questions after bonking.....

[medicheng]

have you ever occur to u that u flirt and bonk with so many girls, in the end, u r just a hollow self? You are physically satified, but then emotionally u r still not happy?

I do.... do you?

If you are, What should you do?

Find a gf to settle down and marry? hmmmmmm, but how to find a girl who is totally emotionally click with you? And also allow u to bonk and satified you emotionally? I had been thru quite a number of relationships and none work well.....

Oh man, I felt I am too greedy in this, but then after bonking everytime, I think, is this the lifestyle I want all these while?

If you are me, what will you do?

[Orgasmic]

have you ever occur to u that u flirt and bonk with so many girls, in the end, u r just a hollow self? You are physically satified, but then emotionally u r still not happy?

I do.... do you?

If you are, What should you do?

Find a gf to settle down and marry? hmmmmmm, but how to find a girl who is totally emotionally click with you? And also allow u to bonk and satified you emotionally? I had been thru quite a number of relationships and none work well.....

Oh man, I felt I am too greedy in this, but then after bonking everytime, I think, is this the lifestyle I want all these while?

If you are me, what will you do?

Theres basically nothing much that u can do. I am like u; in fact worse. After bonking, I feel extremely guilty even if the gal is a super chio babe or something. It has been happening to me since I first started out. PPle talk about horny guys going lusting after gals in the internet and preying on them. BUT there are actually guys like me who REALLY DO NOT enjoy bonking gals. The guilt feeling that i got is something like a kid who skip sch and wander around. After consulting a psychaitrist, i know that i am mentally ill. Kept hearing voice which i tot was real asking me to chat and meet up with pple. Further info about my mental health i wont reveal here for privacy. Just wish to tell some pple out there THAT there are actually guys who do not take pleasure in bonking gals and will even feel guily ....

[medicheng]

kinda hollow feel right? i also bonk some of my good friends.... but after that i am thinking is this the lifestyle i am seeking? haiz...

[Looksee]

kinda hollow feel right? i also bonk some of my good friends.... but after that i am thinking is this the lifestyle i am seeking? haiz...

seems like a catch 22 situation.........but then it could be a pasting pharse tat u r going thru now.........

[medicheng]

maybe... suddenly wanna give up on my flirtings and so on and lead a life without flirting and bonking.....

thinking about why and what is the reason for doing all these. even good friend also can bonk.....

really losing myself here....

[bunny]

kinda hollow feel right? i also bonk some of my good friends.... but after that i am thinking is this the lifestyle i am seeking? haiz...

Sorry dun mean to be philosophical ... but here goes: just my own views ...

Probably need to know what you want in life ... Iwent througha few stages ... and thot that was what I wanted, but when reach there realised that it was not really what I wanted and so make changes and head where I wanted to go ... it always happens ... but must spend time to think about what we want.

Next in terms of the hollowness, when u think u know what u want, then theoretically you should be happy ... eg. gf or wife ... but then not everything is perfect ... gotta accept that, then can begin to enjoy and see the good side of things. When what u have is nto perfect ... then go search to fill in the gaps, but if u happen to find somethig that fits better overall, then it is the individual choice what to do ... some decide to stay on and have flings on the side, but anchored to the family knowing that that is what they want ... some decide to divorce ...

Sorry ... hope I never confuse people here. Cheers

[medicheng]

maybe it is time for me to change direction, and dun try to flirt with that china insurance mm liao.... haha... no lah, after i did with my good friend, i kept on asking myself, will our friendship ends there? will we still be like friends? or i need to chase her make her my gf to maintain it?

then if i got her liao, wat should i do?

and been bonking all these while I am thinking... so many chio bu, so many ordinary girls out there in the street, you begin to feel that will there be any normal girls out there to be your wife? After u heard so many stories and bonk so many girls.....

hmmmm i am creating headache for myself ba... haha..

please pardon me my dear brothers...

