Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in....

[Shadow_warrior]

Those with Fuck Buddies, Little 3s 小三, Friends with benefits fall in

Heh heh, I suspect there are bros, sis here who have or are fuck buddies, someone mistress or kept man to married partners, or are friends with benefits

Lets share experiences, the good, the bad the ugly.

Funny- was going to post in Adult Discussions about SEX as it does pertain to sex, but I have a feeling, afterall while it becomes more than sex, and other matters come in.

[Shadow_warrior]

I start sharing, currently I have a gf/fb/小三 whatever you call it.

it has been a long long process of crazy sex, lots of problems, to now less problems but almost no sex.

If there is sex, its lousy anyway. Watching the hotel TV, don't even BJ.

Does anyone still get hot and heavy with their fbs after years of being together?

Let me frame my case which started 6 years back

My "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not

[Vectra]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I start sharing, currently I have a gf/fb/小三 whatever you call it.

it has been a long long process of crazy sex, lots of problems, to now less problems but almost no sex.

Nice sharing

[evoralliart]

Thanks for sharing. I believe this is a very valuable information and lesson to all of us out there who go to the MPs or visit FLs. I ever saw the 3 rules here in this website but sad to say some of us tend to stray from the 3 rules and find ourselves either treat MLs and FLs as close friends or tend to fall in love with them. Esp when we stick to one lady for long periods, keep RTF them.

[Shadow_warrior]

looking for the other bros, sis to fall in and share their experience

[Shadow_warrior]

anyway yesterday met my FB/GF for a while. Havent screwed for 3 months, always got reason period, tired, no mood etc...

damn sianz, FB become GF liao.
Finally coax her to go hotel, end up Pasir Panjang West Coast Fragrance Hotel, counter say no more $40, left $48.

Bo Pian, got chance take loh
Enter room, she take off, now so many years she does her big business don't care anything image or anything already.
So since she already take off, proceed to touch her breasts, she say itchy, don't care just poke lah. didn't even get any foreplay or BJ which I love, so do same old missionary style change a few position, side, on the front
Ask me switch off aircon if not cannot enjoy she say, so I turn off, the more I poke the more sweaty I become. Boring liao
Say change to doggy, wear rubber and whack, finally push her on the bed, and lift her legs and whack till shoot

But after that very sianz feeling, the passion of last time no more, so many month only do once, this cannot that cannot, no bj, really change from the early days of doing 3-4 times a day, one session can whack twice. No more BJ or 69, or fingering etc...all cannot. Fucked up sianz. Really want to try FL/WL but I only into capped BJ for safety. Btw, she used to be one, so knn her customer must all enjoy like fuck till I kenna become her bf.

After doing yesterday wanted second round she keep pretending me and pushing me away, end I go home and PCC

Anyone like me? Started damn hot, fuck like bunnies, but now sianz like shit?

Now its my story. Sigh....

[korean]

no one sarpork TS, here I come

I have 2 gf who were ex-WL, the 1st is little 3 and the 2nd is little 4 as she claimed

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by korean

no one sarpork TS, here I come

I have 2 gf who were ex-WL, the 1st is little 3 and the 2nd is little 4 as she claimed

you power lah bro...

[Uncle2015]

TS, I really feel you're not being kind to yourself, why haven't you moved on ? She must have something that you like, which is beyond the 4 walls.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Uncle2015

TS, I really feel you're not being kind to yourself, why haven't you moved on ? She must have something that you like, which is beyond the 4 walls.

yes her BJ when she does gives it is awesome and her licking skill on any part of the body is spine tingly

managed to coax her to make up for tues lack of BJ, reminds me why I feel so head over heels years ago, it was her mouth and tongue I felt in love with

[sex crusader]

Is a FL considered as a 小三? My understanding is that she or he is only attached to you and not a public transport where everyone can take a ride!

[korean]

Originally Posted by sex crusader

Is a FL considered as a 小三? My understanding is that she or he is only attached to you and not a public transport where everyone can take a ride!

definition of 小三

http://www.baike.com/wiki/%E5%B0%8F%E4%B8%89

[Shadow_warrior]

is she little 3?

my wife thinks so about her, the 小三 thinks so, but to me, the first thing that she is, is a FB....lol...

