Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Honey Boon]

bu ge qi, bu ge qi ....

Originally Posted by Golden question

pei fu,pei fu,xiao di bow in front of u

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Honey Boon

so when are you coming on board this ship?

this ship will always be rocky especially first few year for all marriage,once sail far should be more steady but when sail on wrong direction and if hit the rock will surely sink

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

I have 3 girls ... 1 - 9 - 12 ....

2 elderst from previous marriage ... youngest is this marriage .. :eek

wonder how u handle,must be tough man

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

wonder how u handle,must be tough man

the 2 gals follow their mum ... so very manageable ..

so your bx how many months already ?

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

the 2 gals follow their mum ... so very manageable ..

so your bx how many months already ?

around 2 months liao,knn,last month she motorbike me and her small nephew who is 12 years old (quite fat) to vung tau,3 hour there and 3 hour back not knowing she carry one more inside her tummy,4 human on 1 motorbike,lucky she ok

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

around 2 months liao,knn,last month she motorbike me and her small nephew who is 12 years old (quite fat) to vung tau,3 hour there and 3 hour back not knowing she carry one more inside her tummy,4 human on 1 motorbike,lucky she ok

Bro .. the myth is : It's alright if you do not know you are carrying a BB ... BUT .. once you already know you are carrying a BB .. Alot things are NO NO ...

so is Bu Zi Ze Wu Zui ....

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Bro .. the myth is : It's alright if you do not know you are carrying a BB ... BUT .. once you already know you are carrying a BB .. Alot things are NO NO ...

so is Bu Zi Ze Wu Zui ....

yah,buddha also say so,btw if got those 'pan tan' things to ask.i will PM u

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Golden question

yah,buddha also say so,btw if got those 'pan tan' things to ask.i will PM u

Sure Sure ... no problem .. u can send me sms also

You want Vietnamese "Pan Tan" or Chinese "Pan Tan" .... hi hi hi hi

[lkyin1]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Sure Sure ... no problem .. u can send me sms also

You want Vietnamese "Pan Tan" or Chinese "Pan Tan" .... hi hi hi hi

Hi shysaint Bro, can share share what are the Vietnamese "Pan Tan" things?

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by Golden question

wonder how u handle,must be tough man

Bro, 3 kids not very bad la. I also 3 kids, 2 gals are twins @ 8 years old, 1 boy @ 3 years old. The only bad thing is cannot take afternoon nap on weekend afternoons as all are home and make damm a lot of noise. Weekdays, all @ school, so more peaceful.

Kids are fun at times, but terrible most of the time. I place lots of emphasis on education, so i spend lots of resources on that. But i am not kiasu until must put them into very good primary school. Both my daughters are in neighbourhood school but i ensure they perform well in school. My boy is in a more costly childcare, but i can see they take good care of my boy and he's learning fast.

I told my wife, her parents didn't give her much education so there's a lot of things she doesn't know. She's also like me, wants our children to study hard and study well.

[big wood]

congrat bro GQ for a dragon baby

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by lkyin1

Hi shysaint Bro, can share share what are the Vietnamese "Pan Tan" things?

Hi Hi .. Actually I won't say "Pan Tan" ... coz I never observe like any, more it's their belief and practices :

1. NO SeX during Pregnancy.

2. IF you are Pregnant before the Wedding Custom / Dinner ... DO NOT let your invited guests know , else they will NOT turn up for your ceremony / dinner.

3. Baby Girl will have their Ear Pierced at 1 month using the traditional red string method.

4. Baby 1 month praying to their ancestors/gods.

5. Baby 1 year old praying to their ancestors/gods. After that they will line up in front of the baby a load of items, from pen, books, car, aeroplane, doctor's apparatus and etc .. it's like the chinese "Wen Fang Shi Bao" ... to let the baby choose.

6. Confinement Food very be damn saltish as to make you drink more water to cleanse your body.

Any Experienced BROs to share

[Crown]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Hi Hi .. Actually I won't say "Pan Tan" ... coz I never observe like any, more it's their belief and practices :

1. NO SeX during Pregnancy.

2. IF you are Pregnant before the Wedding Custom / Dinner ... DO NOT let your invited guests know , else they will NOT turn up for your ceremony / dinner.

3. Baby Girl will have their Ear Pierced at 1 month using the traditional red string method.

4. Baby 1 month praying to their ancestors/gods.

5. Baby 1 year old praying to their ancestors/gods. After that they will line up in front of the baby a load of items, from pen, books, car, aeroplane, doctor's apparatus and etc .. it's like the chinese "Wen Fang Shi Bao" ... to let the baby choose.

6. Confinement Food very be damn saltish as to make you drink more water to cleanse your body.

Any Experienced BROs to share

Thanks for sharing.
Anything other things cant do or cant eat during this period?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Crown

Thanks for sharing.
Anything other things cant do or cant eat during this period?

Can't Do ... before birth

No Riding Bike

Very Crucial for 1st tri-mester ... must take very good care.

Can't Do ... after birth

No bathing ... even brush teeth , she gaggle with salt water ...

During the 1st 1 mth, not allow to bath .... after that ... she got herbs (my mil uses some kinds of tree branches) sauna session than use the water to bath ..

Can't Eat ...

Practically my wife ate almost everything ... even those restricted in chinese customs .. like water melon, coconut ..

However, after Birth, some food/fruits Cannot eat especially wife got breast feed the baby ...

I know my wife DON'T EAT Seafood for the initial breast feeding period ..

[SingViet]

Originally Posted by shysaint

Hi Hi .. Actually I won't say "Pan Tan" ... coz I never observe like any, more it's their belief and practices :

1. NO SeX during Pregnancy.

2. IF you are Pregnant before the Wedding Custom / Dinner ... DO NOT let your invited guests know , else they will NOT turn up for your ceremony / dinner.

3. Baby Girl will have their Ear Pierced at 1 month using the traditional red string method.

4. Baby 1 month praying to their ancestors/gods.

5. Baby 1 year old praying to their ancestors/gods. After that they will line up in front of the baby a load of items, from pen, books, car, aeroplane, doctor's apparatus and etc .. it's like the chinese "Wen Fang Shi Bao" ... to let the baby choose.

6. Confinement Food very be damn saltish as to make you drink more water to cleanse your body.

Any Experienced BROs to share

Bro, don't mind me saying this. She marry into yr family and you are Chinese , why need to follow the viet way of doing things and still pray to their ancestors ? Maybe I have too much pride , I have never prayed to my wife's ancestors from marriage till now, my children also. I always tell my children they are Chinese as I am Chinese. After birth, my wife follows Chinese tradition , not Vietnamese tradition.