[MachoDevilX]

Bro,

If you doesn't bonk and just plainly feel emotional towards the girl, I think you probably wouldn't have the feelings of "hollowness". I have changed my satisfaction to satifying the gal's emotional aspects rather than plainly satisfying my own desire. Knowing that the girl is satisfied and happy will make me feel more happy than just bonking her. Maybe you can change your mindset to satisfy her rather than satisfying yourself. Treating the girls with respect by not bonking her will probably make the girl feel more comfortable...
:cool:

[medicheng]

Bro,

If you doesn't bonk and just plainly feel emotional towards the girl, I think you probably wouldn't have the feelings of "hollowness". I have changed my satisfaction to satifying the gal's emotional aspects rather than plainly satisfying my own desire. Knowing that the girl is satisfied and happy will make me feel more happy than just bonking her. Maybe you can change your mindset to satisfy her rather than satisfying yourself. Treating the girls with respect by not bonking her will probably make the girl feel more comfortable...
:cool:
of i did, showing her the power of my finger.... can see she is in estacy.... :)

[bunny]

Bro,

If you doesn't bonk and just plainly feel emotional towards the girl, I think you probably wouldn't have the feelings of "hollowness". I have changed my satisfaction to satifying the gal's emotional aspects rather than plainly satisfying my own desire. Knowing that the girl is satisfied and happy will make me feel more happy than just bonking her. Maybe you can change your mindset to satisfy her rather than satisfying yourself. Treating the girls with respect by not bonking her will probably make the girl feel more comfortable...
:cool:

Bro MachoDevil ... same same ... i enjoy it when the gal gets a big high ... I also feel good and then the girl will much much more interested to please you in return also ... hahaha ... Cheers :D

[foolish_]

have you ever occur to u that u flirt and bonk with so many girls, in the end, u r just a hollow self? You are physically satified, but then emotionally u r still not happy?

I do.... do you?

If you are, What should you do?

Find a gf to settle down and marry? hmmmmmm, but how to find a girl who is totally emotionally click with you? And also allow u to bonk and satified you emotionally? I had been thru quite a number of relationships and none work well.....

Oh man, I felt I am too greedy in this, but then after bonking everytime, I think, is this the lifestyle I want all these while?

If you are me, what will you do?

I think it's just a phase in life you are going through. Having had all the sex you wanted, you start looking for the emotional aspect rather than just the physical aspect of sex.

If I were you, maybe you can cool down the sex part and focus for awhile on an emotional relationship. I am sure after a while, the desire for just plain sex will come back.

:)

[bunny]

maybe it is time for me to change direction, and dun try to flirt with that china insurance mm liao.... haha... no lah, after i did with my good friend, i kept on asking myself, will our friendship ends there? will we still be like friends? or i need to chase her make her my gf to maintain it?

then if i got her liao, wat should i do?

and been bonking all these while I am thinking... so many chio bu, so many ordinary girls out there in the street, you begin to feel that will there be any normal girls out there to be your wife? After u heard so many stories and bonk so many girls.....

hmmmm i am creating headache for myself ba... haha..

please pardon me my dear brothers...

Then looks like u falling for her already ... there is a saying ... :It is better to have loved and lost than not loved at all." Looks like you are either infatuated or in love ... when I was a teenager ... i was also infatuated althoguh i thot i was in love ... always sit outside and wait for a girl I know to pass by ... and then sneak a peak/say hi! ... But I never followed up ... so I will never know what could have become ...

As for making yr good friend yr gf or wife in future ... actually yr wife should be yr best friend ... just some food for thought ... you will hve to decide what to do ... can only share my experince and views... Cheers .... dun think so much ...like Nike ...Just Do it !!! hahahahaha ... but do what ..,.that u have to decide ... Cheers

[emperor]

Sex( & girls ) is like food. People have fixed ideas/impressions of what food is suppose to be like. Hence, the following categories:

- meal times are rituals/habits done instinctively whether you need the fuel or not. Oftentimes, the food choices are based on familliarity rather than nutrition or enjoyment. The food has to be high on taste, often enhanced by additives, of sufficient quantity and procedures standardized. If you've always wondered why most food centres have a tacky/crude vibe to it,now you know why. Red light districts are the equivalent.

- choosing/enjoying fast food = choosing porn over reality.

- fine dining denotes choice/variety/experience/ambience/difference. In the flesh trade this equals "better quality"/ hard to find/expensive/recommended girls or sexual encounters.

