Depressed girl - Page 8

Ecuader · #**106** 02-12-2011, 10:10 PM

May I know who added to my reputation. Message me so i can return the favour. i have 16points to give out. lol

Pokercard · #**107** 02-12-2011, 11:14 PM

hi ts,

hopefully everything is fine for u...

if ur bf really love u, he wun leave u no matter wat de.

asdfghjkl · #**108** 03-12-2011, 12:39 AM

i think i know who u r. PM complete instruction on exposing him, inc 4 ST reporters and HA contacts.

this is not the first time i handle such a person and he will not forget the lesson. Liang is ready to unleash hell.

Thanks · #**109** 03-12-2011, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by asdfghjkl

i think i know who u r. PM complete instruction on exposing him, inc 4 ST reporters and HA contacts.

this is not the first time i handle such a person and he will not forget the lesson. Liang is ready to unleash hell.

Hi asdfghjkl

Please do not act on what you are planning

I have no hatred for anyone except myself

Right now my main focus is to resolve it with minimum hurt cause to my bf

The rest doesn't matter

Thanks

arsenal_84 · #**110** 03-12-2011, 02:17 PM

how we live is always ours to decide, within the boundaries we have set for ourselves.
whether we are free or held prisoner by another, may the truth set you free.

remember you are in total control of what you manifest in your life.
stepping out of the trade is the first brave step.
hope you continue on your positive path ahead in life.

CyberRod · #**111** 03-12-2011, 04:17 PM

Sis Thanks... Not sure if this will makes you feel better... My ex was a FL and I loved her with all that I've... When a person truly loves someone, he/she should not mind the past but trust & honestly is a must in all relationships...

dennisotg · #**112** 03-12-2011, 06:34 PM

report the police and tell your bf, you cant hide from him forever one.. goodluck girl..

Current · #**113** 03-12-2011, 10:17 PM

I have PM u this, but weird that my sent box doesnt reflect the message, I am not sure if the message go thru. In a rush now, have to go.

Hi,

I think it's hard for a man to accept a gf or wife to be a FL. So personally i felt its not advisable for you to tell your bf about the truth. I have some suggestions below before u decide what to do.

Do you watch any movies, tv or read any books?

Find any of these with story lines about girls working in the same industry. Then try to watch it with your bf, and test him on his reactions and response, eg by asking, "how will you feel if you are the guy in the story, will u accept the girl"

Once u find out how he response, you will be mentally prepare on your decision. And you will not waste time struggling on dealing this obstacle.

Its a psychology part you have to went thru, so all you need is the answer from his response.

My sincere suggestion. All the best.

goodpartner · #**114** 04-12-2011, 01:10 AM

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Originally Posted by CyberRod

Sis Thanks... Not sure if this will makes you feel better... My ex was a FL and I loved her with all that I've... When a person truly loves someone, he/she should not mind the past but trust & honestly is a must in all relationships...

There is a big difference whether you know she was a FL before or after you're in a r/s...

I suppose you know her when she was a FL?
That's very different situation from TS.

xiaochong · #**115** 04-12-2011, 01:17 AM

Wah sad story

Stud00 · #**116** 04-12-2011, 01:43 AM

Dear Ts,

Everyone has a past, but not everyone can be proud of our past. But the truth is, we do not live in the past, but we move forward. I salute your courage that you are moving on, to greener pastures, don't allow anyone/thing remind you of your past.

The way i see it, lodge a police report, and this fella is screwed.. and believe me, many bros here would glady sort this fella out for free. What an asswipe.

Either way, i hope it all works out for you. Jiayou!!

Sha_Gua75 · #**117** 04-12-2011, 01:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Ecuader

May I know who added to my reputation. Message me so i can return the favour. i have 16points to give out. lol

Me.........................

Torch_Man · #**118** 04-12-2011, 02:00 AM

lady Thanks,

as most bros said,
everybody got a past/history.
its bcos of such experiences which made us all stronger, wiser, knowledgeable, understanding, caring, empathise to the surrounding or universal changes around us.

sum truths r better left unspoken,
sum words r better left unsaid.....
U, lady Thanks, shld know wat/hw to handle
since u hv grown wiser nw, compare to teenage yrs.

personally,
truth r quite difficulty to swallow, for most pple.
as a divorcce myself, dat pain is rather unbearable, b it financially, emotionally, spiritually, mentally......

b wise always........

jz sharin,

Ecuader · #**119** 04-12-2011, 03:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Sha_Gua75

Me.........................

thanks

yeah added you back.

cutepig · #**120** 04-12-2011, 06:53 AM

Once I had a ex-gf who confessed to me that she used to sleep with few guys for money. It was difficult for me to accept at first though my reaction was quite neutral. Over time, I realised that I love her too much and accepted everything. However, somehow she developed a guilty feeling towards me and it strained our relationship. Eventually after a few years, we broke up.

What I want to say is if the guy really loves you, he will accept you. He may find out sooner or later. Or worse, maybe he already knows. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him wondering if he will ever know?