Anyone experience this too

[chanster]

Who here the same as me ? Ever since a very huge setback and breakup in a relationship. Now you just can't be interested in any girls . Even go find WL , you just cant seem to get into the mood although you are quite horny.

[DegenerationX]

Mood sure have lah. But after the deed is done, you will feel very empty again. Like what my signature state :D

[ah rat]

If see neh neh & pussy,mood come :p

[chanster]

Mood sure have lah. But after the deed is done, you will feel very empty again. Like what my signature state :D

Im worst ,.. i cannot even harden anymore -_-

[alan0338]

if even when the cock is in the mouth also no mood then really jialat liao... :p

[owl888]

Got physical contact oso cannot hardon then better see a Doctor :D

[hamsapkwai]

Got physical contact oso cannot hardon then better see a Doctor :D

Right on , go see a urologist :cool:

[Little Roo]

TS, I have been thru set-backs (divorced), so I can imagine how you would feel. You cannot rush the recovery, and you must give time for the heart and emotions to heal. Once you have truly let go of your past relationship, then you may be ready to gradually move on. When you're ready to move on, i am sure you will once again become excited by women.

[Castrol]

Im worst ,.. i cannot even harden anymore -_-

you may have switched to the other side.
are you excited when you see handsome guys? :D

[peanodood1337]

Who here the same as me ? Ever since a very huge setback and breakup in a relationship. Now you just can't be interested in any girls . Even go find WL , you just cant seem to get into the mood although you are quite horny.

Yea it totally sucks. Personally, I pride myself as a person who is forward looking and can move on very quickly when things don't work out (i.e. kena dumped or friendzoned or something). But sometimes, something that reminds you of her crops up (e.g. her favorite song playing on the radio, the scent of her perfume from someone in a crowded train carriage etc.) and it feels utterly shite.

I think the most important thing is to recognize that not being able to give up easily also means we were emotionally invested in that previous r/s - nothing wrong with that, its called being human.

Give yourself time, time heals all wounds.

Interim, I suggest don't go chiong too much. No point. The hollow in your heart will only grow after the sessions. Or even worse - kena KCed or something.

Pick up a healthy hobby instead. Or throw yourself into work. When you gain financial independence, you'll have all the time and resources in the world to woo someone much much better.

Good luck bro :)

[muscleboi]

bro, other than marakita issue, i'm in the same shit hole as you do. no longer can i love a girl other than simply fulfilling my physical needs. i jus can't do it anymore. friends with girls ok but telling me to be in a relationship with one no longer works for me (when i can have the entire forest to swing from tree to tree :D )

at most when i am old, i admit myself to the old folks home. simple as that. so young days, spend on something more meaningful than chasing the skirts and signing women charter contracts.. :o

[peanodood1337]

at most when i am old, i admit myself to the old folks home. simple as that.

Haha bro I see you have warmed up to my idea.

Ok so in 45+ years time, if I still see you in the forums, we can go check in together. On? :o

[muscleboi]

Haha bro I see you have warmed up to my idea.

Ok so in 45+ years time, if I still see you in the forums, we can go check in together. On? :o

on la, bro! 45 years is a long time. hope sbf can survive until that long. :D

[huhu123]

on la, bro! 45 years is a long time. hope sbf can survive until that long. :D

can i join we together go old folk home then in there surf sammyforum. can organise outing too.:)

[huhu123]

Who here the same as me ? Ever since a very huge setback and breakup in a relationship. Now you just can't be interested in any girls . Even go find WL , you just cant seem to get into the mood although you are quite horny.

For me i different, i keep trying to find fl so i can forget her. ALmost everyweek.

[chanster]

Yeah ,, the only person i will have feeling and able to do with anyone is just simply her .. other girls i try look i just cant harden .. only can HJ to do it ..

I just did something to her that i know its fucking wrong and it hurt me to do so either .. but i got no choice but to do it at least this give me a reason try not to bother her anymore and move on ..

[DegenerationX]

Yeah ,, the only person i will have feeling and able to do with anyone is just simply her .. other girls i try look i just cant harden .. only can HJ to do it ..

I just did something to her that i know its fucking wrong and it hurt me to do so either .. but i got no choice but to do it at least this give me a reason try not to bother her anymore and move on ..

This is not un-common. There those who do it to aid them in forgetting that person.

[chanster]

This is not un-common. There those who do it to aid them in forgetting that person.

yea .. i did her wrong before , but she come revenge on me .. so i really have to do this in order to find an excuse formyself to move on.. if not i dont know wat am i doing

[chanster]

Really dont understand, why it just hurt even more when you try to hurt someone whom you love before but eventually betrayed and cheat you .. Any bro have this feel too

[muscleboi]

Really dont understand, why it just hurt even more when you try to hurt someone whom you love before but eventually betrayed and cheat you .. Any bro have this feel too

bro, cos vengeance knows no end. sadness will attract more sadness. treat that as a turning point in your life and change for the better. stop revolving your life around her only. remember the forest is waiting..! :D

[chanster]

bro, cos vengeance knows no end. sadness will attract more sadness. treat that as a turning point in your life and change for the better. stop revolving your life around her only. remember the forest is waiting..! :D

I guess so .. I know its impossible between us , because she already started to revenge on me when i cheat her before .. So the whole process is very tiring .. she scam my $ , bluff me etc. in the end i find her and cant let go of her .. So i took my revenge as well .. but i feel so hurt when i did that .. the only way is to move on .. but haiz ..

[huhu123]

I guess so .. I know its impossible between us , because she already started to revenge on me when i cheat her before .. So the whole process is very tiring .. she scam my $ , bluff me etc. in the end i find her and cant let go of her .. So i took my revenge as well .. but i feel so hurt when i did that .. the only way is to move on .. but haiz ..

U took yr revenge? what u did to her?

[falcon]

Bro have you thought that when she took revenge on you it probably hurt her like hell too??

The fact that you feel hurt after taking revenge means you still feel for her. If there is any possibility of having an open talk go for it. That will probably help you in either way, stay or move on.

Good luck

[chanster]

Bro have you thought that when she took revenge on you it probably hurt her like hell too??

The fact that you feel hurt after taking revenge means you still feel for her. If there is any possibility of having an open talk go for it. That will probably help you in either way, stay or move on.

Good luck


Nope , it will not hurt her .. just a f-king bitch when i know more true color of hers.. I will not hestitate to hunt her down

[huhu123]

Nope , it will not hurt her .. just a f-king bitch when i know more true color of hers.. I will not hestitate to hunt her down

what u did to her? So drastic?

[chanster]

what u did to her? So drastic?

nothing much , just let her taste back a little of what she did to me .. I have to do this in order to make myself have enough excuse not to see her again..

[muscleboi]

nothing much , just let her taste back a little of what she did to me .. I have to do this in order to make myself have enough excuse not to see her again..

wah bro, what exactly did you do to each other? :eek:

[soulzsinner]

Please don't do anything harmful.