Marrying a ex Gaylang Girl - Page 9

naemlo · #**121** 21-05-2006, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

i believe most of the bros here know what they are doing.

A lot of ah peks also know what they r doing but in end their stories also end up in the newspaper. They assume they know.... Ironic, "I cross the bridge more than u cross the road."

forumer · #**122** 21-05-2006, 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Errrr where is Duang Mong????

Don Muang International Airport, Bangkok

naemlo · #**123** 21-05-2006, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by forumer

Don Muang International Airport, Bangkok

Oic Don Muang.... y is it called Duang Mong?

xilverzap · #**124** 21-05-2006, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

A lot of ah peks also know what they r doing but in end their stories also end up in the newspaper. They assume they know.... Ironic, "I cross the bridge more than u cross the road."

Well, it is back to the FAMOUS phrase... LOVE IS BLIND
Really, when one is in it, it is difficult to comprehand why others are so against it. So, only thing is oneself's will to pursue what he defines as his own soulmate. Perhaps best to have good friends around and talk. Sometimes, this does work, other times it doesnt.

Xilver

xilverzap · #**125** 21-05-2006, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

Oic Don Muang.... y is it called Duang Mong?

Bangkok very big leh.. Dont think they can call it straight off Bangkok international airport. Anyway, another new airport coming up soon in Bangkok. Damn long name one. So cannot called Bangkok International Airport 2 mah. Right?

Xilver

siamcutey · #**126** 21-05-2006, 07:38 PM

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

then i also have to said this there are bros marry WL or FL and they love each other and been together years. they dont f ard and devoted to the family.

So it all apply the same is whether u meet a good girl or not.

Why not we ask them the problems they faced?
The money issues that arises from the thai girl's family?
And also let's not forget it's this money issue that cause the Thai Girl to work in the flesh trade. And also let's not forget, its not that simple to ask a WL to quit for love and then what about the loss of income? Her family needs the money.

Marrying a WL is not just talk about love can settle everything. There are many difficult issues (esp the money part) that needs to be solved.

If not I don't see why the same problem that causes them to be a WL will not arise after their marriage.

SC

siamcutey · #**127** 21-05-2006, 07:41 PM

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Originally Posted by xilverzap

Well, it is back to the FAMOUS phrase... LOVE IS BLIND
Really, when one is in it, it is difficult to comprehand why others are so against it. So, only thing is oneself's will to pursue what he defines as his own soulmate. Perhaps best to have good friends around and talk. Sometimes, this does work, other times it doesnt.

Xilver

It's not Love is Blind. It's the hope of a Pretty Woman ending that makes a lot of people live on this HOPE.

SC

pussyman72 · #**128** 21-05-2006, 07:47 PM

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Originally Posted by siamcutey

Why not we ask them the problems they faced?
The money issues that arises from the thai girl's family?
And also let's not forget it's this money issue that cause the Thai Girl to work in the flesh trade. And also let's not forget, its not that simple to ask a WL to quit for love and then what about the loss of income? Her family needs the money.

Marrying a WL is not just talk about love can settle everything. There are many difficult issues (esp the money part) that needs to be solved.

If not I don't see why the same problem that causes them to be a WL will not arise after their marriage.

SC

looks like u have seen alot of bro who married wl have alot fo money bros =)

siamcutey · #**129** 21-05-2006, 08:11 PM

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

looks like u have seen alot of bro who married wl have alot fo money bros =)

Bro,

Do you think a WL will love you more than their Family?

They may love you more one day but doesn't mean they will forget the very reason why they work as a WL for their family.

A lot of people persists in being with a WL, taking up the task of supporting her and her family. Who is the one most "shiong"?

And do you seriously think they have the have the courage to even come out and tell us something so private as their money matters?

Those who want marry WL, they will want some of their frens to know they are taking 1 big step towards a hope they trying to accomplish.
It's a relationship which most people are not optimistic in.

When money problems arises, how do you think they will tell their frens about it? Most will try to bite their teeth through and just dig into savings and work their way through.

