Would you take an Ex FL as your GF?

[Yuppie132]

I would date and accept an ex-FL. Key word being "ex". However, there will always be the social stigma as in "what if my friend has "did" before".

[kingjack8]

If you really love her, you will feel extreme difficult in letting her go. Then there are two things you must answer them yourself.....

1) can you overlook her past....if yes, proceed to
2) can you trust that she won't do it again behind you.

I'm sure being in this trade for a while, she knows how to earn quick and lots of money. With that, I guess she must have maintained certain standard of living for herself..eg: branded handbags, shoes, clothes, etc.

Now that she is with you, I'm sure she would have certain expectations that you could satisfy her standard of living while she knows she needs to support your sexual desires...hehehe. Along with this point, you must ask yourself whether you are financially capable to provide her..financially.

Sorry for the long story Bro...it's not as simple answer as Accept or Dump.

Cheers,

[bimpom]

Originally Posted by kingjack8

If you really love her, you will feel extreme difficult in letting her go. Then there are two things you must answer them yourself.....

1) can you overlook her past....if yes, proceed to
2) can you trust that she won't do it again behind you.

I'm sure being in this trade for a while, she knows how to earn quick and lots of money. With that, I guess she must have maintained certain standard of living for herself..eg: branded handbags, shoes, clothes, etc.

Now that she is with you, I'm sure she would have certain expectations that you could satisfy her standard of living while she knows she needs to support your sexual desires...hehehe. Along with this point, you must ask yourself whether you are financially capable to provide her..financially.

Sorry for the long story Bro...it's not as simple answer as Accept or Dump.

Cheers,

Couldn't agree more. My answer to both 1) and 2) is yes. We have already built up the chemistry. You r right she has maintained certain standard of living for herself. Branded goods... And yes I am able to support her financially...

She rejected me firstly by saying that I already have a gf even though she likes me.
After that I persisted and told her to stop work I provide her money financially, she said she doesn't want money but just wanna be my close friend.or so called FB.
Now she says to me," sorry I don't love you darling, please forget me,I don't wanna hurt you. "

U are correct, not such a simple case of accepting or dumping.

[kingjack8]

Bro bimpom,

There was no love to begin with...Love, I meant both ways. It appears that you love her, but she does not love you..only want to be your FB. She has made it very clear to you.

Case closed.

I wish you best of luck in finding your real lover & partner.

Cheers,
Jack

[bimpom]

Originally Posted by kingjack8

Bro bimpom,

There was no love to begin with...Love, I meant both ways. It appears that you love her, but she does not love you..only want to be your FB. She has made it very clear to you.

Case closed.

I wish you best of luck in finding your real lover & partner.

Cheers,
Jack

Thanks buddy,
Yes it is a one sided affair.. I love her and she has made it clear to me. I've decided to move on... Now we r not even FB... We no longer contact each other..
Thanks and have a nice day!

Cheers

[<<totally>>]

Originally Posted by kingjack8

Bro bimpom,

There was no love to begin with...Love, I meant both ways. It appears that you love her, but she does not love you..only want to be your FB. She has made it very clear to you.

Cheers,
Jack

That is a good call after what reading on the bimpom's issue. The point that you have pointed out on "certain standard of living for herself. " suggest to me something very clearly.

If you did not go through it, you will not know it. Anyway gd job done!

[poi123]

i will accept if i do love her and she truely loves me.. there should be no barrier and i appreciate the frankness if she tells me.. Cos i do have a ex who was a FL few years back.. only if u think u can help her out if not one cant stop her from working to help her family..

[Mirabell]

yes,if after going stead with you,she quit the trade.

[tambi8]

So far the discussion is you guys are aware the girl is or was FL
Let's change it. If after falling in love with a girl only to discover she was or is a F!, what would you guys do?
Dump or continue?

[bimpom]

Originally Posted by <<totally>>

That is a good call after what reading on the bimpom's issue. The point that you have pointed out on "certain standard of living for herself. " suggest to me something very clearly.

If you did not go through it, you will not know it. Anyway gd job done!

Hi bro,

Nice seeing in this discussion poll! It's a small world after all ya?? yes I felt good after letting go... But now we are in contact again... Very strange ya.. But my love(feelings) are gone... Just friends

Cheers to u buddy!
Upz ur points!
Crazy BIMPOM

[spidey7]

I c y nt since u said she is ex-FL. Both muz hv feel 4ea other. Nt money feel fm her.

[Forevermark]

why not ?
i have a few friends who have FL as wife from vietnam,prc and tom-yam.

[Tamarai]

no problem for me.

[nanasempoi]

No issues for me. some how or rather, how sure are we that our ex/gf/wife nvr sleep around before??

totally respect FLs as they dare to do it for whatsoever reason, get paid some more, compared to being screwed freely by a guy anywhere, like those gerls u can normally find in the clubs.

[Sssh]

Not a issue for me as long she is clean