Gers Are Still Gers

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

If we can say that SG gers have high expectations, expect these and that, just go and get a girl with lower expectations whereby we can click with them.

Why don't choose a girl with lower expectations? Is it because the girl doesn't fit into our own's expectations instead? or is it we ourselves have high expectations?

1 with reasonable expectations is fine, but wait till the leopard spots reveal. that revelation only comes on or after the day she puts the pen to paper. those fortunate enough to see the spots prior to marraige.. considered lucky.

dont forget, we singaporeans have the tendency to be competitive & comparison is inevitable. men usually stomach the minor issues of domestic disputes... but the girls bring their issues to the workplace, and then they start bitching, and then start comparing, compare every little detail possible... then the man will soon be in for some pleasent surprise.

she starts her nonsense: "why my friend's hubby buy her diamonds, but you dont even give me almonds?", "why my friends hubby so romantic, but you so realistic?", "why my friends hubby fetch her in benz, "but you only come driving a van?"....etc. and the list goes on.

their intial small expectations soon will swell into a big vacuum (under the influence of friends/colleagues) ... even our simplest plain jane these days know & perfected the art of 扮猪吃老虎

[Kyser Soze]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

dont forget, we singaporeans have the tendency to be competitive & comparison is inevitable. men usually stomach the minor issues of domestic disputes... but the girls bring their issues to the workplace, and then they start bitching, and then start comparing, compare every little detail possible... then the man will soon be in for some pleasent surprise.

she starts her nonsense: "why my friend's hubby buy her diamonds, but you dont even give me almonds?", "why my friends hubby so romantic, but you so realistic?", "why my friends hubby fetch her in benz, "but you only come driving a van?"....etc. and the list goes on.

their intial small expectations soon will swell into a big vacuum (under the influence of friends/colleagues) ... even our simplest plain jane these days know & perfected the art of 扮猪吃老虎

Well said, I believe this "competitive & comparison" syndrome is inevitable. We men too do compete and compare. Can you remember the last time you try to compete the sales quota with your colleague? Do you remember the school days when you compare the exam results with our classmates?

Well, back to the topic. I myself is consider as a victim under the "competitive & comparison" syndrome. As a graduate, I'm now working as an engineer. But often than not, I'm deemed as a not-good-enough man among most young Singaporean women, as I look ordinary, my ~$3k monthly salary is never a big deal (they can earn as much or more) and I do not possess a car. Hence, for most part of my life, I only managed to have 2 relationship with local women, and despite many attempts. I do not condemn our local women, as each and everyone have their needs and requirements. If the requirements do not meet, then sorry.

Ironically, I'm considered as an eligible bachelor among young China women (not FL and WL but fellow factory operators working in my factory). What does this imply? Probably our local population is too small to look for love. Probably we must let our intention to marry a local woman die off. Recently, I have shake off my belief that my future wife will be a local. More likely, I'm seeking our ministers' motto and entreprenuers' advice to look for chances overseas... this case foreign women.

[BitchWitch]

I went out wif my frds for dinner ytd & there goes our conver..

Guy: What u girls want to eat?
Girls: Anytings la.. u decided lo
Guy: Mmmm jap foods?
Girls: HUH dun wan la...
Guy: Pasta? TimSum?
Girls: HUH we just had it recently eh
Guy: -_-"
GIrls: Aiya we ok wif anyting de... as long as not jap, timsum & pasta
Guy: 4get it.. u girls decided alrdy.... tell me where to mit...

End up is have to please them .....

[suteerak1099]

back in the 60s 70s & early 80s, there seemed to be less issues of the messy issues of divorce, spouses making unsound comparisons of their hubby. typically (not trying to be chauvenist), those were the harder times, those were the days they're mostly homemakers, those were the days when the motto 有爱情-吃面包就够了. in fact, most due to face & honor; have the tendency of boasting & singing praises of their hubby with content. (to be fair, those were also the days when the women suffered in silence)

since the mid-late 80s to date, girl power & woman independence start taking place. woman wanting to wear the pants in & outside of the house etc. even if their not the breadwinners, they too have their fair share of supplementing expenses - somehow or other, the ladies too have a job, and in the given environment, the competitiveness morph n change them into monsters.

at the turn of the new millenium.. what happens? woman liberation? woman independence? its becoming rampant.. and what do we hear these days? women can make do without the men... so, does this mean that the male species is now redundant??

1 thing's for sure, they cant live without: dial-a chauffeur. who's readily available to pick her up at her demand. (so they can slouch & recline in the seat to catch a little shut eye, while resting those blistered feet - after a day of gruelling shopping in killer heels)

[wukong68]

Originally Posted by andrewcjz

lol. used to it liao

Hahahah.. LOL

This happens to me also .. same dialogue...
sometimes just dun understand gals.. when u ask them they say ANYTHING!
When u suggest something they say alot of negative suggestions...
Haizzzzzzzzzz..........

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

how? why? when avg joe meets plain jane, life was bliss. but jane eventually wants avg joe to morph into joe millionaire, so she can be 太太, joe may or may not achieve (but requires time to do so), jane cant wait.. she moves on.

It is a pity that avg joe could not meet the expectations of jane. But u as Avg joe, do not need to comply.

To put it simply, u just do not fit into their plans. So whats there to complain? Don't tell me u don't have jane, u cannot survive meh?

Jane does not need Avg joe to survive. Women these days are capable enough to take care of themselves. Don't need you to say so much.

I supposed if you say your point to the women in SG, they will simply tell u to "FUCK OFF" and they wouldn't beg you to be with them. U can whine all u want about them, but I just have to say they simply don't need men like you.