- home cooked food = sex available from a regular partner be it a wife, girlfriend, mistress or "kept" woman.

- exotic food = kinky or unusual sex.

If you don't eat what you really need or what suits you, you will never be satisfied. Your mind and body pay the price.

[MachoDevilX]

of i did, showing her the power of my finger.... can see she is in estacy....

My finger "kungfu" is good also... Maybe we are trained from the same "Clan"??? :D And of course my specialty will be my tougue... :D

[medicheng]

Then looks like u falling for her already ...
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... Cheers

actually i did express to her before that i like her... but she say she will not choose me..... haiz.... that is the sadness of that part....

[medicheng]

My finger "kungfu" is good also... Maybe we are trained from the same "Clan"??? :D And of course my specialty will be my tougue... :D
hmmmm because I told her about one of my ex broke off with me still got the guts to say, she will miss my fingers..... then it all started with the fingers.... she told me she never was so high before.... well, guess she enjoy too.

[medicheng]

I think it's just a phase in life you are going through. Having had all the sex you wanted, you start looking for the emotional aspect rather than just the physical aspect of sex.

If I were you, maybe you can cool down the sex part and focus for awhile on an emotional relationship. I am sure after a while, the desire for just plain sex will come back.

:)
actually i got a gf, who is busy with her life and seldom meet.... maybe due to this I drift off from my gf... and flirt around aimlessly.... yeah... this might be the case.

[MachoDevilX]

hmmmm because I told her about one of my ex broke off with me still got the guts to say, she will miss my fingers..... then it all started with the fingers.... she told me she never was so high before.... well, guess she enjoy too.

Hahaha... Then I think she miss your fingers more than your "Erhmm"... :D
Bro, Not a good sign leh... Next time must let the girls miss your "Erhmm".... (Just kidding, hope you don't mind) :D

[medicheng]

Hahaha... Then I think she miss your fingers more than your "Erhmm"... :D
Bro, Not a good sign leh... Next time must let the girls miss your "Erhmm".... (Just kidding, hope you don't mind) :D
haha yeah loh... but then erhmm not good so use finger skills to cover up mah....

[benz]

finger masters medicheng and MachoDevilX

please accept me as your disciple :D

personally don't think it's a good idea to mix sex and friendship.

you might be feeling hollow coz you are not getting what you are looking for in your current relationship? perhaps you could talk to your gf and work things out.

[medicheng]

haha no xue fei how to teach u? *look at weighing scale*

[MachoDevilX]

haha no xue fei how to teach u? *look at weighing scale*

Agree.... And our Xue Fei is not cheap leh... Such skill requires numerous training before we can master it... Maybe we can let you practice the "finger" skill on the girl and you let us practice our "Erhmm" skills.... :D

[OceanEleven]

actually i did express to her before that i like her... but she say she will not choose me..... haiz.... that is the sadness of that part....
Well, if this is the case then no strings attached. Women are no longer play things of men, it can be the other way round. ;)

[Richard L]

Hi Bro,
This is an interesting thread that look into the emotional aspect of sex...I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men & women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. I have never figured out why the sexual desire gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil, when it hears the words "I do."

FOR EXAMPLE:
One evening last week, my wife and I were getting into bed. Well, the passion starts to heat up, and she eventually says "I don't feel like it, I just want you hold me.

I said "WHAT????!!! What was that?!" So she says the words that every husband on the planet dreads to hear..."You're just not in touch with my emotional needs as a woman enough for me to satisfy your physical needs as a man."

She responded to my puzzled look by saying, "Can't you just love me for who I am and not what I do for you in the bedroom?"

Realizing that nothing was going to happen that night I went to sleep.

The very next day I opted to take the day off of work to spend time with her. We went out to a nice lunch and then went shopping at a big, big unnamed dept. store. I walked around with her while she tried on several different very expensive outfits. She couldn't decide which to get so I told her we'll just buy them all. She wanted new shoes to compliment her new clothes, so I said lets get a pair for each outfit. We went on to the jewelry dept. where she picked out a pair of diamond earrings.

