Looking for someone on the same boat

[fieldofnothing]

I am Chinese, F. Married. Im unable to confide my husband with anything. My marriage has reached a stage whereby each time I say something I have to think twice or thrice and most of the time I end up not saying anything at all because either he replies coldly to it or it just flies over his head. When Im happy about something and I want to share it with someone, I know its not gonna be him because heÂ’s not gonna give a shit. So theres that. Im looking for someone, be it men or women who may or may not be in a similar situation to perhaps see if any meaningful conversations can happen. Otherwise this will be another rant.

[Khiampak]

Originally Posted by fieldofnothing

I am Chinese, F. Married. Im unable to confide my husband with anything. My marriage has reached a stage whereby each time I say something I have to think twice or thrice and most of the time I end up not saying anything at all because either he replies coldly to it or it just flies over his head. When Im happy about something and I want to share it with someone, I know its not gonna be him because heÂ’s not gonna give a shit. So theres that. Im looking for someone, be it men or women who may or may not be in a similar situation to perhaps see if any meaningful conversations can happen. Otherwise this will be another rant.

Cooool Story Bro.
Is this boat sinkable? HAHAHA.

[rachelm]

Originally Posted by fieldofnothing

I am Chinese, F. Married. Im unable to confide my husband with anything. My marriage has reached a stage whereby each time I say something I have to think twice or thrice and most of the time I end up not saying anything at all because either he replies coldly to it or it just flies over his head. When Im happy about something and I want to share it with someone, I know its not gonna be him because heÂ’s not gonna give a shit. So theres that. Im looking for someone, be it men or women who may or may not be in a similar situation to perhaps see if any meaningful conversations can happen. Otherwise this will be another rant.

Hi sis, do you have kids? If not, it is time to think of your future. I have met my share of my guys. Never trust them.

[chevy7970]

Originally Posted by fieldofnothing

I am Chinese, F. Married. Im unable to confide my husband with anything. My marriage has reached a stage whereby each time I say something I have to think twice or thrice and most of the time I end up not saying anything at all because either he replies coldly to it or it just flies over his head. When Im happy about something and I want to share it with someone, I know its not gonna be him because heÂ’s not gonna give a shit. So theres that. Im looking for someone, be it men or women who may or may not be in a similar situation to perhaps see if any meaningful conversations can happen. Otherwise this will be another rant.

I think there are many couples facing the same issues.

Any idea the reason of him being so cold? If the sparks are gone, there are still chance to rekindle the sparks. If the whole journey is over, you might wish to consider another new journey.

I watched how my late mum being so lonely after our dad left us for another family. My dad still provides for us. But my mum did not look for another partner. The only ones she left was us. It really depends on yourself if you still need to continue this marriage or not.