SC

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

since the mid-late 80s to date, girl power & woman independence start taking place. woman wanting to wear the pants in & outside of the house etc. even if their not the breadwinners, they too have their fair share of supplementing expenses - somehow or other, the ladies too have a job, and in the given environment, the competitiveness morph n change them into monsters.
at the turn of the new millenium.. what happens? woman liberation? woman independence? its becoming rampant.. and what do we hear these days? women can make do without the men... so, does this mean that the male species is now redundant??

1 thing's for sure, they cant live without: dial-a chauffeur. who's readily available to pick her up at her demand. (so they can slouch & recline in the seat to catch a little shut eye, while resting those blistered feet - after a day of gruelling shopping in killer heels)

I can only say u are a MCP. They can live without men like you, but the problem is you cannot live without women like them, thats why u are complaining and blasting them non-stop.



SC

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by BitchWitch

I went out wif my frds for dinner ytd & there goes our conver..

Guy: What u girls want to eat?
Girls: Anytings la.. u decided lo
Guy: Mmmm jap foods?
Girls: HUH dun wan la...
Guy: Pasta? TimSum?
Girls: HUH we just had it recently eh
Guy: -_-"
GIrls: Aiya we ok wif anyting de... as long as not jap, timsum & pasta
Guy: 4get it.. u girls decided alrdy.... tell me where to mit...

End up is have to please them .....

Now we change a scenario,

Girl: What style u like?
Guy: Anything la, u decide cos i am enjoying it.
Girl: Mmmmm, u on top?
Guy: No lah, I am bit tired, back pain
Girl: Doggie?
Guy: Nope.
Girl: Breast Fuck?
Guy: Always Breast Fuck, I sian liao
Girl: -_-"
Guy: Aiya, I ok if u just blow me off and suck me dry as long as I don't need to maneuver
Girl: U go pcc yourself. Ask me for fuck?

Moral of the story: Guys have 1001 reasons to blast girls, but you forgotten that when u point 1 finger at them, u have another 3 fingers pointing back at yourself

SC

[Almond]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Now we change a scenario,


Moral of the story: Guys have 1001 reasons to blast girls, but you forgotten that when u point 1 finger at them, u have another 3 fingers pointing back at yourself

SC

Hahahah..... Good One!!!! Going to up you for it....

[zodiac]

have you guys been hit with the deadly question when she almost couldn't fit into one of her jeans/dress

Am I fat??

[Optimus_Prime]

Originally Posted by zodiac

have you guys been hit with the deadly question when she almost couldn't fit into one of her jeans/dress

Am I fat??

If she asks you that... it's DEAD TIME !!

cus from experience... no answer is a right one....

But now I'll probably flip her over and make steamy love to her and then after it's all over when she's panting and catching her breath... quickly dress up and leave for the pub before she can ask it again...heheh

The League of ExTra HorNy GentleMEN & SeXy LADIES

[beck7777]

Originally Posted by zodiac

have you guys been hit with the deadly question when she almost couldn't fit into one of her jeans/dress

Am I fat??

this is a killer Q!!

u tell her she is fat means you're tired of living..

no u tell her she is not fat, she will claimed u r lying and make a fuss..

so best is pretend nvr hear.. just walk away...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

It is a pity that avg joe could not meet the expectations of jane. But u as Avg joe, do not need to comply.

To put it simply, u just do not fit into their plans. So whats there to complain? Don't tell me u don't have jane, u cannot survive meh?

Jane does not need Avg joe to survive. Women these days are capable enough to take care of themselves. Don't need you to say so much.

I supposed if you say your point to the women in SG, they will simply tell u to "FUCK OFF" and they wouldn't beg you to be with them. U can whine all u want about them, but I just have to say they simply don't need men like you.


SC

LOL, be reminded.. we men are realistic... the gals tend to be idealistic and demand what is hollistic. which literally is eratic.

i never claimed that i'm fantastic, but in view of your poor comprehension to misinterpret that i've been portraying the posts on a personal scale... you really should buck up..

and do us all a favor, dont be so pathetic.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

I can only say u are a MCP. They can live without men like you, but the problem is you cannot live without women like them, thats why u are complaining and blasting them non-stop.



SC

wah! so now GE coming along, you campainging for Woman's Action Party or wat? did i even mention words of ego, stating that the male species being almighty & all??

read carefully, if its not clear enough for your poor comprehension skills - in a nutshell: i'm suggesting that there should be some equality and/or balance

fyi: blasting the gals is 1 thing, least to say, i've never condemned...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

Now we change a scenario,

Girl: What style u like?
Guy: Anything la, u decide cos i am enjoying it.
Girl: Mmmmm, u on top?
Guy: No lah, I am bit tired, back pain
Girl: Doggie?
Guy: Nope.
Girl: Breast Fuck?
Guy: Always Breast Fuck, I sian liao
Girl: -_-"
Guy: Aiya, I ok if u just blow me off and suck me dry as long as I don't need to maneuver
Girl: U go pcc yourself. Ask me for fuck?

Moral of the story: Guys have 1001 reasons to blast girls, but you forgotten that when u point 1 finger at them, u have another 3 fingers pointing back at yourself

SC

LOL... a sex partner with such performance/form in bed... its life long suffering. but wait... more scenarios:

Girl: shall we try for baby?
Guy: i've been waiting long for tongiht
Girl: but my mensus cycle should be here anytime
Guy: then we try after the cycle lor
Girl: so how? want or dont want?
Guy: we try after the cycle lor. tonight just the usual bonk lor
Girl: why do you have to put it off? you take me as sex object or a whore?
Guy: well, i suppose it'd be better timing after your cycle or when you ovulate again.
Girl: -_-"
Guy: so how? you really want to try??
Girl: U go pcc yourself !!