Let me tell you...she was so excited. She must have thought I was one wave short of a shipwreck. I started to think she was testing me because she asked for tennis bracelet when she doesn't even know how to play tennis. I think I threw her for a loop when I said, "That's fine, honey." She was almost nearing sexual satisfaction from all of the excitement. Smiling with excited anticipation she finally said, "I think this is all dear, let's go to the cashier...

I could hardly contain myself when I blurted out, "No honey, I don't feel like it." Her face just went completely blank as her jaw dropped with a baffled WHAT???!!!"

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile .. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either

[wolfy]

haha i think you are a very brave man bro. don't think you'll be having sex for quite a long time if you ask me :D

nice post! really enjoyed reading it.

Hi Bro,
This is an interesting thread that look into the emotional aspect of sex...I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men & women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. I have never figured out why the sexual desire gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil, when it hears the words "I do."

[medicheng]

Well, if this is the case then no strings attached. Women are no longer play things of men, it can be the other way round. ;)
yeah I even got a guy friend as old as me but he dun dare to find gf.... coz the girls nowadays are scary to him..... haha

[medicheng]

Hi Bro,
This is an interesting thread that look into the emotional aspect of sex...I never quite figured out why the sexual urge of men & women differ so much. And I never have figured out the whole Venus and Mars thing. I have never figured out why men think with their head and women with their heart. I have never figured out why the sexual desire gene gets thrown into a state of turmoil, when it hears the words "I do."



nah man do think with their hearts, if not, how come got people like me being bother about this bonking thingy? u fulfilled your phyiscal urge but how about ur emotionally self? how u satifed to bonk your whole life away? and not finding someone to settle down? someone whom u will feel emotionally click with?

[medicheng]

Agree.... And our Xue Fei is not cheap leh... Such skill requires numerous training before we can master it... Maybe we can let you practice the "finger" skill on the girl and you let us practice our "Erhmm" skills.... :Dit is a long long way before we master this skill.... haha....

[mayday]

coz the girls nowadays are scary to him.....

wah! in wat ways?? :confused:

[jeronimo]

Find a gf to settle down and marry? hmmmmmm, but how to find a girl who is totally emotionally click with you? And also allow u to bonk and satified you emotionally? I had been thru quite a number of relationships and none work well.....

Oh man, I felt I am too greedy in this, but then after bonking everytime, I think, is this the lifestyle I want all these while?

If you are me, what will you do?
I think its very common for people to feel lost
My best friends fcuk around too and they do it big time
But at the end of the day, they finish the business then its game over time
But those are strictly transactional basis

Who don't want a perfect lady in the house that can cook, click, tease?
I have not been tru many relationhips but no to the extent of only 1 (pleeezzz) but I do not shun the possibility of a new relationship that could spell the end of the drought
If going in just to get out or even before getting in, you are afraid to lose.
Then the greater would be your loss

There's no harm in going into another alley, if you walk the right one you would be on your sunshine avenue, else backtrack again

Just my thoughts aloud

[medicheng]

wah! in wat ways?? :confused:
you never know wat she did in the past? like how many guys she bonk etc... haha

[Optimus_Prime]

Hi Bro,
I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile .. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either

HA HA HA !!

Fell off my chair man !!

[Flinger2]

Hi Bro,

I then said, "Really honey! I just want you to HOLD this stuff for awhile .. You're just not in touch with my financial needs as a man enough for me to satisfy your shopping needs as a woman." And just when she had this look like she was going to kill me I added, "Why can't you just love me for who I am and not for the things I buy you?"

Apparently I'm not having sex tonight either

The best thing I ever read!!! . *Bows to the Master*

[banana]

finger masters medicheng and MachoDevilX

please accept me as your disciple :D

personally don't think it's a good idea to mix sex and friendship.

you might be feeling hollow coz you are not getting what you are looking for in your current relationship? perhaps you could talk to your gf and work things out.


greetings, shifu medicheng and MachoDevilX.
greetings, da shi xiong benz.

[medicheng]

greetings, shifu medicheng and MachoDevilX.
greetings, da shi xiong benz.
since when u ru meng?

