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Old 13-02-2011, 03:32 AM
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Re: Wife don't like sex

I don't know if i am trying to justify my actions by these, but here is what i have to say and you bros be open and see for yourself.

Sex is a emotional food to us, guys. We need to eat regularly and poo regularly. If only eat and no poo, we can constipated and cannot tahan. It will either find release somewhere or u will suffer internally.

I had another experience today. .... in the spirit of this thread i think u should do the details in the other thread... I haven't finish that thread and am starting...

But back to this topic, i am eating out now not simply becos of just to sexify myself. I want to keep the family peace. If your wife don't like sex tell me what can u do about it?
1. Divorce
2. Continue and eat out
3. Stop eating and let your didi die naturally... but it won't unless its sick.

1. seems to be the best solution but do u realise the implications? legally, financially and socially? Don't just think of divorce as a way to sexify yourself. If sex is the main issue, u can either talk to her nicely and sort things out or if not, join this SBF lor.

In my opinion, divorce should not be considered just to sexify yourself. U must know housing, alimony, status, etc are all in the package when u get into it and u won't know till u get into it. So think thrice before u make your move.

I visit this site daily since i 1st join. More thank i read news... hahaha jia lat...
Its fun here and ok la to relax oneself... Hope u guys find your own way out.

I don't like to go to those GL becos too many bros visit them. I can't imagine wanting to do with them for that few minutes of thrill.

In fact i find it more challenging to work on gals that are not in those trade. Its more sexisfying....
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Old 13-02-2011, 04:29 PM
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Re: Wife don't like sex

Unfortunately part of the problem is the mentality of some women. They wanna hook a guy to 'take care' of them. Before marriage, anything can cuz they wanna land the guy. After that? Luck of the draw. If you are lucky or if you really got to know your gf before you marry her, then its fine. Otherwise, its DIY or eat out.

I remember talking to a female friend. I asked her what she liked about his bf (and now husband). The answer is cuz the guy comes from a good family (ie well to do), good career and can 'look after her' (which I clarified to mean look after financially). Romance, sex? She says 'do it lor' and after married 'we will see lor'. Btw, my friend is Malaysian Chinese. So, I think not much difference nowadays between Malaysian and Singaporean Chinese girls.
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Re: Wife don't like sex

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I am having the same problem as TS. I had not have any physical contact and sex with my wife for 1 year and 3 months. I have been D.I.Y all the way till now and do not have the courage to eat out.

I have quarrel with my wife many times regarding this issue and everytime she kept silent. I never suspect she is eating duck meat or anything because she is always busy with 2 kids and work.

And also sharing this problem with bros here doesn't mean i need extra justification to eat out. I am sure there are more couples experiencing sexless marriage with some unknown reason.

Those with the same problem or had experienced on this issue can share with us your valuable opinions?

kids, housework are the usual excuses., no matter how much we try to share the load.

however a little $ can solve the problem, go for a short break and book a room, away from routine, but only for that short period only and with a cost!
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Re: Wife don't like sex

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I have the same problem.
Wife is older and doesnt like sex. I do it once in 3-6 months.

I eat out often. I tried marriage counselling cos I didnt want to fuck around outside. Worked a while then back to square one.

Few things have happened since
1) Had a fuck buddy for about 2 yrs

2) Many FL and massages.

3) I even experience transferrence. Experimented bisexualism.

I cant talk to my wife cos we are at very different wavelength. I stay w her becos of kids. Sigh!
sad, very sad, i also in the same boat with u, seldom talk as on different wavelength
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Re: Wife don't like sex

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No offense to anyone but i'm glad i'm not alone with this problem.

A sexless marriage. Its been abt 6mths already & i often DIY then 1 day i asked myself WTF is happening....this is not the way i want to live my life so if my wife doesnt care then i find my own way...

I started FL recently. Its not the best solution but each person has to find his own way to deal with his situation.

I have talked to my wife abt this twice before but no lasting solution. Somethings in life are just the way it is... Learn to face it, manage it & find the best possible solution. There's no right or wrong here...so i stopped feeling guilty abt FL.
yeah man, talk and things improve only for a week at most.

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Old 13-02-2011, 04:54 PM
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Re: Wife don't like sex

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I believe most bro here already tried like me: tried talking properly to wife, but she'll either lose her temper & refuse to talk, or blame you for being a sex-pervert. Then one thing lead to another, before you realized it, a new Cold War has occurred ...

After some times, you realized that, for the greater benefit of the family, especially those with kids, you offer truce but you wife will still insist on your unreserved apologies to her and acknowledging that she was NEVER in the wrong and that all wrongs are due to your sex-pervert behaviors or MCP attitudes ... either way, still no sex 'cos you deserved to be punished, and she's still not in the mood to "reward" you ...

And then what follows? As time goes by, as such cycles repeat again and again, you started to lose your self-esteem, you started to feel worthless, you start to suspect that, afterall, your wife may be right that you are indeed just a low-class sex-pervert, or a useless bum, or a plain goondu, or all of the above. And then, you enter Mid-Life crisis and you seriously begin to doubt yourself and the purpose of your surviving in this world ... and of course, in the worst case scenario, you simply decide to end your own miserable life ... but that's not all. Your surviving wife may still be cursing you for acting like a coward and pervert, and only know how to give/leave her with all the shits of life ... Sad life being a man huh? And who could have believed that it all started from being a simple rejection of lovemaking from your wife?

well summarized, but to a man, a no sex marriage is not marriage, simple as that.
Fuck the other priorities , can't click in bed, forget about the rest as sex is a very personal intimacy act between 2 person.

