Gers Are Still Gers

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

LOL, well... i express just as much as many others with the similiar issues, yet you continuously make your rebutals personal... as for the above 3 points you echoed repeatedly like a broken recorder... not to worry.. its been noted. we dont have comprehension levels the likes of yours.

either live it or leave it.. haha! easier said than done. wait till the pen is put to the paper, and having more implications when you choose to leave it. and when you lppl, and living it, i truly wonder if you'd reminisce n recall the postings shared here

(thats only if you'd ever find 1 who'd be willing so settle with you, accept your over bearing nonsense on your policies & anal pessimist outlook)

U should learn to speak in simpler layman english terms. Don't bring people on merry go round.

U have said 11 lines and they are all simply redundant.

Now the question is Why do you all have to kan n kan the SG girls non stop regarding their tempers, mood swings, their character, their pattern whatsoever, when you can simply choose not to be with them.

Thats why I really have to say you are a LOSER. SG girls don't need you, just that you think they need you a lot.


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[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Well said, I believe this "competitive & comparison" syndrome is inevitable. We men too do compete and compare. Can you remember the last time you try to compete the sales quota with your colleague? Do you remember the school days when you compare the exam results with our classmates?

Thats true man. During school, mothers would compare their children's academic performance. After so many years of schooling, turns out that girlfriends take over our mothers' role and compare their boyfriends. Sigh....

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Well, back to the topic. I myself is consider as a victim under the "competitive & comparison" syndrome. As a graduate, I'm now working as an engineer. But often than not, I'm deemed as a not-good-enough man among most young Singaporean women, as I look ordinary, my ~$3k monthly salary is never a big deal (they can earn as much or more) and I do not possess a car. Hence, for most part of my life, I only managed to have 2 relationship with local women, and despite many attempts. I do not condemn our local women, as each and everyone have their needs and requirements. If the requirements do not meet, then sorry.

And, I'm facing the same prob. Earning 3+ a mth and having my own car. Its still a tough match.

After all, i realise car more fun than having gf. u never know a gal well enough until u marry her.

I had a date with this gal one day (she was earning 5k+ a mth). The date was fixed about 5 days something in advance. Come the day when I was supposed to meet her, I got a SMS from her in the morning. It read, "sorry, can't go out with her. got wedding to attend."

It didn't really surprise me, but she lack the decency to even make the effort to let me know a day or two before hand. Both parties have a right not to turn up. And, she is a singapore gal and her face shows it all as if guys are at her bidding. It happened a couple of times.

Now, I'm like u. I'm only interested in settling down with a foreign wife, cos' local gals are mostly keen on high achievers.

Originally Posted by Kyser Soze

Ironically, I'm considered as an eligible bachelor among young China women (not FL and WL but fellow factory operators working in my factory). What does this imply? Probably our local population is too small to look for love. Probably we must let our intention to marry a local woman die off. Recently, I have shake off my belief that my future wife will be a local. More likely, I'm seeking our ministers' motto and entreprenuers' advice to look for chances overseas... this case foreign women.

Don't fret. China women can be prettier too. Just don't be conned by them.

I'm not even considered eligible, but most of the girls think I'm doing very well. Few even realised that I dread singapore gals. I have a car, but never offered to send them home, because once they know they expect more and more.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

it is said, and believed to be that women are supposed to be more mentally matured, more family orientated, and far-sighted in most aspects of life.

Far sighted? I know one woman who was more short sighted than anything else. Burnt almost every single cent on her car. Right now, not earning much and hardly have any savings.

Other younger females I know are just idealistic. Their partners must have car, condo, credit card and other Cs.

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Now, I'm like u. I'm only interested in settling down with a foreign wife, cos' local gals are mostly keen on high achievers.

What kind of girls are you keen on then? They have their expectations, u have yours too.

If you are only keen on foreign wife, no one is stopping you.

If today you are a girl, u also want to marry a guy who is financially capable. Some girls have higher expectations.

Even if you marry a foreign wife, if you are not financially capable, you think your foreign gf want to marry you? Its only because Singapore Currency exchange rate is better when going to many foreign countries, that is why if you earn $3K SGD in Singapore, suddenly you become a high achiever in another country.
Eg: 3K SGD can change to 82K Thai Baht if you are in Thailand.

DO you think your 3K is only 3000 in the eyes of Thai People? Your 82K thai baht makes you in the bracket of 8000 to them. Even a Thai Manager only earns in the bracket of 25-50K Thai Baht.

So are you a High Achiever in the eyes of Foreign Women?

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[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

Far sighted? I know one woman who was more short sighted than anything else. Burnt almost every single cent on her car. Right now, not earning much and hardly have any savings.

Other younger females I know are just idealistic. Their partners must have car, condo, credit card and other Cs.

I have a client a single lady who has several properties in Dist9, 10, 11, 15. And she only drives a Camry.

She invests most of her money in bank sales units, properties, and to say that if she doesn't need to work now, she still can survive on her rental that she gets from her tenants.

She works to keep herself occupied.

And she says men have low self esteem when they meet up with her. She doesn't need a man who is a high achiever.

So who are we to say that women are short sighted? Is it her fault to be successful in her career and investments. She is only in her early 30s.

