How Do You Overcome Your Fear & Shyness For Sex With Stranger?

[newlywedbride]

If you are a female who was bought up in a conservative environment where sex is a taboo … You have no problem communicating with the opposite sex except on the sensual & sexual part … When you first had sex with your husband, your heart was racing & it took you a year to overcome … So how did you manage to make you first step to have sex with a stranger? Do guys face such problem?

[tarma69]

As a guy, I do not have such a problem. My only concern will be if I can perform and satisfy her in bed.

[FetPartner]

I don't have Any fear or shyness.

[alpha87]

Bro, should be satisfy each other. Both man and woman need sex. Don't be shy just do it and enjoy the process.

[guess67]

Initially i will off the light, till i am comfortable

I am also very shy

[bed69man]

when that situation comes, guys uses the small head to think rather than big one. and small head don't have much room for shyness and fear..
i can't speak for all MAN here.. but for me, i want to feel comfortable before taking an extra step ahead. coz, i ever got it, the body odor nearly "kill" me

[dresden]

mmhmm i think the best way to overcome is to get two people who are equally shy and fearful? that may level the playing ground a lot more

[HunnyCame888]

Originally Posted by guess67

Initially i will off the light, till i am comfortable

I am also very shy

I use my phone flashlight to shine u.

[ah rat]

Originally Posted by guess67

Initially i will off the light, till i am comfortable

I am also very shy

Sis,very dark,wait he can't find hole.

[BMW69]

I think you should stop putting sex on a pedestal.

[sscarlet]

Originally Posted by newlywedbride

If you are a female who was bought up in a conservative environment where sex is a taboo … You have no problem communicating with the opposite sex except on the sensual & sexual part … When you first had sex with your husband, your heart was racing & it took you a year to overcome … So how did you manage to make you first step to have sex with a stranger? Do guys face such problem?

Is this some sort of arranged marriage? why is the husband a stranger?

[PPGirl]

Need to have the feeling 1st b4 u can have a gd make out session.
Start by all the foreplay. Kissing, caressing.. etc
All these will help u to relax.Then slowly when u relax.. all things just come naturally
Im just describing the scenario with my guy.. not stranger

[benz]

Sometimes doing it with a stranger is better
just don't think much and give in to your desires

[clinton]

ts have some alcohol drink before that, half drunk best

[orangeproud]

I think if u r those shy, slow to warm up type, need to start out as a friend first, chit chat with him more, understand him more, until u r really feel more comfortable & happy with him, then consider the "sex" part. Everyone is different, some r liberal type coming to sex, some r more conservative due to her character & upbringing environment.