woes of a tirak

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

nbzz ... next time say properly lah .. hai wa malu

烟 花 之 地, 有 如 南 柯 一 梦
- last time those brothels got ppl smoke opium and the customers like to send flower boards to the ang pai .. thats why brothels care called 烟 花 之 地
- 有 如 南 柯 一 梦 = its like a dream, end up must awake

风 尘 青 搂, 宛 若 过 往 云 烟
- 风 尘 青 搂 = also brothels lah
it means the gals survive hardship in this line as in they must face strong wind and dirt
宛 若 过 往 云 烟 = similiar to passed by wind/hays, a while only, its gone.

thank you bro u man of calibre

" Wen wu shuang xuan"

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by +++++++for

康康 你很有墨水。 就让我上你吧！ kekeke.....

Orrrr ...
you 1 liner,
later 'red beret' come
and kan you
then you know

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

烟 花 之 地, 有 如 南 柯 一 梦
- last time those brothels got ppl smoke opium and the customers like to send flower boards to the ang pai .. thats why brothels care called 烟 花 之 地
- 有 如 南 柯 一 梦 = its like a dream, end up must awake

风 尘 青 搂, 宛 若 过 往 云 烟
- 风 尘 青 搂 = also brothels lah
it means the gals survive hardship in this line as in they must face strong wind and dirt
宛 若 过 往 云 烟 = similiar to passed by wind/hays, a while only, its gone.

wow kangkang, you so solid 1 arh? I thought you only know to eat gal's bean curb and crack dirty jokes ..

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by magicafe

Bro lengkia,
you're a lucky man. you encountered aggressive WL that straightforward come to the point of hinting about financial aids or sponsorship.As for me, i,m not that lucky cos i met a submissive type of WL that gave me a feelings that $$$ cannot buy. and proceed to the next stage that i,m willing to answer to demand. i can still recall the advice of Bro Sc given to me 8 mths ago that i didn't take. i proceeded with hope but it turned to be an illusion. too bad i have spent another 6 mth to realised it is time to open the door and left for good. i wonder how many samsters with ex-tirak return as a client for their services after a lay off for severval month. i mean the feeling and treatment. i haven't try yet but am going going to do so. please share the experience for those bro who have tried.

bro magicafe

hope so lah maybe her mindset is to let you know have to give allowance for

her to stop working but only after 2 months .I'm not ready for this or maybe i

selfish lah. Also mai mee thang to give her. Little still can if i want but have

to worry about her big family.Very difficult to believe them think wat suka

suka be their sponsor but she also quite submissive lah. Her background so

jialat lah how to proceed further with her . Not say look down on her but

because she used to have 1 husband and 1 affair with a thai with married

man. Very scary so far have not visit those ex-tirak anyway i also

don't have many just to have fun and pay money. One of my ex-tirak

warned me not to marry a WL after listened from her i also a little shock and

surprise. Once you haveno money to support or give the girl , they will dump

you and go back to work as a pxxxxxxxxx. Like this very chum either you

borrow money to give her or end up getting hurt and lose face. Neighnbour

pointing finger here and there. She seen so many cases maybe she also 1 of

them haha

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by magicafe

Bro lengkia,
you're a lucky man. you encountered aggressive WL that straightforward come to the point of hinting about financial aids or sponsorship.

bro, i'm also kiasi especially with thai WLs. scare get burn here and there

cannot recover how. Have to make a painful decision short pain rather than

long pain. My heart still intact maybe kena few scratches. Few days later

"wo hai shi yi ge hao han" Maybe next time try to be her client again see

got any special services or not hahah

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by magicafe

Bro lengkia,
you're a lucky man. you encountered aggressive WL that straightforward come to the point of hinting about financial aids or sponsorship.As for me, i,m not that lucky cos i met a submissive type of WL that gave me a feelings that $$$ cannot buy. and proceed to the next stage that i,m willing to answer to demand. i can still recall the advice of Bro Sc given to me 8 mths ago that i didn't take. i proceeded with hope but it turned to be an illusion. too bad i have spent another 6 mth to realised it is time to open the door and left for good. i wonder how many samsters with ex-tirak return as a client for their services after a lay off for severval month. i mean the feeling and treatment. i haven't try yet but am going going to do so. please share the experience for those bro who have tried.

Is it? I got talk to you before??? I forgotten already.
Those that PM me before, I will always tell them what are the things to look out for, rather than tell them cannot continue. Because when you tell people in tirakship not to continue, 99.99% they will continue. So all I can do is to tell them what are the things to look out for so that they can see for themselves what is happening and decide for themselves.

As for looking for a ex-tirak, I ever tried it once. Not to bonk but to see her because I was the one who avoided her. But by the time when I went to find her, she was gone. Her friend gave me her number in thailand.

When I go BKK, we actually met up and also with the friend whomm gave me the number.

SC

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by siamcutey

. Because when you tell people in tirakship not to continue, 99.99% they will continue. So all I can do is to tell them what are the things to look out for so that they can see for themselves what is happening and decide for themselves.

bro SC, think can ask you for advice since you are laujiao in thailand

this FL tell me she might be going Australia to work for 3 years don't know

whether is she telling the truth or trying to test me to see my reaction hor.

how come have to go for so long 3 years. can it be 1-2 years?

say after finish the 3yrs will go back thailand and do a normal job

don't know what kind of pattern she coming up with and somemore say

want to come singland and get married to me. Think i blur and stupid king

will fall into her trap and kong tao. Better change my mobile something not

very right hor. khop khun mak

[kangkang_tw]

Hi Lengkia,
Since you are here, may I ask .. how to say 'nice to eat/tasty' in Thai .. is it 'aroy mah' ?
thanks

[LengKia]

Originally Posted by kangkang_tw

Hi Lengkia,
Since you are here, may I ask .. how to say 'nice to eat/tasty' in Thai .. is it 'aroy mah' ?
thanks

aroi mai .correct

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by LengKia

this FL tell me she might be going Australia to work for 3 years don't know
whether is she telling the truth or trying to test me to see my reaction hor.
how come have to go for so long 3 years. can it be 1-2 years?
say after finish the 3yrs will go back thailand and do a normal job
don't know what kind of pattern she coming up with and somemore say
want to come singland and get married to me. Think i blur and stupid king
will fall into her trap and kong tao. Better change my mobile something not
very right hor. khop khun mak

Go Australia depends on what kind of visa she getting and I don't think they have a legal system like Cat40 in sg.

