Thai gf asking for too much money

[swakoo1409]

Originally Posted by lenz

so good... mine total opp. will ask mi buy to bring her out. maybe i jus a carrothead to her. someone please advice me

advice all the same Bro Lenz. Do not get involved with her.

Can copy and paste advice liao.

True my friend got lucky and found a good girl. But what are the chances? very slim... I hear 100 sad story only to hear 1 good story from my friend.

Advice is that you not to get involved with her anymore. If you choose to be stubborn and take that risk, do post the outcome share experience and story

[lenz]

totally confuse.... but i hope things will end soon. being tired mentally

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by betty

maybe ts really hit the jackpot and found a real thai pearl Who knows?

Like invest the gain is in proportion to the risk involved

Good luck ts !

But what are a chances to hit a jackpot?

[MaMister]

Originally Posted by MaMister

Ya you will also have that jackpot feeling when you call her and realised that she is fucking with another man and talking to you at the same time...

Originally Posted by Greatking

But what are a chances to hit a jackpot?

Many times liao....

[swakoo1409]

Originally Posted by lenz

totally confuse.... but i hope things will end soon. being tired mentally

no need to be confused... take the matters lightly. dont be serious about the girl. just live your own life.

[kwayteow]

Tks for sharing. Installment never ends. And we never know whats the end of the other end.

agree.. when it comes to love, find one that would love you more than you love her..

[dustzee]

Hi bros,

It's surprising to see so many other bros dating thai girls and are confused as well. At least i know I'm not alone.

I guess I owe the bros here an update.

Anyway, just to clarify a few matters because thai girls have been equated to bar girls or ktv girls in many posts. So I just like to point out that my thai gf is a normal thai girl. By saying normal, it doesn't mean that she's definitely not cheating me, I should be well aware of that possibility, but she's different from the normal bar girls that I know elsewhere.

Right now, after absorbing the advices of many bros here, I became very very cautious. After a little bit more research into her culture, I realized that Thai women really take good care of their parents. The thing is that the parents expects the foreigner bf to provide for the family, hence the reason why sometimes she would ask for money.

So 2 questions came to mind:

1) Will she stick with me if I don't have any money for her?

2) Is it possible to be with her and not be a money tree for her family?

And now I'm on a trip to find out. I told her that I won't be giving her anymore money and asked if she still loves me. She said she does. So ok... let's see if this lasts. I also told her I need the money that she borrowed, and she has been paying back on installment basis. I would like to see how she honours her debt.

I know it's not fair for me to expect qualities which may not even be relevant in her culture but for us to go on, she must possess some of these qualities which I value.

[yoyo1234567]

then wads the decision you made bro?

[xxking]

Originally Posted by dustzee

Hi bros,

1) Will she stick with me if I don't have any money for her?

2) Is it possible to be with her and not be a money tree for her family?

I told her that I won't be giving her anymore money and asked if she still loves me. She said she does. So ok... let's see if this lasts. I also told her I need the money that she borrowed, and she has been paying back on installment basis. I would like to see how she honours her debt.
.

bro, my opinion:

1. yes, it can if she loves you
2. Not possible, to some extent you are, and even if for other girl in other country, maybe same situation, you can not change that.
3. Not suggest you play the game of asking $$ back if you really cares abt her. with the gaming mindset, you better stop that, the lady will sense it and not good foryour future if you want the r/s