Advice for starting relationship

[Kruzer0102]

Had been reading in this section for quite a few days. Quite envious to hear about all the bros sharing their exciting relationship/sex life here. All seem too fictatious in my world since most of friends / school mates are mostly guys or its either that they are attached. The field i m studying right now mostly girls won't pick.. Even if there is, the competition is insane haha. Any senpais here can share some tips to start a relationship/FwB/etc? Preferably a long one though! Thanks in advance

[lalaliang]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

Had been reading in this section for quite a few days. Quite envious to hear about all the bros sharing their exciting relationship/sex life here. All seem too fictatious in my world since most of friends / school mates are mostly guys or its either that they are attached. The field i m studying right now mostly girls won't pick.. Even if there is, the competition is insane haha. Any senpais here can share some tips to start a relationship/FwB/etc? Preferably a long one though! Thanks in advance

From your intro i think you havent started working life yet.. if so, i think better to earn some cash first and its easier to start your journey.. unless you r very good looking..

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by lalaliang

From your intro i think you havent started working life yet.. if so, i think better to earn some cash first and its easier to start your journey.. unless you r very good looking..

Thanks for the tip bro! Does your chances increase once you start working full-time?

[Abcdefghijklmn]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

Thanks for the tip bro! Does your chances increase once you start working full-time?

Be a social butterfly, provided you have good appearances or gift of tongue.

[larue]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

Thanks for the tip bro! Does your chances increase once you start working full-time?

It does not, judging from the success guys here seem to have, which is not much.

Don’t think about how things might work out once you start working or whatever, because you are just lying to yourself.

You know nothing will happen unless you do something, so no, your chances will not improve when you start working full time because you will then look for another reason to put off doing something.

What’s the worst that can happen? You’re gonna fail.

Okay, now you can start by adding a Sammi Cheng song to your playlist.

[danilov]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

... Quite envious to hear about all the bros sharing their exciting relationship/sex life here. All seem too fictatious in my world since most of friends / school mates are mostly guys or its either that they are attached.

1. In this kind of forum, read all the exciting stories here with a big pinch of salt.

2. School is the best place and best chance to start a relationship. Once you start working, especially in a field that's mostly guys, you can forget about having the time. You'll end up having to resort to dating app, or eventually settle for mail order bride

[thedevil666]

school life is the best. whether poly, jc or uni. everyone is purer, innocent. most school girls don't know the power of money yet, so u don't need to be an ah sia kia to chase skirts.

find a girl that u really like, chase her properly, and she could be your long time partner. don't just read all the negative stories about sg girls who are money minded etc. end of the day, all girls yearn a guy that loves her 101%. only the jitted ones are the ones going for money after failing love for many many times.

join cca, join weekend parties, get out of comfort zone, go to canteen and hit up a school mate. all these will increase your social circle.

good luck and study hard.

and pt2 from this bro is legit.

Originally Posted by danilov

1. In this kind of forum, read all the exciting stories here with a big pinch of salt.

2. School is the best place and best chance to start a relationship. Once you start working, especially in a field that's mostly guys, you can forget about having the time. You'll end up having to resort to dating app, or eventually settle for mail order bride

[178noobnoob]

If you are looking to start a relationship, i will suggest you looking for a part time job that you really like. Work throughout your studies on weekends. From there, i believe you will be able to find yourself a suitable half. Although you might burn off your only ‘rest day’ but on the positive side, you got yourself additional income and a bigger social circle.

PS. Btw, that’s how i got my wife as well. Just my 2cents opinion.

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by danilov

Once you start working, especially in a field that's mostly guys, you can forget about having the time. You'll end up having to resort to dating app, or eventually settle for mail order bride

This part is probably the one i worry i might most likely end up to...

Originally Posted by 178noobnoob

If you are looking to start a relationship, i will suggest you looking for a part time job that you really like. Work throughout your studies on weekends. From there, i believe you will be able to find yourself a suitable half. Although you might burn off your only ‘rest day’ but on the positive side, you got yourself additional income and a bigger social circle.

PS. Btw, that’s how i got my wife as well. Just my 2cents opinion.

Maybe shall stop being a gym/home rat on weekends and hit on part time jobs xD Maybe on event ones haha

[danilov]

Originally Posted by Kruzer0102

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Maybe shall stop being a gym/home rat on weekends and hit on part time jobs xD Maybe on event ones haha

If you can do gym, join those fitness groups these days there are so many. Have many chio bu, good figure and fit. Can socialise after the main activity, go makan or what. Widen your circle.

[Kruzer0102]

Originally Posted by danilov

If you can do gym, join those fitness groups these days there are so many. Have many chio bu, good figure and fit. Can socialise after the main activity, go makan or what. Widen your circle.

Was hoping to find if got chance like that haha. i tried joining some of these fitness groups... most is like selling package to up their customer count x.x Hopefully find the right one soon lo

Maybe the gym i go to budget de (2.50 per entry. i think you guys know which 1 liao haha) < So not much girls bah. Usually the girls that go there are mainly in groups/with their bfs. Hard to strike convo since everybody there just do and go

[wantedbryan]

Originally Posted by thedevil666

school life is the best. whether poly, jc or uni. everyone is purer, innocent. most school girls don't know the power of money yet, so u don't need to be an ah sia kia to chase skirts.

find a girl that u really like, chase her properly, and she could be your long time partner. don't just read all the negative stories about sg girls who are money minded etc. end of the day, all girls yearn a guy that loves her 101%. only the jitted ones are the ones going for money after failing love for many many times.

join cca, join weekend parties, get out of comfort zone, go to canteen and hit up a school mate. all these will increase your social circle.

good luck and study hard.

and pt2 from this bro is legit.

This is very true. younger girls are easier to chase. dating go movie, budget food, sent her home can already. Treat her well and she will most likely stay.
As girls get older they want more security, who wanna marry someone where she knows she will have to worry about money all the time. They see so many successful man outside, to impress them take a lot more than good looks and sweet tongue.
As you get older you will realise that love don't last forever, is how 2 person compromise each other that made a marriage last.

[Crunchtime]

Still boils down to how capable you are. Which is why i agree what the bro said.. study hard, make sure you can support the girl.. and boom! Love comes naturally.

[xiasangju]

there's a trade off. if you party and play hard in uni, no doubt will get girls but results sure cui.
if you study hard, no time to party, good grades might get you a higher paying job and in the future, more girls?
the latter seems to have a longer runway...

[Kruzer0102]

Haha need to take note of all the factors le.. Guess my highest opportunity will only be at uni i like what some of the bros mention here! Need to study hard as the same time. Or else will lose the whole picture.