The truth, my story

[webb_chiam]

Originally Posted by naughtyuan

Thank you bros, my mood is totally spolied by an idiot who claims to be my colleague & he said that he will expose me at work if i continue to post my pics during work. Meanwhile, i accepted the challenge & will continue to post my story. Lets see how he can challenge me.

you should expose that guys nick and let the sbf bros help you tAKE HIM out

[howck001]

your story can be lesson for many of guys and girls, appreciate you very much

[naughtyuan]

The TEMPTATION for settling DOWN

Dear ALL who reads this thread, iam truly sori for the MIA again as I was going thru some emotional stress as i had read some articles about how 'WONDERFUL;' marriage is! As my dear dear had recently again 'started' his proposal plan AGAIN..... this time with the help of ALMOST my entire group of folks i known...... From my foster mother which is oso my aunt to my 1/2 sister & my 1/2 brother to my godsis godbro god papa including my boss...... they all want me to marry him as iam approaching my 30 in 3 years time. Icarry a true secret...... NOONE i really MEAN NOONE BUT............. a handful knew abt IT....... Ihad AN ABORTION before....... YES ikilled a tiny little life inside me.......... I dont mind marriage infact IAM REALLI LOOKING FORWARD TO IT........ BUT the thought of ever committed a life before makes me emmo...... MY HANDS ARE STAINED WITH BLOOD, MY OWN BLOOD...... WHO THE BABY BELONGS TO? TRULY idonno!!!!! iwas only 17 for christ sake...... my 1/2 sister brought me to the clinic & well after tat i couldnt hold on to meself for the next 2 months. She had to abandon her job to look after me & even hv a trip organised....... I LOVE MY SIS........

NOW the stress is more........ dear dear proposed on sunday morning after church.... in front of FATHER....... WELL i rejected & i ran away............. until now i dont reply his sms i dont answer his call & ilocked the door after i went home & he cant enter even hes got the spare keys...................... i went on a trip last week BECOS i wanna avoid him. I JUST CANT FACE THE WORDS


'PLS MARRY ME'

[Stitchboy]

Sis Yuan, I have been reading yr stories.....everyone deserves a second chance no matter what he or she had done.....and i feel n believe that u too deserve it. The matter had happened 10 years ago. Time to let go n move ahead with yr new life.
U have not cherish his or her life which u had 10 years ago and abort the baby due to "no choice" but now u have another choice to cherish the man who wishes to give u happiness.
Think about what i had said Sis.

[naughtyuan]

Originally Posted by Stitchboy

Sis Yuan, I have been reading yr stories.....everyone deserves a second chance no matter what he or she had done.....and i feel n believe that u too deserve it. The matter had happened 10 years ago. Time to let go n move ahead with yr new life.
U have not cherish his or her life which u had 10 years ago and abort the baby due to "no choice" but now u have another choice to cherish the man who wishes to give u happiness.
Think about what i had said Sis.

No i dont deserve the chance.......

[unsung80]

If not ready don't do it, i feel is not wrong with your rejection. Life is not ENTIRELY about marriage, baby, work your ass off for children education, saving for retirement, watch kid grow to adult, see your son and daughter getting marry, continue the family "fire", be a grandparent later..... Jesus Christ i can't imagine those stages. LOL

[penisman]

Very natural story in a very freestyle writing. Hope to hear more of your life stories.

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by naughtyuan

No i dont deserve the chance.......

Whether you are deserving or not is not for you to say. The fact that you have been given the chance to find love again means that the heaven is smiling at you. It is giving you another chance to find happiness and love and give love. Your future child(ren) will be fortunate because you will love them even more after having gone through your past experience.

So be strong and face up to your responsibilities (yes it is not just a chance!)

[DarkTan]

ask urself this question... turn back the time to 17 will u still go for abortion? turn back the time.. even if u dont go for abortion do u think u have the ability to take care of the baby? even u have do u think the baby will grow up healthy.. a piece of advise for u.. hardly there is any guy who u reject during propose will come back to u n propose again. if he does, cherish him n dont lost him.. if u love him share ur feelings with him.. work together.. and when u are 17 u are not totally at fault. u are still young that time. here is my advise

[MdmVodka]

Yuan!! Your dear dear told me about him wanting to marry you. And honestly, I was hoping that things will finally be right for the two of you once again.