Have u ever asked yourself whether u have the 5Cs or other Cs and why do you need them?

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[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by beck7777

lucky u.. i rem my ex is so brand conscious.. no brand no buy.. and her facial! i dunno spend how much on her SK II!!!!!

On a lighter note, we can think that she wanna look good for us to us but deep down......she wanna look swee for all to see......

[beck7777]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

On a lighter note, we can think that she wanna look good for us to us but deep down......she wanna look swee for all to see......

ya.. end up still broke up.. haiz.. all my 'investment' gone to waste..

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by beck7777

ya.. end up still broke up.. haiz.. all my 'investment' gone to waste..

That is why never spend so much on a gal for expectations soars after time. Better do it the right place and right time.

[tryying]

Some time a woman too friendly to you like light punches or touches u, u thought they like u. But think again, they dare to do that to u, they also dare to do to other guys. Maybe they already been sleeping with them n so, u wait long long.

I just encounter one recently. As my friend works in a salon, one of her boss is over friendly n like to touch me whenever she is near me. But yesterday, saw her touching another guy in the salon n in front of me. Just now, if not wrong, she is with him n maybe, on the way to hotel.

[jd_ratdiver]

One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed.
The passion starts to heat up...and she eventually says, "I don't feel like
it, I just want you to hold me."

I said "WHAT??..What was that?"

So she says the words that every husband dreads to hear...

"You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me
to satisfy your physical needs as a man!"

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who
I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night, I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off from work to spend time with
her.We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big unnamed
deptstore. I walked around with her while she tried on several different
very expensive outifts. She couldn't decide which one to take, so I told her
we'll just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes,
so I said let's get a pair for each outfit.
We went on to the jewelry dept, where she picked up a pair of diamond
earrings.

Let me tell you....she was soooo excited. She must have thought I was one
wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me, because
she asked for a tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play
tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey."
She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement.
Smiling with excited anticipation, she finally said, "I think this is all
dear, let's go to the cashier". I could hardly contain myself when I blurted
out,

"No, honey, I don't feel like it".

Her facejust went completely blank, as her jaw dropped with a baffled
"WHAT??"

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for a
while............You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man
enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman".

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why
can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"



Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either......

[Five Stone]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

If you are only keen on foreign wife, no one is stopping you.

If today you are a girl, u also want to marry a guy who is financially capable. Some girls have higher expectations.

Even if you marry a foreign wife, if you are not financially capable, you think your foreign gf want to marry you? Its only because Singapore Currency exchange rate is better when going to many foreign countries, that is why if you earn $3K SGD in Singapore, suddenly you become a high achiever in another country.
Eg: 3K SGD can change to 82K Thai Baht if you are in Thailand.

DO you think your 3K is only 3000 in the eyes of Thai People? Your 82K thai baht makes you in the bracket of 8000 to them. Even a Thai Manager only earns in the bracket of 25-50K Thai Baht.
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So what's your point?

[shengge]

Originally Posted by jd_ratdiver

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who
I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me, I added, "Why
can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either......

Hi there,
Don't know whether to say Good or not, but certainly sad to encounter such matter.
Anyway, I don't think it is not just abt not having sex later in the nite, care to share what happen next....
Love needs bread and water too.

Hope everything goes well.

cheers!

[OceanEleven]

A joke to share:

Penis Study
In 1993, the American Government funded a study to see why the Head
of a Penis was bigger than the rest of it.

After one year and $180,000.00, they concluded that the reason the
head was larger than the shaft was to give the man more pleasure during
sex.

After the US published the study, France decided to do their own.

After $250,000.00, and 3 years of research, they concluded that the
reason was to give the woman more pleasure during sex.

Poland, unsatisfied with these findings, conducted their own study.
After 2 weeks and a cost of around $75.46, they concluded that it was to
keep a man's hand from flying off and hitting him in the forehead. (Masturbation)

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by Five Stone

So what's your point?

My point is some people turn their choices to foreign ladies because they said local SG girls looking for high achievers.

But however little did these men realise that they are considered "high achievers" in the eyes of these foreign ladies because of currency conversion.

Foreign ladies also have expectations, just that foreign men like us after currency conversion, suddenly we become "high achievers" in their eyes. And the sad part is many have this impression that these foreign ladies really love us when in actual fact, its because we meet their so-called "high achievers" range due to our currency conversion.



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[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by vesfreq

.....Other younger females I know are just idealistic. Their partners must have car, condo, credit card and other Cs.

dont know how many were tuning into class95 some nights ago, the topic discussion for the evening was about singaporean gals suffering from the "cinderella complex". basically illustrating that the gals being pampered/spoilt rotten by the folks, expect/demand the same kind of affection/TLC from their men.

several callers responded... basically both genders agreed that sg gals these days really have such issues...

1) male callers; in general commented that the gals are becoming hard to handle, namely because of their contradiction/quirkiness (as said the DJ). 1 moment crave for all the TLC, next moment chanting the Destiny's Child - Independant women~

2) female callers; responded & confessed that they're guilty of the C-Complex from time to time. (some dont even realise that its a problem)

wonder if any bros here were tuning in, and would like to share a cent or 2 on the issue in mention...?