[medicheng]

I think its very common for people to feel lost
My best friends fcuk around too and they do it big time
But at the end of the day, they finish the business then its game over time
But those are strictly transactional basis

Who don't want a perfect lady in the house that can cook, click, tease?
I have not been tru many relationhips but no to the extent of only 1 (pleeezzz) but I do not shun the possibility of a new relationship that could spell the end of the drought
If going in just to get out or even before getting in, you are afraid to lose.
Then the greater would be your loss

There's no harm in going into another alley, if you walk the right one you would be on your sunshine avenue, else backtrack again

Just my thoughts aloud
sorry i miss ur post yesterday, now replying u back...

yeah i agreed nowadays u never know who girls fuck around and who they sleep with and what dirty linen they did in the past. For me as long as in the future when she is with me she dun do all these things i wont mind.... but then some guys do mind. How many guys can really dare to say that they wont mind accepting a girl who used to be a FL? haha... maybe I am trying to brag about myself, but for me I wont mind... as long as she dun mind anything about me.... I was with a FL before and a divorcee... for me is they are just another girl for me to understand and try out to see if can be together or not.... simple as that......

well, I am lost, after doing it with some girl i knew as a good friend... and i used to love alot... caring about her alot.... haiz...

i think should fuck happy and forget about the whole thing and remain good friend with her is the best way out...

right?

damn, dun feel like aiming at the china insurance mei mei liao..... :D

[Brinjal]

I'm no moralist and I think wat medicheng is going thru is juz a passing phase. I'm selfish and I care for my satisfaction more than her emotions. Man use love to get sex. Woman use sex to get love. It has worked all this while and SNAG or not, it's not going to change. I feel it's easy for me to separate lust and love altogether. No guilt feelings. No strings attached.

[medicheng]

Love will lead to lust while lust will never lead you to love? keke

[Brinjal]

Love will lead to lust while lust will never lead you to love? keke

it's sexual gratification ;)

[Optimus_Prime]

Man use love to get sex. Woman use sex to get love. It has worked all this while and SNAG or not, it's not going to change.

:rolleyes: well said. No TRUER words have been spoken.

[medicheng]

man also use money to get sex... remember?

[jeronimo]

yeah i agreed nowadays u never know who girls fuck around and who they sleep with and what dirty linen they did in the past. For me as long as in the future when she is with me she dun do all these things i wont mind.... but then some guys do mind. How many guys can really dare to say that they wont mind accepting a girl who used to be a FL? haha... maybe I am trying to brag about myself, but for me I wont mind... as long as she dun mind anything about me.... I was with a FL before and a divorcee... for me is they are just another girl for me to understand and try out to see if can be together or not.... simple as that......

well, I am lost, after doing it with some girl i knew as a good friend... and i used to love alot... caring about her alot.... haiz...

i think should fuck happy and forget about the whole thing and remain good friend with her is the best way out...

right?

damn, dun feel like aiming at the china insurance mei mei liao..... :D
I was still under moderation when I posted it
As for the feeling between you and your partner, I believe in mutual agreement. I know of a FL who is not in Singyland but still treats me like the best friend in the world, asking if she should go for bust enhancements? If she should accept this guy who is crazy in love with her?
We maintained a relationship based on feeling but to me I told her that she was working and I still would pay her a token sum everytime we were together even if she don't say it.
That was better in a way because through the times we were together I respected her, we talked, we had fun but I maintained it that way. Perhaps if you set your mind straight on what you wanted and be opened with the friend you had a relationship with, it would not have bothered it?

As for your relationship with the FL and divorcee, I guess everyone wanted to have a nice SYT to fall in love and share their lives. If by chance this question had been popped to me 10 yrs, I would have said a no no to relationship involving divorcee or FL. However over the years, man age and so does the thinking change.
Does it mean divorcee are bad? C'mon, they may not be the one sleeping with other man behind their man's back, they could have been victimised by callous man having flings. On the contrary, SYTs have ample of chance to stray

Anyway there is always 2 sides to a coin
Hope I am not too long winded :o , just my thoughts aloud

[medicheng]

nope you are not long winded. haha. I agreed people mindset do change over the years... just like me... but then sometimes after u bonk, u r happy, but then emotionally u still feel empty... wonder how to solve it...