My 1st ex-tirak went to Australia and got caught while on student visa and deported back to thailand after 1 month. So hope don't get caught or else she be back very soon.

Unless she work for social escort agencies, then maybe she might stay longer as not so many bonks a day and less raids.

SC

[Dr. Dre]

Originally Posted by LengKia

bro SC, think can ask you for advice since you are laujiao in thailand

yah man knn. SuraponChalermsak's views always very zhun. if you don't believe you can try it out and see what's the outcome.

PS: left last bottle of black label liao. who wanna lim whiskey faster PM me. let's whack the 'free' mixers gow gow.

[rick924]

Originally Posted by +++++++for

Bro, these sweet, gentle and super GF feeling can be found in alot of cat40 girls if you cheong around more often. OF course, you must like the girl too.
I have a regular at the moment too and also very girlfriend feeling, more so than my ex "tirak". But i dont really like her like i like my ex tirak, so i didnt really fall for her. Also most importantly, my current regular did not ask me out. I think most of the time the problem will start when you go out with them like what you said.

Cheong more often? ...Im not a cheongster...and dun think I will go again......I admit i have a weak heart and aint up to their mind game.....hai~ why she have to aske me out...

Have been looking at the photo which we took together...I just couldnt forget her gentleness, the way she fed me with food, the CDs she took the trouble to burnt for me, the small tissue paper that she wrote on saying I love u in thai and alot alot alot ...still lingers in my mind till this stage.......

Not that I am not heeding advice from bros here. I really appreciate those blunt but valuable lessons.but sometimes when things get to this stage...it's not about turning back anymore..but rather try and see if u can survive this ordeal.....fruitful or not ..no longer a question anymore....

she always sms me in the early morning asking if im working or sleeping.....and Infact i will be waiting for her sms...sometimes I would reply her call ..sometimes she calls me...and it goes on till now. Althought after that day's confrontation, she remain the same way as before......I really duno if she telling the truth or telling me lies ...patches and patches of lies......but now ...to me ...truth or lies aint that impt anymore...just spend some quality time with her ..and hope for the best.....

[rick924]

Originally Posted by +++++++for

Bro, these sweet, gentle and super GF feeling can be found in alot of cat40 girls if you cheong around more often. OF course, you must like the girl too.
I have a regular at the moment too and also very girlfriend feeling, more so than my ex "tirak". But i dont really like her like i like my ex tirak, so i didnt really fall for her. Also most importantly, my current regular did not ask me out. I think most of the time the problem will start when you go out with them like what you said.

Cheong more often? ...Im not a cheongster...and dun think I will go again......I admit i have a weak heart and aint up to their mind game.....hai~ why she have to aske me out...

Have been looking at the photo which we took together...I just couldnt forget her gentleness, the way she fed me with food, the CDs she took the trouble to burnt for me, the small tissue paper that she wrote on saying I love u in thai and alot alot alot ...still lingers in my mind till this stage.......

Not that I am not heeding advice from bros here. I really appreciate those blunt but valuable lessons.but sometimes when things get to this stage...it's not about turning back anymore..but rather try and see if u can survive this ordeal.....fruitful or not ..no longer a question anymore....

she always sms me in the early morning asking if im working or sleeping.....and Infact i will be waiting for her sms...sometimes I would reply her call ..sometimes she calls me...and it goes on till now. Althought after that day's confrontation, she remain the same way as before......I really duno if she telling the truth or telling me lies ...patches and patches of lies......but now ...to me ...truth or lies aint that impt anymore...just spend some quality time with her ..and hope for the best.....

Does anyone out here can understand what im going thru ? .....hmmmm

[magicafe]

I,m not sure that this quote fit into this thread. however, i need feedback for meaning of this quote.A quote from my thai lady friend(Non WL), " [B]Love or No love is not the highest priority. He/She who always remember u and never forget u is the best of all and i rather choose a man who always remember me and not forgetting me than a man who love me".
Hope my ex-tirak will always remember me and not forgetting me.it's a mental torture. can someone please enlighten me. is it a mental torture?

[siamcutey]

Originally Posted by magicafe

I,m not sure that this quote fit into this thread. however, i need feedback for meaning of this quote.A quote from my thai lady friend(Non WL), " [B]Love or No love is not the highest priority. He/She who always remember u and never forget u is the best of all and i rather choose a man who always remember me and not forgetting me than a man who love me".
Hope my ex-tirak will always remember me and not forgetting me.it's a mental torture. can someone please enlighten me. is it a mental torture?

Thai Non WL and WL have differing views on this.

If you ask me the WL view will be, I will forever remember this guy for how much I conned him out of. His money, his heart.

As for cheongster POV and non-cheongster POV, there is also another difference

For a cheongster, he will never ever forget the WL whom conned him the most money and not forgetting his heart that went with her. As for POV of non-cheongster, same as Thai Non-WL.

hahaha
SC