D³ Party Session

[EatPrayLove]

Originally Posted by rouselouse

A forum such as this hosting group outings, as you already know and expect- such things are likely to arise. Especially that at prima-facie you don't vet the guestlist.

Been thinking of joining yall for a couple months now, but i keep finding excuses. Think I just shy la.

Allow me to explain again.
I personally vet through all attendees especially those 1st timer.
The person I am talking now express that he understands the rules and honestly he never did break any of it. But what he did after was totally uncalled for and the way he make it sounds more like a command than a request. Honestly, why should I entertain to his command?! Who does he think he is that I should change our outing to suits his needs and wants?

It's not that we do not entertain request from friends in the group. Request like can we change to a club that is out of CQ was something sounds logical and reasonable. And that's what we did for last night outing. We are open to request that does not change the whole concept of why the group is form. Like adding in the dinner part. We have been always clubbing and no chill. This was feedback from friends in the group and we will seriously consider and if it is within logical and reasonable sense, we will definitely add that into our future outings.

I take pride in vetting/scanning through the attendees of all outings.
You can check with the ladies here except for that one single case many months back, did anyone of them had been taken advantage of?
Please get your facts right before making any comments.
What I hate is ppl trying to accuse me of putting harm to the ladies who join the outings when I take the safety of the ladies seriously and always as my top priority. If you find what I said offense, so be it. And please take back your words about the vetting part. Thank you.


Still fucking damn pissed off EPL

[BoinKING]

relax.
just pban from future outings.

no need to be so worked up.
Wished I could join but alas work looms, brain fried.. come back zombified..

let me settle down at my new job and i'll be back to party again hee.

[EatPrayLove]

Originally Posted by BoinKING

relax.
just pban from future outings.

no need to be so worked up.
Wished I could join but alas work looms, brain fried.. come back zombified..

let me settle down at my new job and i'll be back to party again hee.

i am pissed simply because the guy keeps texting me stupid things.

faster settle in and start partying leh. I very long never shuffle cuz no kaki to shuffle with. so pls come back soon!

[rouselouse]

My apologies if I had wronged you. I did say that at prima-facie i.e. at first glance, it seemed like so. I am after all just an outside peeking into your lovely gathering thread every once in a while to see whats going on.

It also that under the assumption that we are all hidden behind online identities, it would be difficult to properly examine every invitee. Which as I understand, would only add on your troubles.

And I empathize, being the host is never easy. I've even given up organizing outings with my friends, leave it to someone else to put up to the task. We all acknowledge the effort but rarely give the credit where due.

I can only imagine the kind of request or demand he made to incite such fury, being in Sammyboy, I might have some idea already.

So just live and let live. Some things are just not worth dealing with.

Originally Posted by EatPrayLove

Allow me to explain again.
I personally vet through all attendees especially those 1st timer.
The person I am talking now express that he understands the rules and honestly he never did break any of it. But what he did after was totally uncalled for and the way he make it sounds more like a command than a request. Honestly, why should I entertain to his command?! Who does he think he is that I should change our outing to suits his needs and wants?

It's not that we do not entertain request from friends in the group. Request like can we change to a club that is out of CQ was something sounds logical and reasonable. And that's what we did for last night outing. We are open to request that does not change the whole concept of why the group is form. Like adding in the dinner part. We have been always clubbing and no chill. This was feedback from friends in the group and we will seriously consider and if it is within logical and reasonable sense, we will definitely add that into our future outings.

I take pride in vetting/scanning through the attendees of all outings.
You can check with the ladies here except for that one single case many months back, did anyone of them had been taken advantage of?
Please get your facts right before making any comments.
What I hate is ppl trying to accuse me of putting harm to the ladies who join the outings when I take the safety of the ladies seriously and always as my top priority. If you find what I said offense, so be it. And please take back your words about the vetting part. Thank you.


Still fucking damn pissed off EPL

[PPGirl]

pass some liang teh to Epl darling

take gd care of urself.. cny coming a lot nice goodies to eat n dun get too heaty

[justdifferent]

Originally Posted by EatPrayLove

Ok, before I start to unleash my frustration, please pardon me for my language as I am fucking damn pissed off with a few personal stuff pertaining to last night outings.

I am actually quite pissed off in a way that instead of appreciating my efforts to organize the outing last night, there is people who text me that the person doesn't enjoy last night and even requested something that I think is totally absurd.

I just want to make it super clear for anyone who wants to join us for our outings, be it drinking session or dinner that:

1) our outings are totally non sexual related and it's among a group of like minded friends who loves to know more like minded people who loves to either drink, dance, party or all three.

