki or sibeh wu lui. charbor sibeh hot leh!"

unless the charbor really behave like a low class hooker w u, then different story loh.

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by manfon

Dont agree with you that it is a cause and effect thing here.. I have experienced it before myself too.. ie know a gal for awhile and she disappear without a single reason... just vanished into thin air.. til now, she just come and go like a wind......

The hot and cold treatment or real hoodini?
Anyway know of a gal thats like that to me, better for me.
Kinda getting a kick out of it cos like young time puppy luv......

No strings attached on the physical sides too

Just want to pen down my story on one of the GL streetwalker that i had met in last year...
I met her during one of my trip to geylang ...and at that time ..my intention is to see see situation ..when i approached lorong 12 .. i saw her...Quite old around 28 yr olds... i walked for about near to one hour ..before i quote what her price.. she smiled and said that she had already noticed me for the past hr and why now then i asked her...
She is very attentive to my need and say i very cute..of course at that time ..my mind is .."yah ...another tactics of them..." When up the hotel, she bathed me and then proceed to the bed.. As at that time , i got no intention for fj, just want to hj .. so i asked her to hand job .. she agreed and then after a while .. she asked me if i wanted to bj and i took very long to cum .. she asked me what the reason .. i say that i prefer her to wear her dress so that i could touch from there.. surprising she agreed.. After finished , she commented me again ..that i was cute and give me her handphone no so that i could call her again...Since then ..it begin...
She was from yunan and previously working as an assistant in china until she get retrenched then she worked in this line..
During that time , i met her again at the afternoon as she say that she can give me more then one hr as she knew that i very difficult to cum..
We chatted alot and me found out that she is not one of the gl gals that i had..she doesn't ask for more money after service and sometimes it extend to more than an hr.. i continued a few session with her as i felt that she is just like my gf.. i could ask her to bath with me ..wear her dress while bj me .. as i fondle her..etc..
She poor and that for sure.. but she also very conscious towards her health .. as i saw her bathing her private part with dettol throughly..
The day finally came for her to leave singapore and go to batam...and at that moment , she wanted me to go with her and she is willing to spend one day with me in batam..we could go swim ..shop .. etc.. At that time, me wanted to go but got job on hand and btw me at that time , only 24 ..just out cheonging....
The only gift that i could remember that she asked me to buy is just a 10-20 dollars swimming suit so that she could bring to batam for swim...I declined at the time .. cause i felt it so embrassing to buy a women clothes....
Now thinking back .. all i had to said is that she had left me a very wonderful experience in my life and it will remain in my heart for as long as i live..
She also told me that at that time one of the guy in gl had cheated her .. say he a virgin some more...so as a custom.. they had to give red packet to him .. Then the next day ..she still saw the fucking guy using the fucking trick on the other gal...
We chatted alot and she is one of the gal that u would want her to be ur wife.....no airs..no attitude..just concerning looks ..and understanding ...
I do missed her...and thanks her for the wonderful experience she had given to me...
In the end, i felt that it not a wasted of money.. it just that as i had say earlier...human is fragile.. we need people to understand us and to care about us...and maybe at that time.. we both clicked....

[K9696]

Hi .. Bro..

Good Experience for you. Indeed they are gals who not go for your money.. Myself I met one, she's from Hokkien.. not very beautiful, met her at one very small KTV and also many years ago.. we still keep in tourch over the phone. Good luck to you. But do remember that not all Gals are Kind.. Some are out to Con you...