Can we have a relationship with PRC after sleeping with them? Even in Mainland.

[santaizi]

boss mean boss sia.

fly there to talk faceto face instead of calling her.

[warmnites]

Originally Posted by santaizi

boss mean boss sia.

fly there to talk faceto face instead of calling her.

Wah piang! Fly there to break off ---- he never see HK movies ah about breaking up with PRC gals!!!! He better bring lots of dough or bodyguards leh!
SO BRAVE MAN!

[santaizi]

Originally Posted by warmnites

Wah piang! Fly there to break off ---- he never see HK movies ah about breaking up with PRC gals!!!! He better bring lots of dough or bodyguards leh!
SO BRAVE MAN!

he want to go there have a last bonk and kiss goodbye mah.

[Phucker]

go there and he will end up dwelling deeper into the bottomless pit

[santaizi]

Originally Posted by Phucker

go there and he will end up dwelling deeper into the bottomless pit

i believe that too.
go back there and he had more more touching story to listen too.
then he more and more no heart to break with her.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by aaaaaa

Thanks for all the advised given by the good brothers here.

It should be... "Thanks for all the ADVICE given by the good brothers here."

"Advised" is a verb.

[santaizi]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

It should be... "Thanks for all the ADVICE given by the good brothers here."

"Advised" is a verb.

wow. you can be a english teacher liao.

[HuiGe3387]

Originally Posted by aaaaaa

The PRC girl i met was in Shanghai. I met her at "Jing She Da Di" KTV, somewhere in Puxi. She's from ???, can't remember.

Thanks for all the advised given by the good brothers here. I think i will fly to shanghai again and make things clear out with her. This type of never ending storey had to be settle where its start point.

I do admit i like her not of her look nor body, it's purely of her sincerelity to be good friend with me. But how true is it, i don't know which i'm going there to find out.

My suggestion don't even bother. She may do likewise to anybody u never know. Speaking from experience. The seasoned players may have an agenda in their mind, eg $$$, PR in S'pore, etc. There are many happening places in Shanghai. Check it out

[santaizi]

Originally Posted by HuiGe3387

My suggestion don't even bother. She may do likewise to anybody u never know. Speaking from experience. The seasoned players may have an agenda in their mind, eg $$$, PR in S'pore, etc. There are many happening places in Shanghai. Check it out

she might say the same thing over and over to many guys before.
the thread starter is maybe the only one of the many.

[sgincredible]

Feel for yourself, why ask? if you have a feeling for her, just go ahead, if you think that she's sincere, just go ahead, she can't lie to you forever

[akkl6847]

well said and good advise bro. I truly agree with you cos I got a veri smilar experience from a CB from Guangzhou.

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Brother aaaaa,

I read you post asking about a certain place in Shanghai. From how much you have paid for the service, I can also guess that you have met the girl either in Beijing or Shanghai. What you have paid was the norm in these two places. You need not worry about what some of our brothers here mentioned about they could get cheaper rate.

From your post, I take the liberty to guess that the encounter that you have mentioned might have been you first one in China. Your FR reminds me of myself of more than ten years ago. After the first time of going to bed with a girl from Dalian, I started to show pity and told myself that girl as attractive and decent look (I was wrong, of course) should not have worked in the joint. One thing lead to the other, and the ultimate ending was separation due to money issue. She showed me an apartment and wanted me to help her to pay for the down payment. Fortunately, an experience compartriot woke me up and advised me to wake up my mind. The feeling towards her was exactly the same as what you are feeling now. I even called her several time from Singapore to her home in Dalian during CNY and other China National holidays. As I always say, I do not generalised that all PRC girls are bad, but you cannot never be too careful.

About the place that you have mentioned. The girls there are quite smart and they all know a trick to play. You see, to bring her back for one-short, the price is RMB 1500, which should normally include the RMB 300 for sitting with you in the KTV. In most instances, the girl would say that she needs RMB 300 to show the mummy that she had been paid by the customer and it was late so she would like to go home. She would say that without doing so, they would not be able to leave the place. Later, after the service, she would ask for another RMB 1500 as the agreed price for one short. In this case, she would get in total RMB 1800. I stop frequenting this place due to the bad attitude of the girls, and some of the mamasans who act as if I owe them money. They only treat those customers who book big room well. Hence that place that you have mentioned is really not worth going.

Coming back to your problems, I agree with many brothers that you kept repeating the same questions. Many of them have offered you very good advice, and I think, what you should do is to stop thinking about the girl, but do think carefully of what the brother said to you..

If you have the standard answer : "She is difference, and she is not after my money!", then you should stop asking the same question. If you already have the pre-conceived answer to the doubt, why ask?

Wise-up! You can never be too careful.

My 2 cent worth

[kkylp]

Brother,
I have a friend who is happily married to a former PRC KTV hostess, but I knew of many more who were "milked" - money, love and "milk".

Guess the question is how much you are willing to put up to find out the truth. Take care.

[l3atu]

Originally Posted by aaaaaa

it's purely of her sincerelity to be good friend with me.

U sure after meeting for a FEW times you can see her sincereity ? U better watch more soap operas...coz u definitely will see a lot of 'sincereity'. Then u decide if wat u see in ur China babe is really called sincereity or pure acting.

[Moneytalks]

Dear Bro aaaaa,

Try saying " OM MA NI PAD ME HUM" (six character GREAT BRIGHT MANTRA) 1000 times and then ask yourself the same question again and see if you got the answer you want, if not say IT another 1000 times and ask the same question again. By the third time you do it, you should have the right answer.

[shanghaitan]

Dear Bro aaaaaa,
I have heard this "she's different" argument many a times... all I can say is be very careful. Nothing is what it seems with women.. especially PRC women.. even more so for women working in KTVs...

There are many jobs in China and it is a matter of choice. Make more, live a more luxurious life. Make less, life still goes on... it all boils down to choice.

Do not confuse love with pity or guilt. In the first place, you're not guilty for her predicament, if it is true in the first place.

I have a friend in Singapore who has gotten her PRC KTV girl to work in their family business.. in my personnal opinion, that's a big mistake. You have no idea what these women can go through to finally achieve their ultimate goal. Their persistence is something we cannot even begin to fathom... take heed. If you're really really that lucky, you'll find someone who loves you truthfully for what you are. Chances are, these women are not working in KTVs..

Whatever you do, just think it through carefully. Be prepared to lose everything if you're not careful.

Just my personnal opinion based on what I have experienced and what I have seen. Take it whichever way you want.

Cheerio~!
Shanghaitan