[HauntedSex]

nope you are not long winded. haha. I agreed people mindset do change over the years... just like me... but then sometimes after u bonk, u r happy, but then emotionally u still feel empty... wonder how to solve it...

Bro medicheng,

agree, Brain is a funny thing, Sometimes ago,I had such feeling too... My way to solve this: find something that can let u emotinally attached to, eg works, girlfriends, family, friends, maybe a hobby.(healthy ones, not sex!!)

Enjoy!!
HauntedSex

[Orgasmic]

seems that i cant find someone who seriously feel extremely guilty like me in this forum....

donno why but i seriously have no gratification for any kind of gals and i actually feel very sad after any sessions... its like a serious guilt weighing down on u and u promise yourself that next time u wont do it again.

Bro medicheng,

agree, Brain is a funny thing, Sometimes ago,I had such feeling too... My way to solve this: find something that can let u emotinally attached to, eg works, girlfriends, family, friends, maybe a hobby.(healthy ones, not sex!!)

Enjoy!!
HauntedSex

[benz]

shifu medicheng & machoDevilX

when are we having our first lesson? Are you going to teach us the unbeatable "九淫指"?

btw banana need to buy roast pork and wine for the masters. we better find 师弟 to share the cost.

greetings, shifu medicheng and MachoDevilX.
greetings, da shi xiong benz.

[mayday]

you never know wat she did in the past? like how many guys she bonk etc... haha

ohh...icic..such things ahh..the ex-s are always so so so mah fan. :rolleyes:

[banana]

shifu medicheng & machoDevilX

when are we having our first lesson? Are you going to teach us the unbeatable "九淫指"?

btw banana need to buy roast pork and wine for the masters. we better find 师弟 to share the cost.

i can lend u my rear hole for demonstration alpha.

as for the prok and wine... hmmm... how abt bak kua and beer?

[jeronimo]

nope you are not long winded. haha. I agreed people mindset do change over the years... just like me... but then sometimes after u bonk, u r happy, but then emotionally u still feel empty... wonder how to solve it...
I want to be fair to myself and also to my potential partner
If emotionally I am empty, I will find a way to occupy myself.
Look on the brighter side of life, there is always the family, the work, the friends and SBF? Pick up a hobby? Learn a new game

The lonliness does not come immediately after a bonk, it hits you smack right in the night or after some drinks

Correct me if I am wrong?

[tittyhawk]

So J...u go drinking alot alone? let me know the next time u hit the booze... :)

[jeronimo]

So J...u go drinking alot alone? let me know the next time u hit the booze... :)
Wow! Senior invite me go drinking?
Sure, I pm you my number and we arrange a session next time can?

[medicheng]

maybe we all should sit down have a beer and talk about all these... how about it?

[medicheng]

I want to be fair to myself and also to my potential partner
If emotionally I am empty, I will find a way to occupy myself.
Look on the brighter side of life, there is always the family, the work, the friends and SBF? Pick up a hobby? Learn a new game

The lonliness does not come immediately after a bonk, it hits you smack right in the night or after some drinks

Correct me if I am wrong?

this loniness comes to me right away i stepped out of the room of bonking.... cant help it... envy those who nice gf that they can hug inside the bus everytime... unlike me... only me and my mp3 player to hug each other....

[medicheng]

shifu medicheng & machoDevilX

when are we having our first lesson? Are you going to teach us the unbeatable "九淫指"?

btw banana need to buy roast pork and wine for the masters. we better find 师弟 to share the cost.

hmmmmmmmm... let me look at my calandar.....

[medicheng]

Bro medicheng,

agree, Brain is a funny thing, Sometimes ago,I had such feeling too... My way to solve this: find something that can let u emotinally attached to, eg works, girlfriends, family, friends, maybe a hobby.(healthy ones, not sex!!)

Enjoy!!
HauntedSex
I got quite a number of female friends.... they will accompany from time to time as friend... family is still around.... friends are busy with their stuffs.... hobbies, I got alot... like reading books lah, painting lah, play guitar lah, play chess... (crap) haha....

but then is the feeling after bonking... haiz... i dunno how to say....

