China student as mistress

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by dt3305

Of course, the numerous bonk was free. Now we still keep in touch and she is contemplating coming here to spent some time with me as she claims she miss me. And, no she did not ask her a cent for any air ticket or whatsoever. So, she is a gem of a find but too bad she is 4,000km away.

The only thing I can think of is - pay for what you get. May more or pay little up to you, but just make sure you pay.

I also got a China student who for some reason decided to latch on to me and call me her "boyfriend". Shed tears when she was caught by immigration and sent home for 3 years. The usual story, blah blah. We spent almost every day together after that fateful day, and overnighted every weekend, bonking like crazy. Sure, she didn't ask for money. Sure, she bought me gifts and sometimes paid the cab fare. But I have never forgotten the circumstances under which we met. At the back of my mind, I was always thinking that sooner or later I have to pay for all this pleasure whether she asked for it or not. Everybody has to have a standard of chionging. I am not, of course, asking that people follow mine.

After each of the two weekends we spent overnighting, I gave her $100 to get through the week. I topped up her phone card. I bought her air ticket, and the night before she left, I passed her $400. All this amounted to $1000+ for 11 fuck sessions. If you calculate it at a per bonk basis, it's $100 per bonk which is OK. Of course if you count the overnight rate which could go from $150 to $200 a night, I'm far short. And if you count TianAnMen rates for $300+ a night, I'm totally screwed. But the important thing is that I paid what I could. Had to lie low almost a month, but I paid. If something comes up, I can say that my conscience is clear and I owe her nothing. That is perhaps the most important thing of all.

[ric33]

I had a FL at Darlene last year and the 'relationship' continued till now..... I posted a FR on her here before..... After that 1st time, I forgot her hp no. but I chanced upon her again when I went for WanTon mee at Lor 12. We hooked up and the rest is history.

I wont say that I 'bao'her but we would definitely spend time fr 1-2 days whenever she touched down here and before she leaves, for another 1-2 days. As I stay in the east, my fav hotel is the one at CV. I would put her up there for 1-2 days on arrival and prior departure.

Day time, I work and she does her things, shopping or spa at the hotel...dinner together and then bonking session.

In fact, maybe purely chemistry, she did not take $ from me since the third time. 1st and 2nd time, I believed I paid $150 for 2 shots each time for the 1st two times. But after that, I always leave something for her.

She is from Chengdu and I went to her place before when I was on biz trip. She is staying with her mother only and she owns an apartment, nicely done up and fully paid up.

Everytime, she is here and before she leaves. I gave her $500-$1000 even though she never ask; she is rich enough from her earnings as a FL as she has her usual 'clients'.

So, one man's meat is another poison. Just my 5-cent worth of opinion.

Cheers.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by newbadass

If something comes up, I can say that my conscience is clear and I owe her nothing. That is perhaps the most important thing of all.

U hv say it all...

hmmm..is either u pay up now...or u pay more in the future....not doubting others stories..but do u believe when a person tell u he bonk for free...

i hv encounter a lot of stories from those chiongsters telling me they bonk for free...but in actual fact..when i try to unearth the juicy details..i found out in fact..they pamper the gals wif hps, jewellery, money, pay their home rental, etc..

all this r the so called 'dark secret' of the chiongster which they dun want to reveal..if their kakis noe they actually give the gal $$, it seems vey 'xia suay' or loose face to them....it's not a very in thing to be seem as 'chai tao' by others....so they just keep blabbering...blabbering..'i bonk the gal for free'..at least they got a bit of so called dignity....

[newbadass]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

....it's not a very in thing to be seem as 'chai tao' by others....so they just keep blabbering...blabbering..'i bonk the gal for free'..at least they got a bit of so called dignity....

I would rather my friends think I am a "cai tao" rather than think I have no standard. Different people value things differently.

I don't consider myself a "cai tao" because I "paid" after getting everything.
But if a guy pay this pay that before getting anything and still don't get, then he is a "cai tao"

[Reaper]

its not easy to control the heart and tell it what to do and what not to do.

its not easy to not to love when you try not to love someone.

the heart is a strange organ...man really have no control over it.

there is a fine line between Love, Infatuation/crush/puppy love & just being plain old horny.....

Time to do some soul searching............

CHEERS

[maxxer]

Originally Posted by dirtymonk82

i don't mind staying at house and doing the housework and looking after the kid...still can play mahjong somemore...

Haha me too i guess!But if everyday must kena Fing from them then i rather not....Must have pride as man right Bro?Just had a drink with a shanghai friend and was told that this days they have Male maid there!!!

[maxxer]

Originally Posted by HuiGe3387

We have heard too much of such stories, but yet there are still so many roberts who fall into the trap of 天真。

Well we all learn along the way i guess but not all are roberts i must say...I once dated a China gal too.Stayed at her place and i think i was more being Pao than her.She works at TAM and me being not rich was not the type to be made a Robert.But the mistake that i made was that i felt in Lupe with her and when she left(Cos she suddenly remember that she is here to make money and some Indon wanted to Pao her)i was really hurt!My 2cents thought to all Bros out there is that if you are with a PRC now dont have too much feelings in it cos it took me a while to get over it....

