Gers Are Still Gers

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by JWNY

When I finally picked her up at the resturaunt, I told her how sorry I was for being late and for the mis-communication. She still acted mad. I asked her "are you still mad at me"?? She said "that depends". I said "depends on what"? She said "are you my boyfriend". In an instant I knew it was a defining monent. I really couldn't say "no" because I really liked her, so right away I blurted "yes". Then in her angry Thai voice she said "then I still mad at you". I knew she was the one!!

funny it seems, but in retrospect, i cant help but to think that we (men) are trouble seekers... but in a good way.

much as we yearn to please her, and when adverse effects come to part, we'd try even harder. but all in all, many things are still tagged with emotions/feelings, so i guess there's really no wrong, so long as she's the ONE.

in the words of ken watanabe <katsumoto> from 'the last samurai': scene; post battle, wounded badly & harikiri assisted by tom cruise <cpt alghren>.. says: "in the end... *choke*... it is all... *gasp*... per...fect" (tear trickle down the left cheek, lips tremble a little & hang the head with sigh of last breath)

[Deep Blue]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

funny it seems, but in retrospect, i cant help but to think that we (men) are trouble seekers... but in a good way.

much as we yearn to please her, and when adverse effects come to part, we'd try even harder. but all in all, many things are still tagged with emotions/feelings, so i guess there's really no wrong, so long as she's the ONE.

Matter of fact, we seek no less trouble than they do. Asking to be fetch from work while both working on the different end of the island, what do you call this then, considerate?

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by Deep Blue

Matter of fact, we seek no less trouble than they do. Asking to be fetch from work while both working on the different end of the island, what do you call this then, considerate?

i meant doing things to please her, not to become slave/errand boy for her. if within the vicinity & offering to fetch her, i think is still reasonable. to travel ½way round the island just to fetch her, is a little overboard. and all the more ridiculous if it was actually her request.

gals from many other nations are known to be independant, and less likely to inconvenience the man, not unless its an emergency.

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i meant doing things to please her, not to become slave/errand boy for her. if within the vicinity & offering to fetch her, i think is still reasonable. to travel ½way round the island just to fetch her, is a little overboard. and all the more ridiculous if it was actually her request.

sometime i guess guys also think abit funny(like me). jus like paying for something, actualli we guys dun mind paying but if a gal makes an "effort" to pay for the bill also we wil feel happy paying for it. but if a gal dun even bother abt the bill at all and expect us guys to pay, we complain. haha....i guess guys also like gals to be "considerate" by shwing some concerns/actions even if they wun reali do the things.

if my gal ask me to fetch her at the other half of the island, i wil be like sianz...but i will actualli offer to fetch her if i knew she was and when she did nt ask me. weird rite? or i'm the onli guy thinking these ways??

[shrek]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

if my gal ask me to fetch her at the other half of the island, i wil be like sianz...but i will actualli offer to fetch her if i knew she was and when she did nt ask me. weird rite? or i'm the onli guy thinking these ways??

bro, u def not the one who thinks this ways... i'm also.. some ppl might say we do it for a motive.. but i think other wise.. like wat u mention.. we also need ppl to appricated things we do for them... fetching (be it drive or take cab) gals from A to B seem easy but $, time, concentration u need on driving the car with no accident cos she ard, u dun wan her to be hurt...

but sometimes gals just take it fro granted...

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

sometime i guess guys also think abit funny(like me). jus like paying for something, actualli we guys dun mind paying but if a gal makes an "effort" to pay for the bill also we wil feel happy paying for it. but if a gal dun even bother abt the bill at all and expect us guys to pay, we complain. haha....i guess guys also like gals to be "considerate" by shwing some concerns/actions even if they wun reali do the things.

if my gal ask me to fetch her at the other half of the island, i wil be like sianz...but i will actualli offer to fetch her if i knew she was and when she did nt ask me. weird rite? or i'm the onli guy thinking these ways??

much as i've observed, its usually the case lah. if guy dont pay for her, she will say not gentleman. but the gals often forget that she should also chip in... so as to make the outing a little more pleasent.

at the end, what is spent is spent.. dont look back liao

[Deep Blue]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

i meant doing things to please her, not to become slave/errand boy for her. if within the vicinity & offering to fetch her, i think is still reasonable. to travel ½way round the island just to fetch her, is a little overboard. and all the more ridiculous if it was actually her request.

gals from many other nations are known to be independant, and less likely to inconvenience the man, not unless its an emergency.