[mrclen]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I start sharing, currently I have a gf/fb/小三 whatever you call it.

it has been a long long process of crazy sex, lots of problems, to now less problems but almost no sex.

If there is sex, its lousy anyway. Watching the hotel TV, don't even BJ.

Does anyone still get hot and heavy with their fbs after years of being together?

Let me frame my case which started 6 years back

My "gf" is ex FL

These are the issues I faced when I first started with her

1. She lies about her past or tells you half diluted truth. Even if its true, you wonder if she is lying
2. You worry about embarassement. She has worked for 2 years, wearing LV, prada, branded, goes to casino, how many cocks has she fucked, handjob, sucked, how many people have screwed her, sucked her, seen her nude etc...
- This happens when you start to have feelings for her. You worry that the coffeeshop old uncle, or the young army punk has fucked her.
3. You think its great sex, connection, GFE(sounds familiar brothers???) but then again, she has had alot of practice, daily practice on many guys, all races, colours, sizes, age. If you are married, I was, you think its better sex than with your wife. Yes it is, because your wife doesnt fuck men daily for breakfast, lunch, dinner, supper
4. Character- often they lie, and have character issues. Smoke, drink, take drugs, flirt, gamble. Bad tempered. Many times single mother, was knocked up by some ah beng who ran off. Has tattoos. Might have worked at the so called Fei Ji Chang, doing handjobs first, or hostress or escort, being Bao by married men or rich men- or all these before they end up being a full fledged WL/FL
5. Doing raw, how many of you do with protection with your gf or wife? If your gf is a ex FL, do with condom all the time, no matter what she says. I didnt get any stds or hivs, but I believe there was a bout of jock itch, that was thanks to her. I had to get a cream from mustapha $5-6 to sort out the damp and itchy stuff. Dragged her to the doctor again and again, to blood test, and found she had an yeast infection.
6. You dont become a FL because you are forced. At least not if she is singaporean. Forced because she has debts(loanshark, gambling) etc...is liken to the 3 ladies being forced to have oral and sex with SCDF chief- BS. The ex husband came out to say his ex gf is decent, dont wear make up- Cmon, total bullocks. Its a choice- a greed for money by selling her body, its the easy way. But look at her character, she is willing to open her leg for money instead of work a decent job. It should tell you her value system.
But the flip side, if you screwing a FL, we aint not saints either.
7. Sex you have great sex with her, you worry if she has had better, bigger and screamed louder. You want to know, but it hurts you to ask.

Fast forward, towards the end, the sex becomes, like all relationships, same, boring. And you ask yourself why the fuck did you fall in love with someone from that world. And you ask yourself what you had lost, given up, and sacrificed- was it worth it?

Sex is sex, love is love. You want GFE, you can pay for it and get it anywhere. The guys she fucked got what you got too, passion, GFE, etc...might have even got more. Because if she is your gf, she can say she is tired, dont want to swallow, condoms make her painful, so when you fuck her you need to pull up and not shoot in etc...And you have to do more, you think you getting free fuck? You pay with handphone bills, buying her stuff, paying for her food, driving her around...and if you are married, pay with your marriage- when your wife finds out you fucked a WL.

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not

Hell, I could wrote a good part of this. Starts out great! and gradually goes downhill. My personal feeling is that in the beginning they are "working", but as time passes they quit "working". When they work they feel they have to please you. Later just being with you is enough, at least that is their thought process. We still want and need the hot sex we had in the beginning, they are into the companionship mode. Of course the lying will always be there because lying is easier than the truth!

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

My advice, never "fall" in love with a WL, FL, fall in lust- okay. Screw the hell out of her, keep your wallet tight, and dont ever give up on anything.

All relationships are selfish, you want something, so does she. She wouldnt be thinking whether its too much to do this or that, so dont come down hard on yourself to treat her as a FL.

Never fall in love with a FL, WL, ex or not

Good advice, bros wanna play, do it smart. First signs of any $$$ request, walk away.
If th FL WL truly love you, no need $, or else it 's just a game on who can outwit the other

Btw bro, when can return upz?
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