How I got cheated by KTV girl - Page 88

PuTonRen · #**1306** 10-05-2007, 11:30 AM

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Originally Posted by cavemao

bro putonren can explain more?? cos my girl in CQ asking me to visit her hometown in july lol...........

Bro,
She might love you so much that so much so she wants to marry you. Before that, she would like to show you to her family for approval.

Another possibility is that she would bring you back to see her family, house, etc, let you know her difficult situation, then the whole family will ask you for financial assistance.

Let me take this opportunity to recount a true incident. It happened few years back to a friend.

He met this girl in a KTV in Singapore. He liked her so much that he asked her not to work anymore in Singapore. He asked her to go back and promised to look after her by promising her many things. He also agreed to go to China to see her. The girl did what he asked her to do.

The girl called him to go to China to see her as promised by him. He went. What awaited him was a marriage ceremony. He was shocked to see that the invitation cards have been printed and sent out, the county official has been informed, and a date had been fixed for them to marry officially, etc. What happened was he came back with a marriage certificate, and with a large hole burnt in his pocket. At that time, he was single, fortunately for him. Well, he is now back home, and I am not sure what the girl can to him if he denies the marriage. He told us that, apparently, the family of the girl was well connected, and he is worried.

Well, my friend might not have told us the whole story, but this incident could have well occurred.

My 2 cent worth.

Regards

longer1 · #**1307** 10-05-2007, 11:33 AM

i also like kana gong tao b4... she ask me buy this buy that i all buy... dont know why and never complain...

somehow nlw think back still have some feel in me ... but she neber force me to buy so cannot blame anyone only myself stupid.

sunzi · #**1308** 10-05-2007, 11:33 AM

Visiting the wl gal hometown does not mean anything. Just that their family members will treat u like god of fortune or money spinning machine.

As long as your gal bring in enough money to them, they won't bother what she does outside and who she mix with. Always when WL goes back to china most of her relatives will demand treat from her or try to squeeze money cas they think she earns alot in singapore. Their mentality very difference from us pls be extra careful.

Optimus_Prime · #**1309** 10-05-2007, 11:40 AM

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Originally Posted by newbadass

"You are the first guy that I let him CIM!" - Heard at least twice this year.

Bro NBA, As an expert in this field... I think you can spot the fakes a mile away.

If really first time CIM... confirm they will not take the full load and will siam halfway and quickly spit or wash mouth....

just4fun · #**1310** 10-05-2007, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by sunzi

Visiting the wl gal hometown does not mean anything.

I dun think man... In china culture, if anyone bring their bf/gf back to their hometown is consider as 确定关系.... which can be translated as a form of engagement. Though not legal binding, but it can cause quite a big issue in their homwtown...

So i am urging all bros, pls do not visit the MM hometown unless u r dead sure that u r prepared so some shitty...Also, if things dun work out for u and the MM...then the MM will be under tremendous pressure...

Anyway, wat i said is only applicable to rural areas...i think the urban dwellers will be more open minded...

Pls excerise this option with much considerations.

naemlo · #**1311** 10-05-2007, 11:50 AM

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Originally Posted by littleme

Bro... is 湖滨北路 the place where XM Sofitel is ?

U know where the govt offices located?? Near Marco Polo hotel or Bank of China.

dap26 · #**1312** 10-05-2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

. What awaited him was a marriage ceremony. He was shocked to see that the invitation cards have been printed and sent out, the county official has been informed, and a date had been fixed for them to marry officially, etc. What happened was he came back with a marriage certificate, and with a large hole burnt in his pocket. At that time, he was single, fortunately for him. Well, he is now back home, and I am not sure what the girl can to him if he denies the marriage. He told us that, apparently, the family of the girl was well connected, and he is worried.

Well, my friend might not have told us the whole story, but this incident could have well occurred.

My 2 cent worth.

Regards

Tat means the marriage ceremony is already prepared by her and everythings is well planned nicely for him..Given this situation,he is hard to decide as he also dun wan hurt tat girl's feeling...Wah nowasdays muz be careful of wat u said to yr mm especially dun make unneccesary promises to prevent any misunderstanding.

naemlo · #**1313** 10-05-2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

What happened was he came back with a marriage certificate, and with a large hole burnt in his pocket.

I thought to marry a ger in China, a foreigner needs to produce proof of singlehood???

naemlo · #**1314** 10-05-2007, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by sunzi

Their mentality very difference from us pls be extra careful.

Everytimes I go to their home, I'm like robert head. I will always be the 1 paying for her relatives and friends needs. Hmmm y all the same??? Y I need to pay for thing that I dun use??

noname123 · #**1315** 10-05-2007, 11:59 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Everytimes I go to their home, I'm like robert head. I will always be the 1 paying for her relatives and friends needs. Hmmm y all the same??? Y I need to pay for thing that I dun use??

u already mentioned mah...u robert head...

plman2002 · #**1316** 10-05-2007, 12:01 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

I thought to marry a ger in China, a foreigner needs to produce proof of singlehood???

>>apparently, the family of the girl was well connected, and he is worried.<<

先斩后奏！！

PuTonRen · #**1317** 10-05-2007, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by plman2002

>>apparently, the family of the girl was well connected, and he is worried.<<

先斩后奏！！

Dear Bro plman,

Thank you, that is exactly what happened. I have mentioned that in my posting. In addition, the couple needs a medical check up before marriage. All these were not done, apparently.

Old Man naemlo did not see that.

CibLover · #**1318** 10-05-2007, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

I thought to marry a ger in China, a foreigner needs to produce proof of singlehood??? ...

Confirmed you have to. You'll need a certificate by the National Registrar (in M'sia's case) and also attestation by Commisioner of Oath. Then go to the Malaysian Embassy in China to get it verified. Then can only go and register your marriage in China. Damn ma fan...

ps. not me horr... I helped my friend last time.

Optimus_Prime · #**1319** 10-05-2007, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Everytimes I go to their home, I'm like robert head. I will always be the 1 paying for her relatives and friends needs. Hmmm y all the same??? Y I need to pay for thing that I dun use??

so next time either u show them ur FAMOUS FINGER !!!

or u tell her relatives (female ones) to open wide wide and wait in ur room... the males one just bent down can liaoz

naemlo · #**1320** 10-05-2007, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Old Man naemlo did not see that.

Young man, if her family is well connect, no need to pro herself for money.

Dun u think there is a lot of bullshit in the story??

How to be well connect in China?

Money to link the connection

Money is king n u will be well connect, even the black or white will want to connect to u