The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[lazydudz]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

People said after marriage relationship would blossom even more if both parties share common interest. But for me it doesnt work. I am a Capricorn and so is the one I married to. On the contrary sharing different interest would bring one closer to his partner even more. I just found it out.

does u belive in horoscopes?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

People said after marriage relationship would blossom even more if both parties share common interest. But for me it doesnt work. I am a Capricorn and so is the one I married to. On the contrary sharing different interest would bring one closer to his partner even more. I just found it out.

no offence, i dont study constalations, neither am i an oracle.

but from observations, i realized many capricorn people that i know, tend to be confused about themselves at times. sometimes they think they know wat they want, bt realize they're longing for something that may not even exist.

i can imagine & empathize your situation & bickering between the 2 of u over perhaps trivial matters as well?

[STK01]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

but from observations, i realized many capricorn people that i know, tend to be confused about themselves at times. sometimes they think they know wat they want, bt realize they're longing for something that may not even exist.

This seems to describe me too. But I am a Gemini.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by STK01

This seems to describe me too. But I am a Gemini.

for gemini, i observe them to have mood swings, double character, sometimes indecisive (only towards matters)... unlike capricorn (uncertain of themselves)

just observations only... it doesnt represent everyone under the sun that happen to share the same star sign.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i can imagine & empathize your situation & bickering between the 2 of u over perhaps trivial matters as well?

At times, yes. I know my own weakness and most of the time I would give in to avoid further strain.

I do have a friend, both she and her husband under Aries. Chia lat. Both bloody hot and short tempered. Very quarrelsome. But I sort of get along quite well with her. We may not share the same interest but dont know why somehow or rather we could click very well. But of course I try not to come in between them. Dont wish to wreck someone marriage. I rather go for paid sex and owe nobody an apology.

[Xdecepticon]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

for gemini, i observe them to have mood swings, double character, sometimes indecisive (only towards matters)... unlike capricorn (uncertain of themselves)

Looks like capricorn the worst lot among the rest of the stars.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Looks like capricorn the worst lot among the rest of the stars.

bro, dont be too quick to conclude like this. for starters, the world is not just made up of 12-13types of people/characters, nor even 24-25types of permutated attitudes. in every starsign, they have their strengths & weaknesses as well. try not to dwell on the less fortunate portions of life, but in those darkest moments, adopting positive attitude & finding opportunities is probably key to succes (or at least, easing the tension for starters)

so when 2 people come together, it is up to the individuals to work things out or find a balance in their characters, complementing 1 another. relationship is not just about the gd stuff, its also about making up for the partner's short-comings. so, at the end of the day, if a person doesnt know him/herself well enough, doesnt know wat he/she needs, doesnt know wat he/she wants in life.... therein comes more complications when they encounter a significant other.

typical timeline expenditure for most ppl...
1-25yrs - studies & preparing for the real world
26-30yrs - personal discovery, starting out in life, exploring potential partner prospects
31-35yrs - anchoring/making a choice for the right one
36-40yrs - starting a love nest, procreation of new generation
41-55yrs - self denial, financing household & raising kids
56-62(5)(7)yrs - slowing down of pace, getting ready for retirement
60+ -any other age - retire if can afford, or continue working till kick the bucket.

all in all, as some older people have cited... life is not a bed of roses, given the short span of say 80y++rs of existance, can we safely say that we've ventured well, or have wasted our lives... subject to individuals.

[Know_yr_role]

Originally Posted by Er Lang

Thank bro for the valuable advice.

Believe most guys like to have some private moment to be alone and ponder
Well there isn't any lack of communications between my partner & me.She is more pro active in comm with me. Most of time i would lend a listening ear for her to vent & pour out her stress/complaint at work. Both of us are at the right age to settle down.probably will take another 2 years or more if things work out well between us

Actually, she has been asking to visit my house but i think it not the right time after some minor misunderstandings. Been together for about 8months and only knew that her ex-bf was 11 yrs her senior which was back in 2005 way back before i met her. Further more, i was quite shocked when she shared this past history with me. I think she should has told me before the start of the r/s rather than at this stage. Feel quite disappointed with her but she told me she feel more secure and confident to share it with me now....i wondering should i carry on r/s...defintely will put on hold to meet my parents. Anyway, i did received some gd comment from her siblings and mum

I think most women need feel comfortable and secure in a r/s before they reveal their past to their spouse. Since she told told u, i assume she sees a future with you, 8 months isnt a long time and you already have thoughts of settling down with her. Love at first sight? anyway, since u given yrself the 2 yr mark, use this time to explore each other more and build up the relationship. Hope it all works well for u bro, cheers!~

[Deztruct]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

no offence, i dont study constalations, neither am i an oracle.

but from observations, i realized many capricorn people that i know, tend to be confused about themselves at times. sometimes they think they know wat they want, bt realize they're longing for something that may not even exist.

how about aquarius?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Deztruct

how about aquarius?

from wat i gather.. my frens who fall under aquarius r happy go lucky at times, but in general, ca be rather passionate people too. sometimes too passionate that they leave no reservations.... making them vulnerable to heart shattering mishaps

[eQuipment]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

no offence, i dont study constalations, neither am i an oracle.

but from observations, i realized many capricorn people that i know, tend to be confused about themselves at times. sometimes they think they know wat they want, bt realize they're longing for something that may not even exist

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

for gemini, i observe them to have mood swings, double character, sometimes indecisive (only towards matters)... unlike capricorn (uncertain of themselves)

just observations only... it doesnt represent everyone under the sun that happen to share the same star sign.

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

from wat i gather.. my frens who fall under aquarius r happy go lucky at times, but in general, ca be rather passionate people too. sometimes too passionate that they leave no reservations.... making them vulnerable to heart shattering mishaps

I canot agree with all you stated, but i think some u mention seem to be quite true, especially aquarius part.

my OC is aquarius, character is like water; when she bochup she can bochup-like still water, but when she want to chup she really chup-like waterfall. she also drama type, the tears like got tap control. wanna cry just cry -tsunami

tears = WMD (weapon of man's destruction)

Haha, I think all zodiac sign will hv one thtat is compatible ....

Common interest is one thing, they must be willing to do it together. Some golfers don't like playing with their OC

[Er Lang]

Originally Posted by Know_yr_role

I think most women need feel comfortable and secure in a r/s before they reveal their past to their spouse. Since she told told u, i assume she sees a future with you, 8 months isnt a long time and you already have thoughts of settling down with her. Love at first sight? anyway, since u given yrself the 2 yr mark, use this time to explore each other more and build up the relationship. Hope it all works well for u bro, cheers!~

no lah never think of settling down with her at this moment. still a long way to go for us....still nd to under each other better.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by eQuipment

I canot agree with all you stated, but i think some u mention seem to be quite true, especially aquarius part.

my OC is aquarius, character is like water; when she bochup she can bochup-like still water, but when she want to chup she really chup-like waterfall. she also drama type, the tears like got tap control. wanna cry just cry -tsunami

tears = WMD (weapon of man's destruction)

thanks for the correspondence, but then wat u just shared seems to be quite typical of most women. couldnt agree more... "tears = WMD (weapon of man's destruction)"

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Shih Huang Ti

.....Common interest is one thing, they must be willing to do it together. Some golfers don't like playing with their OC

in the same way, we sometimes enjoy sex better, but not with OC.