Price to pay for helping Matters of the Heart

[DTCEPL]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

Thank you Bro for input, as it is a buddhist phrase, I think we must look for heavenly pleasure instead of bodily pleasure..

Heavenly pleasure through bodily pleasure - by having great sex. You f**k and screw like mad until shiok shiok and feels like in 7th Heaven

Kidding lah......no offence meant to Buddhism

[Wooden_Handle]

Such a coincidence, I had the heavenly pleasure when XF riding me today, absolute shiok shiok and ...... end

Originally Posted by DTCEPL

Heavenly pleasure through bodily pleasure - by having great sex. You f**k and screw like mad until shiok shiok and feels like in 7th Heaven

[black_secret]

Holy cow. Looks like i'm not alone.

U see, i've evolved from "f and forget" to "f with feelings (to WL la)". New chapter in life?? Part of growing up (or old, hehe)?

[Randi_Candi]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

人在江湖，身不由己。 不入江湖， 何来“身不由己”？

Hmmm... But...

不入红尘，如何 “看破红尘”

难道要自己断了手，才知道痛是啥？
Actually it was intended for those who blamed situations and weak minds for how things turned out. If you think you can't help it, I am sure you can jolly try to avoid it.

Getting out of KC is easier than realising that one's action might have caused people unhappiness and no matter what monetary price one pays will not equate a life of unhappiness and remorse, a price that will weigh forever.

IF they can see this, then I am sure they will realise the real meaning of my siggy

[haoyunqiqi]

Thanks for helping!

[linixx]

Had a rude "awakening" only just now from this KC thingie.

I had just turned into commercial sex since Nov last year, all the while being "bonded" by religion, until I lost faith in the whole thing.

Had already tried about a dozen different FLs, so far no RTFs except for this one which I RTF 5 times already, record being 3 times in 8 days. Normally with all the FLs I tried, they would always comment on my "long time to cum" problem, except for this one, she was very accomodating to me, and morever she can speak my dialect language which made me very comfortable with her. As with most RTFs, the feeling just got better and better, and normally she would accompany me for almost the entire room booking timing if she had no bookings (even she has, she will still acompany me for more than an hour). Actually she had started to KC me eariler on when she mentioned if she could be my GF, and actually subsequently I felt like a session with a GF as on numberous times I forgotten to pay until I was snapped back to reality (I still pay up before we parted our ways from the session).

When she mentioned that her business had "slowed" down, since I had not the means "financially" (I did ensure that I would give tips for every session), I tried to help out in other ways possible. Actually deep down I know I'm already addicted to her, trying to help her in all possible ways (using a lot of my brain cells for that).

However tonight I had a rude awakening (actually yesterday I just had a enjoyable session with her), when I found out that all I have done for her is in vain, to her, I'm just a "prawn" on her chessboard. For all the efforts I've been putting in, she is just paying "lip service" on how much she "appreciates".

Although the thought of it "hurts" me much, but I suppose it is something we must all learn. The "powers" of these ladies of the night are too good that a good number of SG men, like myself, are unable to "defend" against.

During our working hours, we are all too aware of mind games that people play, but I guess we do not bring this "awareness" into our choinging trips, that led to the "downfall" of many. Although the phrase "Pay & Fxxx off" always echos in our mind, but how many of us actually practise it? Must we learnt in the hard way (kenna KCed), by "experiencing" it, before we are finally "enlightened", well I'm afraid that applies to me. Luckily I got to learn this lesson early, that I'm still able to "extract" myself from the "mud".

Sorry for my lengthly 0.02cts, just putting out my thoughts into words to express my feelings and hope that other bros are able to see the light and not "fall" into something similar.

[cablesnwires]

Originally Posted by linixx

However tonight I had a rude awakening (actually yesterday I just had a enjoyable session with her), when I found out that all I have done for her is in vain, to her, I'm just a "prawn" on her chessboard. For all the efforts I've been putting in, she is just paying "lip service" on how much she "appreciates".

What do you expect? Exclusivity? There is no way, unless you have the means to support her. Remember she's here to make money.

Originally Posted by linixx

Although the thought of it "hurts" me much, but I suppose it is something we must all learn. The "powers" of these ladies of the night are too good that a good number of SG men, like myself, are unable to "defend" against.

I think the mindset of being a gf is entirely different between the 2 of you. To you, it means that you have the exclusive rights of her. But to her, you are just another bf who is able to help her. I'll give her the benefit of the doubts that she treated you better than her customers. But at the end of the day, she's here to make money, be it for her bf back home, her family or even herself.

Unless you accept the above, you will find yourself full of disappointment and bitterness in any r/s with a WL.

[KonKam]

Couldn't agree with u more!!

Think all human like that...
When couple in love..........sex is always the wonderful thing until get married.....then sex life reach the stage of decline usually if u got kid or no kid after a long time..

and i can confirm that it always nice to have "FUN" with new girl or even married lady...etc
coz it is exciting...like forbidden fruit....

Originally Posted by shanshen

u all really sibei good! can turn into buddha chant...ornitorfu....

when a couple in love and have sex, its lovers sex
when a couple not in love but have sex, its obligatory sex
when a couple force the other unwilling into sex, its force sex
when one drug the other and sex her, its rape

so when one pay $ for sex, its commercial sex

so what type of sex is most fun?

i guess most will choose the first one. tio bo?

so most guys after loosing the touch and feel in marriage, tends to seek back the wonderful feelings that they lost by hooking up a lover and seeking the revive the wonderful feelings again... or even if the feeling is still there in marriage, the excitment of "tao jiak" with a lover is also darn sexciting..and too powerful to forgo...i shold say all men love this type of feelings..
whether they admit it openly or not..