Bro, I also love a GL Cat40 girl before. I still love her now. She told me she just need 30K baht a month for her family, and that is the criteria she will quit. Previously in GL she is ang pai, every month send >100K baht home.

Even if I don't give her 30K baht, I believed she can get 30K baht from all other customers easily.

Then the next question comes in now is, she is not in Thailand. She is in KOREA. For what reasons no need me to spell out.

30K to support her family is reasonable. To me I don't see it as a lot. But I know her family got many money problems. Bro is gambling saint. Mother is filial mother always take care of the son like he is King.
One of the reason I see is her money problems is never-ending.

2nd reason is she tells me she has to lie to some customers to get money. Should I accept this reason?

So what even if I knew she loves me truly or not? Many people can accept their tirak con other customer's money. So what even if the other men are customers?

WILL YOU WANT TO BE WITH SUCH A SCHEMING WOMAN?

Thats why up till today I think its best both of us lead our own lives. She do what she want for her family. She want to use her pussy or she want to con others, up to her. To me, I just keep my love for her in my heart. Love for someone cannot forget one. But I can choose to decide who I want to be with.

For me, I will not choose a scheming woman regardless of how much my love for her is.

If any of you out there can allow your tirak to con other men money and live with this fact, its up to you all. I can't and thats just me.

SC

pussyman72 · #**130** 21-05-2006, 09:06 PM

it ok i understand where u coming from. each has their own path to go. most important the guy must know what they are doing is enough already.

i cant said much of what u have face and what u have know. i have my own experience on this girls and i know how hard it going to be and what i going to expect from them.

Malaysian Datuk · #**131** 21-05-2006, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by xilverzap

Well, it is back to the FAMOUS phrase... LOVE IS BLIND
Xilver

LOVE IS BLIND......only when they can smell your $$$

#**132** 21-05-2006, 10:47 PM

Wah....I C our old Comrade is helping each others....

There is good sign....

Ex... H. Bat...

Hahahahah...

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

hehehe thanks bro. our old sawadee forum bros always love thailand and it not just girls but the pple n the country itself.

my thai may not as good as other bro but my affection for thailand is very strong.

i still remember i was searching high n low trying to come to bkk n work bcos i love the country too much.

even now im watching Thai TV series. Bro start leow go check the online tv lol

#**133** 21-05-2006, 10:49 PM

Hi Comrade..

Let me do some homework as busy nowaday..

Will PM U...

Hope to meet all the Ex H. Bat Bro....

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Originally Posted by Happywheel

I'm going to krung thep. u know?

already book my ticket and probably will spend my time watching World Cup there.

U want to join me?

GL joe · #**134** 22-05-2006, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Malaysian Datuk

LOVE IS BLIND......only when they can smell your $$$

well said,bro

siamcutey · #**135** 22-05-2006, 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by pussyman72

it ok i understand where u coming from. each has their own path to go. most important the guy must know what they are doing is enough already.

i cant said much of what u have face and what u have know. i have my own experience on this girls and i know how hard it going to be and what i going to expect from them.

Those questions that I asked myself, to tell you the truth, I was struggling within myself emotionally. So at the end, I decided that for each and every question, I already knew the true answer. Just that I was trying to use "buts", "ifs" to see if I should continue or not. Which I realised if I really do that, I was being unfair to myself.

Why not throw away your past experiences (experience count for zero) and think rationally the questions that I have gone through? Take it you are NEW to the scene.

And think of the answers. Actually u know the right answers, just that u are trying to come to a conclusion.

Example here, U toss a coin. Heads u stay, Tails u leave. When the outcome is HEAD, u feel very happy. When the outcome is Tail, u tell yourself 2 wins out of 3. Turn out Heads this time, your face lightens up, and HOPE for the Heads again. If Tails come out for the 3rd, u will say 3 wins out of 5.

I think only certain people will understand what is the meaning behind this post.

By the time one can read till this line, one will realise that we have the answers already, just that our emotions are fighting within us, giving chances and chances each time.

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