Opposite sex attracts

[PPGirl]

Always heard of opposite sex attracts.

Sexual Orientation

1) Heterosexual (sometimes refer to "straight")
People who are heterosexual are romantically n physically attracted to members of the opposite sex. Heterosexuals males are attracted to females; heterosexual females are attracted to males.

2) Homosexual (gay/lesbian is sometimes used to describe homosexuals)
People who are homosexual are romantically n physically attracted to people of the same sex. Females who are attracted to other females are lesbian; males who are attracted to other males are known as gay.

3) Bisexual
People who are bisexual are romantically n physically attracted to members of both sexes.

4) Asexual
People who dont feel any sexual attraction n are not interested in sex at all. But they can still feel emotionally close to other people.

What really attracts u to the other party?
Character, personality, physical appearance, charisma, etc...

[Edyta]

Attraction is something v instinctive. Other than the logical factors like good character, compatible personality, pleasant looks, healthy body, right age range etc, there is also something called the chemistry, some people call it pheromones, sbf boss calls it hormones/chemical reactions to complete the whole picture. so its kinda hard to explain.

[TheSeeker]

What really attracts u to the other party?
Character, personality, physical appearance, charisma, etc...

Hi Sis,

In my opinion, attraction works on an interpersonal and emotional level..

It's a natural feeling of being drawn to someone..
Someone special..

It's the joy she makes me feel, when she is around..
And how I would miss her when she is not..

It's about looking forward to simple things..
A message from her makes my day...
Thoughts of her puts a smile on my face..
And when she is upset, the panic and fear of losing her...

[JuzKaypoh]

Guess for me is various things

Firstly I guess the chemistry of what you felt when you met the person
Then the compatibility and comfortability when together
Then the willingness to compromise and sacrifice for each other on a long term basis

Passion will not last long without nurturing.

[Atta]

Not easy to say. That's why you hear terms like "Chemistry", "X-factor", etc... All too complicated without clear/distinct meaning.

And to your title, it is not really opposite sex attracts; you have mentioned homosexuality as well in your post.

[PPGirl]

Forgotten to add in same sex attracts too :p

For myself.. what really attracts me to him...
Its that special feeling.
How special? No words can describe.. just that i find him helpful n caring towards frds.

Started off when i have craving for coke, he offered to bring over a can of coke when we just barely knew each other.
I was thinking.. wow so gd meh? Deliver coke to me?
End up i was too paiseh to accept the offer lolz

[ah rat]

Sis ppl,whether is to late to offer u coke too :D Haha just joking :D

[porscheclub]

Sis, Coke is bad for you = sugar.

May I offer you water instead? Good for skin complexion & tastes sweet when you're thirsty :D

[porscheclub]

4) Asexual
People who dont feel any sexual attraction n are not interested in sex at all. But they can still feel emotionally close to other people.

What really attracts u to the other party?
Character, personality, physical appearance, charisma, etc...

First time I hear of asexual. Guess I never met such people before.

For me:

#1 Physical appearance
#2 Bluetooth: That look into the eyes and if we connect or disconnect
#3 Character & personality will swing in while dating
#4 Charisma is something developed over time, you can't buy it off the shelf

I've been approached by gays in public but now that I have tummy that keeps them away easily :p

[PPGirl]

Sis ppl,whether is to late to offer u coke too Haha just joking :D
Can no prob. Lai we can meet to drink coke tgt with him :D
Sis, Coke is bad for you = sugar.

May I offer you water instead? Good for skin complexion & tastes sweet when you're thirsty :D
sure. We can all meet tgt if u dun mind ;)

[porscheclub]

sure. We can all meet tgt if u dun mind ;)

Tre O quattro?

[PPGirl]

Tre O quattro?

Drinks orgy :p

[hella21]

Apologized for gate-crashing, feel like sharing an article found online:

“What do women find attractive in men?”
brains? Posture? Charisma? Wit? Audacity? and the good news is, a man can develop every attractive feature women desire. Even the eyes and the smile.

To trigger attraction in a woman, you want to be:

– Challenging
– Smart
– Funny
– Confident

Traits like these build your charismatic personality. You can be challenging by playfully teasing a girl: “Oh, you just want me for my body“, “I’ll have to break up with you and keep our car and pet platypus“, “and you think that’s how you earn points with me?” Re-frame your interaction as a sexual treat that she’s trying to earn, but is in the process of losing.

Hey, when you start talking to her, she probably won’t be interested in “getting” you. But watch her start to chase you when you accuse her of it, and telling her she’ll lose you. Be playful about it, smile, but don’t be a clown – leave her wondering whether you’re serious or not. Be just a bit too convinced of your awesomeness. The great thing is, this alone makes you appear funny, smart and confident at the same time.

Never give her a clear answer unless it’s “no”. This is flirting – it’s not about being honest, it’s about being intriguing. You’re not in a job interview. Inject some life into it! When she asks you what you do, which answer is better?

– “I sell insurance plans.”
– “I came here to hunt down my nemesis, the Joker, but then I took up stripping.”

Now, another little hint for you. You can do the above to “trigger” attraction – but what qualities will allow you to “keep” it?

– Honesty
– Openness
– Integrity

An Attractive Appearance
Your physical appearance is the very first impression you project. It could also be your last. You see, even the most intriguing character can be screwed up by bad posture, unkempt looks, smell or a bad outfit. Get a stylish pair of shoes, a fashionable haircut, fitting clothes that show your body in the best light possible. Work out and do sports to stay in shape, eat healthily, make sure you have enough sleep and periods of relaxation in your day.

In short, care for yourself.

Ultimately, it’s not just about pleasing women for the sake of attraction. When searching for what do women find attractive, you’ll find that what they’re attracted to is good for you to begin with: social skills, health, humor, fashionable looks, success, wealth, strength, confidence. If you improve these aspects of your life, of yourself, you won’t just become more attractive to women. You will become a better person all around.