Please dont blame yourself this way. I know it was a little life within you, but look at the bright side. And, sis, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I UNDERSTAND IT.

That so called wrong you did may not be a wrong thing at all. If you have chance to look at it using a different prospective, you may realised that it had given you more.

Your dear loves you a lot and I know you love him a lot too. After so many things that the two of you went through, I really wish that the two of you can start to have a happy life together and have something to call your own.

What is in the past is in the past. I have done many mistakes too but my hubby didnt abandon me. He loves me for who I am and I know HE loves you for who you are.



To err is human... I hope the past will not be tying you down and causing you to lose out on what's actually the thing that you wanted most.

*hugs...

[naughtyuan]

Originally Posted by MdmVodka

Yuan!! Your dear dear told me about him wanting to marry you. And honestly, I was hoping that things will finally be right for the two of you once again.

Please dont blame yourself this way. I know it was a little life within you, but look at the bright side. And, sis, I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. I UNDERSTAND IT.

That so called wrong you did may not be a wrong thing at all. If you have chance to look at it using a different prospective, you may realised that it had given you more.

Your dear loves you a lot and I know you love him a lot too. After so many things that the two of you went through, I really wish that the two of you can start to have a happy life together and have something to call your own.

What is in the past is in the past. I have done many mistakes too but my hubby didnt abandon me. He loves me for who I am and I know HE loves you for who you are.



To err is human... I hope the past will not be tying you down and causing you to lose out on what's actually the thing that you wanted most.

*hugs...

Thank you dear sis mdmvodka for these kind comments! For me iam happy the way it is.

[Wayne1984]

Don't waste the chance. I know it is hard for you to settle down but if he is serious about you, it's time to settle down. People make mistakes in life, l have a lot of friends that went through a lot of hardship abortion as well, have herpes (sexual disease), lost the use of his leg but still manage to find that special person to settle down with.

Hopefully you can re-consider but if you really cannot, please let him know so that he don't have to suffer for so long. Keeping a distance away from him is breaking his heart even more. Not all guys can be tough or strong as you think they are. After all, he is in love with you and even ask you to marry him. It means he is serious about you.

[Tai Guan]

It is really depend on individual whether she want to want to walk out her life style she created to a new life style with her partner. All we can do is to encourage her.

What had done cannot be undone, she had to walk out herself. Maybe you should stop recalling all the bad experienced and look @ the good experienced your going to have.

Pls dun tell dun have hor.

[naughtyuan]

Rendevous with my EX, Laurence on 2-6-2012

As usual, daily mode was on. Working working working and working, morning of 2-6-2012 saturday.... iwas in office, surfing sbf, VS site, monthly reports of cos invitations by many horny guys for sex....... i couldnt care much. I dropped EVERYTHING & went back home @ 1130am. Back at my home, i face the lonely 4 walls as i went for a bath. It was a warm day, istripped my office wear & went in my bath. After the bath, iwent to my iphone & was surprised i had a miss call. It was my EX, laurence. Slight intro, laurence is a recent divorcee with a plump plump wife in the F&B industry. He often meet me up for sex as he mentioned tat he was sick of 'eating' tat 'oily' bitch. Iwas at his stall sometimes for lunch & isaw wat he said. His wife was plump but cute. He was a man ihate for betraying his wife but again, he's nt the onoy one. As mentioned, his wife divorce him as his wife had another man outside, the reason lol becos he got a small small dick.

Laurence came after to my place at noon, as he was nearby running an errand. we had a great chat after been nt meet each other for 2 years. he was of cos looking at my cleavages & he said he missed the twins. finally i did a BJ on him & he bursted into my mouth as usual. No sex just BJ

PICS in my pic forum

[t33kid]

Hi, you have got a nice pair of jug