Anyone experience this too

chanster · #1 14-05-2013, 11:20 AM

Who here the same as me ? Ever since a very huge setback and breakup in a relationship. Now you just can't be interested in any girls . Even go find WL , you just cant seem to get into the mood although you are quite horny.

DegenerationX · #2 14-05-2013, 11:33 AM

Mood sure have lah. But after the deed is done, you will feel very empty again. Like what my signature state

ah rat · #3 14-05-2013, 12:06 PM

If see neh neh & pussy,mood come

chanster · #4 14-05-2013, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by DegenerationX

Mood sure have lah. But after the deed is done, you will feel very empty again. Like what my signature state

Im worst ,.. i cannot even harden anymore -_-

alan0338 · #5 15-05-2013, 09:59 AM

if even when the cock is in the mouth also no mood then really jialat liao...

owl888 · #6 15-05-2013, 10:09 AM

Got physical contact oso cannot hardon then better see a Doctor

hamsapkwai · #7 15-05-2013, 11:12 AM

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Got physical contact oso cannot hardon then better see a Doctor

Right on , go see a urologist

Little Roo · #8 15-05-2013, 12:03 PM

TS, I have been thru set-backs (divorced), so I can imagine how you would feel. You cannot rush the recovery, and you must give time for the heart and emotions to heal. Once you have truly let go of your past relationship, then you may be ready to gradually move on. When you're ready to move on, i am sure you will once again become excited by women.

Castrol · #9 15-05-2013, 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by chanster

Im worst ,.. i cannot even harden anymore -_-

you may have switched to the other side.
are you excited when you see handsome guys?

peanodood1337 · #10 15-05-2013, 07:49 PM

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Originally Posted by chanster

Who here the same as me ? Ever since a very huge setback and breakup in a relationship. Now you just can't be interested in any girls . Even go find WL , you just cant seem to get into the mood although you are quite horny.

Yea it totally sucks. Personally, I pride myself as a person who is forward looking and can move on very quickly when things don't work out (i.e. kena dumped or friendzoned or something). But sometimes, something that reminds you of her crops up (e.g. her favorite song playing on the radio, the scent of her perfume from someone in a crowded train carriage etc.) and it feels utterly shite.

I think the most important thing is to recognize that not being able to give up easily also means we were emotionally invested in that previous r/s - nothing wrong with that, its called being human.

Give yourself time, time heals all wounds.

Interim, I suggest don't go chiong too much. No point. The hollow in your heart will only grow after the sessions. Or even worse - kena KCed or something.

Pick up a healthy hobby instead. Or throw yourself into work. When you gain financial independence, you'll have all the time and resources in the world to woo someone much much better.

Good luck bro

muscleboi · #11 15-05-2013, 08:09 PM

bro, other than marakita issue, i'm in the same shit hole as you do. no longer can i love a girl other than simply fulfilling my physical needs. i jus can't do it anymore. friends with girls ok but telling me to be in a relationship with one no longer works for me (when i can have the entire forest to swing from tree to tree

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at most when i am old, i admit myself to the old folks home. simple as that. so young days, spend on something more meaningful than chasing the skirts and signing women charter contracts..

peanodood1337 · #12 15-05-2013, 08:28 PM

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at most when i am old, i admit myself to the old folks home. simple as that.

Haha bro I see you have warmed up to my idea.

Ok so in 45+ years time, if I still see you in the forums, we can go check in together. On?

muscleboi · #13 15-05-2013, 08:36 PM

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Originally Posted by peanodood1337

Haha bro I see you have warmed up to my idea.

Ok so in 45+ years time, if I still see you in the forums, we can go check in together. On?

on la, bro! 45 years is a long time. hope sbf can survive until that long.

huhu123 · #14 16-05-2013, 06:46 AM

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on la, bro! 45 years is a long time. hope sbf can survive until that long.

can i join we together go old folk home then in there surf sammyforum. can organise outing too.

huhu123 · #15 16-05-2013, 06:48 AM

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Originally Posted by chanster

Who here the same as me ? Ever since a very huge setback and breakup in a relationship. Now you just can't be interested in any girls . Even go find WL , you just cant seem to get into the mood although you are quite horny.

For me i different, i keep trying to find fl so i can forget her. ALmost everyweek.