Perhaps the small context of the place we are staying also dictated the mindset of the many living in there as well. One cant really imagine the possibilites of all the "If only...." that they are willing to do. When the day come, I can only think of "What A Wonderful World."

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

much as i've observed, its usually the case lah. if guy dont pay for her, she will say not gentleman. but the gals often forget that she should also chip in... so as to make the outing a little more pleasent.

at the end, what is spent is spent.. dont look back liao

actuali we dun ask the gals to pay anything. wat i mention was only a gesture frm them shwing tat they had intentions to pay for it and nt assuming tat it does nt concern them. i have some gal friends whom they jus continue wif their things and pretend nt to see the bills when it comes. i'm nt demanding them to pay but at least dun take us for granted.

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

actuali we dun ask the gals to pay anything. wat i mention was only a gesture frm them shwing tat they had intentions to pay for it and nt assuming tat it does nt concern them. i have some gal friends whom they jus continue wif their things and pretend nt to see the bills when it comes. i'm nt demanding them to pay but at least dun take us for granted.

Absolutely agree. I have few groups of lady friends who frequent clubs (Thumper and Devils Bar) ONLY on LADY NIGHT. Just in case if you dont know, lady night is either Wednesday or Thursday and the next day is WORKING DAY. This bunch of women are low class and no sense of pride.

However, we shouldnt stereotype them either. Some women are top notch and willing to take care of the checks. I noticed that these group of "elite" are more witty and intelligent compare to those bunch of "welfare" women

jimbo

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by jng1103

However, we shouldnt stereotype them either. Some women are top notch and willing to take care of the checks. I noticed that these group of "elite" are more witty and intelligent compare to those bunch of "welfare" women

jimbo

agree bro. unless we guys have other "intentions", if nt most of the time these sort of gals attract guys mre than the other type.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

actuali we dun ask the gals to pay anything. wat i mention was only a gesture frm them shwing tat they had intentions to pay for it and nt assuming tat it does nt concern them. i have some gal friends whom they jus continue wif their things and pretend nt to see the bills when it comes. i'm nt demanding them to pay but at least dun take us for granted.

actually, i'd rather them not having to put up with the wayang. pretend to pay, but end up the guy pay.. ? still back to square 1.

by far, i reckon to make things seem less 1 sided, so long as she offer to buy a kopi or drink after the makan.. or suggest to pay for supper before calling it a day... would be a nice.

or she pay for the cab fare home + a good night peck on the cheek... wakao.. good enough liao. a nice gesture as such, i'm sure is not too difficult to demonstrate, and i dont think that's gonna demand their life, or shorten their lifespan. hehehe

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

agree bro. unless we guys have other "intentions", if nt most of the time these sort of gals attract guys mre than the other type.

gals that expect guys to foot the bill, to me is just boring... but gals that have a share in the bill are more interesting... i pay once, you pay once... it keeps the night going... the fire is fuelled. hehehehehe.

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

a nice gesture as such, i'm sure is not too difficult to demonstrate, and i dont think that's gonna demand their life, or shorten their lifespan. hehehe

nt difficult but alot seems nt able to do it or worse, dun wana do it.

[suteerak1099]

Originally Posted by tellmiwhy

nt difficult but alot seems nt able to do it or worse, dun wana do it.

what to do? alot of them can be havoc & go crazy as if possessed & in trance like a "medium" when she goes out to unwind. some can go to the extent of being groped & teased while having some fun in the sun, clad in bikini (that looks like will fall off anytime)... half the time zaogeng until people get bored watching.

but when it comes to simple gestures... suddenly become maiden virgin... shy.

[tellmiwhy]

Originally Posted by suteerak1099

but when it comes to simple gestures... suddenly become maiden virgin... shy.

if its due to "shy" i stil dun mind....but r they? most of them tot we are "carrot head".