2)We started out as a drinking/party group and it will and shall always remain the same simply because we are party people. The only reason why dinner outing was included is because we aim to strike for a balance, to have clubbing and chilling outings.

3) our main priorities at all times is the ladies. I repeat again, our outings are totally non sexual related. Please treat and respect the ladies as how you would with your own personal female friends. This is a party group, not dating group. If you came with the aim to hook up with one of the ladies, we would not hesitate to ask you to leave and ban from future outings. I take this extremely seriously. What we aim is to create a safe environment for the ladies to party and enjoy themselves.

I am fucking damn sick and tired of doing all the coordinating when I get this kind of shit. Frankly, if anyone think it's fucking damn easy to organize such outing, I am fucking more than happy to let them take over to organize. I am fucking damn sick to get this kind of crap.

If you don't enjoy, then don't join for future outings. I fucking damn hate it when instead of shutting your mouth up, you have the nerves to tell me what to do and request for me to organize outings to suit for needs?! Who the fuck do you think you are to command me to do things?! I really regret for being so kind with my reply to you. The more I think the more angry I get. Fucking damn pissed. I already told you I am not in the mood to talk. Instead of shut up and let me be alone, you choose to text me with your bullshit absurd request. You know what this shows? It shows that you are one fucking damn selfish person who only thinks of your own needs and wants without sparing any thoughts for others. I told you it's ok cuz I thought you have something important to tell me that needed my immediate attention. What the fuck when the things you want to say can be wait till the next day?! FYI, you are ban from future outings.


Fucking damn pissed off EPL

wow..
i can guess who you're talking about, and maybe even what they've suggested.

to the person in question, and anyone who wants to join us in the future:

i believe epl has stated time and again that the outings mentioned here are non-sexual in nature. we understand that this is sbf. we're not trying to act like saints, but you should at least have the maturity to understand that there's a time and place for everything.

if your agenda in joining the meetups is just purely sexual in nature, my advice, for your own sake and ours is to look somewhere else.

honestly speaking, i've seen epl organize these things and she is always busy in the first 2 hours or so settling the entry, payments, getting the late people, etc. it is not a fun job to do, neither is it easy. i think people need to start showing a little appreciation, and at the least a little respect.

with that out of the way, i'm sure all of us welcome people who love meeting new people, drinking, having fun and enjoying the night!

[PPGirl]

"drinking" here refers to alcohol for those who might get the wrong idea.

Yes! alcohol not coffee, tea, hot chocolate or any other drinks.
Well, mixers might considered lol

[Lukasgoessteady]

Originally Posted by EatPrayLove

i am pissed simply because the guy keeps texting me stupid things.

faster settle in and start partying leh. I very long never shuffle cuz no kaki to shuffle with. so pls come back soon!

I did shuffle a little bit last night but guess you didn't notice
Yea I agree with bros & sis here that we should all let nature take place.This group thread is to only let you know new people & mingle around..
Hope to see you guys soon!

[BoinKING]

xdd can shuffle, so can you hur hur

[Lukasgoessteady]

Originally Posted by BoinKING

xdd can shuffle, so can you hur hur

I'm still learning eh..haha

[rockafella04]

Originally Posted by cutemush

Whoa wat happen y I dunno 1 :| but actually in life u can never please everyone. As long as we did our best, there's nothing we can do as there are always ppl trying to pick bones out of eggs too

So just fark care n enjoy self

Clubbing is meant to b fun n enjoyable!!

Nice night! Gd job Epl!!

Wei Rockafella04 no add me to list lol hahaha I waiting to b crowned leh

Ohhhhh I will do it soon, using my phone to post. Let me get to a computer in the morning and I will. Hehehehe!!

[rockafella04]

Event 02: Dash Berlin Hits Singapore, Zouk 10 Feb 2013

Cost of Event: $50 per pax (Can group up and share bottles if anyone is interested)

Attendance Updates

Males

1) Rockafella04 aka R04
2) R04's friend
3) Miss L's friend
4) b0r3d

Females

1) Miss L
2) Miss L's friend
2) EatPrayLove aka EPL
3) SluttyMistress

Please note that this is a PAY YOUR OWN COST EVENT, $50 INCLUDES COVER AND 1ST DRINK. You are required to transfer payment before the event as we will be pre booking the tickets online.

[rockafella04]

D³ February Calendar


Event 01 - CLOSED
Title: 02 Feb 13 Drinking Session
Date: 02/02/13
Time: 11:00pm
Venue: BUTTERFACTORY
Contact Person: EatPrayLove (EPL)


Cost: Guys $80. Ladies come for free.