2.5cents thoughts...

[maxxer]

Originally Posted by shengge

Can you elaborate as in what ways the woman head the house?



Traditionally, Shanghai men do the cooking at home. But these days, mostly maid does the cooking and housework, as both the young couples need to work.
While saying all these, I do agree that Shanghai women make most of the decisions, I did see that some women having superiority over the male friends or hubby. I think this could be due to the one-child policy that most parents over pampered their daughter, that makes them more self-oriented or more possesive.

I think in the end it is all abt respect and appreciation.

Just my 20cents.

To me being the head of the house meaning who makes the decision at home.As far as i know in Sg most man makes the decision although in my Family both me and my wife share ideas and later make a decision together.I have learn that in Shanghai because woman are the main sole-breadwinner therefore they are the decision maker in this case the head of the house.In the past it was worst ..The woman would shout or hit the man if she had a hard day at work.I dont not blame the woman for that(Not the hitting part) cos according to a friend from Shanghai,"Man" in Shanghai are less bussiness minded or should i say ...Hmmm i cant think of that word suddenly!As for ur thought on that One-Child Policy i guess we dont know whether there were more male or female born during that era therefore whether a Baby boy or a girl was born i guess the Parents will also Pamper right?I thought as chinese we will prefer Male too?Hmmm maybe i am wrong. To me in Shanghai family respect and appreciation dont really happen its more of "You bring $$$ back u King,I bring $$$ back i King...


Just a 2cents thought....Tks Bro for your Points.This is what i call Adults.We share ideas even if we see different points

[highsex]

hi brothers, i know howit feels cause i have apid to pau one fulltime,young 19 years old and it cost me 15 grand a month> today it is cheaper and you can pau one for less than 10 grand. the last gal left without giving me a chance as she wasbooked b4 i could offer. she is back now in shanghai to get married and she will not give me her mobile no. she said she will call me when it is convenient and if i happen to be in shanghai to have lunch.....nothing more.
another told me she really liked me and i flew all the way to see her in qingdao but when i am back she asked me to remit money to her to buy an apt.
i give up on china and i am now in thailand but it is the same old story, the only consolation is it is cheaper.
love comes with a price. if you have time and willing to commit...all is well. if not then wake up and pay cause whatever the sweet talk you are not Romeo in love.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by newbadass

I would rather my friends think I am a "cai tao" rather than think I have no standard. Different people value things differently.

I don't consider myself a "cai tao" because I "paid" after getting everything.
But if a guy pay this pay that before getting anything and still don't get, then he is a "cai tao"

is just tat some people dun want to 'come clean' wif the fact tat they 'support' the gals..haizz..mayb it is a disgrace to them..if really tat disgraceful..then dun do in the 1st place loh...

it is still betta than people who choose to 'cheat' the gal... see some eg myself..and hear from gals too... the type of chiongster i cannot stand...is those who ask the gal from KTV for overnite session..promise to buy her this and tat the following day...then the nxt day disappear....this type of people sure 1 day tio karma one....mayb nxt life this type of people will become a cheap chicken...hmmm...

[Marpol72]

Hi all,

Does anyone have any contacts for room calls in Qingdao? Maybe that will cost cheaper? I am flying tonite, hope can get something today.

[no_faith]

bro marpol72, imho, ur very post is to dig an old thread, post in wrong section, ask for room service? perhaps a little search will help.

http://sbf.directory/showthr...hlight=qingdao
http://sbf.directory/showthr...hlight=qingdao
http://sbf.directory/showthr...hlight=qingdao

these are 3 links which i found. hopefully will assist u. enjoy ur stay in qingdao.

[Albertlsh]

My years of travelling to variuos countries gave me the opportunities to meet business men especially from Japan and Taiwan, be it in China, Vietnam , Thailand etc told me eventually they are "milk " dry by all these ladies. Some on them really gave good advice like :"Don't rear a cow, but drink the milk ".
I think all Bros should seriously consider this advice. After all if we have the money to spend, we should have the luxury to paid for pretty, young and sexy girl for our pleasure and keep changing for various "goods" rather than to waste our hard earn cash on these type of ladies who might eventually "milk" us dry like those men that had told me stories about how they are eventually conned and stripped of everything even barred from entering certain country.

[LeDivorcee]

My personal experience:

Met a PRC girl from a well known KTV. Don't know why, but we have chemistry and got on quite well... Booked her a few times and made arrangement to continue outside the KTV... Kepp the long story short... she continue to ask for more and more money, after a few session until I fired back at her saying that her pussy is not made of gold and for the price she is asking, I can be king in any GL houses in one day as compared being treated like king by her for two hours... After that, she did not contact me anymore and I deleted her contact.

Beside the issue, not all PRC girls are in for the money, although there are a few (I stress... only a few...) who needed the companionship more than money...

I paid every single ct for my PRC to be in SG on student pass n all living expenses etc . She no longer work .... I like her company, but she get possessive ... I am OK with it ...