u just feel husband and wife become room mates
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Re: Wife don't like sex

to share a little.

i can make my other half cum till she squirts a few times per session, however she always claim the after sex, her pussy is sore when i had used lube to the extent that penetration is almost no feeling as its too lubricated.

offered oral sex, she said its dirty, i said i do not mind, but well, No means NO!!!
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Bros here, me oso no sex wt my wife very long Liao...more than a mth...yest buy her a cake for valentine day as she wanted it.I thought got chance tonite.but I failed it,I try 2 times say wan to hug hug her.she say go away n even shouted at me...sian n then I go sleep other rm...sian...we been sleep separate rm after my first bb born.I envious those bros here that have gd sex wt her wife still after marriage.my wife is plump n big boobs,she is braless at Hme n can c her panty when we watch tv together at nite...I misses those time when our daughter haven't cum out to this world...
bro, sleeping in separate room is a beginning of a big problem
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Hor sie liao Bro! U & I are INDEED on the same boat! In fact, I'm beginning to wonder if we married the same wife You've just completely spelt out my agony! No sex for a few months, and then when I asked for it, she quoted one of her friends' hubby who've NOT had sex for 1 year, ever since the wife pregnant until the baby now 6-months plus liao. I tulan & said then u go & marry him for a sexless marriage lah! then she flew into a rage & said why must I always kick a big fuss about sex? If no sex will I die? If won't die then stop complaining! My jaws just dropped to the floor ... )

Then last week, she suddenly asked from me a full-body massage, so I thought got chance liao, and I gave a a truly sensual massage, & she was feeling so comfortable that she felt asleep. So when I gently flipped her over for the front massage, and threw in all the necessary titillations of the breasts & pussy after the whole thing, she suddenly opened her eyes and said to me:" You pervert! Don't disturb me lah! I need my beauty sleep now! Go turn off the lights & if you still got so much energy, then go out & play your laptop / FB / PS3!" Again, my jaws dropped to the floor ... (& I ended my night by going to the toilet to PCC 'cos I already so aroused when I was massaging for her in nude!)

& on those days when she granted me with sex, which I can unfortunately count using my fingers, she'd be making the deed seems like a torture to her, complaining that she did it just to satisfy me, why never wash every part of my body thoroughly, no painting, no bbbj, no DATY 'cos all these very unhygienic, & when I tried to suggest some sex-toys or different positions or role-plays to spice up the acts, she retorted that she's NOT an AV porn star, so don't try to demean her by asking her to do "all these stupid things" ... Once again, you've guessed correctly, my jaws dropped and dislocated when it hit the floor ...

gosh, your wife is 70% resemblance to mine, wtf!!

this thread really speaks about our problems man, maybe we should get our other half to read this.

now i also do not bother to ask or hint for sex, if its always so difficult to get one, or do it out of obligations to satisfy me, i rather shagged myself out, and doze off the minute my head touches the pillow
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Re: Wife don't like sex

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its sad that it has become the norm that if the husband dont get it at home he outsource in order to save his marriage
yes, no choice.

outsource, spend some $, a happy man, goes home, no war zone at home.
maybe a turn of event, don't fuck and sleep in the same house

if u think this money is better spent on wife, then maybe can try to spend that money on something for her, make her happy, and then get a 'free' fuck (maybe not so pro like FLs), but least its morally right and the $ is still spent within the household. Don't try to offer her $ to bed you
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Unfortunately part of the problem is the mentality of some women. They wanna hook a guy to 'take care' of them. Before marriage, anything can cuz they wanna land the guy. After that? Luck of the draw. If you are lucky or if you really got to know your gf before you marry her, then its fine. Otherwise, its DIY or eat out.

I remember talking to a female friend. I asked her what she liked about his bf (and now husband). The answer is cuz the guy comes from a good family (ie well to do), good career and can 'look after her' (which I clarified to mean look after financially). Romance, sex? She says 'do it lor' and after married 'we will see lor'. Btw, my friend is Malaysian Chinese. So, I think not much difference nowadays between Malaysian and Singaporean Chinese girls.
yes, no guarantee a foreign wife is better, but maybe higher chance of a HSD partner
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Re: Wife don't like sex

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bro, sleeping in separate room is a beginning of a big problem
Yes , I believe what brother Samboys said : sleeping in separate room is a beginning of a big problem.

In my Opinion , I feel that as a marry couple, we should learn to give and take . Trust is very important. I remember there is another post by another bro's wife said no sex you will not die right . Bro , don't feel discourage, try to understand your wife. Maybe she is tired and too stress after her work . Try to understand her needs. If you initate sex to your wife , your wife say no , don't force her. Be sensitive to her. If she becomes angry after u say want sex from her, just say Dear : Hold her hand and say, I am Sorry , from now on I will be sensitive to you, and won't force you anymore.

I believe from then on relationship between your wife and you will get better. Communicate more with her , and understands each other needs and emotion. Let nature take its course, and then i believe your wife will have sex with with you.

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant.
Once a while , you surprise your wife with a romantic dinner at a hotel, buy flowers for her , i believe when romance comes , naturally sex will also follows. Good luck Brothers!
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woman can live without sex but man cant. u get to see so many lau ah pek still busy checking in H81 everyday with their PRC lovers, needless to say abt other men in their prime. how to tahan without sex!
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so now i think i know why a lot of local guys start to marry foreigners like viet,indo and prc.
agree. my best sex experience all came from foreign girls. local ones dont even give me BJ. unwilling to change positions also. lazy like hell.
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If she becomes angry after u say want sex from her, just say Dear : Hold her hand and say, I am Sorry , from now on I will be sensitive to you, and won't force you anymore.
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