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I don't know if i am trying to justify my actions by these, but here is what i have to say and you bros be open and see for yourself.
Sex is a emotional food to us, guys. We need to eat regularly and poo regularly. If only eat and no poo, we can constipated and cannot tahan. It will either find release somewhere or u will suffer internally. I had another experience today. .... in the spirit of this thread i think u should do the details in the other thread... I haven't finish that thread and am starting... But back to this topic, i am eating out now not simply becos of just to sexify myself. I want to keep the family peace. If your wife don't like sex tell me what can u do about it? 1. Divorce 2. Continue and eat out 3. Stop eating and let your didi die naturally... but it won't unless its sick. 1. seems to be the best solution but do u realise the implications? legally, financially and socially? Don't just think of divorce as a way to sexify yourself. If sex is the main issue, u can either talk to her nicely and sort things out or if not, join this SBF lor. In my opinion, divorce should not be considered just to sexify yourself. U must know housing, alimony, status, etc are all in the package when u get into it and u won't know till u get into it. So think thrice before u make your move. I visit this site daily since i 1st join. More thank i read news... hahaha jia lat... Its fun here and ok la to relax oneself... Hope u guys find your own way out. I don't like to go to those GL becos too many bros visit them. I can't imagine wanting to do with them for that few minutes of thrill. In fact i find it more challenging to work on gals that are not in those trade. Its more sexisfying.... |
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Unfortunately part of the problem is the mentality of some women. They wanna hook a guy to 'take care' of them. Before marriage, anything can cuz they wanna land the guy. After that? Luck of the draw. If you are lucky or if you really got to know your gf before you marry her, then its fine. Otherwise, its DIY or eat out.
I remember talking to a female friend. I asked her what she liked about his bf (and now husband). The answer is cuz the guy comes from a good family (ie well to do), good career and can 'look after her' (which I clarified to mean look after financially). Romance, sex? She says 'do it lor' and after married 'we will see lor'. Btw, my friend is Malaysian Chinese. So, I think not much difference nowadays between Malaysian and Singaporean Chinese girls. |
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however a little $ can solve the problem, go for a short break and book a room, away from routine, but only for that short period only and with a cost! |
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old habits die hard |
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well summarized, but to a man, a no sex marriage is not marriage, simple as that. Fuck the other priorities , can't click in bed, forget about the rest as sex is a very personal intimacy act between 2 person. u just feel husband and wife become room mates |
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to share a little.
i can make my other half cum till she squirts a few times per session, however she always claim the after sex, her pussy is sore when i had used lube to the extent that penetration is almost no feeling as its too lubricated. offered oral sex, she said its dirty, i said i do not mind, but well, No means NO!!! |
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gosh, your wife is 70% resemblance to mine, wtf!! this thread really speaks about our problems man, maybe we should get our other half to read this. now i also do not bother to ask or hint for sex, if its always so difficult to get one, or do it out of obligations to satisfy me, i rather shagged myself out, and doze off the minute my head touches the pillow |
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outsource, spend some $, a happy man, goes home, no war zone at home. maybe a turn of event, don't fuck and sleep in the same house if u think this money is better spent on wife, then maybe can try to spend that money on something for her, make her happy, and then get a 'free' fuck (maybe not so pro like FLs), but least its morally right and the $ is still spent within the household. Don't try to offer her $ to bed you |
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Yes , I believe what brother Samboys said : sleeping in separate room is a beginning of a big problem.
In my Opinion , I feel that as a marry couple, we should learn to give and take . Trust is very important. I remember there is another post by another bro's wife said no sex you will not die right . Bro , don't feel discourage, try to understand your wife. Maybe she is tired and too stress after her work . Try to understand her needs. If you initate sex to your wife , your wife say no , don't force her. Be sensitive to her. If she becomes angry after u say want sex from her, just say Dear : Hold her hand and say, I am Sorry , from now on I will be sensitive to you, and won't force you anymore. I believe from then on relationship between your wife and you will get better. Communicate more with her , and understands each other needs and emotion. Let nature take its course, and then i believe your wife will have sex with with you. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant. Once a while , you surprise your wife with a romantic dinner at a hotel, buy flowers for her , i believe when romance comes , naturally sex will also follows. Good luck Brothers!
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woman can live without sex but man cant. u get to see so many lau ah pek still busy checking in H81 everyday with their PRC lovers, needless to say abt other men in their prime. how to tahan without sex!
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agree. my best sex experience all came from foreign girls. local ones dont even give me BJ. unwilling to change positions also. lazy like hell.
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u reading too much mills and boon story books liao ah???
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