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Event 02
Title: 10 Feb 13 Zouk Event
Date: 10/02/13
Time: TBC
Venue: Zouk
Contact Person: Rockafella04 (R04)


Cost: $50 per person

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Event 03
Title: 15 Feb 13 Dinner (Japanese Buffet)/Chill-lax
Date: 15/02/13
Time: 7:00pm
Venue: somewhere in town
Contact Person: EatPrayLove (EPL)


Cost: Buffet:$41 per pax (including service charge and GST) + pay-your-own drinks (for chill-lax)

========================================

Event 04
Title: 28 Feb 13 Dinner
Date: 28/02/13
Time: 7:00pm
Venue: somewhere in town
Contact Person: EatPrayLove (EPL)


Cost: pay-your-own

========================================


Who should Come: As long as your human, fun loving, dead bored, loads of cash, alcoholic, super duper dancer, eye candies, simply everyone can join.


Please bear in mind that this is a normal non sexual related event among a group of like-minded people between 20s to 40s who loves to make friends and party. We do not judge nor do we reject anyone unless:

1) you do not treat the ladies in the group with respect

2) any ladies feel uncomfortable having you join the group

3) auto pilots are not welcome


Only PM me if you can confirm your attendance with your name, contact number a quick and short introduction of yourself (namely; age, sex, race). Please include the title of the event as the Subject. thanks!


p/s:
1) should you have any queries, please post it on the thread.
2) Should I not reply you to your PM, please bear with me as I need to run through a quick check on everyone who PM me before I reply.
3) Please do not PM anyone else if you would like to join in the session. All attendees have to go through me for confirmation.

Work Hard & Smart to Party Hard & Crazy

[sluttymistress]

Originally Posted by EatPrayLove

Ok, before I start to unleash my frustration, please pardon me for my language as I am fucking damn pissed off with a few personal stuff pertaining to last night outings.

I am actually quite pissed off in a way that instead of appreciating my efforts to organize the outing last night, there is people who text me that the person doesn't enjoy last night and even requested something that I think is totally absurd.

I just want to make it super clear for anyone who wants to join us for our outings, be it drinking session or dinner that:

1) our outings are totally non sexual related and it's among a group of like minded friends who loves to know more like minded people who loves to either drink, dance, party or all three.

2)We started out as a drinking/party group and it will and shall always remain the same simply because we are party people. The only reason why dinner outing was included is because we aim to strike for a balance, to have clubbing and chilling outings.

3) our main priorities at all times is the ladies. I repeat again, our outings are totally non sexual related. Please treat and respect the ladies as how you would with your own personal female friends. This is a party group, not dating group. If you came with the aim to hook up with one of the ladies, we would not hesitate to ask you to leave and ban from future outings. I take this extremely seriously. What we aim is to create a safe environment for the ladies to party and enjoy themselves.

I am fucking damn sick and tired of doing all the coordinating when I get this kind of shit. Frankly, if anyone think it's fucking damn easy to organize such outing, I am fucking more than happy to let them take over to organize. I am fucking damn sick to get this kind of crap.

If you don't enjoy, then don't join for future outings. I fucking damn hate it when instead of shutting your mouth up, you have the nerves to tell me what to do and request for me to organize outings to suit for needs?! Who the fuck do you think you are to command me to do things?! I really regret for being so kind with my reply to you. The more I think the more angry I get. Fucking damn pissed. I already told you I am not in the mood to talk. Instead of shut up and let me be alone, you choose to text me with your bullshit absurd request. You know what this shows? It shows that you are one fucking damn selfish person who only thinks of your own needs and wants without sparing any thoughts for others. I told you it's ok cuz I thought you have something important to tell me that needed my immediate attention. What the fuck when the things you want to say can be wait till the next day?! FYI, you are ban from future outings.


Fucking damn pissed off EPL

ahem... you all dont laugh at me ok although i was the first one to merlion. and someone was taking pics of me doing that! WHO AH????

anyways my two cents worth. before anyone pms EPL to get on the guest list, why not read what she has posted CAREFULLY? it's clearly stated that it's a DRINKING SESSION, not a DATING SESSION.

we make friends with EVERYONE, not just with the OPPOSITE SEX. so, if you wanna do that, i suggest joining a dating service!

[sluttymistress]

you know the mistress dont usually asks for a guy's number but can SUINAM and LUKASGOESSTEADY pm me your number coz i have scandalous pics of us to send to you guys. hahaha