[jeronimo]

this loniness comes to me right away i stepped out of the room of bonking.... cant help it... envy those who nice gf that they can hug inside the bus everytime... unlike me... only me and my mp3 player to hug each other....
Don't be so sad, think of the nicer things that you have done.
Really its a matter of how you look at things.
If you are always negative about it, it will always be a minus sign
If you are optimistic, then the sun will always shine!

U mean you have such a big MP3 player that you can even hug it?
Time to change a new one

[jeronimo]

I got quite a number of female friends.... they will accompany from time to time as friend... family is still around.... friends are busy with their stuffs.... hobbies, I got alot... like reading books lah, painting lah, play guitar lah, play chess... (crap) haha....

but then is the feeling after bonking... haiz... i dunno how to say....
Let's see, the feeling sets in everytime after you bonked?
Why not stop bonking? :D

Free you mind, the rest will heal with time.
Only with an open mind then you can see the other more important things in life

[tittyhawk]

Let's see, the feeling sets in everytime after you bonked?
Why not stop bonking? :D

Free you mind, the rest will heal with time.
Only with an open mind then you can see the other more important things in life

Judging fm the way u phrase it, seems to me u have been thru thick n thin? :confused:

[tittyhawk]

Wow! Senior invite me go drinking?
Sure, I pm you my number and we arrange a session next time can?

Err....I tot its the other way round, newbie buy me drink n intro intro... :confused: :D

[cbjuiceyumseng]

shifu medicheng & machoDevilX

when are we having our first lesson? Are you going to teach us the unbeatable "九淫指"?

btw banana need to buy roast pork and wine for the masters. we better find 师弟 to share the cost.

Actually i offer free lessions also, my classic move from my 干妹妹十八式， 半边烧鹅腿. :D

[aaaaaa]

Bro, i have been to shanghai for my business trip and i had a call girl. Actually she is not a call girl only she works as Misses in a KTV. I book her for the whole night and she sleep with me.

Then tomorrow after i had paid her and tell her she can leave, she willing to accompany for shopping and food in shanghai. Then when i going to the airport, she also sent me there. Down at the airport she cry and cry and it's melt my heart.

When i got home, i keep message her and miss her so much but i am a married man. What should do? :confused:

[mayday]

maybe we all should sit down have a beer and talk about all these... how about it?
tts a very gd idea..esp the beer hehe :D

[medicheng]

Don't be so sad, think of the nicer things that you have done.

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U mean you have such a big MP3 player that you can even hug it?
Time to change a new one

no lah the most recent one... 512MB player... haha...

but then u cannot help but envy... yeah I been thru wat that guy been thru on the bus, but then u still cant help feeling empty...

[medicheng]

Let's see, the feeling sets in everytime after you bonked?
Why not stop bonking? :D

Free you mind, the rest will heal with time.
Only with an open mind then you can see the other more important things in life
haha maybe I will do that.... stop bonking and even come in here for a few months.... maybe will be better.... well i am in touch with enjoyment of sex since 15 til now i 27.... 12 yrs.... think will feel tired about it....

[medicheng]

I think I mentioned this already in my thread,"Have you mellowed?" and u also posted your comments right...

I think the reason for the down feeling is because we are actually tied down with personal problems...be it love or work or whatever...add a bit of lust at occasions and we start to inevitably,unknowingly treat bonk as an avenue to divert our attentions away from our real problems...and after we finish our bonk...you are reminded of the same problems you face and it gets you even more miserable...

A psychological viewpoin...
yeah brother... i met with that good friend i bonk last night, like usual, normally go out with her never touch her at all, then like her good friend like that, buy her drinks etc.... well maybe to her is nothing... and i am glad... i dun like losing a good friend like her, when i am down she is there for me type.... although she knew i had a crush on her, but she will never fall for me.... sad...

[medicheng]

tts a very gd idea..esp the beer hehe :D
u treat? keke

[mayday]

u treat? keke

hahaha, newbie then must treat issit? lolz can is can lah...but i am not those with money to burn type too..which is the sad part.hah

[medicheng]

mayday kopitiam one also can... think the brothers here dun mind...